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Dr. Timothy Barcomb
August 28, 2024
I often think about Dr. Aiges. He was a mentor of mine in medical school and I worked one on one with him for about 12 weeks in medical school at NUMC. He is still a doctor I reference often when teaching medical students or residents. I confess I still use many "Harveyisms" to this day with patients or colleagues (and shamelessly present them as my own :). His passion for teaching and medicine was contagious. He had an absolute fire in his belly for what he did. As a fellow sports nut, He gave me Mets tickets one night when I was a broke medical student to get to see Barry Bonds and that meant the absolute world to me. He was one of a kind. I wanted to share this with Dr. Aiges' family and let them know that even well over a decade after his passing his spirit still lives on in me.
Ellen
November 27, 2023
In 1975 I was a young mother, far from home and family, an Army wife living in central Texas. Benjamin Spock's book was my Bible, but was useless when my infant son was losing weight, wasting away. Doctors scratched their heads in concern but had no solutions. Until Dr Aiges. Dr Aiges brought to Nevin's case intellectual curiosity that drove him to hours of research, coupled with compassion and caring that encouraged me and gave me strength. Thanks to a young army doctor, Harvey Aiges, Nevin survived the crisis and today that former "failure to thrive" patient is the father of my three grandchildren, one of whom recently started college with the goal of medical school.
When I found this heartbreaking obituary my husband asked, "How did you even remember that doctor's name from 50 years ago?" My obvious answer: "Some names - some people -you never forget." RIP, good doctor.
Steve Weisman
July 14, 2021
I recently learned of Harvey´s demise unfortunately so many years ago. We were neighbors on Remsen Ave in Bklyn and were best of friends throughout elementary school. In the fourth or fifth grade while I could hardly tie my shoes Harvey was reading and digesting and questioning the writers in the NY Times. He was so brilliant but never even acknowledged the gifted a mind he possessed. His passion for sports and determination to be a good ball player were admired by all the guys in PS 233. Of course when I was struggling with Geometry and although we had drifted apart in High School ( he made the SP I didn´t ) Harvey was right there to tutor me. More important he told me how bright I was and that compliment coming from him reinforced my belief in my self. No matter how many years went my and people from the neighborhood who I came in contact with everyone always said of Harvey that not only was he the smartest guy in she neighborhood he was also the nicest guy. I know Harvey was born on Jan 13th as I was born on Jan 14th. I am not surprised to read of the lives he saved. I have always been so proud of him and I am proud that I most likely was his first best friend.I am also quite certain he has been in Heaven for these past thirteen (13 ) years keeping every soul healthy, happy and reassured. Continue to RIP my very gifted and caring friend.
Eileen Pollis
March 8, 2019
Dr. Aiges
You were the only person who knew what was wrong with my son. Because of your intuition and love of your work my son is alive today. I thanked you then and will always remember you and what you did for my son.
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Thomas Abrahamsen
January 24, 2014
My wife and I were Harvey's neighbors (we lived in the apartment right next door) at Fort Hood when he first came out of his residency and they made him a Major in the Army Medical Corp. I was responsible for showing him how to put his uniform together, and I loved helping him with the "Army stuff" he had to put up with. He was a genuinely gentle,kind earthed, very bright, and likable, person. We shared some fun times in Texas. It saddens my wife and I that he gone, but we both remember him well.
June 11, 2013
Is this the Dr. Aiges that was working at Fort Hood in the 1976-77 timeframe?
Janiece Sinkler
June 25, 2012
I love you, Doctor Aiges. I'm so sorry I didn't get to thank you in person for saving my life.
Niecey
Janiece Sinkler
June 25, 2012
I love you, Doctor Aiges. I'm so sorry I didn't get to thank you in person for saving my life.
Niecey
rafael acra
June 22, 2010
Dear Aiges family,Dr Aiges was an exceptional teacher, advisor and friend. I was part of his pediatric residents from 94 until 97 at NSUH ,my deepest condolences. Rafael Acra
Shefali Chaudhry (now Saini)
March 10, 2010
Dear Mrs. Aiges,
My apologies for being so late, but I just found out about Dr. Aiges' passing on today. I was a Pediatric resident in Dr. Aiges' residency program at North Shore Univ. Hospital from 1998-2000. He was not only my Residency Director but also my life-long mentor, role model, and wonderful dear friend!! I can never forget his many exceptional teachings both professionally and personally to us all, his humanitarian achievements and great sense of humor!! I have never known anyone as intelligent, cutting edge for our field of Pediatrics (esp. for Pediatric Crohn's Disease and Ulcerative Colitis), naturally gifted and dedicated to teaching medical students and residents, large-hearted, generous, and witty as Dr. Aiges. He is forever imprinted in my heart and mind and his legacy will always live on through you, your family, and the accomplishments of all of his many students (me very much included). If we can all be even 1 small fraction of the great human being Dr. Aiges has been, then we will all feel very lucky in life. God bless his soul and your wonderful family always.
