Constance Kontopanos Cole

Constance Kontopanos Cole obituary, Richmond, VA

Constance Kontopanos Cole

Constance Cole Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 16, 2020.
Constance Kontopanos Cole, 90, died August 10. She was born in Norfolk, VA and moved to Virginia Beach at the age of ten. She was preceded in death by her husband, William "Buddy" Cole, her parents, James and Alice Kontopanos, her stepmother, Hazel Kontopanos, and her sister, Bess Roland.

Connie was educated in Virginia Beach City Public Schools. She received a bachelor's degree in Economics and Business Administration from Mary Washington College and a Master's degree in Education Administration from Old Dominion University. She served as an elementary school teacher for 18 years followed by 17 years as an Instructional Specialist in the Virginia Beach City Public Schools, until her retirement in 1993. In the spring of 2015, she moved to Richmond to be closer to her family.

She was a member of Eastern Shore Chapel Episcopal Church for 58 years. As a parishioner, she served as Sunday school teacher, a member of the vestry as Junior Warden and Senior Warden, Chairman of the Capital Campaign in 2000, Co-chairman of the 325 Committee. She served as a member of the Finance Committee, Chairman of the Parish Day School Board, Chairman of the Cemetery Committee, and was the leader of the Peanut Group for several years.

She is survived by her daughter, Susan Cole Friend (Bob) and her son, William H. Cole, Jr. (Karen); her grandchildren, Taylor Friend Reahard (Ralph), Justin Stewart Cole (Shannon) and Annemarie Cole Duke (Jonathan); and five great-grandchildren. She is also survived by several nieces and nephews.

Burial will be private and services will be held at a date to be determined at Eastern Shore Chapel Episcopal Church in Virginia Beach. In her memory, contributions may be made to the Eastern Shore Chapel - Cemetery Trust Fund, 2020 Laskin Road, Virginia Beach, VA 23454 or the Virginia Beach Rescue Squad.

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August 19, 2020

Judith N. Fisher posted to the memorial.

August 17, 2020

Don Bahlman posted to the memorial.

August 17, 2020

Bill Myers posted to the memorial.

Judith N. Fisher

August 19, 2020

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always. We worked together for Virginia Beach schools. I learned so much from her including patience and open mindedness. Working with her was the highlight of my work with Virginia Beach schools

Don Bahlman

August 17, 2020

Mrs. Cole was my 4th grade teacher at Linkhorn Park Elementary School around 1972. She was a wonderful teacher. She had a great sense of humor and a love for teaching that was obvious. I saw her at the Virginia Steak House in Virginia Beach having lunch 10 years ago or more, and I spoke to her. She was so sweet. My sympathy goes out to her family.

Bill Myers

August 17, 2020

I was sorry to hear of your loss. Connie was a good friend to my parents, Bill and Alice Myers. I remember her from Eastern Shore and bagging her groceries at the Belo where I worked. The picture is how I remember her...cheerful and smiling.

Kendra Booher

August 17, 2020

Connie always brightened my day as I served as the HWD at Gayton Terrace. I was able to do a virtual visit with her a little while ago. She will be missed by many. May you all be blessed through your grieving. Sincerely, Kendra Booher

Ronald A Kelley

August 17, 2020

I first got to know Connie as a young boy prior to her marriage to my cousin, Buddy. Throughout all the following years I came to love her as a friend and benefited from her kindness, generosity, optimism, wonderful sense of humor and her unflagging honesty. One did not ask Connie for her opinion unless prepared for her answer. I will sorely miss her wonderful presence.

Elaine Kyrus

August 16, 2020

Extending my deepest sympathy to the family of Connie Cole. May her memory be eternal.

Debbie & Dan Hickok

August 16, 2020

Ms Connie will be dearly missed by our family; we have known her for over 35 years. As all of her friends would agree, she was a gracious lady always ready to serve others, with a quick wit that also enjoyed a good hearty laugh with you. As fellow Believers, we look forward to that Day when we share Eternity together with our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.

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