Dorothy S. "Dottie" Vassar

Dorothy S. "Dottie" Vassar obituary

Dorothy S. "Dottie" Vassar

Dorothy Vassar Obituary

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Dorothy S. "Dottie"Vassar, age 91, of Erie, died Sunday, October 31, 2010 at Hamot Medical Center. She was born on August 25, 1919 in Springfield, Mass.; a daughter of the late Herbert and Mariam Phelps Stiles. She was a graduate of Suffield Academy in 1936, and married her husband Reginald in 1946. She worked for Hartford Screw Machine in Conn., and Peoples Life Insurance Co. in Washington D.C. She played softball for G. Fox Company in Hartford, Conn., winning the State Championship and the right to play at Madison Square Garden. Dottie started skating in 1917. Later she skated at Lake Placid, N.Y. In 1958 Dottie founded the Westminster Figure Skating Club, on a pond behind her home. She taught skating, was a Board Officer, and was active in club functions for over 52 years. She was on the Board of the Erie Infants and Youth Home for nearly 20 years, serving as Treasurer from 1972 -1989. She was a member of Lawrence Park Golf Club for over 20 years, Daughters of the Nile for over 30 years, and was a member of Grace Baptist Church for over 55 years, serving many years as a Deaconess. In 1990 Dottie was given The Declaration of Achievement Award by the Commonwealth of PA for her many volunteer activities in the community. In 1993 she was made a Life Member of Westminster Figure Skating Club, she received the Founders Award from the Erie Home for Children and Adults in 1996, and in 2001 was inducted into the Erie District Women's Golf Association Hall of Fame. Dottie was preceded in death by a daughter, Joan Atkinson Vassar, her twin brother, Donald Stiles, a brother, Lester Stiles, and a sister, Bernice Prior. Dorothy is survived by her husband of over 64 years, Reginald Vassar, her daughter, Barbara Butler (James) of Waynesburg, Pa., five grandchildren, and 17 great-grandchildren. Friends may call at Burton Westlake Funeral Home, 3801 West 26th Street, (at Powell Ave.) Erie, Pa., 16506, on Wednesday from 2 p.m. to 5 p.m. and 7 p.m. to 9 p.m. and are invited to a funeral service there on Thursday at 10 a.m. with Rev Al Detter officiating. Burial will follow in Laurel Hill Cemetery. In lieu of flowers memorials may be made to: Westminster Figure Skating Club, PO BOX 3187 Erie, PA 16508 or the Shriners Hospitals For Children 1645 West 8th Street Erie, PA 16505 . Send condolences at www.Burtonfuneralhome.com.

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October 27, 2022

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October 28, 2011

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November 11, 2010

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Brigitta Francoeur

October 27, 2022

I still think of Dottie every day when I walk into the rink to coach. I can can still hear her voice in the rink. She was an important part of my childhood, my life. Without her, without the club, I would not be who I am today. And for that I am eternally grateful. Thank you Dottie

Brigitta Francoeur

October 28, 2011

Thinking of Dottie thru out the year, I can still hear her voice at the rink... she will always be missed.

November 11, 2010

Dear Reggie and Barb,
It has been a joy to have known Dottie. May God look over you in your time of sorrow.

Art and Amanda Moody Chester, Virginia

November 7, 2010

Dear Reggoe and family, Dottie was such a delightful and talented person! It was wonderful to Play golf with her for many years at LPGC and EDWGA. Betty Vossers (Beradenton, FL)

November 6, 2010

Dottie was a very wonderful, caring person. I have known Dottie since I was seven when I first started skating at JMC arena. She was always there to help me with my individual and synchronized skating. Even when my family moved away from Erie, she always kept in touch even if it was only at Christmas time. She was a sweet and kind lady who will be deeply missed. Ashley Van Slyke (Fort Mill, SC)

Dear Reggie and Family, Knowing Dottie at the ice rink when Ashley was younger was always and inspiration for me. She always had a smile and a kind word. I, too, appreciated Dottie keeping in touch after we moved from Erie and always asked how Ashley was doing. It was because of Dottie that Ashley is the skater and now the coach that she is. Thank you, Dottie for all you did. We love you,
Kathy Van Slyke (Fort Mill, SC)

Phyllis Cohen

November 6, 2010

I shall always remember Dottie. She was a great athlete, a wonderfully kind woman. She will be missed. Phyllis Cohen

The Eller Family

November 6, 2010

Dear Reg and family,
Dottie was an such an inspiration to so many in the WFSC and beyond. Her laughter, smile, and love of life was infectious. Her dedication to the art and sport of figure skating in Erie will always be remembered.We enjoyed our many years with the club and all of the shows.

Jenny Turak Peters

November 5, 2010

Dottie was such a wonderful and inspiring woman! I had the pleasure of knowing her ever since I started skating at the Westminster Skating Club when I was 7 years old. She was always there to support me and encourage me and offer a helping hand. She had such a love and passion for skating. She was amazing in every way, and I know all the great memories of her will always remain in our hearts. She will be missed dearly, but she has definitely impacted the lives of many in such a great way. We love you forever Dottie! Thinking of your family with love and sympathy at this sad time.

Linda Allen

November 4, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with Reggie and all of Dottie's family. We are sure she will be missed by WFSC and the figure skating world.

Theresa Ferrante

November 4, 2010

What an inspiration Dottie was to the Erie Community and the figure skating community. She had done so much for so many people and and for my daughter Maria. We will miss you , Dottie. Our hearts have been heavy over these last few days and keeping that in mind, we think of all of the good memories that Dottie has left us with. We love you, Dottie and you will forever remain in our hearts.