Sincerely,
Dr. Aiges' student, friend, and fan forever,
Shefali Chaudhry (now Saini)
edward gettler
September 11, 2009
Dear Judy,
It has been many years since Madison, but i recently found out that you lost your husband. Ironically, my daughter-in law's father, Bob Farkas served on synogogue committees with him and told me what a wonderful person he was.
When i saw this site, i wanted to express my condolences.
sincerely,
Edward Gettler
Jeff Bandes
December 14, 2008
Dear Aiges Family,
I was very saddened to learn of his passing. As a former patient, I can recall many humorous moments while under his care from 1980-1985. He had an uncanny ability to get down to a teenager's level without being condescending. He was more than a medical degree in a white coat.
The following example of his humor must go back about 25 years ago but is ageless. The Reach Out For Youth With IBD group had a fundraising luncheon which consisted of some speeches, raffle giveaways and a runway fashion show. Drs. Daum, Markowitz and himself were all sitting at the same table. Needless to say the models were something to look at, especially the last one who came out with, a rather sheer top. After the event was over Dr. Aiges came up to me and said, "That was some fashion show, huh?". I said, "Yes, the models weren't bad either". He said, "Oh we know, we (the table of doctors) kept looking at your face as a guide to see who the best looking models were". I wonder how many shades of red I turned being a teen and knowing what the last model was, or wasn't, wearing.
Although I was under his care for about 5 years, I can remember the perpetual smile and more funny incidences that I had, and probably ever will, than with any other physician.
Please know that you're in my thoughts.
Gary Starr
December 10, 2008
I just learned about the passing of a great man. I met Dr Aiges when I was a young boy over 20 years ago. I think about him often, I feel that he saved my life. I owe a lot to him and he will be missed. My deep condolences to his family.
Debbie Hecht
November 17, 2008
I apologize for being late in expressing my sympathy for your loss. I had met Dr. Aiges through my brother and sister-in-law, Alan and Cindy Bergman, who had suggested that I speak with him about some projects that I had been working on. I had developed two health and symptom diaries, and Dr. Aiges was kind enough to review them for their medical accuracy and comprehensiveness. He provided me with a number of valuable suggestions and his feedback and input were truly appreciated. In my few meetings with him, it was quite obvious that he was a kind and caring man with a heart of gold.
Peter Everett
July 17, 2008
I was saddened to find out just yesterday about Harvey and would like to send my deepest condolences to his family. As a medical student in his North Shore pediatric rotation I only had a short time with him as a teacher, but it was inspiring and memorable. It is clear just from this guest book just how far and wide his inspiration has reached, and as a practicing pediatrician now, I hope that I can pass along a portion of his enthusiasm and kindness to my own students.
David Simai
July 6, 2008
My deep condolences to the entire family on the untimely passing of such a great man.
I was lucky to have known Dr Aiges as a medical student at NSUH. He once told me he liked the Shommer Shabbos residency program because he felt he was doing a mitzvah. He was very spiritual in his conversations with me and always very cheerful, personal and supportive. That just was the type of a person he was. "A true Yiddshe Neshuma" (Jewish Soul). He had a large picture of teh Western wall at his office and some religious articles by his desk. I am sure that he is resting in heaven now. May his family always see happiness and may he pray for true peace in the world and an end to all sickness.
Kathleen Nelson
June 20, 2008
Dear Aiges Family:
I was a medical school classmate of Harvey's at New York Medical College and I am a fellow academic pediatrician. We would re-connect at our Pediatric meetings but I did not see him this year in Hawaii and just now heard of his death. I am so sorry to hear of this and know that this loss is a great one for all of us who value the best in Pediatric education and care. He clearly was beloved by his patients, his students, residents and colleagues. Their descriptions of his warmth, humor and unforgettable personal qualities have shown how much he mentored and modelled the very best. I share your grief and hope you will accept my sincere condolences.
