Donald Cameron Findlay III

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Donald Cameron Findlay III

Donald Findlay III Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jul. 15, 2025.
Donald Cameron Findlay III passed away on Friday, July 11, 2025, in Chicago, IL, at the age of 65 with his wife Amy Scalera Findlay by his side. Cam was a beloved friend and role model to many, his jokes lit up the room, and his judgment and honesty enriched his friends, companies, and country.

Cam was born on September 7, 1959, to Judy Lilly Findlay and Donald Cameron Findlay II who raised him in Elkhart, Indiana, along with his siblings David Findlay and Anne Findlay McGowan. Cam was known for his academic drive at Elkhart Memorial High School, from which he graduated in 1978, his swimming records, and his theatrical and magic performances around town. He continued throughout his life to amuse his friends and colleagues, who remember how his green eyes would light up when he teased or quipped.

Cam graduated first in his class at Northwestern University in 1982 with a bachelor's degree in political science. He excelled in his studies but also made time to serve as SAE's fraternity president, attend its seminal Boxer Rebellion party, and cheer on his fellow students as they "laked the post" after the football team set the longest losing streak in Division 1 football history. Cam continued to love and serve his alma mater for the remainder of his life, serving on Northwestern's Board of Trustees for more than 25 years, regularly attending home football games, and sporting royal purple nearly every day.

Cam went on to receive a master's degree in political science, philosophy, and economics at New College, Oxford as a Marshall Scholar. In order that others could have the same opportunity that he did, Cam created the Findlay Fellowship to sponsor Northwestern students studying in the United Kingdom. After graduating, he and his classmate booked an unlimited one-way airline ticket and took their "Around the World Trip". They hiked Mt. Fuji in shorts and sandals, visited the pyramids in Egypt, and subsisted on rationed mushrooms in the Soviet Union. This trip ignited Cam's lifelong love for travel; during his life, Cam visited roughly 60 countries, including trips to Southeast Asia and Israel in recent months. He then attended Harvard Law School where he met Amy, his match in intellect and wit and his lifelong partner in everything.

Cam began his career as a law clerk to Judge Stephen F. Williams on the U.S. Court of Appeals for the District of Columbia Circuit and then to Justice Antonin Scalia on the U.S. Supreme Court. He went on to work at the Department of Transportation and later at the White House as Deputy Assistant to President George H.W. Bush and Counselor to the Chief of Staff. After becoming a partner at law firm Sidley & Austin, Cam returned to public service as the Deputy Secretary of Labor under President George W. Bush. Cam rounded out his extraordinary career as General Counsel for three Fortune 250 companies - Aon, Medtronic, and Archer Daniels Midland. Known for his ability to fix complex legal and organizational problems, the Harvard Law Bulletin recently titled Cam "The Fixer". While in the private sector, Cam remained a politico, a patriot, and an avid observer and debater of world events.

Cam credited much of his success to mentors like Samuel Skinner and Patrick Ryan and the opportunities they gave him, and he was sure to help others in the same way. As one of Cam's friends recently remarked, "He wanted to drag the rest of us up with him." Cam's leadership ethos was "hiring good people, trusting them, and avoiding looking over their shoulder." He was known to navigate each new job and challenge with kindness, ease, and a cheeriness that defied the difficult problems he faced. No matter his successes, he maintained a sincere Midwestern humility. Above all, he was known and trusted to always do the right and honest thing.

Cam died from heart failure caused by the radiation therapy he underwent as a 20-year-old. At the time, Hodgkin Lymphoma was considered a death sentence, but with the tireless help of his dad and a novel therapy, he survived. Surviving cancer made Cam live every day to the fullest, and he often remarked that the 45 years he lived after beating cancer were "gravy". Cam left us too early - but with little unfinished business.

Cam is survived by his wife Amy, sons Alex and Mac (Rachel), brother David, sister Anne (John), mother Judy, and an endless number of loving family members and friends.

