Carl James Kelly

Carl James Kelly obituary, Chicago, IL

Carl James Kelly

Carl Kelly Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Dec. 28 to Dec. 31, 2023.
Carl James Kelly was born on Jan. 25, 1941, to Lizzie Mae (Hicks) and William Harrison "Bill" Kelly in Port Gibson, Mississippi. He was the first of their 11 children.

Carl attended Claiborne County Training School in Port Gibson, Mississippi. He graduated at the top of the class of 1957, at the age of 16 years old. In his high school yearbook, he was credited for being in chorus. His nickname was "Cool Breeze." In his last days at age 82, Carl was shown the yearbook picture of himself with the nickname underneath, and it pleased him. He said, "I'm still Cool Breeze."

Know thyself! Most who knew Carl would agree that he was a quietly charismatic guy with an easy manner from his youth onward.

His mother Lizzie sometimes reminisced about how helpful her oldest son was to the family as she and father Bill provided for the family in the rural South, post Depression Era. She said that as a boy, Carl worked odd jobs and stashed his money away in a tobacco can he kept under the porch. She could count on him to go into his savings and help in times of need.

Upon graduating from high school, Carl moved to Illinois to live with aunts Susie Mays, Mary Wright, and Josie Holmes and uncle Murphy Holmes, who was a pastor. Carl was baptized by Murphy and further professed his belief in Jesus, the son of God. It was a doctrine he had first been introduced to by his mother.

Carl was drafted into military service circa 1959 where he served in Korea. He earned an honorable discharge from the United States Army after two years of service.

He gained employment as a Chicago bus driver in the 1960s, during a time when such jobs were coveted and attained by few. Years later, he began a second career at Amtrak where he was a hydraulic brake mechanic. He remained there until his retirement at age 70.

He resided most of his life in Chicago. He was very active and on the go where he lived in the neighborhood of Hyde Park. He enjoyed reading and generally read the daily newspapers. He was keenly aware of historical, social, and political issues which were common topics of his conversation. He encouraged younger people to further their education and vocations.

Carl was the father of Jeffrey Taylor, Carl Taylor, and Rhonda Kelly-Smith. He was grandfather to Taylor Smith, and great-grandfather to Maya. He was preceded in death by his parents, and by brothers Robert Kelly, Earnest Charles Kelly, William Kelly, Jr. (Elizabeth "Betty"), and George Kelly, and sister Ann Kelly. He is survived by sisters Josie Anderson, Sarah Kelly, and Joyce Kelly (Dragan), and brothers Dannie Kelly and Elvin Kelly (Felicia). He also has a host of nieces and nephews, including Christy Kelly, who was by his side during his transition home. He has many great nieces and nephews, and also cousins with whom he was close.

Carl spoke of his belief in God until the end, even as his health was challenged. His suffering ended on December 20, 2023. May Carl James Kelly rest in peace with God where he shall be whole in Eternal Life.

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January 5, 2024

Arthur Anderson posted to the memorial.

January 1, 2024

Joyce Kelly posted to the memorial.

January 1, 2024

Joyce Kelly posted to the memorial.

Arthur Anderson

January 5, 2024

Rest in Peace Uncle Carl. One of the best modern day story tellers to ever do it!

Joyce Kelly

January 1, 2024

Carl, we shared a love for Chicago like no other, big bro. I plan to keep my feet in the streets of our beautiful city as long as I can, living up to your example. As I told you many times before, I admire the run you gave life. But then who would expect less from someone who's so often said, "I'm Carl Kelly, dammit!" Big bro, if I had two hearts, I couldn't have loved you any more. I'll be looking up. You look down. Until we meet again, Carl James Kelly! XOXO

Joyce Kelly

January 1, 2024

I Shall Think of You

(Dedicated to big brother Carl and all our family
he now joins in Everlasting Life)

When the full moon rises gracefully into the night sky,
-A wondrous occurrence from the Almighty up high-
And moonlight floods into my room
I shall think of you, and gladness will replace my gloom.

When the sun beams down on a breezy summer day
I shall be warmed by your presence in each sun ray.
When robins chirp a cheerful song,
I shall smile up to you and remain forever strong.

As autumn leaves turn shades of orange, scarlet and brown,
I shall think of you as the sun goes down.
When leaves crunch beneath my feet at dusk in the countryside,
It will be joy, not sadness which makes me teary-eyed.

I shall tuck you away deep within my heart.
You and I, my heavenly family, will never be apart.
For all things beautiful that come from above,
You are a part of that through God´s mercy and His love.
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josie anderson

January 1, 2024

Another one of my finest memories of Carl was when we were in grammar school. At lunchtime, he would sit quietly and wait for me to pass out the lunch from the brown paper bag per Liz request. Carl also loved to go hunting and fishing with Sam and the older guys. He referred to himself as the "Lead Mule"
because he was the oldest. so now I guess I have to step up to the plate. I´m sure I can´t feel his shoes but I´ll do my best. Whenever we would have a conversation, he usually would ask the question "Sister, remember when it was just me and you? just me and you" and of course, I acknowledged "yes, I do". I´ll always love you Carl and the memories will go on forever. RIP, your big sister Josie, a.k.a., Josephine, sister