Mary David
June 17, 2008
Dear Judy and Laura,
I just heard about Harvey. Harvey is a very special human being who truly understood the meaning of life, a giver and a very compassionate person. Working with him is always one of my best memories and his words of inspiration and encouragement always stay with me. I always thought he cured his patients just by that laugh and caring personality. He is missed greatly but will always be around...Judy, Laura you are always in my prayers.
Gerry Bernard-Sheridan
June 16, 2008
Dear Judy & Laura,
My daughter Suzanne Bernard was a patient of Harvey's at NSUH. Sadly she passed away at the age of 14. Harvey was my sanity and my rock during that very difficult time. She called him "Alan Alda" and said she loved him ...as we all did.
What a loss for humanity.
Bill Haddock
April 28, 2008
It is with great sadness that I learned that Harvey passed away. My friend Greg Gulbransen emailed me to let me know.
I echo the many thoughts that have been included in this guest book especially the one person who felt that he was the luckiest person alive when he was accepted into the NSUH program. Harvey also addressed me as professor and had a way of conveying respect and love to his residents that shaped my adulthood and professional life. His support and concern for his residents made North Shore a special place for me, and this experience came at the perfect time for me. He left the world too soon, and I am grateful for the limited time that I was able to share with him.
Godspeed,
Bill Haddock
North Shore Resident 1997-1999
Milo Vassallo
April 13, 2008
Dr. Aiges helped guide me while I was a medical student to my current path of Pediatrics and Allergy and Immunology. It was his humility and irrepressible joy for the practice of Pediatrics that inspired me and I will never forget. When considering a differential diagnosis for emesis never forget "...the squash" (the head/brain). I still giggle and perpetuate this phrase in my best imitation of his voice to people I am now in the position of training. My sympathies for your loss and to those who never had the fortune to know him.
David Levine
April 3, 2008
I just found out today that Harvey had passed. I was a medical student at NYU and did my peds rotation at North Shore. Harvey was my mentor and helped guide me through the match and into residency. He always did things with great humor and will be missed. I pretty much owe him my career. If he showed me one thing more than any other, it was that you can have fun and be a great doctor. He would never have people be morose around him. All my best to his family.
Karen Helling-Caporale
March 16, 2008
Today is the first I heard of this sad news. I want to send my heartfelt condolences to "Dr. Harvey's" family and all those who loved him. I was one of many patients who have had their lives and health enriched by this very special Doctor. Presently, I am 46 years old, and a decade or so has past since I have spoken to him. Despite that, I can still hear his contagious laughter and will always remember the smiles he brought to all of us under his care.
February 29, 2008
me and daddy
February 29, 2008
Paul Baron
February 29, 2008
Going to Dr. Aiges for an appointment was always a treat. He would always greet me with a cheery "Hello Professor." I had been a patient of his for the past 14 years. It was only when I was looking to schedule an appointment with him that I learned of his passing. To say I am in shock is an understatement. Dr. Aiges gave me my life back. I am forever grateful to him for this. The medical community has lost one of the finest doctors. Dr. Aiges you were the true "Professor." Thank you for everything. I will never forget you and all that you did for me.
Nina (Zarudsky) Arlievsky, MD
February 28, 2008
To Harvey's family:
I was a resident under Harvey's watchful eye in 1989-92. I can honestly say that I enjoyed residency, that it was a GOOD experience (contrary to what most people would say about their residencies), and I attribute this in a large part to Harvey and his attitude towards teaching, residency and life. My deepest condolences to all of you.
Louella Miranda
February 28, 2008
Dear Judy and Laura
My heartfelt sympathy and prayers are with you.Harvey was a special person in my life and after working with you Judy, the two of you will always be in my thoughts as a wonderful, caring professional couple who did a lot of good for North Shore Pediatrics.May you find strength in knowing that Harvey is watching over us always
Denise Mancilla
February 20, 2008
Dear Laura and Judy or as i always called you "my Juds,"
I am so deeply sorry for your loss, Harvey or as i always called him Harv, was an amazing person, always smiling and putting a smile on my face. I could not fathom to believe that he passed but all i can do now is think that hes in a better place. Harv was a loving father and husband and that showed everytime i was around, going to montauk with you guys was a blast and a constant memory on my mind, never was there a time i wasnt laughing or smiling because he was such a funny person and always making the moments about fun and laughter. i will miss him dearly and can only send you all my love at this time. Juds and Laura i love youu and send you my condolences! Harv watch over me up there and when i think of you, i will always remember to smile! Rest In Peace for you will be missed.
love always,
Denise
Kelly Gilles
February 19, 2008
Dearest Stephanie, Judy, Laura, and Esther,
I am overwhelmed by the immensity of your loss of a brother, husband, daughter, and son. My heart breaks for you, and my thoughts and prayers are with you daily. I love you.
