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Age 69, of Fort Myers, Florida, passed away on December 15, 2018 after a hard fought and courageous battle against cancer. Carolyn was born in Pittsburgh on November 7, 1949. She graduated from Hampton High School in 1967, and went on to receive her Bachelor's Degree in Elementary Education from Edinboro University of Pennsylvania in 1971. Carolyn worked for the North Hills School District for 35 years, spending the majority of her career as a fifth grade teacher at Seville Elementary, and is proudly listed in Who's Who Among America's Teachers. She enjoyed an active life playing tennis, driving fast cars, and shopping. She was an exceptionally creative artist, loved to entertain, and was a natural musician. She was a devoted wife, mother, nana, sister, niece, and friend. She was passionate about her family, her friends, her faith, and thought of others before herself. Carolyn was preceded in death by her parents, Henry and Teresa Avolio; and is survived by her husband of 12 years, Ken Silay; daughter, Lauren Warner (Benjamin); daughter, Allison Marshall (Virgil); grandson, Landon; granddaughter, Peyton; sister, Gloria Avolio; maternal aunt, Gloria Gugliotta; paternal aunt, Ernestine Vannicola; mother-in-law, Rosemary Silay; stepdaughter, Stephanie Yannotti (Clark); and grandchildren, Julia, Drew, and Grant; and stepson, Matthew Silay (Kate); and grandchildren, Lily and Cooper; as well as numerous aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends. Visitation will be held at KING FUNERAL HOME & CREMATION SERVICE, INC., Allison Park, on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 from 2-8 p.m. A memorial service will be held at the Funeral Home Thursday, December 20, 2018, promptly at 10:00 a.m. with Reverend Dr. Kevin A. Gourley of Memorial Park Presbyterian Church officiating. The family wishes to extend their gratitude to Good Samaritan Hospice in Wexford for providing comfort and excellent care in Carolyn's final days. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Good Samaritan Hospice at 146 Neely School Road, Wexford, PA 15090.
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Connie Uriarte
December 11, 2020
Miss you very much my sweet dear friend. ❤
Patty Patty Haller
December 11, 2019
Ive never met anyone who made me feel as special as Carolyn did. She had a wonderful ability to make everyone around her feel special. I miss her.
Connie Uriarte
December 11, 2019
Miss you my sweet friend. Thank you for being my guardian angel.
AHS, Class of '68
Richard Gray
January 31, 2019
Ken--I never met your wife but from what I read she must have been one-of-a-kind and a best friend for all too short a time during the best part of your life. Been there myself; feel free to contact.
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Marlene Gillott.... (Avalon High School,Class of 66) Crain
January 28, 2019
Ken and Family so sorry for the loss of your loved one.
Marlene Gillott.... (Avalon High School,Class of 66) Crain
January 28, 2019
Ken and Family so sorry for the loss of your loved one.
Tom Atkinson
December 19, 2018
Sorry for your loss, Ken.
Tom Schimmel
December 19, 2018
Ken, may God give you comfort, peace and strength during this most difficult time. I was with you when you were the Commander, 991th Communications Squadron, Pittsburgh IAP, Coraopolis Pa
Terry Sipes
December 19, 2018
Wish we could be there with you, Lauren. Hugs and prayers for you and your family.
Patty Haller
December 18, 2018
One of the most kind hearted and considerate women I have ever known. My heart is heavy but we have discussed our faith numerous times. I know she is with the Lord and I look forward to the day we meet again.
Sue Diroll-Braudrick
December 18, 2018
Ken,
My condolences to you and the family with the passing of Carolyn. May God hold you in his arms as you heal.
Rachel Wilkin
December 17, 2018
I am so sorry to hear of this loss. She was truly a one of a kind teacher and person.
Marilee Straza
December 17, 2018
This candle is for our heavenly angel, Carolyn❤
December 17, 2018
May God comfort the family during this time of great loss. Isaiah 57:13
Connie Uriarte
December 17, 2018
Ken,
I am deeply sorry for your loss. Carolyn was a truly special friend to me and I will never forget the moments we shared. May memories of Carolyn and the love of family surround you and give you strength in the days ahead. Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead, and loving memories to forever hold in your heart. God bless you and your family.
Love,
Connie and Ozzie Uriarte
December 17, 2018
Our hearts are saddened at the news of a wonderful person being taken from us all too soon. Truly sorry for your loss, Ken, we had great times with you guys and will remember Carolyn for her laugh, personality and uplifting attitude.
Oleh and Christine Kupraty
Carolyn was the glue that held the Birthday group together.
marilee Straza
December 17, 2018
Sending prayers to the entire family during this difficult time.
marilee Straza
December 17, 2018
Ken,
Marilee Straza
December 17, 2018
Warner Houth
December 17, 2018
Ken,
Deeply saddened to learn of the passing of a wonderful lady. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Jane and Warner Houth
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