Brett J. Bickford

Brett J. Bickford

Brett Bickford Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Oct. 3 to Oct. 6, 2018.
ROCHESTER - Brett J. Bickford, 41, of 34 Bernard Road, died Thursday, September 27, 2018 in Lebanon, Maine as a result of a parachuting accident. Brett was born October 26, 1976, in Rochester, the son of Gary and Sandra (Lovejoy) Bickford.

Brett has resided in Rochester all of his life. He has worked as a skydiving instructor for Skydive New England for the past 10 years. He was proud to have his private pilot's license, drone license and was designing and building drones. He was also a member of the US Parachute Association and Aircraft Owners and Pilots Association.

Brett was one amazing smart young man. Those who knew Brett know he had a free spirit of life to live one day at a time. Brett's smile and laughter live on in all who knew him.

Members of his family include his parents of Rochester; brothers, Frank and wife Kim Beardsworth of Dover, N.H., Jason and wife Jennifer Bickford of Jupiter, Fla., his biological father John Hill; his close companion Yeji Hong; grandparents John and Rhona Panteledes; nephew Christopher; nieces Heather and Hayden; great niece Chloe; many aunts, uncles, cousins; also his amazing family at Skydive New England.

SERVICES: A private Celebration of Life will be at a later date.

In lieu of flowers donations in Brett's memory may be made to Skydive New England, 40 Skydive Lane, Lebanon, ME, 04027. Arrangements are under the care of the R.M. Edgerly & Son Funeral Home, 86 South Main St., Rochester, N.H.

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October 26, 2018

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October 11, 2018

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October 11, 2018

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October 26, 2018

To My Bickford Family,
My thoughts,prayers and love go out to all of you!!There are never any right or wrong words or answers to situations that we do not have control over! We trust in God that this was the time he chose for your young man to leave the nest and find his forever wings! As you say Brettsway!!God Bless!!
Love to all,
Cindy,DeAn and family

October 11, 2018

We are so so sorry! We have so many good memories with Brett. Our prayers are with you.
God Bles.
John and Lynn Gilligan

October 11, 2018

We are so so sorry. So many good memories with Brett. Our prayer go out to you.
God bless John and Lynn Giligan

Tracy Warren

October 9, 2018

Gary, Sandy and family my heart aches for your loss! My thoughts and prayers are with you all!

george turner

October 8, 2018

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Ed & Kathy Pelletier

October 7, 2018

Ed and I are so very sorry for the Family, Friends and of course his Dad John Hill

Susie Lovejoy-Grant

October 7, 2018

Sandie, Gary and family
My heart aches for you all. I continue to pray for the Lord to carry you all through this tragedy I wish there were something more I could do ....
I love you!!!

Stephanie

October 7, 2018

Brett was my instructor for my first skydive on 10/16/16. So sorry to hear of this tragedy. My thoughts and prayers go out to his loved ones.

Rocky Scirocco

October 7, 2018

To the Family. Sorry for your loss. Rocky Scirocco

Richard Copp

October 6, 2018

Sandy,Gary and family
Our hearts are broken on Brett's passing can't imagine losing a child. I remember him as a young boy. He will be deeply missed. Our love, thoughts, and prayers go out to all the family.
❤ The Copp's

Bob & Bev Lavoie

October 5, 2018

Gary, Sandie and extended family ,
Our sincere condolences to such a beautiful strong family . Brett had a dream and he fulfilled his dream by doing what he loved . Brett will be missed by so many but never be forgotten . May you find comfort in your memories .

Eduardo Alvarez

October 5, 2018

Gary and Frank,
My sincere condolences and continuous prayers during this difficult time for you and your family.

Armand Pay

October 5, 2018

Garry,Sandy and Family
There are no words that can express our sorrow for your loss.Hoping that you get some comfort in your memories of Brett.
You are in our thoughts and prayers
Aunt Joyce,Uncle Armand and family.

Colleen Hultgren

October 4, 2018

I can't not begin to convey my sorrow. My thoughts and deepest prayers to Brett's family, friends and his family at Sky Dive New England.
Brett was my instructor for my first tandem jump two years ago and I had the pleasure of doing my sixth jump on my birthday this year...09/15... and was lucky enough to have Brett as my instructor again.
The video we took of my birthday jump brings both smiles and tears....
Brett you gave me such a wonderful experience for my birthday.... that will live with me forever....
Whatever fate the world brought upon you that day know that there are people here whose lives you touched in a moment but who will recall you with smiles forever....
I hope you live in the blue skies you love....
Thank you always....
You'll never be forgotten....

Alison Weeks

October 4, 2018

Thoughts and prayers with you all xo

October 4, 2018

Offering my condolences. As you remember your love one, may Almighty God and your treasured memories bring you peace, comfort, and strength to endure. (Psalm 147:3)

Nancy Auclair

October 4, 2018

Gary and Frank,
Praying for you and your loved ones with the loss of your beloved son and brother. God is near to those who mourn. May his peace and comfort uphold you in your grief.

Charlene Atkinson-Bernier

October 4, 2018

So very sorry to hear of your loss, may memories guide you through this difficult time.

Liz (Blaisdell) Dunnells

October 4, 2018

Dear Sandy and family, Although it has been years since I have seen you, no words are adequate enough to describe the sadness I feel for you and your family at this time. I did not know Brett but know that he was loved by all. Please let this be a source of comfort for you in the dark hours.He touched many lives and although his life was short he made this world a better place. Sending much love and prayers to you and to your family. May all the fond memories be comforting and God Bless You and your family. Much love.