-Kelly
Bobbie Stern
February 19, 2008
Dear Judy and Laura,
We were so sorry to hear of Harvey's death. It's so hard to believe...he was so alive and vibrant. You both have wonderful memories of a loving husband and father, enough to last forever. Know that Robin and I are thinking of you both and our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Risa Gorelick
February 17, 2008
I just learned of this sad news today, and I was immediately transported back in time to the early 1990s when I was a resident at North Shore. Harvey was such a kind man; a real father figure for all of us. We learned so much from him, but more important than the medical information he passed along, was seeing his committment to treating patients (and his residents) with compassion and a great sense of humor. I began my residency with a one year old daughter, and Harvey was my biggest supporter. I look back on that time of my life very fondly ( which is not how most doctors recall their residencies) and Harvey was a big part of the reason. Please accept my most sincere condolences.
Risa Gorelick MD
NSUH 1990-1993
sandra fefer_sadler
February 17, 2008
Dear Judy, Yesterday I learned about Harvey's death and, still I can't believe what I heard! I just wanted to tell you that your husband was such an important person in my life, not only as a teacher and mentor in pediatrics, but also in other aspects, I knew that I could always count on Harvey to be there for whatever I needed. His door was always open either for a medical issue or just for an informal chat. He represents such an important stage of my life! Having just arrived to the US, he gave me the great opportunity of doing my residency training at NSUH, and it is also thanks to him that I joined the practice were I am today. You can't imagine how many times Harvey's name comes up in a conversation with my associate, also an ex NSUH resident. He will always be in my memory and I will really miss him. With deepest sympathy,
Sandra Fefer-Sadler
NSUH resident 94-97
Edwin Zalneraitis
February 17, 2008
February 17, 2008
I remember Harvey for all of his fine work as a Pediatric Residency Program Director. He was a pioneer in starting the New York area regional group. He served on the Board of the APPD, and he contributed to many of our educational sessions at APPD. He was always both thoughtful and witty. He was appreciated and respected by all of us who worked with him. He will be missed.
Neil Bellovin
February 16, 2008
I was deeply saddened to learn of Harvey's untimely passing. I was a resident in the early 80's and Harvey was both a great mentor and friend to all of us. His legacy will live on as we teach younger doctors what Harvey taught us. He will never be forgotten.
Rob McGregor
February 15, 2008
Dear Aiges Family-
Harvey has been a great mentor and friend as I have grown up in my role as a residency director and we were all deeply saddened by his untimely death. As President of the APPD, I can speak for all of us to say thank you for sharing him with us. He contributed greatly to our organization and to many of us personally. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Lynn Duffy
February 14, 2008
Dear Judy and Laura,
I was deeply saddened to hear about Harvey's passing. I find it hard to say the words even now. As my mentor but my more importantly my friend I will be forever grateful to him. He was an inspiration and the reason I became a gastroenetrologist. He had compassion and the best sense of humor. It is a great loss and I will miss him.
Theodore Sectish
February 14, 2008
Dear Aiges Family,
I knew Harvey professionally through APPD, but his personal qualities are what I will remember most of all. He was gregarious, outspoken, funny, and a straight-shooter. I will keep those memories forever. You should know how much he was respected and adored by colleagues.
With deepest sympathy,
Ted Sectish
Graduation 2003 at North Shore : I am not sure if he was laughing with me or at me....
February 14, 2008
Rounds at North Shore : "Shouldn't you be taking care of a patient instead of taking a picture?"
February 14, 2008
2000-2002 North Shore : Typical "affection" for Harvey (note the subte smirk on his face)
February 14, 2008
Marci Greenberg
February 12, 2008
Dear Judy and Laura,
I didn't realize what a giant Harv was in the medical field. I just knew him as a great guy, full of life, whom we loved spending every Visiting Day with for the past 10 years at Ramah -- and who happened to be a pediatrican.
I also knew him as Jordi's best friend's Dad -- who was like a dad to her as well -- and who comforted me when Jake was diagnosed with Hodgkin's Lymphoma. He was right -- it would be a difficult road ahead of us, but would turn out okay.
We will miss him terribly. But, know that we are always there for the two of you.