Friends and family will be gathering for a celebration of life in the coming weeks in Chicago. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the Findlay Fellowship or the Wounded Warrior Project. To donate to the Findlay Fellowship, please go to give.northwestern.edu, click "Make a Gift", under "Designation" click "Make your selection", scroll to the bottom and select "Other, please specify", and type "Findlay Fellowship" into the text box. You may also mail a check to Northwestern University, 1201 Davis Street, Evanston, IL 60201.

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Laura Melillo Barnum

Earlier today

I am so very saddened to hear this news. We worked together in the 41 White House. He was brilliant, kind and engaging. He had a unique knack of calming situations (and people) down, disarming everyone with his quick wit and common-sense approach. Heartfelt prayers for the family.

Yvonne E. Campos

Yesterday

To Cam´s family, I´m so sorry for your loss. He was a class act and wonderful classmate to others at Harvard Law School.
Judge Yvonne E. Campos, San Diego

Katie Licup

Yesterday

My deepest condolences to Cam´s family. I am shocked and saddened. I worked on his team at ADM and am a fellow Wildcat-appreciate his dedication to NU and to his colleagues.

Alphonso Jackson

Yesterday

I'm sorry to hear of Cam´s passing. Cam and I served as Deputy Secretaries in the President George W. Bush Administration. I treasure having worked with him. He was a fine gentleman with a keen intellect and a terrific sense of humor.
Lifting the Findlay family in prayer,
Alphonso and Marcia Jackson

Don Ingram

Yesterday

Amy, I am so very saddened to hear of Cam´s death! He was an inspiration to all of us who worked with him at Aon. He is a lasting memory to a huge number of people. My and Donna´s prayers are with you and your sons. Don Ingram

Maureen Shannon

Yesterday

I was very sorry to hear the sad news of Cam´s passing. I was fortunate to work with him while he was at Sidley and through several of his General Counsel roles. He was a warm, down to earth person with a brilliant mind, quick wit, great sense of humor and so many amazing accomplishments. My deepest sympathies go to his family, colleagues and friends. Cam will be greatly missed but warm memories of him will live on.

Rick Bress

Yesterday

I had the privilege and pleasure of clerking with Cam for both Judge Williams and Justice Scalia. Beyond his nonchalant brilliance, extraordinary prose, and passionate advocacy, Cam was a wickedly funny practical joker, and a thoroughly decent, kind, and caring colleague and friend. My heart goes out to Amy, the boys, and Cam´s entire family.

Regina Sloane

Yesterday

I worked with Mr.Findlay at Sidley all the years he was employed there. He always showed" joy" & interest in peoples' lives.Even if I ran into him on the street he still would stop &ask how my life was; never in too much of a hurry to show concern ,even with ALL he was involved in. Such a loving human being.My heart is breaking for your family.Jesus said"I will not leave you comfortless"John 14:18. Lean hard on Him.My prayers are with you-Regina Sloane

Andrew Humphrey

Yesterday

I was privileged to know Cam as a client and a friend. I have not met a finer person, and he will be deeply missed.

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Lisa Thornton MD

Yesterday

Cam and I were classmates in Leadership Greater Chicago. What an amazing, intelligent, insightful and kind soul! Cam made the world better and I cannot believe he is gone. Sending my deepest condolences.

Laura Wellman

Yesterday

Dear Anne, a beautiful tribute to an amazing person - but how very tough for you to lose a brother. Know you are in my thoughts. Siblings are such special parts of our lives...

Mary Fischl

Yesterday

I worked with Cam at Sidley Austin for several years. He was friendly and personable. A true gentleman. He always had a smile for anyone he connected with. My sincerest condolences to his family, friends and colleagues.

