Add a Memory
Send Flowers
Make a Donation
Charles Aymar Obituary
63 of East Tarentum on February 13, 2008. Husband of Valerie J. (McCune) Aymar; father of Nancy L. (Charles) Henderson of Fawn, Danielle L. (Joseph) Scharett of Webster, NY, Charlet A. (Thomas) Shurina of Buffalo Twp. & Michelle E. (Paul) Durci of Winfield Twp., his dog Bailey, 16 grand, 6 great-grand, brother Daniel L. Aymar of Linesville & 4 nephews & 3 nieces. Family will receive friends Saturday from 7-9pm and Sunday from 2-4pm & 7-9pm in the SIWICKI-YANICKO FUNERAL HOME, 23 McKrell Road, Russellton, West Deer Twp. where service will be conducted Monday 10:00 am, with the Rev. W. James Legge, D. Min. officiating. Burial will follow in Lakewood Memorial Gardens, Indiana Twp. Memorial contributions may be made to West Deer V.F.D. #2, 2163 Saxonburg Blvd. Cheswick, PA 15024.
Send condolences at post-gazette.com/gb
230 Entries
Danielle Scharett
February 13, 2025
Love you and miss you dearly Daddy
Valerie Aymar
May 22, 2023
Happy Anniversary!! 30 years ago today we would have been in Hawaii being married. Miss you and Love you always!!!
Danielle
January 30, 2022
I love you and miss you so much I ache.
Danielle
December 24, 2020
Another holiday quietly slipping by. My heart aches. Missing you today and everyday. Love you.
How you can show support
Send flowers
Consider sending flowers.
Add photos
Share their life with photo memories.
Plant trees
Honor them by planting trees in their memory.
Follow this page
Get email updates whenever changes are made.
Donate in Memory
Make a donation in memory of your loved one.
Share this page
Invite other friends and family to visit the page.
Danielle
February 13, 2019
Today does not make it the only day we miss you as it is everyday our hearts ache for you. Today is just a horrific nightmare for us all. Please be with us give us that Chuck Aymar nudge. I love you with all my heart and soul!!!!! Ps.... you are right as always. ;). Danielle
February 13, 2019
Miss you just as much today as the day you left us! Wish there was a stairway to heaven because I would climb it everyday to see you! I love you Dad.
August 18, 2017
Happy Birthday in heaven! Forever loved and never forgotten. As the years go by it doesn't get any easier. Love you, Val
Happy Heavenly Birthday Daddy ❤ Forever Young. Love you and miss you more than any words can express, All my love Danielle
August 18, 2017
February 13, 2017
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
Danielle Scharett
February 13, 2017
Miss you everyday. Always and forever in my heart. Love you
May 22, 2016
Another anniversary comes and goes without you but the memories will always remain. Love and miss you always.
Danielle Scharett
May 20, 2016
May 20, 2016
Always loved and truly missed. You were the best of the best. There is not a day that goes by that you are not thought of.
February 13, 2016
The years may wipe out many things, but this they'll wipe out never the memory of those happy days which we have spent together. 8 long years without you. I hope you and Bailey are doing something fun together. I miss you both very much.
August 29, 2015
February 13, 2015
Nothing can take away my memories.
I love you and miss you so.
August 18, 2014
Another birthday here without you, you now have our baby boy with you, I hope that you are having fun and eating cake and biscuits today and every day. I hope he gave you that big kiss from me when he came there to you. Happy Birthday. I Love you!!
June 15, 2014
Happy Fathers Day! Memories are plentiful. It is still so hard to believe that I can not reach out and hug you or call you. They say it gets easier.... I think not. We just learn how to hide the hurt. Some days are more painful than others. This is one of them. I love you with all my heart. Danielle
May 22, 2014
21 years today we were married and I remember it like yesterday. You will always remain in my heart. I will love you forever.
February 13, 2014
Always in my heart. It is like yesterday it's so hard to believe that it's 6 years.
Love you, Val
KATHY
February 13, 2014
Six years have passed since you left us, we still think of you everyday.
Love
Tim and Kathy
February 13, 2014
Love you and miss you with all my heart.
Love,
Danielle
Danielle
August 18, 2013
Happy Birthday Daddy. I love you and miss you!!
I would be sitting right there with you!
August 18, 2013
Happy Birthday Daddy!!! I love you and miss you dearly!!! XxOo
May 22, 2013
Today is 20 years that you became my husband, I miss you and I love you today as I did on the day we took our vows. Always in my heart. Always in my thoughts.
Love, Val
Danielle
February 13, 2013
If feels like yesterday you were taken from us. Your heart beats daily within mine. Memories are treasured and shared. Love you forever. <3
Nicole
December 23, 2012
Missing you pappy, can't wait for the day that I see you again. Love you!