Darcy Patton Matson

November 4, 2010

My deepest sympathy on your loss. Mrs. Vassar was the person who started my ice skating years. First on the pond on Westminister and then at the rink. It was such a pleasure to see her happy, smiling face and continued involvement with ice skating over the years. I loved her and will miss her.

Dana Mintsiveris

November 3, 2010

Reg, so sorry to hear of Dottie's passing. She was always such a radiant person, always smiling when we saw her at church. Our prayers are with you, Dana, Jill and Carole Mintsiveris

November 3, 2010

We are so sorry for your loss and want to extend our deepest sympathies. Unfortunately, we will not be able to attend Dottie's visitation or funeral. Please know that you and the family are in our prayers and thoughts. Charles, Denise and Stacy Vassar, Newport News, Virginia

Jean Ross

November 3, 2010

I had the opportunity to play golf with Dottie 3 years ago what an impressive women. My sympathy to the family.

Daniele

November 3, 2010

I remember being hesitant to always skate away from the wall, and i remember dottie offering her hand out to me to support me. Maybe thats what encourages me to take that jump or go for that spin now, but all i know is, Dottie, you are very missed.

November 3, 2010

We were so sorry to hear of your loss; please accept our deepest sympathies. We are very sorry that it won’t be feasible to attend Dottie’s viewing or funeral service; but you are in our thoughts and prayers.

The Clarence “Sonny” Vassar Family
Barbara, Richard & Janet, Hugh & Mary
San Francisco Bay Area, California

Monet, Stacy & Sandra Rabat

November 2, 2010

Our deepest sympathy to Dottie's family. Knowing how caring and loving person she was and truly, this world has suffered a great loss. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Ron & Ellen Haugsdahl

November 2, 2010

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Hope Smith

November 2, 2010

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

November 2, 2010

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Laura Maas

November 2, 2010

What a wonderful lady Dottie was and this world has suffered a great loss. My girls had the opportunity to meet Dorothy while skating at Westminster and I will never forget her so full of life and her spirit not to be matched. I especially will remember when she visited us at my daughters funeral with a video of my precious daughter Lisa and her sisters Kelly & Melanie that we somehow never picked up one year. She took the time to be sure we got it and pay her respects to our beautiful daughter that she had only encountered for a few years many many years ago. And remember her she did and well. She touched my heart then and still does to this day. She will never be forgotten and always in our families hearts for her compassion. Our deepest sympathy to Dottie's family knowing how special of lady she was and feel blessed to have known Dottie if only for a short time. Laura Maas & Family

Paul Tate

November 2, 2010

Barb,
My condolences on your mom's passing. She was a wonderful woman who tired desperately to teach me to ice skate on the pond by your home. Alas I was as coordinated as an elephant on the skates and gave up. I know that ice skating was her love by her dedication to the Wesmtinster Club. Please know that you are in my thoughts & prayers.

Amy Bergqvist

November 2, 2010

Dottie was the person who founded the skating club in Erie and dedicated her time to the fullfillment of helping people, young and old, share in the joy of skating - Thank you Dottie, for skating has lead myself and my children on a wonderful journey!
Amy Bergqvist

Beth Williams Biechler

November 2, 2010

Dottie Vassar is one of those people you never forget because she touches your heart forever. I skated with the Westminster FSC in the late 70's & 80's. She was an inspiration to me because of her love of the sport, of the Club and of the people involved. It was always comforting to see her smiling face. You knew she was proud of you no matter if you were doing a spiral or a double jump. She is what skating is all about. God Bless her. She will be forever missed.

Pat Tatara

November 2, 2010

I will always remember Dottie as a sweet and wonderful person. I enjoyed many years golfing with her and her becoming a member of the EDWGA Hall of Fame. She will be missed.

Brigitta Zollinger Francoeur

November 2, 2010

Reggie and Barb,
I am so sorry for your loss. What do you say when you lose someone as wonderful as Dottie? I have known Dottie most of my life, she was like family to me. Because of her, because of the Westminster FSC, I have been able to achieve so much and watch generations of others do the same. It broke my heart the first year that she DID'NT skate in the Westminster Show, because for as long as I remember she always had. I feel honored that the last performance she participated in was the the " Family" number that I choreographed. I remember, Barbara, that the moment you and your kids stepped on the ice we all forgot about the choreography, just to see the look on Dotties face when you suprised her! There wasn't a dry eye on the ice!
Please take comfort in knowing she meant so much to so many, and will never be forgotten.

Kurt Hengelbrok

November 2, 2010

Reggie & Barb,

I'm so very sorry to hear of Dottie's passing. I sincerely hope the many wonderful memories you both have of her will comfort you in this difficult time. She touched so many lives through her inspiration and encouragement, mine included, in the many activities she was involved with...especially skating. My prayers are with you.

Nicole Barclay Swanson

November 2, 2010

I skated at the Westminister Club from when I was three in 1973 until I was 12. Mrs. Vassar always had a beautiful smile and warm way. I can still, honestly, hear her voice. Such a beautiful person. My prayers are with you.

Bob Esser

November 2, 2010

I was always inspired by Dottie. She was my partner in the adult portion of the annual March show about 20 years ago. I still remember when she and I danced a waltz and how she could flow through the moves!

Cynthia Vassar Matthews

November 2, 2010

We know that this is a difficult time for you. Please know that our thoughts are with you even though we cannot be there. We will all miss her so much.

Kelly Schultz

November 2, 2010

A beautiful women and an inspiration to not only my skating years but many others.

Matthew Weaver

November 2, 2010

In loving memory of a wonderful person. Dottie was such an influential & inspirational person to those she knew. I remember her well as a former WFSC member as a child. She encouraged my passion for figure skating and taught me that I could achieve anything I set my mind to. When I was older and worked at the LPGC, I fondly remember serving Dottie after the Tuesday Women's outings. She touched many lives and will sadly be missed.

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