D C

October 4, 2018

I did not know Brett personally but my son is a member of the SNE family and heart is so heavy about the loss of this young man. He obviously touched many lives. God speed, Brett.

Kathy Fine

October 4, 2018

Frank, Gary and Family, My sincere condolences. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Charlotte Cody

October 4, 2018

Sandy, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your beloved son. May you and your family be comforted by all the happy memories you all have. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Margie and Ron Turner

October 4, 2018

To Brett's Loved Ones and Friends,
We are so very sorry for your loss. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
With Deepest Sympathy,

Nancy Miller

October 4, 2018

So sorry for the loss of your son Sandy. Thoughts and prayers with you and your family at this difficult time.

Karen Paradis

October 3, 2018

Sandy, I am at a loss for words. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Tabby Trask

October 3, 2018

All my love and prayers to the Bickfords during this time of grieving , he will be missed by many !

Jim Parent

October 3, 2018

Our thoughts and prayers to Brett's family and friends. My son went skydiving with Brett early in the summer. It was the highlight of his summer and a memory he will never forget. Brett put my son at ease and told him the jump was not a big deal just like having morning coffee! We have a great video and a picture on our livingroom wall of my son jumping with Brett. To his friends and family know this, he brought joy to many.

Pam & Joe Delong

October 3, 2018

To Brett's loving family and all his peers at Sky Dive New England - Five years ago I had the pleasure of jumping tandem with Brett for my very first jump! It was the most exhilarating experience of my life! 2 years later, my husband experienced his first jump and again, we placed our trust in Brett to see him through! He made both of our jumps so very special!! Thank you so much for sharing him with SO many people! Our thoughts and prayers are with you all in this time of great sorrow!
Sincerely,

Selena Diaz

October 3, 2018

Rest in peace Brett, I think about all the fun times we all had growing up together. You were one of the kindest souls I have ever met. Fly high my friend.

Beth Massingham Bennett

October 3, 2018

There are no words to describe the feeling I had when I realized it was Brett. My heart goes out to all of his family. I still remember him as a blonde headed little boy.

Dave LeClair

October 3, 2018

Gary Sandy Rhona John and families, so so sorry to hear about Brett. We were out of town and just now back into the loop and heard about Brett .
Our condolences .
Our thoughts and prayers are with you .
Dave & Brenda & boys

Patricia Pineo

October 3, 2018

Gary, Sandy, Frank,Jason and all other family and friends my heart goes out to you all at this time of such a tragic loss. Had been so praying since I heard this that it was not your Brett. Love Pat and Bob Pineo as well as Sean Senter

Lisa Beckwith

October 3, 2018

One year ago I had the pleasure of meeting Brett, he was my skydive guru. I had always wanted to go skydiving it was on my bucket list and I finally did and had Brett as my tandum guy. I instantly felt comfortable and at ease as Brett gave me the instructions. I am happy to say it was the best day of my life. I'm glad I got to meet Brett and glad I have pictures and a video of Brett . My heart goes out to his family. May you rest in peace Brett. You will be missed by so many.

Sue Erickson

October 3, 2018

Dear Sandy, Gary and family,

There are no words to express how saddened and sorry I am for your loss.
May your wonderful memories of Brett heal you quickly and bring you joy again.
My deepest heartfelt sympathies to you all.
You're in my thoughts and prayers.

PJ Kakleas

October 3, 2018

Brett..
You were the best on 8-30-2018 when I jumped for the first time. I'm so sad this happened to you. I wanted you to be my instructor when I learned to jump solo. Rest easy my friend. Hugs & prayers to your family & friends!

Brenda Furbush

October 3, 2018

Sandy, Gary and Family. Words cannot express how sorry I am to hear about your loss of Brett. I will be praying for you and the family.

October 3, 2018

So sorry,Lynn and I send our condolence's.And anventurous young guy that loved what he was doing.

Barbara Guild Colbath

October 3, 2018

Deepest sympathies on your loss. May your memories of Brett lighten your sorrow in the days to come.

Diane White

October 3, 2018

Johnny and Brett's Family so sorry for your loss our thoughts and Prayers are with you at this difficult time

With Deepest Sympathy
Diane White
And
Gary Cook

Heather Houle

October 3, 2018

I didn't know Brett, but he sounds like an amazing young man and someone that will be very missed. To Erica, Gary and Frank, whom I have had the pleasure of knowing .. I am so sorry for your loss. Being part of your family means he had to have been as amazing as all of you. Sending hugs all around and thinking of you during this difficult time.

The Funks❤

October 2, 2018

May the wonderful family memories stay close to your hearts always. Big hugs and lots of love ❤ to you Sandy and your family. You will be in our thoughts and prayers❤

Courtney Farr

October 2, 2018

I am so very sorry for your loss. Brett was an inspiring individual who offered so much joy. He helped others see the word in a most incredible way. I am so grateful for my skydive with him and will always think of him when I look up. Sending a hug and many comforting wishes from Maine.

October 2, 2018

Fly high Brett ❤

October 2, 2018

Rest easy my friend. Hope you found your peace.

Estelle (Masse) Rand

October 2, 2018

My deepest sympathy goes to you, Brett's Family. There are no words for the loss and grief of losing Brett.

When I think of Brett I instantly envision his smile, and think of his humor and silliness. I think of his kindness, sensitivity, honesty, and sweetness and how loyally he loved his family and friends. I think of the magic he had of being the best at anything he put his mind to.

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

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