Carol Conroy

1953 - 2020

Carol Conroy obituary, 1953-2020, Daly City, CA

Carol Conroy

1953 - 2020

Carol Conroy Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Dec. 24 to Dec. 27, 2020.
Carol Ann Conroy
September 21, 1953 - December 13, 2020
Beloved friend, cherished sister, aunt, great aunt, and cousin, Carol passed away on Sunday, December 13, 2020. Carol was devoted to her family and friends and was a source of strength, support, inspiration, guidance and unconditional love to all whose lives she touched. A beautiful soul with a huge heart, she always lent a helping hand, giving so much but never asking for anything in return.
Born in San Francisco, Carol was the daughter of San Francisco natives, Maureen and Bill Conroy (SFPD Captain and attorney), granddaughter of Mae and Joe Green (SFPD) and Julia and John Conroy (SFPD Lieutenant/POA President). She is survived by her three sisters, Kathleen Famulener, Peggy Burnham and Annemarie Conroy, her nieces and nephews Conor Famulener, Megan Gust and DeWitt and Darcy Burnham; her two great-nieces, Sydney Famulener and Juliet Gust; and her 18 Conroy, Brady, Cullinan and Peck first cousins and their children.
Carol attended St. Stephen School and St. Rose Academy in San Francisco where she made lifelong friends, City College of SF, and UC Berkeley.
Carol was intensely proud of her Irish heritage and her family's long history of public and community service. Inspired by her father's dedication to law enforcement and her mother's to neighborhood activism, Carol was committed to both community and civic service. She enjoyed a prestigious, lifelong career of civil service with the postal service and began her extensive career with the U.S. Postal Service in 1973. She proceeded to serve in a succession of managerial positions in the cities of San Francisco, San Carlos, Mountain View, Palo Alto, Daly City and Western Region Headquarters. In 1988, Carol was selected as Postmaster of San Mateo to replace the legendary James J. Kehoe, appointed by President Harry Truman in 1946, thus making her not only the youngest but also the first woman to assume command of one of the Bay Area's largest Postal facilities. In 2005, Carol assumed the command of the country's third largest Postal operation when she was sworn in as Postmaster of San Diego, later achieving record-breaking levels of performance in service, safety and efficiency before returning to her beloved San Mateo Post Office in January 2009.
A natural born leader, brilliant political strategist, exceptionally skilled writer, and amazing mentor, Carol was a ""behind the scenes"" mover and shaker who leaves a legacy of excellence and incomparable professional and personal accomplishments.
Carol's devotion to service included serving on multiple nonprofit boards including as Director of Community Gatepath, Chair for the San Mateo County Heartwalk, Officer and President of the San Mateo County Expo Center, and the Board of Directors of the San Mateo Area Chamber of Commerce and she proudly followed in her mother's footsteps by serving as Chair of her county's Grand Jury. Carol was passionate about helping our youth succeed and since 2009 served as both the Chair and a member of the San Mateo Police Activities League Board of Directors and more recently as a Director on the Board of the Carl Gellert and Celia Berta Gellert Foundation.
A Patriot who passionately loved her country, Carol's life was influenced by the motto ""duty, honor, country"" as well as a passion for ""good food, fine wine, and everything golf""! She was a connoisseur of life, avid traveler, crime aficionado, SF Giants devotee, and Mickey Mouse's greatest fan!
It is difficult to capture the essence of Carol. She was one of those rare, special people-charismatic, unpretentious, authentic, and influential. She had a magnetic aura that attracted people of all kinds and ages from children to adults.
Intuitive, creative and articulate, Carol will be remembered for her keen wit, fierce loyalty and devotion to friends, her selfless nature, and her ability to outdrive most men on the golf course!
Carol made a difference in the lives of so many people. There are no words to describe how much she will be missed by all who were blessed to know her.
A memorial service will not be held at this time, however, a golf tournament will be held in Carol's honor next summer.


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December 18, 2024

Arleen Zuniga posted to the memorial.

December 5, 2024

Mike Hardwick posted to the memorial.

December 18, 2023

Arleen Zuniga posted to the memorial.

Arleen Zuniga

December 18, 2024

Dear Carol:
It always makes feel good to remember you. You made me laugh a lot in life and you always had that cheshire cat grin on your face so that none of us knew what you were really thinking at the time. But you were always nice, friendly and warm to me. Thank you, Carol. I miss you.
Arleen

Mike Hardwick

December 5, 2024

Carol, was my Postmastter in San Mateo she was fair & understanding & had a great smile God bless Mike Hardwick.

Arleen Zuniga

December 18, 2023

Dear Carol, Family & Friends:
Well another year has gone by and we are all still here. Not fair or right I say that we get to live and take a lot of it "for granted" and that you already preceded us in your journey "home". You are still in our hearts and mind forever my funny, little post office friend. Look down on us and take care of us and remind us how good and precious Life is and to be thankful and grateful. So sad that you cannot be here with us. It would have been endless laughter and who knows what with you. God Bless you and Us !!

