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Darren Abbott Cates
1985 - 2016
Darren Abbott Cates
1985 - 2016
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Darren Cates Obituary
Darren was born on May 7th, 1985, in Ware, MA, to Richard Abbott and Sheryl Ann Robidoux Cates. Spending much of his childhood in Swansboro, NC, Darren graduated from Swansboro High School and went on to attend NC State University where he would meet the love of his life. When he wasn't cheering on the Wolfpack or his beloved Red Sox, Darren was fulfilling his love of music at concerts or more recently, through dance parties with his two beautiful children.
Darren was preceded in death by his father, Richard Abbott Cates, and his grandparents, Karl Abbott Cates, and Norma Shorey Cates.
Darren is survived by his wife, Lindsey Joann Cates; daughter Harper Victoria Cates; son Landon Abbott Cates; his mother, Sheryl Cates; his brother Ryan Anderson; a father-in-law, Joe Honeycutt, a mother-in-law, Tammy Honeycutt; four brothers-in-law, Marshall (Tammie), Stephen, Dylan, and Bryan (Natalee) Honeycutt; as well as several loving aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, and nephews. He leaves behind many amazing friends and a best friend, Daniel Robb.
A memorial service will be held on Friday, September 16th, 2016, at 2:00 pm, at Brown-Wynne Funeral Home in Cary. The family will receive friends following the service.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to SPCA of Wake County or SouthLight Healthcare.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Amy Orizondo
January 30, 2025
His daughter is my Best friend when I found I out that he died when she was like 3 years old I got really sad I sorry for your loss Harper.
Martin Foster
September 17, 2016
Im so sorry to hear of his passing. I only met him a few times but he left quite an impression I have never forgot. He was a kind, sweet and gentle soul, with a bright and amazing spirit. He will always be someone with whom I am so happy I crossed paths with. Much love to all of you, who are trying to cope with such a huge loss. Fly high Darren!!! Marty Martarius Foster
Peggy Devereux
September 16, 2016
Darren was a wonderful person with a big heart. I'm glad I got to see him and spend some time with him and his family in July. I will miss him very much as will so many people. Rest in God's arms Darren, we love you. Our love to Lindsey, Harper and Landon.
Peggy and John Devereux
Desiree Trogdon
September 15, 2016
I'm so sorry for your loss. You all will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers.
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Shelly LaCoss
September 15, 2016
Always smiling! That's what I remember the most about Darren. My heart aches for you Lindsey, and your children. Please know I am thinking of you. My love and sympathy.
Andrea
September 15, 2016
You have my condolences. May you find comfort in God.
Josh Marcero
September 13, 2016
One of the first friends I made at NCSU. He was one of a kind. RIP
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