Francis Xavier Toomey

1936 - 2014

Francis Xavier Toomey obituary, 1936-2014

Francis Xavier Toomey

1936 - 2014

Francis Toomey Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 4, 2014.
Francis Xavier Toomey, 78, passed on August 1, 2014 peacefully at home.
Francis (Frank) was born July 14, 1936 in Paterson, New Jersey to Frank and Ursula (Reilley) Toomey. He received a Bachelor's of Science from the University of Nebraska, Omaha and a Masters of Public Administration from Shippensburg College. Frank was a member of Precious Blood Catholic Church and a Planning Commissioner for Culpeper County.
Frank was a retired Colonel from The United States Army, a graduate of the Command and General Staff College at Ft. Leavenworth, KS, and the United States Army War College at Carlisle Barracks, PA. He held multiple commands in his career, and his last duty station was as Commander, Vint Hill Farms Station, Warrenton, VA. Throughout his military career, Frank served with the 18th Airborne Corps (82nd Airborne Division), the 4th Infantry Division, the Army Security Agency and later the Army's Intelligence Security Command. His overseas tours included France, the Dominican Republic, Vietnam, Korea, Japan, and Turkey. Highly decorated throughout his 33 years of service, they include two awards of the Legion of Merit, the Bronze Star, the Senior Parachutist Badge, and five awards of the Meritorious Service Medal. Frank was selected for induction into the Officers Candidate School's Hall of Fame. He and his wife, Louann retired from the Unites States Army in 1988 to Culpeper, Virginia.
Frank was preceded in death by his daughter Maureen, brother Bruce, and parents Frank and Ursula. Survivors include his wife of 55 years, Louann, children Patrick (Donna), Michael, Sharon Spaur (John), Tracey, Terence (Beth); grandchildren Caitlin Flowers (Ben), Kerry Ringling (Rusty), Colin, Conor, Garrett and Brigid; great-granddaughter Adalynne Rose; siblings James (Kathy), Mary (Ed), Bonnie (Jim), Dennis (June), Joseph (Betty), John (Dianne), Margaret, Brian (Eileen).
Viewing services will be held on Tuesday, August 12, 2014, between the hours 5:00-8:00pm at Clore-English Funeral Home. Funeral Mass to be celebrated at Precious Blood Catholic Church on Wednesday, August 13, 2014 at 11:00am. The family will receive friends immediately following the funeral at Precious Blood.
Francis Xavier's final resting place will be at Arlington National Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorial may be made to the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society, 11350 McCormick Road, Hunt Valley, MD 21030; or The St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105. Clore-English has been entrusted with these arrangements.

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March 29, 2015

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Donn and Kathy Treese

March 29, 2015

Mrs. Toomey,
I am just learning about COL Toomey's passing. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. I worked for the COL, then MAJ, at Vint Hill Farms. Newly returned from Vietnam and now with a family, both you and he welcomed us to the post. Kathy still remembers very fondly your grace with her and our newborn daughter. You calmed her fears of being in such a unique environment and so far from home for the first time. Thank you. I was especially blessed to have the honor of then COL Toomey to pin my Warrant Officer bars on in 1985 at Fort Devens. Especially so since that was the end of a journey he and I discussed beginning at Vint Hill. I often thought about him throughout my career. He was a wise and sage man. We miss him dearly.

October 24, 2014

Frank Toomey was a grand man. Those of us who had the privilege of being on his team were blessed by his leadership and mentorship. I have wonderful memories of fishing with him in the Black Canyon of the Gunnison in Colorado. He was a great patriot, a wonderful Father and Husband; he set the example for us in so many ways. After being on Frank's team my career took off due in great part to his mentorship. God Bless The Toomey Family, Love, Col Joe Blair III US Army Retired

Pete Minetree

August 14, 2014

Frank was a good friend and mentor. He will be missed.

Mark Ryan

August 13, 2014

Commander of USASAFS-Korea on my first tour in the army. Pinned my Warrant Bars 9 years later at Ft Devens MA. He was a great mentor and leader.

August 13, 2014

Louann, I'm so sorry for your loss. I loved Ol' "Cotton Top". Pat, Mike, Sharon, Tracey, TJ, Caitlin, Kerry and the entire family; my thoughts and prayers are with everyone during these very difficult times. All of our love from Jim Poole and family (Pam, Tara, Cole)

Robert B. Harvey

August 10, 2014

So sorry to hear of Col. Toomey's passing. He was a great leader and mentor.

Julie Belkin

August 10, 2014

My condolences to everyone in the Toomey family. May he be remembered for the loyal service he gave to his country and the love he gave to his family and friends.

Julie Heller

August 9, 2014

Sending our thoughts and prayers to a very special family. So sorry for your loss.

Leslie Morin

August 8, 2014

So sorry to about your loss. My condolences to the entire Toomey family.

Tuslog Det 4, Sinop Turkey

Angelo Sanchez

August 8, 2014

Sorry to hear about Col Toomey. I served with him at Sinop, Turkey 1981-82. Kept me on my toes especially during sunday mass followed by softball. He will be missed!

Steve and Margie Southard

August 6, 2014

Louann,

Sorry to hear about Frank. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you.

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