Evelyn Payan-Gregory

Evelyn Payan-Gregory obituary, Ventura, CA

Evelyn Payan-Gregory

Evelyn Payan-Gregory Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 17, 2025.


Evelyn Mary "Sister" Payan-Gregory was born on December 9, 1957 to Gloria B. Gonzales and Antonio D. Payan in Ventura, Ca. She was born a twin with Eddie Payan. Evelyn passed away unexpectedly on January 2, 2025 surrounded by love. Evelyn was a lifelong Ventura resident.

She enjoyed sports as a youth into her adult life. She graduated in 1976 from Ventura High School. Evelyn was a loving daughter, sister, mother and grandmother.

She is survived by daughter Trisha Payan (Dwayne) son Jess Lopez Jr., granddaughter Jazmin Kinchlow, siblings Victoria Martinez (Peter) Olivia, Tommy, Berta, Jose (Loraine) and Luis (Brenda) Payan

and brother-in-law Ronnie Barrios, many nieces and nephews and several godchildren.

She was preceded in death by her husband Dan Gregory, her parents Antonio and Gloria, stepmother Maria Payan, sister in law Cyndy Payan, sister Lola Barrios and twin brother Eddie Payan.

Evelyn's memorial mass will be Friday, January 24th at 10 am at the Mission Basilica San Buenaventura.

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February 13, 2025

LYDIA LOVIO posted to the memorial.

February 6, 2025

Marta Payan posted to the memorial.

January 24, 2025

Mindy Gerdes posted to the memorial.

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LYDIA LOVIO

February 13, 2025

I love you and miss you so much Auntie; so many wonderful memories of you. Helping with baby Trisha when she was first born, hanging with you and Uncle Dan and the kids during holidays and thank you so much for all your love and kindness you showed me and my kids. You are truly treasured and missed. Love you Always, please give my dad a big hug for me.

Marta Payan

February 6, 2025

Rest in paradise sister, I'm still in shock. When I was told of your passing my mind went to playing ball for West Park, we had so much fun then you had Bimbos van and we went riding around and we each had a 5th of tequila between our legs, then when you and the kids came to live with me on Leighton Drive before you met & married Dan, or how we would always run into each other at Vons or I would see you walking home from work and ask if you wanted a ride you would say nope I'm going over Trisha to spend time with my granddaughter you loved that lil girl. I'm gonna miss you dearly Cuz but I will see you again that I do know. Much love sister.

Mindy Gerdes

January 24, 2025

I will sure miss you Evelyn. You were always so nice to me . Rest in peace

Jodie Cargnino

January 23, 2025

Rest in peace you were a wonderful woman you will be missed

Debbie Lara

January 22, 2025

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

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February 13, 2025

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