Bruce H. Heckman

1942 - 2021

Bruce H. Heckman obituary, 1942-2021, Westchester, NY

Bruce H. Heckman

1942 - 2021

Bruce Heckman Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Jan. 28 to Jan. 31, 2021.
Bruce H. Heckman

Bruce H. Heckman, beloved husband, father, brother, grandfather, brother-in-law, cousin and friend died on January 26, 2021.

Bruce was born on August 21, 1942 in Brooklyn, NY to father Erwin and mother Ethel (Weiner) Heckman. He grew up in Long Beach, NY. A precocious student, he graduated from Long Beach High School in 1959 at the age of 16 and went on to attend William and Mary College. An aspiring writer, he ultimately decided to pursue a career in medicine and graduated from New York Medical College in 1967. In his final year of medical school, he met the love of his life, Lynn Geringer, who was also a medical student, and they were married within a year. He completed his internal medicine residency and hematology fellowship at New York Medical College, after which, he completed a Masters in Public Health from Yale University. He served as a Major in the Army Medical Corp.

Bruce started an internal medicine practice in Ossining, NY in 1974 which he maintained until 2018. He was a member of the medical staff at Phelps Memorial Hospital in Sleepy Hollow, NY for 45 years. While maintaining his private practice, he also served as president of the medical staff and as a member of the board of directors at Phelps. He served as medical director of Ossining Open Door Family Medical Center for 17 years. He was also founder of Phelps Hospice and served as Medical Director for Hospice for 35 years. Not one to retire, he continued his work and compassion as a Palliative Care medicine physician at New York - Presbyterian Hudson Valley Hospital for the past 2 years.

This was a man who had a passion for life that was infectious. He was not just a hard working compassionate physician, but also an author, producer, patron, collector, antiques dealer, and loving husband, father, and grandfather. Bruce wrote and published a children's book, Parthenope: A Papa Sam Story. He also produced a jazz album entitled "Jazz Psalms." He was an avid collector of "book boxes", books, prints, and paintings. A concert or performance was always on the calendar. He loved travel, a glass of wine and a wonderful meal. Sharing all of these passions with his family and friends, and being together, was his greatest pursuit.

He is survived by his wife, Dr. Lynn Heckman, daughter Dorin Wilson from North Andover, MA, and son Dr. Jason Heckman (Nicole) from Slingerlands, NY, and five grandchildren: Chloe, Elizabeth, Camilla, Thomas and Evan. He is also survived by his brother Richard Heckman (Karen) from St. Croix, US Virgin Islands. He is predeceased by his brother Sheldon.

With a kind and compassionate smile and demeanor, he was a friend to all. He touched many peoples lives and we were all richer for it.

A private ceremony will be held for family and a memorial will be arranged at a later time.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made to organizations close to his heart which include Hospice of Westchester, Jazz House Kids, and New York Presbyterian Hudson Valley Hospital Palliative Care.

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January 22, 2023

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January 22, 2023

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January 22, 2022

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Bob Camillieri

January 22, 2023

Dr. Heckman was a truly great man. I knew him as my primary care doctor from 1984 until he retired. He was so dedicated to helping people that he worked in palliative care after he retired when a typical person would take time for oneself. He was driven to help any who needed it to ease their pain. God Love him. Bob

Roni Wolff

January 22, 2023

I still miss him he was a wonderful and compassionate Doctor. I was lucky to have known him.

Roni Wolff

January 22, 2022

He was my Dr for many years. I miss him he was a wonderful caring person. May he Rest In Peace.

Andrea Waters

May 25, 2021

Dr. Heckman was my doctor, as well as my familes' doctor since I was born. He was a wonderful, wonderful man - I can't put into words exactly how great he was. I fondly remember his love for fly fishing, and his adorable office up in Buchanan NY which had an old-style look to it. My parents were on first-name basis with him. God speed Dr. H. I miss you, and wish I could have seen you one last time. You will always be loved. Andrea Waters (née Bugbee).

Roni Wolff

March 5, 2021

In loving memory of a wonderful person. I will miss him always. He was my Doctor for over 30 years so kind and caring

BARBARA KAPETANAKES

February 5, 2021

I am a colleague and suite mate of Lynn's. I met Bruce several times, I think the first time was running into them at an outdoor jazz concert! When I ran a conference a few years ago on palliative care and end of life decisions, Bruce came on as a speaker, talking about his many years working in hospice care and helping patients and their families face end of life issues.

Though I didn't know Bruce well, I always liked him, and found him to be a warm, giving man who was full of life and energy. I know he will be missed tremendously in all the communities that were lucky enough to have him as a part.

My love goes out to Lynn and the rest of Bruce's family and loved ones.

Debbie Gualtiere

February 2, 2021

My condolences to dr.heckman's family....he was my dr. For many years....I just saw him in dec.2019 at hvhc in passing

Bob Camillieri

January 31, 2021

Dr. Heckman was my primary care physician for 35 years. His communications skills were top notch and was a great listener. A brilliant man who helped so so many people. After he left his practice to work in palliative care says it all. Most would be laid back and relax in retirement, but he wanted to help more palliative patients. Special!

Barbara & John Modzelewski

January 31, 2021

Patients since 1976, we were shocked by Dr. Heckman's passing. Along with his clinical skills, his extraordinary kindness, compassion and warmth provided "humanistic care" long before it had to be added to medical school curricula. He was ever proud of his family and always ready to talk about you. He will be greatly missed and his memory will be a blessing.
Barbara and John Modzelewski

Jean Evans

January 29, 2021

My husband and I were patients of Bruce Heckman for 44 years. When we heard of his passing we were shocked and felt as though a relative had died. Aside from being a brilliant diagnostician he was a very nice person, a very kind person. I always described him as the Cadillac of doctors. His work in palliative care perfectly personifies who he was. His passing is most certainly a loss to the medical community and to anyone who was lucky enough to have him as a doctor. May he rest in peace.

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