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Carl Jón Denbow
June 21, 2021
I only just now saw this space for leaving comments, so I will leave brief one for anyone who visits this site in the future.
My family and Carl´s were very close. I fondly remember the Sunday afternoons when we would gather alternately at our house or their´s for "Popcorn and Ice Cream." Those were fun times.
As has been said by others, Carl seemed to have a bright future ahead of him until mental illness struck in his sophomore year at Harvard. The Carl I knew was gone, and in its place was almost another person. There would be glimpses occasionally of the old person, but they would be brief and ephemeral. However, over the years I grew to understand and appreciate that it really was the same person that I had known and loved since childhood.
Now he "belongs to the ages" and Heaven is a better place as Carl George Gustavson can once again spread his wings and soar!
Eric Gustavson
February 1, 2021
My brother Carl loved to read because books and comic books awakened his sense of adventure and possibility in the world surrounding our house. He climbed the neighborhood trees far higher than any of the rest of us dared to go and loved roaming in the woods in the hills above Utah Place. Favorite spots were the Laughing Rock, which offered a charming view of Utah Place and the old airport, and Fat Man's Squeeze, a narrow, steep, treacherous passage through the rocks which Carl loved wiggling through. He always came home from his wanderings with tales to tell. In high school he displayed his talents early on the track where he eventually finished third in the district, if memory serves, in both the 100- and 220-yard dashes. In football, despite being one of the smallest players on the team at 140 pounds, he finally made it into the starting line-up as a senior as a safety and fleet halfback. He was gone if he found an open space, ultimately scoring a half-dozen touchdowns on long runs, the most memorable a 60-yard punt return against Logan on Homecoming that broke a scoreless tie and led to a decisive win for the Bulldogs. An excellent student and great storyteller with a clever sense of humor, Carl was president of the class of '63 at AHS.
As a family, we all appreciate the great kindness and generosity shown to Carl by so many in Athens, both those who knew him when he was young and carefree, and those who only knew him in his challenging adult life.
Celine
January 30, 2021
What I remember most about Uncle Carl was his gigantic smile (legend had it that he could fit an entire apple into his mouth!), and his heartfelt advice to us when we were growing up. He taught us many lessons, including about the importance of accepting others who different from ourselves, and valuing them for who they are. May you rest in peace, Uncle Carl.
Alan Marks
January 29, 2021
I heard all the family stories: the fast athlete, the quick wit, the natural born leader, perhaps the future politician. I, his brother-in-law, arrived a bit late, as mental illness had already entered the picture and taken much of that from him. What I did see and know over these past 48 years was a gentle soul, whose musings on the universe, time travel, Harvard, Vince Lombardi, politics, poetry and pretty women, often made all the more interesting because of his own unique perception of reality, made Carl a special person. He taught us that some lives, which may be lived on the margins of what we define as normal, are every bit as real, meaningful and precious as any and all others.
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Lee Gustavson Marks
January 29, 2021
Carl loved Ohio, storytelling, and coca cola. Everyone in Athens knew him at one time or the other and he will be forever cherished. There is only one true Uncle Carl and it's this man right here.
Anita Baird Adams
January 28, 2021
I didn’t know Carl well, but I worked at the bank with him. Lisa, I worked there when you were born and I remember how proud he was. My father also knew Caryl well through the wood carvers group. He always enjoyed her company & Ora Anderson at their meetings. Prayers for all of your family. I know a kind soul has passed on
Lowell VerHeul
January 28, 2021
Lisa, you really brought to life Carl's interactions and interests, and how thoughtful to note many of the people in his daily life. "Impassioned," "gentle," "affectionate," "stoic," "quiet," "struggling," "affable"--they all fit together. Thanks for the good memories!
Martha Gustavson Marks
January 27, 2021
Carl was born with a wonderful personality, quick wit and natural leadership qualities. Unfortunately he wasn't able to enjoy the future he should have had. But his gentleness, sense of humor and keen interest in so many things of this world and beyond sustained him throughout his life. His last years were peaceful. Freed from terrestrial bonds, I
like to think he is soaring with the Valkyries.
Eileen Jukes Eddy
January 21, 2021
Thank you for sharing your beautiful thoughts. I didn’t know Carl very well but his mother always cared for us kids on Utah Place. We went ice skating in the winter with them. Also I remember Caryl knocking on our door one night to let us know we could see the Northern Lights at the end of our street. I prayed with Caryl at the end of her life and now I’m praying for peace for all your family. I’m sure Carl is in a better place with his mother and father now. God bless you all and know that you knew a very special soul.
Janice
January 21, 2021
Beautiful soul..........will be remembered by me forever
Larry Mitchell
January 21, 2021
Most of my best memories from grade school involve Carl and his great family. He had the best comic book collection I have ever seen, and he could always make our adventures fun. He faced enormous challenges in life and managed them with great courage. I will always admire him, and I will miss him. My condolences to his family.
Tom Thompson
January 21, 2021
Over the years, I wondered what had become of my Acolyte friend. I always liked Carl and now I know through this wonderful obituary.
May you find peace my friend.
Patty Barnhart
January 21, 2021
I did not know Carl, but want the family know that this is one of the most heartfelt goodbyes I have ever read.
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