August 18, 2012
Waiting for the day that we can blow those candles out together again!
Praying you can hear my whispers of love, today and everyday. I miss you so.
Happy Birthday!!!
All my love,
Danielle
June 17, 2012
Happy Father's Day Dad ~ They say this gets easier, I just think we learn how to cope, still feel like it was yesterday and miss you all the same!! Sure do wish you could be here to meet the new little guy. I love you and miss you. Danielle
May 22, 2012
Another anniversary without you, they don't get any easier. Missed and forever loved.
Happy anniversary, Love you Val
February 13, 2012
Love you with all my heart and soul, Danielle
August 18, 2011
Love you with all my heart. Happy Birthday Daddy. Till we can celebrate together again.
Love,
Danielle
June 19, 2011
Today is the day we honor our fathers. Even though you are not here with us I still honor you Dad. Thank you for the privilege of being your daughter. Love and miss you. Nancy
June 19, 2011
Words cannot say how much I miss you. I hope you get all the special hugs and kisses I send you all the time. You are the greatest dad and I love and miss you so much. Happy Father's Day!! Love ya Shell
Danielle Scharett
June 19, 2011
Happy Fathers Day
What Makes A Dad
God took the strength of a mountain,
The majesty of a tree,
The warmth of a summer sun,
The calm of a quiet sea,
The generous soul of nature,
The comforting arm of night,
The wisdom of the ages,
The power of the eagle's flight,
The joy of a morning in spring,
The faith of a mustard seed,
The patience of eternity,
The depth of a family need,
Then God combined these qualities,
When there was nothing more to add,
He knew His masterpiece was complete,
And so, He called it ... "DAD!”
Author Unknown
This poem states everything you were and still are in my heart. I love you and miss you.
Danielle
May 22, 2011
Eighteen years ago today you promised to be there when I needed you to comfort me and encourage me, to be my best friend ever and to love me all your life. You kept your promise and now all I have are the memories of our time together. Everyday that goes by I miss you more and more.
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY.
ALWAYS AND FOREVER IN MY HEART.
Love you, Val
Danielle Scharett
May 4, 2011
Missing you so badly.
February 13, 2011
You taught us life is a miracle, a wonder and a breath of fresh air.
You passed to me this sense of amazement, an abundance of confidence that I can do anything I just have to care.
Your heart, laughter and contagious smile always willing to lend a helping hand, makes this all the harder to understand.
Sadly we did not realize your magic until it was gone and we were left to carry on.
Always mesmerized by your charm and wit, such a void is felt without it.
My heart beats everyday still missing you in every way.
I carry with me your strength, desire and heart which each day I reflect upon to remind me where to start.
It makes me press on and go that extra mile to strive to make you proud.
You my father I am proud to say was one of my greatest blessings… Even still today! So sadly missed.
Missing and Loving you forever,
Danielle
August 18, 2010
Another birthday without you here all I can do is put roses on your grave and hope that you are celebrating in heaven.
I think of you every day with the same love as when you were here.
Love Always,
Val
August 18, 2010
August 18, 2010
Happy Birthday Dad
Dad,
I am thinking of you on our special day, We used to race to say “Happy Birthday”
Now no longer are we able share, I know that within my heart you will always be there.
You are missed so deeply beyond what any words can ever convey, not only on our birthday but each and every single day.
In my heart you will always be, where no one can ever take you again from me.
I love you and miss you.
Danielle
July 4, 2010
You always were able to light up a room. We miss you beyond what anyone could even begin to describe. I love you and miss you so!
Danielle
June 20, 2010
Dad, our sadness knows no end;
We can’t believe you’re gone;
We’re grieving for you every day;
It’s hard to carry on.
You were always there to support and care,
When we needed a true friend,
How we’ll ever do without our dad,
We cannot comprehend.
You were our teacher and our guide,
Our dad, so good and strong;
Your example will sustain us now,
And last our whole lives long.
We’re trying to communicate;
We hope that you can hear;
Expressing what we feel for you,
Helps us feel you’re near.
Our memories of the times we had
Help the pain to go away.
But Dad, our lives won’t be the same;
We’ll miss you every day.
A part of us went with you;
You left a gap too big to fill;
You’re our father and our hero;
We love you and we always will.
I love you and miss you dearly,
Love Shell
June 20, 2010
Happy Fathers Day......
Roses grow in Heaven, Lord
pick a bunch for me today.
Place them in my Daddy's arms and
tell him they're from me.
Tell him that I love, miss him and when
he turns to smile, place a kiss upon his cheek and hold him for awhile.
Because remembering him is easy, I do it everyday. There is an ache within my heart that will never go away.
When I look into the sky and see a opening in the clouds and a sun ray I can only hope and dream of being with him some day.
I love you and miss you terribly!
