Charles A McKinley

1938 - 2018

Charles A McKinley obituary, 1938-2018, Port St. Lucie, FL

Charles A McKinley

1938 - 2018

BORN

1938

DIED

2018

Charles McKinley Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 26, 2018.
McKinley, Charles A.

Born in Columbus, Ohio, February 3, 1938; died peacefully in Port Saint Lucie, Florida on January 24, 2018. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Monday, February 5, at Holy Family Catholic Church, 2330 SE Mariposa Avenue, Port St. Lucie, FL. Visitors will be received at the Church at 11:00 a.m. with the Mass beginning at 12:00 noon.

Charles is preceded in death by his parents John A. McKinley and Mary Sunker McKinley; brothers James and David "Pete" McKinley; Sisters Theresa "Sue" Beauseau and Patricia McKinley; brother-in-law Jerry Beauseau; goddaughter, Suzanne Saksa; and special friends, Jay Wise and Royce Arter.

He is survived by his loving wife of nearly 59 years, Betty; son, Joseph A. (Lisa) McKinley of Dublin, OH; grandsons David A. (Kelsey) McKinley, Chattanooga, TN and Andrew McKinley, Dublin, OH; brothers Larry (Ivy) McKinley, Cumming GA; Thomas (Barbara) McKinley, Broken Arrow, OK; and William (Susan) McKinley, Saybrook, OH; sister, Kitty (Frank) McElhaney, Lake City, Florida; sisters-in-law Mary McKinley, Huber Heights, OH and Nina (Frank)Tripp, Gainesville, FL; and godson, Scott Shafer, Pickerington, OH.
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He is also survived by his Florida nieces, Tammy (Wade) Head, Fort Pierce and Betty (Arthur) Powers, Cape Coral, and their children, Wade II and Nicholas Head and January (J.C.) Coleman. He also leaves behind myriad other nieces and nephews, and, their spouses and children with whom he lovingly stayed in frequent touch via telephone, text, and email messaging; as well as life-long friends Tony Dabo , Columbus, OH, and Chuck Kessler, Roanoke, VA., and special friend, Teresa Baptiste, Fort Myers, FL.

Charles spent his adult life in service to his country, first as a member of the United States Marine Corps. During the Space Race he worked for various contractors at Cape Canaveral Air Force Station and Kennedy Space Center during the Mercury, Gemini, and Apollo programs, culminating with Grumman Aircraft working on the Lunar Module. His signature, along with those of many others who worked on the program, was left on the moon.

After the lunar landing, he served the nation as a civilian intelligence officer for several years. He later embarked on a career with Martin Marietta/Lockheed Martin which began in Denver, CO, and took him to California, New Mexico, and the Washington, DC area where he retired in 1996 as a Senior Staff Systems Engineer in Systems Integration. Throughout his employment he worked closely with the United States Air Force, most often reporting directly to Air Force personnel. His retirement was celebrated at Fort Belvoir Officers' Club where he was presented with a flag that had been flown over several Air Force bases and other key program locations where he had worked. Through all these moves his wife Betty's support made possible smooth transitions. Charles appreciated that support and recognized that she made sacrifices in her own career to accommodate those frequent moves. He was proud that when she retired from Lockheed Martin Management & Data Systems she was the human resources representative for two major programs and was also the administrative supervisor for the Washington, DC, area.

Charles was a member of the Association of Former Intelligence Officers and president of the St. Lucie River Chapter of the Sons of the American Revolution, the latter of which he also held positions at the state level. He belonged to the Friendly Sons and Daughters of Ireland, the Treasure Coast Genealogy Society and he volunteered at the Fort Pierce Library.

Charles spent most of his retirement in service to others. His Irish heritage inspired his interest in genealogy, and he freely shared his knowledge with anyone who needed it. He felt blessed to travel to Ireland several times and was with friends in Stockholm, Sweden on 9/11, where the people reached out in a beautiful show of solidarity.

