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GAIL RYAVE Obituary
Age 73, on Sunday, October 30, 2016, after a valiant fight against glioblastoma. Daughter of the late Celia and Seymour Perlut; beloved wife of the late Arnold H. Ryave; cherished mother of Sharon Ryave Brody (Rose Stophel), and the late David B. Ryave; loving stepmother of Steven and James Ryave; beloved sister of Roni Perlut and soul sister of Zola Munter Pober; loving, devoted, and adoring Bubbie of Daniel, Jacob and Allie Ryave, and Benjamin and Joshua Brody ('My Lovie, 'My Sweetheart, 'My Princess, 'The Angelist of all the Angels in the Whole Gansa Velt, and, 'My Pumpkin,' respectively). Also survived by her many treasured nieces, nephews, cousins and dear friends. Gail was the owner and President of Ralph Schugar Chapel, Inc. She was the heart and soul of our family business for over 30 years when she came to work after losing Arnold, the love of her life suddenly. She was known for her smile that lit up the world, her hugs that consoled us all, her singing voice that filled our lives with music, her powerful presence, and straight-shooter approach. A compassionate yet powerful force to be reckoned with, you always knew where you stood with Gail. She loved us all ferociously and we will miss her forever and honor her for the rest of our days. Special thank you to Dr. Engh and Dr. Stone for giving us more time, a gift of which we will be forever grateful, to the entire staff at Shadyside Hospital and Charles Morris Nursing Center, and all the compassionate caregivers we were so blessed to have. Services at RALPH SCHUGAR CHAPEL, INC., 5509 Centre Avenue, Shadyside on Tuesday, November 1, 2016, at 11 a.m. Visitation one and one half hours prior to services (9:30 a.m. - 11:00 a.m.). Interment Beth Shalom Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, contributions in Gail's memory may be made to the Jewish Association On Aging, 200 JHF Drive, Pittsburgh, PA 15217, the University of Pittsburgh Cancer Institute, (please make checks payable to "UPCI"), c/o UPMC Cancer Pavilion, Suite 1B, 5150 Centre Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA 15232 or the National Council of Jewish Women, 1620 Murray Avenue, Pittsburgh, 15217. www.schugar.com.
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Ina Landy
August 22, 2017
Dear Sharon and family,
Our Deepest Sympathy to you and your family.
Sincerely,
Ina & Joe Landy
Phyllis Kimel
November 3, 2016
Dear Sharon and the Ryave family... I am at a loss of words after learining about your sweet beautiful mother. She was an amazing comfort to me personally at my times of loss and always had the kindest of things to say to me... I will miss her so very much and hope that you find comfort... please accept my deepest sympathies...
November 2, 2016
Our deepest condolence to Sharon and all the RYAVE family....you are in our thoughts and prayers. May all your cherished memories bring you peace and comfort in the days ahead.
Kathy and Stan Slutsky
Lisa Schiltz
November 2, 2016
My deepest sympathies to Sharon and the Ryave family. I've known Gail since I was in grade school at Colfax and am so sad to hear about her loss. She comforted so many (including my family) during their time of need and she will be missed.
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Jeff Pittler
November 1, 2016
My deepest condolences to the Ryave Family.
I have known Gail and her whole family for many years. She'll be sadly missed by the entire community.
Suzie Soltz
November 1, 2016
To the Entire Family of Gail Ryave.
I just heard of her passing from a Pgh. friend. How sorry I am for your loss. I did not know Gail very well at all, but Arnold and his parents were a part of my life growing up in Pgh. May there be many happy memories you can call upon to sustain you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all....too many losses.
Suzie Ryave Soltz and Family
November 1, 2016
I am so very sad. I did not learn time of funeral till just now. Gail was my amazing supporter through the deaths of my Mom and Dad. My parents were close friends of Gail's parents and also her husband Arnie Ryave. I was friends with her sister Roni. I can not believe I will never again see her smiling face and will never have another special Gail hug. Love, Roz and Sandy Neiman
November 1, 2016
my thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Gail was a dear friend for many years and will certainly be missed!
Samantha Chilton
November 1, 2016
My sincerest condolences on the loss of your beloved mother. Both of you were always so helpful to me when I worked at the Holocaust Center. May her memory be forever a blessing.
Samantha Chilton
Bernice and Ira Katz
November 1, 2016
Dear Sharon and Family,
Please accept our deepest sympathies
on the loss of your dear mother.
My mother and I are deeply saddened
by your loss and cried today.
Gail was a pillar and a role model in the
community for all of us.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you
in your time of grief.
May all of your wonderful memories
bring you great comfort.
Please do not hesitate to call me
for anything at anytime.
"Baruch Dayan Emet"
Marvin Chosky
November 1, 2016
My sincerest condolences to the Ryave family. Although I didn't know her, my sister, Carol Chosky was a friend of hers. She took very good care of our family on the passing of my father, sister, and niece.
RIP
Susan Booth
November 1, 2016
Very saddened to hear of Gail's passing. Her obituary completely captures her presence and heartfelt support which she offered unconditionally when we prepared to say good bye to my beloved Sam Dad (Sam Spatter). Although a trip to the funeral home is a sad occasion, Gail embraced all of us and made us feel part of something bigger....words cannot truly convey the way she embraced us all and helped us through the process. The Jewish Community has lost a great person with Gail's passing. My heart is with you, Sharon and all of her Family, and to all the wonderful staff at Shugars.
Baruch dayan emet - may her memory be as a blessing.
Randi Brand
November 1, 2016
Sharon, my deepest sympathies for your loss. Now your mother will be at peace with David.
Brian Cohen
November 1, 2016
Sharon, Rose & Family; I was shocked and greatly saddened to hear of your mothers passing. She was a second Mom to me too. Please accept my condolences and do not hesitate to reach out if there is anything I can do.
Isabel Alcoff
November 1, 2016
I send my condolences to Gail's family and to the Pittsburgh Jewish community who will miss her. Gail was the shoulder we all cried on at our time of loss. She was caring and kind and sincere when we needed it most....decades of support to so many families will not be forgotten. Taken from us too soon...
Randy Toomey
November 1, 2016
Ryave family,
I am saddened by your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Rest In Peace.
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