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David Balk accomplished a great deal throughout his 91 years. He became a star athlete, a soldier, a business owner, an expert stock broker, amateur philosopher, a father and doting grandfather. But his greatest accomplishment, he would say, was his ability to live a life of gratitude. "He was grateful for every day" his younger son, Harold Balk (Ingrid) said, "He was thankful for his family and his station in life. However, he was just as appreciative for the simple things in life like the changing of seasons or the smile shown from a care giver." David was raised in the small mining village of Coverdale (now Bethel Park) where his parents owned and operated a small general store during the Depression. Being the oldest and a natural leader, David helped nurture and mold his four younger brothers and one sister. At the age of 11, the family moved to Squirrel Hill where his father opened a workman's uniform store in uptown (located where PPG Paints Arena now stands). A gifted athlete, David excelled in basketball, track and baseball. At age 15 he was awarded the prestigious Kiwanis Club Sports Award for the best overall athlete. He also set the pole vault record at Taylor Allderdice which held for over 35 years. Upon graduation, and with WWII combat still broiling, David, against his mother's wishes, and forgoing a promising baseball career, he joined the Army. Fortunately peace was declared once he completed boot camp and was shipped off to guard Emperor Hirohito in his Imperial Palace in Tokyo, Japan. Although his mother was appreciative of David sending his military pay home to help the family, she was more grateful when he returned home and enrolled at Pitt with the aid of the GI bill. After earning a bachelor's in Physical Education, David worked as a clerk for the US postal service. Upon graduation from Pitt he was introduced to Rosalyn Hirsh, a friend of his brother Leizer. Their world-wind romance resulted in marriage soon there after. David and his new bride moved to Latrobe, PA where they planned to open a women's dress shop (The Hollywood Shop) with the help of Roz's uncle. Due to the uncle's sudden illness, David was left opening the store by himself. With little retail and business experience, not knowing the difference between a girdle and a goiter, David at first struggled. Fortunately being fast learning, and with the help of his wife, David soon got the hang of running the operation. Within a few years he was successful enough to open a children's store as well as another Hollywood Shop in Connellsville, PA. In the early 1970's David foresaw the bleak future of retail for the small town merchant. He closed the Latrobe store, sold the Connellsville store and went back to school to become a stock broker. It was slow going when David first started with Parker and Hunter (acquired by Janney Montgomery Scott in 2005) with Stagflation and the oil crisis, but due to his stellar reputation, honesty and work ethic, he slowly built a loyal client base. David worked well into his 80's, interminably researching new investment vehicles and companies developing the latest technologies. David may not have fully comprehended IP protocol, but he gained enough insight to steer his clients toward companies such as Amazon, Google, Microsoft and Cisco during their nascent years. The family remained in Latrobe into the late 1980s where David would make the daily 2 hour trek to Pittsburgh and back. In his 30 plus years living in Latrobe, David was a very active member of Beth Israel Synagogue where he served in almost every capacity, ensuring the survival of the small congregation. David was also a member of the Elks and the Lion's clubs and was active in the Latrobe Chamber of Commerce. After his three children left for college, the couple moved from Latrobe to Wilkins Township where David could walk to his brokerage firm. His charmed life was filled with work, which, at this stage, was more of an exciting hobby, and spoiling on his four grandchildren. David and his wife then moved to Concordia of the South Hills in 2017. "My dad was a man of faith. Faith in not only a higher entity, but in human kindness and the innovative spirit," Balk continued. "He marveled at, and invested in, the newest technologies. He, in fact, built the first all electric home in the 1950's in Latrobe." "My father was a role model extraordinaire," said his daughter Ellen Balk of Atlanta, Georgia. "He was subtle with his lessons, but always reliably guiding us to make the most moral and courageous of decisions." In his late 40's David survived a bout with colon cancer. He attributed his survival to God shining a benevolent light in his direction. From that point on he not only became more pious, but he approached every day with enormous gratitude. He studied the great Rabbinic minds and ruminated on poignant philosophical and ethical questions each day. "He became quite the philosopher in his later years," said his wife of 65 years Rosalyn. "He meted out wise and thoughtful advice not to just our family, but to anyone, even the care givers in his final months. I think he believed it was his inherent duty to pass on learned wisdom and elevate conversations, even the everyday humdrum conversations, into something meaningful." David is survived by his son, M. Brian Balk (Carol) as well as his two surviving brothers, Sam Balk (Hanna) and Dr. Phillip Balk (Bette) and sister, Reva Cohen (Henry 'z). David was blessed with four granddaughters, Dalya Balk, Ellie Balk, Macey Balk and Jessica Balk. David was also blessed with 20 nieces and nephews and many friends that will truly miss his generosity and kindness. Services at RALPH SCHUGAR CHAPEL, INC., 5509 Centre Avenue, Shadyside on Friday, November 29th at 10:30 a.m. Visitation one and one half hour prior to services (9 - 10:30 a.m.). Interment Mount Lebanon Cemetery/Beth El Section. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Jewish Family & Children's Services, 5743 Bartlett Street, Pittsburgh, PA 15217. Shiva Services will be held at Concordia of the South Hills, 1300 Bower Hill Road on Saturday and Sunday at 7 p.m. www.schugar.com
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Robert Yamins
November 28, 2019
Dear Roz, Brian, Harold, and Ellen,
The news that Dave is gone reached me this morning and although an electronic communication alone won't suffice for this moment, I wanted to set down as best as I can the thoughts swirling in my head.
