David Carl Casteel

David Carl Casteel obituary, Livermore, CA

David Carl Casteel

David Casteel Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 22, 2023.
It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of David (Dave) Carl Casteel, a beloved father, grandfather, and pillar of the Livermore community. Born on March 1, 1956, in Missouri to Calvin and Rose Casteel, Dave spent his childhood in Sierra Vista, AZ, where he thrived as the class president during his senior year.

In the late 70s, Dave made Northern California his home and discovered a life-changing path in Alcoholics Anonymous. This year marked the beginning of a remarkable 41 years of sobriety, a testament to his strength and commitment. His dedication to the program became one of his greatest life works, impacting countless lives along the way.

A longtime Livermore resident, Dave's warm and welcoming spirit knew no bounds. He touched the lives of everyone he encountered, making genuine connections that turned strangers into friends. His infectious love and compassion were evident in every interaction. Dave was often spotted at many of our local eateries drinking iced tea, reading his tablet, or engaging in conversation with waitstaff.

Dave's legacy lives on through his two adoring children, David James Casteel and Jessica Lindsey Casteel, and their partners, Justine Jarvis and Chance Caudle. He also leaves behind three cherished grandchildren, Kenzi, Emmit, and Andie.

In 2012, Dave experienced a profound reunion that brought immeasurable joy to his life. He had the privilege of reconnecting with his biological daughter, who had been adopted, Jessica Going. This reunion added a beautiful chapter to his journey, and the bond they formed became a source of immense happiness and fulfillment.

In addition to his immediate family, Dave is survived by his siblings Steven Casteel, Robert Casteel, Susan Casteel Tinsley, and William Casteel. He was preceded in death by his loving wife Lynn Bouscal Casteel, siblings Jimmy Casteel and Margaret Casteel Wells, as well as his parents, Calvin and Rose.

Beyond his family, Dave's absence will be deeply felt by the community he served with unwavering dedication. His impact resonates in the hearts of those who found solace and support through his commitment to sobriety and faith.

In honoring Dave's memory, let us remember the lessons of love, resilience, and compassion he shared with us all. May his spirit continue to inspire and uplift us in the face of this profound loss.

A Celebration of Life will be held at Crosswinds Church at 1pm on December 1st, 2023.

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December 10, 2023

Aaron Swain posted to the memorial.

December 8, 2023

Janet Swain posted to the memorial.

November 29, 2023

Roger O. posted to the memorial.

Aaron Swain

December 10, 2023

Dave, my Brother----I have no words. I am completely heartbroken. for over 23 years you would take my phone calls and be the greatest FRIEND I have ever known. You were a the type of friend that is as rare as Uranium. I am so sad, but I know the Glory of the Lord you are sharing NOW. I WILL NOT say goodbye. Just goodbye for now. Joy to you my brother.

Janet Swain

December 8, 2023

Dear Dave, Jessica and Jessica,
I loved your father like a brother. I met him back in 1999 when we were in school for network engineering. We were instant friends. Dave was such a joyful, funny, kind, authentic soul. His spirit was so impactful my husband, Aaron, stole him from me and became instant close friends. He is grieving right now because we just heard the news. Brother Dave, soar high with our Lord, I know you are one bright beautiful shining star. We love you and will see you one day soon.
Aaron & Janet Swain

Roger O.

November 29, 2023

I heard Dave speak in my first AA meeting, August 1995. He was influential in helping me stay sober to this day. God bless you Dave

Anonymous

November 28, 2023

I´ll miss Dave for his big smile and positive energy. He was just... nice. In the world we live in, that means a lot. And we´ve all lost a lot. We´re all a little less that you´ve gone. Love ya Dave

Todd Allen

November 28, 2023

I never met David until that fateful day. I was one of the first ones on the scene. I called the hospital almost daily checking in on him and praying for him and his family. I even dropped off flowers at one point. Even though I did not know him, he seemed like a wonderful man that will be missed. I am so sorry for your loss and just know he did not suffer. Condolences to all of you.

Alysa freitas

November 27, 2023

Dave couldn´t walk into the restaurant without everyone knowing he was there. He made everyone´s day brighter and constantly made everyone feel welcomed and appreciated. I´ll never be able to drink an ice tea without thinking of him. Ice tea, no lemon extra ice. And don´t you dare give him water, he can drink that at home, as he would say.

Mike Aycock

November 23, 2023

I am so sorry for your loss. Dave was just so much of a pleasure to be around. The room would just light up whenever he walked in. He seemed to always have a sparkle in his eyes, and he had a great sense of humor along with a lot of wisdom. He always knew just what to say at the right time to help someone else.

Jacqueline Steele White

November 22, 2023

David and I met in junior high at the age of 13. We connected with each other from the moment we met and remained friends for 54 years. I cannot recall ever having an argument with him. We loved and supported each other through the ups and downs of our lives. The loss of him leaves a hole in my heart. He was always there for me. Always a loving example of how we should all treat each other. We constantly spoke to each of our children and grandchildren. We knew how blessed we were. David had a strong faith in God. He is one of his angels now. I hope he puts in a good word for me. No doubt he has a great deal of influence in heaven after the life he lived on earth.

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