Danielle
May 22, 2010
Those who have shown us love and brought us joy, and made us laugh have given us the lasting gifts of a beautiful life and blessed our memories forever. Seventeen years ago today we were in Hawaii getting married and I can still remember every detail of that day. I think of you every day and every day I wish that you were here. Happy Anniversary. Love you always, Val
May 13, 2010
I miss you dad. I could really use your advice. I know it hard to believe that because I would get so mad when you put your two cents in. I would love your two cents now. Love you
Nancy
February 13, 2010
Everyone has their time
But why did yours have to come so soon?
There are so many people in the world
So why did God have to pick you?
They say things like this make you stronger
But how can that be?
I feel so weak inside It all feels like a dream
But I feel you watching over me
And someday I'll see you again.
I miss you so much. I miss your advice, your hugs, your kisses, and your silly ways. It does not seem like two years, it seems like an eternity. I love you so much and it is just not the same without you. Not a day goes by that I do not think about you. You were a GREAT FATHER and I am so thankful for the memories you have given to me. I am sad without you. I love you Dad and miss you so so so very much. Keep watch over all of us. Love Michelle
February 13, 2010
They say there is a reason,
They say that time will heal,
But neither time or reason
Will change the way I feel.
For no one knows the heartache,
That lies beyond my smile.
No one knows how many times
I have broken down and cried.
I want to tell you something,
So there won't be any doubt,
You're so wonderful to think of,
But so hard to be without.
Sadly Missed and Very Much Loved,
Val
Rebecca Ruby
February 13, 2010
2/13 -- wow two years already...it feels like yesterday, my heart still hurts and I know most times I push it to the side. I know today is not the day that made your life, it is rather all the I love you's, hugs, kisses and jokes you did through out the years that made you the most kind, knowledgable, and honest person you were. You were the rock of this family, and even though the rock has crumbled, it was not because you did not build it strong enough, but because you were strong enough to hold it together. We will be ok, I know this family will, because I trust what you have instilled in all of us throughout these years.I miss you everyday, maybe not in words but always in my heart. I love you Pappy, and miss you more then words can say.
February 13, 2010
Only God knows why you were taken in such an unpredictable way. Our lives were completely changed that dreadful February day. Two years have passed, but it seems like yesterday. We are stuck inside a sweet memory of you that no one can take away.
We go on living for you each and every day as we know you would have wanted it this way. The parties go on in silence as your presence is gone. But your love and your heart carry on. Many loved ones left in the wake to wonder what to do, without the power of my dear father, without you. Please guide us from above until one day we can again bask in your love! You are greatly missed.
All My Love,
Danielle
February 12, 2010
February 13,2008
Chuck you were taken from us.
We thought of you with love today,
But that is nothing new.
We thought about you yesterday,
And days before that too.
We think of you in silence,
We often speak your name.
Now all we have are MEMORIES
And your PICTURE in a frame.
Your memory is our keepsake,
With which we'll never part.
God has you in his keeping,
WE HAVE YOU IN OUR HEARTS.
Loved and Missed deeply
Tim,Kathy,Amanda & Timmy
December 25, 2009
Daddy,
Not day goes by that you are not in our thoughts, held so near and dear to our hearts. The holidays make them ache more as we wish for you to walk through the door. Missing you today and everyday so much!!! Merry Chrismas as you celebrate with Jesus!!
Love you,
Danielle
August 18, 2009
No farewell words were spoken
No time to say goodbye
You were gone before I knew it
And only God knows why
So now I live in sadness
And secret tears still flow
What it meant to lose you
No one will ever know
But the 18th of August is still a special day
And a hallowed place within my heart
is where you'll always stay
I will not grieve to long today for
I know that you are free I wish you Happy Birthday with love, to you, from me.
Love Always,
Val
June 21, 2009
Father's Day
Sitting in a very quiet house,
with whispers of memories floating in.
Treasure your fathers and bask in their love.
Mine now comes from an angel above.
I sit and dwell but one thing I am positive
He loved us dearly and taught us well.
He was character that could make you smile
Even in your darkest day, he was able to make
Your pains go away.
He will be with me forever, in everything I do.
Daddy we love and miss you.
All My Love,
Danielle
May 24, 2009
Happy Anniversay
May 22, 2009
Love is the one thing
death can not take.
Love is the one bond
that nothing can break.
Love is a cord that
time can not sever.
Yes, Love is eternal,
Love is forever.
Very sadly missed and
Very much Loved,
Val
February 18, 2009
A year ago today you were buried.
Along with many hopes, dreams,
and laughter that only you could fill.
The pain is fresh and deep for so
many. A hole within our hearts
that no one will ever be able to fill.
They say time heals all wounds, I
wonder. It has been a year and it
all feels so fresh.
