Gregory Alan Wilkes

Gregory Alan Wilkes obituary, Lakeland, FL

Gregory Alan Wilkes

Gregory Wilkes Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 26, 2023.
Gregory Wilkes, 40, loving husband, father, son and friend of Lakeland, Florida formerly of Waterbury/Southington, CT, passed away on Saturday October 7, 2023 at home surrounded by family after a short battle of cancer. He had 9 months from the time he found out to the time he left this earth and he fought until the end. He is survived by his wife, Kara (Beharry), his 4 children Dakota, Miley, Jordan and Dominic, his parents John and Teresa (Shrack) Wilkes and his sister Amanda Wilkes. He is also survived by his mother and father-in-law Lori Luponio and Robert Mabe, as well as 2 brother-in-laws, 4 sister-in-laws and many neices and a nephew that loved Uncle Greg/Greggo a lot.

Born in Danbury, CT, he was well known and liked by those who met him and he always went out of his way to help those in need. His family was his life and he was our rock. The strong one who could handle anything that came our way. He was also referred to as Mr. Mom as he was the the one who mainly did doctors visits, grocery shopped and cooked. He loved the NY Yankees and Dallas Cowboys, watching movies and going new places. He had hopes of going on a cruise, one thing we never got to accomplish. He did, however, manage to accomplish so many great things as a father. From potty training all of the children, teaching them to dance like no one was watching, teaching Dakota amazing work ethics and how to drive and to never stop being a big kid. Our girls love to cook and our boys love of sports are each a piece of him that will live on and I thank him for that. A memorial service was held Saturday, 10/21/23 at Hollis Gardens where he was married.

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December 18, 2024

Dakota Wilkes posted to the memorial.

October 20, 2024

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May 24, 2024

Kara Beharry posted to the memorial.

Dakota Wilkes

December 18, 2024

Going through this Christmas again without you. I could have never imagined it. I still feel your presence at times and I can´t thank god enough that you are watching over us. You made me into who I am today. I love you dad. Till we meet again

Dakota Wilkes

October 20, 2024

One thing we did together that I enjoyed was cooking with him! I always loved cooking. He was the reason I know how to cook. And I can´t thank him enough for that

Kara Beharry

May 24, 2024

I will never forget walking into Quality Doors in Rocky Hill, CT looking for a job, and Greg doing a double take as he walked out the door with the person he was working with that day. That was the beginning of us because he emailed me one month into our relationship (yes I still have the email) that he was going to marry me and be with me for the rest of his life. He made sure of it.

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Kara, Kota, Miley, Dom, Jordan

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Missy Holley

October 29, 2023

He was at my son Michael's house , that's where I met Greg. What an Awesome Soul.

Emily

October 27, 2023

My uncle Greg was an amazing man, a second father to my sisters and I. Someone we could look to for laughter and advice. A person who´s silliness could spread across the world. As he never got to meet his great niece, to my favorite uncle, and my daughters great uncle, we love you Grego , we miss you and cherish you close to our hearts forever

Kara L Beharry

October 27, 2023

Kara L Beharry

October 27, 2023

Kara L Beharry

October 27, 2023

We will forever be thankful to have had you as ours but sad we could not keep you longer Greg. He didn't have many close relationships but his kids and I and his friends were what he cherished in life. My sympathy goes out to all of those who knew and loved him because I know we are not the only ones mourning him. I hope I can do half as good as Greg at life. He had it all figured out. For him, for our kids, for us. I have empty spaces I'm trying to fill in now. He was the most sweetest person. Romantic, loving and protective and I wish I appreciated it all more while he was here. I know I can't change anything but I can make myself better for him and our children. He was amazing and if you had the chance to know him, share your memories with his children. I know I couldn't have been blessed with a better father for them than him.

Lorraine Stimpson

October 27, 2023

Dear family I am so very sorry for the loss of your husband, daddy, friend he is such a wonderful man and the best daddy ever. My Grandchildren loved him as though he was their daddy as well I hope you find comfort in all the memories I know you have and know daddy, husband is always with you!! I´m certain heaven is rocking right now with his beautiful light...The Rodriguez Family and MiMi rest in peace GREGO

Dakota wilkes

October 26, 2023

He was the best father. He tried his best to make everybody happy around him. He will always be known for that. I always loved him

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