Friends knew they could call on Chuck with computer problems. He helped everyone in any way he could whether friends or someone he just heard about who needed help, especially older people. He often arranged airline travel and got boarding passes for others. He delighted in making people laugh. His idea of a good day was when he helped someone or made people laugh. Although his own mobility was quite limited, he drove people wherever they needed to go - to doctor appointments, grocery shopping, etc., and his patience was endless. He visited people in their homes or nursing homes and left them laughing. He served on Holy Family's Respite Care program for quite some time. Giving to the end, Charles' eyes were donated for medical research.

Above all, he loved his family and friends. Of course, he spent a lot of time telling friends about his son, who has been for many years in a helping position that has positively impacted the lives of many, particularly the homeless of his community; and for building his own wonderful family with Lisa. He was proud of his grandsons' tenacity and selfless team spirit, and often talked about how both were outstanding students and athletes in high school where they played basketball and baseball. David went on to earn a spot on the team at Ohio University, where he participated on two NCAA tournament teams and was a captain his last two seasons. Charles greatly enjoyed listening to the Bobcats via internet radio and charting the team's success. He was equally proud of Andrew who chose an extremely difficult college curriculum focused on mathematics and actuarial sciences. Through hard work, he excelled and his grandfather called him his mathlete! But most of all he was proud that they are all good men who reach out to help people in the spirit of the Gospel of Matthew, Chapter 25.

Charlie's legacy of service to others- in the workplace and in personal life - can be an example for the entire family and his extensive circle of friends.

In lieu of flowers donations may be made to the St. Lucie River Chapter, Sons of the American Revolution, 628 NE Bent Paddle Lane, Port Saint Lucie, FL 34983 or to Holy Family Catholic Church, 2330 SE Mariposa Avenue, Port Saint Lucie, FL 34952.

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February 5, 2018

Casey and Jen McKinley posted to the memorial.

February 3, 2018

Jeri shafer posted to the memorial.

February 2, 2018

Bobby Jakcsy posted to the memorial.

Casey and Jen McKinley

February 5, 2018

You will be missed Charlie! The last time we saw you was at Ginny's 90th birthday. You brought out the big ears and told stories about Ginny. May you experience the love of God and the reunion of being together with family and friends who have gone before you. To Betty, you are in our prayers and may you be filled with God's peace, knowing Charlie is in a good place called heaven.

Jeri shafer

February 3, 2018

You will be missed Uncle Charlie. Hugs and kisses to Aunt Betty ,Joe, Lisa, David and Andrew.

Bobby Jakcsy

February 2, 2018

Chuck was always a happy go lucky kind of guy, but very serious about his job. We work for several years together in the Aerospace Industry and he taught me a lot. We also had a passion for old cars. Many a Saturday was spent roaming a junkyard looking for hard to find parts.

I guess he's finally found the "BOX".

Mr. & Mrs. Wonderful

Danny & Barbara Felton

February 2, 2018

You have our sincere condolences and prayers as you go through this difficult time. Remember weeping may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning.

Mary Beth Thomas

January 31, 2018

Betty, Joe, Lisa, David and Andrew,

I am so sorry for your loss! I was blessed to know him.....what a great sense of humor! Bob calls him his Second Dad, so I guess that makes him my second father-in-law. He will be missed.....

Hugs and Prayers.....

Larry

January 30, 2018

While, I am very sadden by his passing, I have this to add to the celebration of his life........I can always remember my brother Charlie as one who would like to play jokes on people, his most common antics would include replacing fresh eggs in one's refrigerator with hard boiled ones, putting chocolate pudding on toilet seats, the list would go on and on. These were not all spur of the moment pranks but well thought out and schemed as well. I am sure that his targets afterwards would be thinking to themselves How can I get back at him? I tried, and I sometimes succeeded with the GOTCHA!. But, the BIG GOTCHA always eluded me. So enters this Twining's truck into my life. 15 inch long, 8 inches high and about 6 inches wide. Definitely worth a try for a GOTCHA.