Arleen Zuniga

December 18, 2022

It's hard to believe that 2 years have past since Carol had to leave us !

She will always remain in my heart . I am ever thankful that I knew her and that we were friends .
You are missed Carol ,but not forgotten by any means.

Arleen Zuniga

Arleen L Zuniga

December 18, 2021

There are never any words to express one's grief at the loss of someone you hold dear in your heart. I still can;t believe that my good buddy and comrade Carol is gone. The wound has been reopened. My heart goes out to the family for you better than anyone feel this loss tremendously. We are robbed as Carol was by witnessing a "good life" taken away from someone so young.
My deepest and heartfelt condolences now and forever

Yvette Gilardi (Pierre)

January 10, 2021

Beautiful tribute to a life well lived and blessed by God...rest in Peace

Susan Manheimer

January 3, 2021

Carol was a dear friend who will be greatly missed. The obituary captures so much of who she was and what she cared for so eloquently. One of a kind, if you were lucky enough to call her friend, you enjoyed her devoted loyalty, wickedly smart humor, and sharing her joy in all things, food, wine, travel, and golf! Godspeed my friend! SEM

Mike Hughes

January 1, 2021

Annemarie and family,
I am sorry to hear about the passing of your sister.
My thoughts will be with you and your family.
Mike Hughes
friend

Ronald Stillian

December 30, 2020

I met Carol many years ago when I worked at the USPS Processing & Distribution Center in San Francisco and she was Postmaster of San Mateo. We worked together on several projects and I found her to be an absolute delight to work with. Carol was a very special person. My condolences go out to the Conroy family.

Debbie Rausch Weinberger

December 29, 2020

It was very heart-warming to read the eloquent and impressive obituary that stands as a testament to Carol's amazing life of service. My sincere condolences are offered to her family at this very difficult time.

Red

December 28, 2020

A dear friend and extraordinary person, Carol left us too soon and too suddenly. Heaven’s gain is this world’s sad loss. My heart is broken.

Marilyn O’Donnell

December 28, 2020

Memories. Will miss you Carol.

Arnold Evje

December 28, 2020

I used to work with Carol many years ago and we remained friends throughout the years. She was a unique person and I was fortunate enough to have her as a friend. Her suffering is over now and she is in a place where there is no pain and darkness. Vale!

Ken Thomas

December 28, 2020

Carol was one of a kind. Don't forget her sharp wit and humor, so funny and clever. She was tough in all ways. She didn't complain, when most would have. She didn't like to be told Happy Birthday. She will be missed by so many, including me. May she always hit under par, where she's going. God Bless you Carol.
Ken Thomas

Mary Dullea

December 27, 2020

A day will not go by that I won’t miss you my friend

Arleen L Zuniga

December 27, 2020

I worked with Carol in San Francisco when she got her first position with the what was then called The United States Post Office. We were Collection drivers; collecting mail from post office boxes on the street and chutes in office and hotel buildings. She was so young around 17. She always made me laugh with her golf baseball cap on her head backwards , walking like she owned the world. We would run in to each other throughout our Postal careers from time to time, and we shared a strong , unbreakable bond of familiarity probably from having known each others as babies so to speak from our early days. It was always good to see her. My heart is very saddened to learn about my poor friends' departure from this life. I love you Carol and will miss you deeply. Thank you for being in my life and giving me everlasting fond and funny memories of our humble beginnings together.

Arleen Zuniga

Negib

December 27, 2020

We are going to miss you very much Carol.We will never forget you.Very grateful to have the chance to know you as a cherished friend the years that went by too quickly.

Cliff Gray

December 27, 2020

My condolences to the Conroy family. Carol and I were classmates at St. Stephens. The last time I saw her was at the Class of ’67’s 50th reunion. I am so sorry to hear of her passing today because it came as a shock. I will miss her. She was a wonderful person.

Andrea McCarthy Finnigan

December 27, 2020

Dear Annemarie and family, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Carol. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Bill Basile

December 27, 2020

Co-worker in San Diego, she was a trusted, warm and caring individual.

Max Valencia

December 25, 2020

Co-worker and friend, Carol’s love, wit, and laughter will be with me to the end of my days.
Condolences to family and friends.

Patricia White

December 25, 2020

I will miss you my friend. Even though there were miles between us in our latter years - I always felt the warmth of your friendship. Loved our golf outings - which there were never enough of them. God bless you.

Marty Ruane

December 24, 2020

My condolences to the entire Conroy family, one of the great San Francisco families I have had the pleasure to know since my grammar school days. I will include Carol in my prayers.

Phil Kearney

December 24, 2020

Condolences to the wonderful Conroy Family on the passing of such a singular and bright spirit.

Ray Hanssen & Greig Common

December 24, 2020

We did not know Carol but would like to express our condolences to Annemarie and the Paul Conroy family.

Mike Puccinelli

December 24, 2020

So sorry to hear about the passing of Carol. I've known her since we were in high school. My condolences and deepest sympathies to the Conroy family. May she rest in peace.

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