Elizabeth Lewis Pardoe

Yesterday

Northwestern University and the Association of Marshall Scholars lost a pillar of our communities in Cam. It was a highlight of my career to work with Cam and Amy on the creation of the Findlay Fellowship, and I am deeply moved that he chose to name it in his obituary. Cam supported Northwestern students who strove to follow in his footsteps to the United Kingdom as a trusted mentor long before he endowed the fellowship, and his generosity of all kinds will be sorely missed.

David Americus

Yesterday

Sue and I are so sorry to hear of Cam's passing. He was a true superstar in every way, not only as a brilliant attorney, but as a genuinely honest, kind and caring person. Despite his enormous success, he was always humble. Sending our deepest condolences to Amy, Sandy and Mac, and to Cam's entire extended family.

Jay B. Stephens

Yesterday

Julie and I will miss a good friend, great colleague, remarkable person, outstanding lawyer, courageous individual, and a pretty good golfer. Our sympathy to Amy and to Cam and Amy's family. Jay Stephens

Sharon Ryan

Yesterday

Amy, I am so sad about Cam´s passing. He was so much fun and we had a grand time organizing the AGC meeting a few years ago. I cannot imagine what a devastating loss this is for you and your family. What a life he had filled with happiness especially with his love of you and the boys. All my best, Sharon Ryan

David Prosperi

Yesterday

I had the pleasure to meet and work with Cam at the U.S. Department of Transportation with "Team Skinner." He was a great example of a private citizen bringing his extensive knowledge and experience to serve his country, and Cam served us all well not only in Washington, D.C. but in his work in the private sector. It was an honor to know him as a colleague and as a friend. May his memory be an eternal blessing to his family and to us all.

Jerry Goldman

Yesterday

Cam was my student at Northwestern. I recognized his brilliance and encouraged him to apply to the program that led to his Marshall Scholarship. He was a cut above the rest in every way. Gone too soon.

Nélson gonzales Filho

Yesterday

Today I received the sad news of Cameron Findlay's passing. I would like to express my condolences to the family. Cam was a great leader and with his humility and knowledge he left an incredible legacy to all who had the privilege of sharing his teachings and being part of his team.

Mark Curtis

Yesterday

New College is proud to have had Cam as an alumnus and was so fortunate to benefit from his wise council as a board member of the American Friends of New College. All our thoughts go out to Amy and the family.

Kathryn Bowden

Yesterday

Oh Anne, I am so sorry. What a remarkable, impressive life he created. I imagine it was a joy to know him.

Lori Cohen

Yesterday

Cam was a true inspiration to me and to many. I am lucky to have crossed paths with him at multiple places. His was a life well-lived and with honor. My deepest condolences to his loving family for such a profound loss.

Jack Carriglio

Yesterday

Cam was a special person. It was a privilege to have been his friend.

Wade Dyke

Yesterday

Whenever I think of Cam, I smile. He carried joy around with him.

Victoria Reese

Yesterday

Cam was a true legal legend. I am grateful to have known him. My heart goes out to his family during this profoundly difficult time. They are in my thoughts and prayers.

Todd Newberger

Yesterday

May his memory be a blessing

Noelle Perkins

Yesterday

Cam was a wonderful mentor and someone many of us looked up to. Our Chicago legal community has lost one of its very best.

David Cambria

July 15, 2025

Dear Cam,

I was deeply saddened to hear about Cam´s passing. I hope you find some comfort in knowing how much his mentorship and friendship have meant to me.

Cam´s guidance was instrumental in shaping my professional journey. Having worked by his side for 12 years at Aon and ADM his genuine care and encouragement pushed me to grow in ways I never thought possible, and for that, I will always be grateful. He left an indelible mark not only on me both personally and professionally as well as so many others fortunate enough to have worked with him.

I can only imagine the weight of decisions and the outpouring of love from the many friends, family, and loved ones in your lives right now. Please know I´m here for you, and I would welcome the chance to catch up or visit if you´re up for it in the coming months.

With heartfelt gratitude and sadness,

David Cambria

[email protected]
312.560.7268

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