Sandra Kelly Fisher

December 31, 2023

What a blessing to have had a relationship with Uncle Carl. He let me know how much he loved his family and wished God's best for each of them.
I'll miss him.
Love to the family and may God comfort you during this time of loss.
Sandra Kelly Fisher

josie anderson

December 31, 2023

One of my most recent memories was when you had me confused with one of your caregivers. You´d always call her sister or Josephine. when I was there visiting you last year in September she couldn´t wait to meet the person you kept referring to her as never calling her by her name.
When I asked you who was I, you laughed at me and said "you know I know who you are sister"

josie anderson

December 31, 2023

RIP Carl. Your big sister, josie

Sandra Fished

December 31, 2023

RIP Carl from your family in Arkansas Sandra and Kenny

Elvin Kelly

December 31, 2023

Elvin Kelly

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Elvin Kelly

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Elvin Kelly

December 31, 2023

Myra Kelly

December 31, 2023

Well Cuz,  you and I called each other to say happy birthday every year, you called me on January 24th and I would call you the next day to wish you a happy birthday. Our conversation were brief, you would always say, "Keep in touch." At family cookouts,  you'd let everyone know that you were Carl Kelly,  the oldest of the Kelly grandkids. I remember we were all sitting at this picnic table and everyone was talking and you would say, "Gosh darn it, we can all sing together but we can't all talk together." I'm going to miss you and I calling each other next month on our birthdays and year's to come, RIP .

Tina Kelly

December 31, 2023

Tina Kelly

December 31, 2023

Tina Kelly

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Tina Kelly

December 31, 2023

Myra Kelly

December 31, 2023

Myra Kelly

December 31, 2023

Myra Kelly

December 31, 2023

Myra Kelly

December 31, 2023

Myra Kelly

December 31, 2023

Tina Kelly

December 30, 2023

Tina Kelly

December 30, 2023

Tina Kelly

December 30, 2023

RIP cousin Carl. I will forever remember you always saying, " I'm Carl Kelly, the oldest of the Kelly grandkids." I found some old photos from the 2014 and 2016 family of you during the Lighting of the Candle ceremony to honor our ancestors. We will truly miss you.

Javier Ruiz-Esparza

December 30, 2023

James M Bell Sr.

December 29, 2023

God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Lakisha Robinson

December 29, 2023

Kisha aka SiSTAR aka Josephine . "I want to express my deepest gratitude to the entire nursing home staff for the exceptional care and support you provided to my uncle Carl during his time with you. Your dedication and compassion made a difference in his life, and for that, our family is truly grateful."

Lucille (Cil) Mays

December 29, 2023

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Rosemary Kelly

December 29, 2023

Rosemary Kelly

December 29, 2023

Rosemary Kelly

December 29, 2023

Rosemary Kelly

December 29, 2023

Rosemary Kelly

December 29, 2023

Hey Family. I'm learning to use this tool. So with my first comment I didn't finish my thoughts. I needed to say...When I was a little girl Carl would call Ruthy Mae (my mama) during the night to open the door and let him in. He loved his aunt Ruthy Mae and Uncle Bo-que and his family and his children. I remember Rhonda visiting us at our house in Robbins with Carl about 55 yrs ago.
One day as Carl, Elvin and I were riding to a funeral in Mississippi Carl told us that the scripture 2 Corn. 5.17, Meant that we will see you in the afterlife-eternal life. Read it for yourself 2CO5.17 Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new. Remember Carl grew up in the church in Aunt Josie house. He knew about eternal life because he'd found Jesus as his lord and Savior at a young age and that when he knocked at the door of eternity, that Jesus would let him in. Carl has no more pain and suffering nor dying days.
Family Keep " Keep trusting in the Lord with all your heart and lean not to your own understanding. "
I love you Family and remember Carl Loved you too
Rev Rosemary Kelly

Lakisha Robinson

December 29, 2023

My brother Carl I will always remember you, rest in heaven. Love your sister Kisha AKA Josephine

Christy Kelly

December 29, 2023

Christy Kelly

December 29, 2023

Christy Kelly

December 29, 2023

Christy Kelly

December 29, 2023

Uncle Buddy, you will never be forgotten !!.

Rosemary Kelly

December 28, 2023

When I was a little girl Carl would call Ruthy Mae (my mama) during the night to open the door and let him in.

Phyllis Kelly

December 28, 2023

Man oh man i miss my uncle dearly i remember the time my dad would come pick u up and we would go for rides i forgot where i remember you giving me money right before i went Back to school for my second semester i remember always goin to your house in Hyde park my only regret is not coming to visit you sooner i miss you uncle buddy please watch over me and the family i love you forever and always

Joyce

December 28, 2023

Joyce

December 28, 2023

Javier Ruiz-Esparza

December 28, 2023

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Javier Ruiz-Esparza

December 28, 2023

My first memory of Carl is when we went to Indiana to buy cigarettes. He enjoyed the ride and we had lunch together. It happened about 15 years ago and ever since we became good friends. He always gave me some advice about life. I was at his bedside the last two years and he shared with me precious memories. He will be truly missed.

Kenya Jordan

December 28, 2023

Kenya Jordan

December 28, 2023

Kenya Jordan

December 28, 2023

Sorry for the loss of Uncle Carl. He was definitely loved and will be greatly missed

Joyce Kelly

December 28, 2023

Big brother Carl was highly intelligent, and in that regard, he was a role model to his siblings. He encouraged me to reach for the sky during my college years.

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