Gary L. Phelps

Gary L. Phelps obituary, Delafield, WI

Gary L. Phelps

Gary Phelps Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Apr. 5, 2024.
Age 58, passed away on Tuesday, April 2, 2024, at his home in Delafield after a short battle with terminal cancer. He was born on April 30, 1965, in Stoughton to Elvera and Alden Phelps. Gary is survived by his mother, Elvera E. Phelps, his brother, Brian A. Phelps, his two children, Emma C. Phelps and Michael A. Phelps (who he raised with Suzanne K. Phelps), and his wife, Deborah Phelps. He is preceded in death by his father, Alden O. Phelps.

Gary graduated from Stoughton High School in 1983 and entered the United States Marine Corps. He completed his recruitment training at the recruit depot in San Diego, California, before he was stationed at the Marine Corps Air Station in Kaneohe Bay, Hawaii from 1983 to 1987. He worked in supply and achieved the rank of Corporal E-4 within the Brigade Service Support Group 1, 1st Marine Amphibious Brigade (BSSG-1 1st MAB). He later received his associate's degree in printing and publishing from Madison Area Technical College in 1991. He was a purchasing and materials manager for over 24 years, and was most recently employed with Walter Tools.

Gary enjoyed golfing, bowling, playing card games, going out on boats, watching Packer games, and drinking with all of his friends (especially at Curly's). He talked to everyone he came across, would always offer a helping hand to anyone who needed it, and created many unbreakable bonds. Before his passing, Gary and Debbie were married while surrounded by their closest family and friends. Gary, Emma, and Michael are excited to welcome Debbie and her two children, Amanda Solaris and Chris Schuman, to the family. He will be missed by his family and many others, and he will be remembered forever.

A funeral and celebration of life service will be held on Saturday, April 13th at 2:00pm at First Congregational United Church of Christ in Hartland, with Pastor Jim Langreder officiating. Visitation will start at 11am.

In lieu of flowers, please write a memory that you have of Gary in a card or online on the obituary website for his family to remember his life with.

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Doug MacKenzie

April 11, 2024

I remember Gary as a student of mine in the Graphic Arts classes at Stoughton High School. He was a very good student and had many friends in class. I was happy that had pursued a career in the printing field.

Dan Flanik

April 9, 2024

Gary was a very honest and caring person. Working with Gary over the years has been an absolute pleasure and he will be truly missed. - Dan Flanik Sr. and Family

Annabel Carpenter

April 8, 2024

We had fun being choir buddies. I'll miss his kindness and teasing manor.

Bruce Sobczak

April 6, 2024

So sorry to hear about the passing of Gary. I wish peace and solice to those left behind. Raisin' one for you my friend.....and God Speed.

Rick wischer

April 5, 2024

In loving memory of a wonderful person and friend. We will love you and miss you always.

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