Darrell Dwight Whitaker

1931 - 2016

Darrell Dwight Whitaker obituary, 1931-2016, Fairfax Station, VA

Darrell Dwight Whitaker

1931 - 2016

BORN

1931

DIED

2016

Darrell Whitaker Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Mar. 18, 2016.
On March 13, 2016, Darrell Dwight Whitaker, COL, USAF (Retired) died following a series of illnesses related to myasthenia gravis and its complications.
He was born on April 10, 1931 in Clarkton, Missouri. His family later moved to Pontiac, Michigan. Following graduation from high school in 1949, he entered the US Air Force and via the Aviation Cadet Program, was commissioned as a second lieutenant in 1954, receiving his pilot's wings in 1955. Trained as a fighter pilot, assignment to Korea just after the cease fire and various stateside assignments were followed by an overseas billet in Libya, North Africa and return to the US where he earned a Bachelor's Degree from the University of Omaha in 1966. Subsequent assignment to the US Air Force Fighter Weapons School at Nellis Air Force base in Las Vegas Nevada followed. A career Air Force officer, he was checked out in/certified to fly approximately fifteen different aircraft to include the F-86, F-101, F-4 Phantom, A-37, and F-111. His all-time favorite was the F-86 Sabre because of its agility, mobility, and firepower. His final aircraft assignment was the F-111 fighter bomber which he flew at Nellis and in Upper Heyford, England where his final flight occurred on March 23, 1972.
He was part of the Combat Dragon development/test program for the A-37 attack jet, evaluated under combat conditions in South East Asia. He flew the A-37 for 2 tours in Vietnam during 1967-68 and 1969-1970. A command pilot with over 3700 flying hours, he flew 299 combat missions, earning two Distinguished Flying Crosses and approximately 7 Air Medals for heroism and aerial achievement.
Upon return from Vietnam, European operational assignments were at 3rd Air Force Headquarters in London, England as Fighter Staff Officer and a base command in Erding, Germany with the 36th Tactical Fighter Wing. Following assignment to the Pentagon, his responsibilities included acting as liaison between the Air Force and Congress regarding weapons systems inquiries/investigations. He was Chief of Military Sales/Assistance-Middle East/Africa before retiring from a distinguished career in 1978.
Following retirement from the Air Force, he began SPF, Inc., a defense contracting agency of which he was CEO, specializing in logistics/support for foreign military sales. In 2001 he retired for good, spending time outdoors with gardening, bird watching and enjoying his grandchildren.
A fine man of great courage, character, integrity, kindness and dignity, he touched many lives and served as a role model, mentor, morale compass, and hero to his sons, grandchildren, nephews, and niece as well as many others. Even though his illness eventually robbed him of strength and mobility, he retained his courage, character, dignity, and optimism, serving as an example to all. He will be greatly missed and never forgotten.
He is survived by his wife of fifty nine years, Barbara L. Whitaker, and his sons, Mark D. and Craig D. Whitaker, as well as four grandchildren Paul, James, Jordan, and Helen Whitaker. He will be buried in Stafford, Virginia alongside his grandson Justin L. Whitaker, who died of cancer on April 7, 2008.

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Jason Smith

November 14, 2016

We have lost one of the best! Darrell will be missed.

Nan Sullivan

May 12, 2016

Darrell was a responsible and friendly neighbor; we miss seeing him in the garden. He was a special friend to our cat Tony who came to clear out the chipmunks in Darrell's yard.

Al Sturm and Darrell Whitaker

Todd Sturm

March 27, 2016

Words cannot express the heartfelt sorrow we are all experiencing with the passing of Darrell Whitaker. He may have been in title only to me as my uncle, but he was so much more. A man, a friend, a mentor, and a person who I looked up to in the highest regards possible. But this guest book is not about me, its about Darrell and his legacy and family that he left behind. A loving wife Barbara, 2 wonderful sons (Mark and Craig), many Grandchildren, Nieces, Nephews, Friends, and Colleagues. Everyone Darrell came in contact with felt a positive message and vibe from him. My mother was Barb's sister and my parents followed Barb and Darrell around the world in his adventures with the USAF. England, Germany, and across the ole' USA. I love hearing the stories and times they shared. I love seeing all the pictures and reliving the memories I was a part of.
I know we all wish he was still with us and no matter what, we cannot bring him back. However, that does not mean Darrell is gone. He is still in all of us. Every night, I walk over to where I have Darrel's and my fathers pictures side by side and tell them both I love them and say good night.
Col. Whitaker, I salute you for everything you accomplished in your life and everything you have taught myself and really what positive impact you have had on my son Mitchell. You are a true American Hero and we thank you for your service and sharing your wealth of knowledge with those who it mattered most to.
Rest In Peace Col Whitaker. Til we meet again.
Barb, Mark, Craig, Jordy, and the rest of the family please accept our condolences and deepest sympathies for the loss of this great man.
God Bless and God Speed.
Todd, Joey, Joan, Wendy, Mitchell, and Shelby Sturm.

Daryl Farrie

March 27, 2016

We extend our deepiest condolences. The family will continually be in our thoughts and prayers. Mr. Darrell Whitaker will be sorely missed. We join you in honouring his memory and legacy. He was our hero too. Sincerely, Daryl & Patricia Farrie

Cheryl

March 23, 2016

Thoughts and prayers to all during this difficult time. Darrell was a good man and will be missed very much.

Michael Drain

March 21, 2016

So very sorry to hear of Darryl's passing. I enjoyed working for Darryl at SPFI. Billie and I want to convey our deepest sympathy to his family.

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