All our love,
Marci, Mark, Jordi and Jake
Evonne Kaplan-Liss
February 12, 2008
Dear Aiges Family:
I was shocked and saddened to hear of Harvey's passing. I was fortunate to have learned from the best during my pediatric residency program at North Shore (1997-2000). I never planned on doing my residency on Long Island, but after meeting Harvey, there was no doubt that his residency program was the place for me. Harvey made this connection with everyone he met and brought out the best in each of his residents. My thoughts are with his wife and daughter and everyone that had the pleasure of knowing him at this very difficult time.
Peggy Barbanel
February 11, 2008
To the Aiges and Rubin families:
It was with shock and sadness that I learned of Harvey's untimely passing. While I often think of the early, carefree days we all spent at Schneiders, I also recall with gratitude that Harvey always found the time to see Sari when I was in panic mode over a medical question. Harvey always smiled - and never made me feel foolish for driving 2 hours to show him a bump...Harvey was a beautiful man and his death is a terrible loss to his wonderful family. Margie also wants me to extend her deepest sympathy - she remembers Harvey fondly as her friend and co-counselor to twelve, 5 year olds at Schneiders and also as her travel partner when they rode the bus together to Brooklyn College. He will be missed - our thoughts are with you...
Peggy Barbanel and Margie (Barbanel) Tobin, NY and Florida
Marie Palazzo
February 11, 2008
Dear Aiges Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I was privileged to work with Dr. Aiges as one of the residents at Schneider Children's Hospital. I learned a great deal from him. No matter how difficult residency was, he always put smiles on the faces of the residents he worked with. We will all miss him.
Elliot Stieglitz
February 10, 2008
Dear Aiges family,
On my first clinical rotation as a medical student I had the privilege of working with Dr. Aiges. Those two months will forever change my life as that experience led me to choose pediatrics as my specialty, whereas I had never even considered it before as a possibility. Dr. Aiges was not just my teacher but more of a role model in how to lead my life both in and out of the hospital. Despite being one of thousands of students that Dr. Aiges taught in his life, I felt a tremendous connection to the man I considered my mentor but was never sure if he understood how much I appreciated his tutelage. While interviewing for a residency spot these past few months, several interviewers took the time to mention how laudatory Dr. Aiges' letter of recommendation was, and how unusually specific he was in the way he described my character. I am forever indebted to Dr. Aiges for the knowledge he shared as well as the personalized attention he offered me despite his hectic schedule. I am shocked and saddened by his loss but hope each of these little tributes on this page remind you of how many lives he touched during his time with us.
Lauren Brunn
February 9, 2008
There are really no words to express how much Harvey meant to me, and how much I will miss him. He was an amazing teacher, mentor, and friend. He taught his residents so much, always making it a fun and enjoyable experience. So much of what I tell patients on a daily basis came from what Harvey taught me. He will continue to live on in all whose lives were touched by him.
Sam Berger
February 9, 2008
I am deeply saddened by the passing of such a fine , compassionate and learned pediatrician that was Harvey Aiges. Harvey was one of my chief residents at Jacobi in the early 70's. I learned much about taking care of kids from Harvey. Even in the most difficult of times, Harvey always maintained a sense of humor and and compassion for both the patients and his residents. The world is a much diminished place without him. My sincere condolences.
Shari R Rosenthal
February 8, 2008
Believe it or not, I didn't even know Harvey was a doctor (let alone a pediatrician of his stature) until a few years after I met him. This speaks of his humility.
We attended many meetings (Board, Executive Board, Ritual) at Temple Beth Israel together. His insights and guidance were always sought out. This speaks to his spirituality and leadership qualities.
He brightened up every room he walked into. This speaks to his larger than life personality.
He will be missed on many levels as we endeavor to carry on his many great works.
Stuart Morrison
February 8, 2008
Dear Judy,
Gayle and I are deeply saddened by your great loss. We want to extend our condolences to you, Laura and the family.
Thank you for welcoming our sons into your warm home for the holidays.
Love,
Gayle and Stuart Morrison
Judy Marcus
February 8, 2008
Harvey was one of seventeen in our internship/residency group at Jacobi "in the days of the giants." His combination of hard work and constant sense of humor kept us all going. It was no surprise that he was first pick for chief resident from our group. We will all miss him.
William Bungarz
February 7, 2008
Dear Judy and Laura,
It is with such sadness that Bev and I send our condolences on Harvey's passing. Harvey was a very special person in my life. He was a mentor, teacher and friend. Taking me as a January resident, I thought I was the luckiest person in the world. He was always there for me and I have never felt as good as when he asked me to be chief resident. I will never forget being there when Laura was born. She was so beautiful. I am now teaching pediatrics in a Family Practice Residency Program and have just become Medical Director of my division. I can't help but think that Harvey is with me everyday, making sure I am doing the best I can to insure the residents become the best they can be, just as he did for us.