Charlie and Betty had this part time neighbor on Dome Circle and they got to be good friends. Per and Lonnie are Swedish and owned this house to stay at when they came to the US. Ivy and I also got to know them well also. One time when they came to the US, they decided to fly back home via Atlanta in order that they may visit our home. Per and Lonnie love to shop. So, we took them out shopping, we stopped by the local World Market. It was just after Christmas and the Christmas merchandise was 75% off. I picked up this Twining tea truck which had 4 or so boxes of tea in it. Per, not wanting to miss a bargain, saw me with it and asked if there were any more. I said yes, only 1, the truck has some fixable issues but otherwise OK. The steering wheel and a fender were off but everything was there. Per bought it and asked me to bring the truck down to Florida when I came on my next visit. This started 2 to 3 months of setting up the GOTCHA
After Per and Lonnie left, I talked to Charlie about their visit, I told him about going shopping, I told him Per bought a truck but it needed a couple of repairs, not giving any additional details. He asked why did Per buy a truck?, the answer I gave was you know Per, he loves a bargain. And changed the subject. I sent Per a note and indicated that Charlie seemed interested in his purchase, and try to be vague about the whole thing as I was setting up the GOTCHA.
A week or two go by, a get a call from Charlie, asking about the truck. Does Per know if he brings a vehicle into Florida, there is a $300 tax? he asked. Per would not jump on a deal without doing any research I told him. Also I told him that I got the Steering fixed and would start working on the fender, He started with more questions but I was able to change the subject again. This goes on for a month or two more, several more phone calls, he would ask about the truck, are you going to drive it down? Yes, no additional details, how is Ivy getting down? She will be in the SUV.
Per and Lonnie come back, we schedule a trip. More questions from Charlie, more very vague replies, I think I did tell the color of the truck, I never told him the make and model. A day or two before the trip, I called Per and told him I would drop the truck off before going to Charlie's. This is where Betty got drawn into it. She assumed Ivy was going to drive the SUV down while I drove the truck, a 600 mile trip and a long day and was very worried about her.
I loaded the truck into the SUV and Ivy in the passenger seat and headed south. We stopped at Per's and gave him the truck. He had taken the car out of the garage and placed the truck in the middle of the otherwise empty garage. We went onto Charlie and Betty's around the corner.
First thing in the door, Charlie asked where the truck was and Betty said to Ivy, I was really worried about you driving all that distance and have been praying all day you would be safe". Charlie asked if he could go over and see the truck now. I told him, Per said to give them about a half hour and then call before heading over. About 15 min so, Charlie being very interested in seeing the truck called Per, Per put him off for another half hour and then he could come over. Charlie is getting antsy at this point.
So we head over to Per's, the minute we were through the door, Charlie asked to see the truck. Per says OK and opens the garage door, Charlie stops in his tracks, the look on his face said it all, it was priceless. He knew he had been had. It was the best GOTCHA ever. Needless to say we all had a good laugh.

Janet Hroncich

January 29, 2018

Betty and Family,

Although it's been more than 20 years since I worked with Chuck, I often think of what a fun-loving good natured character he was. He'd often gather all us 20-30 year old youngsters into his van to run over to McDonalds to buy Happy Meals so that he could save the toys for some charitable cause or perhaps for his grandkids? He would slap my back every time he passed me and say "Guess who's back?" "Your back....hehehe."
And, when everyone else around was fretting some complex situation at work - Chuck would let us all know that the world would go on by uttering a simple "Whoop-di-doo!'.

I'll always remember the passionate and touching tribute Betty gave at his retirement party at Fort Belvoir's Officer's Club. What a touching celebration of his long career of service that was.

I know that, as a man of deep faith, Chuck is in a happy place now, free of the pain he endured over the past month.

Peace and prayers for all of know as you celebrate a life well lived,

gerry&maaureen Davis

January 27, 2018

our Sincerest condolences.

PER Sjöquist

January 27, 2018

Our sincere condolences, Lonnie & Per

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