I have never met someone who could
make a person laugh even when they
felt like crying. You had the ability
to charm everyone. And make
everyone feel like they were special.
Deeply and forever we will be missing
you. I do not think there is enough
time to heal this wound. We lost a
truly wonderful man that day and
there is no one that can fill your shoes.
In spirit and memories you are with us,
but it is not the same, I look forward to
the day I can hear you calling my name.
All My Love,
Danielle
Christina McCune
February 17, 2009
In remembrance of Chuck Aymar
( Uncle Chuck)
When I looked down upon the casket,
I see your body of a man that is a hero, kind, respectful, fun, and loving person just lying their.
As a memories are so strong that I can not explain, they just come into my head.
My eyes are always raining with tears each and everyday.
As your everything to me in the world.
You the man of jokes that I will not forget, they always brightening someone’s day
You love and caring will never go away.
You are in everyone’s harts and the memories will stay always in us forever day of are levies.
by Christina McCune 5-26-08
February 13, 2009
A year ago today
In the blink of an eye
You were tragically taken from us
And we had to say goodbye
We don’t understand
And we try to move on
Knowing you are watching
From God’s precious lawn.
So today we salute you
Mr. President, Dad and friend
We terribly miss you
And your memories will never end.
Kathy
February 13, 2009
One Year Ago
February 13, 2008
This day is remembered
And quietly kept.
No words are needed
We never forget.
Memories are treasures
No one can steal.
Death leaves us with heartache
That nothing can heal.
The shock we received that day
No one will ever know.
But God gave us strength & corage
To fight the sudden blow.
To some you may be forgotten,
To others apart of the past,
But to us who knew & loved you,
Your memories will always last.
Love, Tim, Kathy, Amanda, & Timmy
October 2, 2008
June 15, 2008
Daddy “Happy Father’s Day”
Whenever I think of you,
I am forced to think in the past.
I never would of thought,
that Father’s day would be your last.
Father’s day is here,
and the pain is fresh and new.
I can not imagine this Father’s day without you.
My heart is heavy and the tears continue to flow.
I keep looking for you everywhere I go.
They say that you are in a better place.
But all I want to do is to see your face,
And to hear you say ‘I love you’ one more time.
Dad, I talk to you all the time,
And you are in my thoughts with everything I do.
I just can not get over the fact of losing you.
I have so much to tell you and I am told it will have to wait.
Someday I hope you will be there to greet me at the pearly gate!
All my love
Danielle
Kathy Hamilton
May 29, 2008
Longing for One More Day
When we lose someone we love,
It seems that time stands still.
What moves through us is
A silence...
A quiet sadness...
A longing for one more day...
One more word...
One more touch...
We may not understand why Chuck left this earth so soon,
Or why he left before we were ready to say good-bye,
But little by little,
We begin to remember,
Not just that he died,
But that he lived.
And that his life gave us memories,
To beautiful to forget.
We will see Chuck again some day,
In a heavenly place,
Where there is no parting.
A place where there are no words that mean good-bye.
Love, Tim, Kathy, Amanda, & Tim Hamilton
Amanda Finley
April 12, 2008
It's still hard to believe that your gone. It may seem kind of silly talking to you on here, but I know your watching us; all of us! When I think of you all I hear in my head are those goofy voices you used when I called the house looking for my mom. Those voices make me laugh and yet cry at the same time, it just doesn't seem fair. I miss you and love you bunches!
Emily and Pappy 6/29/1993
March 28, 2008
March 27, 2008
March 27, 2008
March 27, 2008
March 27, 2008
March 27, 2008
March 27, 2008
March 27, 2008
March 27, 2008
March 27, 2008
March 27, 2008
Brothers having fun
March 27, 2008
March 27, 2008
March 27, 2008
March 27, 2008
March 27, 2008
March 27, 2008
May 22, 1993
March 27, 2008
March 27, 2008
March 27, 2008
March 27, 2008
March 27, 2008
March 27, 2008
March 27, 2008
March 27, 2008
March 27, 2008
March 17, 2008
March 17, 2008
March 17, 2008
March 16, 2008
Your legacy is a gift you gave to our family:
The Gift of Work
The Gift of Money
The Gift of Friends
The Gift of Learning
The Gift of Problems
The Gift of Family
The Gift of Laughter
The Gift of Dreams
The Gift of Giving
The Gift of Gratitude
The Gift of Day
The Gift of Love
You live on within each and every one of us!!!
Loving Pappy
March 16, 2008
March 16, 2008
Hair cut time
March 16, 2008
March 16, 2008
March 16, 2008
March 16, 2008
March 16, 2008
Showing 1 - 100 of 230 results
Make a Donation
in Charles Aymar's name
How to support Charles's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreResources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read more
The Five Stages of Grief
They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
Read moreWays to honor Charles Aymar's life and legacy
Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more