That there is so much in this obituary that I didn't know (his athletic accomplishments and military history in particular) says much about the man Dave was. He was selfless and giving to a fault, always focused 100% on me and my family on every visit with him, and rarely speaking of himself. I first met him when he went out of his way to facilitate my reconnection with Uncle Maish many years ago, picking me up at my Pittsburgh motel when I was on a musical tour and driving me the half-hour or more to Mt. Pleasant to see Uncle Maish and Aunt Rose, and back again to the motel afterwards. It was a remarkable gesture and a sign of his values that I will never forget. The epitome of a mensch.
In my mind, and although they were very different people, it was Dave who took over the mantle of the family when Uncle Maish passed away, and that is how I will always remember him. I cherished every opportunity to see and speak with him, and mourn the fact that there will be no more.
I grieve with you on your loss, but am comforted by, and grateful for, the fact that much of Dave resides in all of you, his much beloved family. May you similarly take comfort in his legacy for you and his guiding light that will shine forever.
With love,
Rob
Janice Weinstein
November 27, 2019
As I read this obituary, I could just see and hear Dave imparting his wisdom and thoughts. It truly encapsulated who and what Dave stood for...family & spirituality. I am his cousin from Baltimore (yes that Baltimore) (through marriage, Roz was first cousins with my mom) but whenever I called or visited, Dave NEVER made me feel like a cousin through marriage, no on the contrary he made me feel special & important. When he was talking to you, his attention was exclusively on you and he blocked everything & everyone else out. He'd always call me Janny (not by my real name, Janice). I know I have shared this story with Roz & Ellen but it bears repeating & though it may have been just a tidbit to him, it meant the world to me and perhaps more than anything else, made the most positive impression on me. It gives a picture of the kind of person Dave was. Roz was preparing to embark on a trip to Greece with my aunt (from Baltimore) & one of Roz's friends from Pittsburgh. The evening before they were to leave, my aunt suffered a fatal asthma attack. Obviously, Roz and her friend could not cancel their plans. We, in Baltimore arranged her funeral. Dave, unbeknownst to us (and before Mapquest & GPS) made the 3-1/2 to 4 hour schlep to Baltimore from Pittsburgh for, mind you, Roz's cousin's funeral. And then, when we encouraged him to stay, he declined, wanting to get back to Pittsburgh in daylight. He never mentioned it again, didn't want any accolades...that's just the kind of person Dave was. He will be greatly missed. My warmest condolences to Roz, Brian, Ellen, Harold & families. Hoping cherished memories and treasured times will help comfort you.
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Linda Baker
November 27, 2019
Rosalyn,
What a beautiful obituary! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. You will surely miss him.
I don't know if you remember me. My late husband Wayne Baker and I moved to Penn Towers in 1974. We always thought you and David were such a nice couple. I lost Wayne 6 years ago this month. I thought you must have moved. I have thought of and missed seeing you and David.
Kindly,
Linda Baker
Apt 903
Penn Towers
Email: [email protected]
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