Our deepest sympathies.
Love Bev and Bill Bungarz
Resident and Chief Resident NSUH 1984-1987
Bill Bungarz
February 7, 2008
Dear Judy and Laura,
It is with such a deep sense of sadness that Bev and I send our condolences on Harvey's passing. Harvey was a very special person in my life. A mentor, teacher and friend. Taking me as a January resident, in 1984, I thought I was luckiest person in the world. He was always there for me and I have never felt as good as when he asked me to be chief resident. I will never forget being there when Laura was born. She was so beautiful. I am now teaching pediatrics in a Family Practice Residency Program and have just become Medical Director of my division. I can't help but think that Harvey is there with me everyday, making certain that I am doing the best I can, to make sure that the residents become the best they can be, just as he did for us.
Our deepest sympathies,
Love,
Bev and Bill Bungarz
Resident and Chief Resident 1984-1987
Barbara & Sid Hausen
February 7, 2008
Dear Judy and Laura,
We were devastated to hear of Harvey's demise.
Our daughter, Jodi was his patient when she was 16 years old and she is now 47. Although it has been many years since she has seen him in person, she, as well as we, still always felt he was there for her. As a matter of fact, through all the years, she has been in contact with him when she had a problem or question by phone or even recently by email.
There is and was no one like him. The uniqueness of his warm and caring personality cannot be replaced.
We hope that time and the fact that so many people loved and respected him will help ease your pain and grief.
Fondly,
Gloria and George Urias
February 7, 2008
Dear Judy, Laura and the Aiges Family,
Our family is so sorry for your lost. Just reading over the pass entries in this guest book made us wipe tears from our eyes for the passing of one so well-liked. Harvey was not only a terrific doctor, but a sweet human being, a good father, brother, son and a wonderful husband. Members of the Moel family will miss him.
Love,
Mark Stavitsky
February 6, 2008
My condolences to the family of Harvey...He was the symbol of the North Shore Pediatric Family...He was so involved in all aspects of the training program and guided all with his unique approach to learning..He was a phenomenal teacher to all and did so in a gentle and humorous fashion..He was my mentor and I will never forget him...I have taken his knowledge and gentleness with me in my private practice in Florida...All of your former students will surely miss you
Mark Stavitsky,MD
NSUH Resident 2000-2003
Alicia Salland
February 6, 2008
Dear Judy,
Dr. Kathleen Tierney Oconnor called me last night with the news of Harvey. I was deeply saddened beyond words and all I could think about was the first time I met him. All set to go to LIJ at the time, five seconds with Harvey changed my mind and I knew this was the man I wanted to work for. If you looked up in the dictionary the perfect program director it would be Harvey. Besides being a phenomenal clinician he was a remarkable human being that just by being him changed so many lives. His door was always open whether you had a medical question or a personal crisis. You could always count on Harvey to be there. Years later I went back to visit north shore and Harvey as I had a professional concern and more than anyone else I trusted his wisdom and advice. To me he represents the embodiment of North Shore hospital and all of the residents past and future who have passed through there. He was larger than life and will surely be missed by all. With deepest sympathy,
Alicia Salland
NSUH resident 93-96
Shana Gros
February 6, 2008
Harvey was the most fantastic teacher that I was ever privileged to have! I am very saddened by his loss and hope you are comforted by the fact that he helped treat so many patients, molded residents into fantastic teachers and was a friend to all who knew him. During our residency interviews for North Shore he was more like a therapist than a program director. He made us all feel comfortable and feel as though we all had a father looking out for us.
Rochelle Zalstein
February 6, 2008
To the Aiges and Rubin Families:
I was so shocked and saddened to hear about the passing of Harvey. My fondest memories meeting Harvey doing fund raising for the American Cancer society. He accomplished so much in his lifetime. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Jim Pollowitz
February 6, 2008
It saddened me to hear about Harvey's untimley death. Harvey was my chief resident at Jacobi in the seventies (when a was a Peds resident)and he was a special person. My deepest sympathies on your loss.
February 6, 2008
Laura Aiges
February 6, 2008
I will always have fond memories of my father who gave me an amazing 21 years of life with him. He was an amazing father who gave me everything i could ever want, most of all his love and compassion. I will deeply miss you daddy.
Love Always,
Sch-Laura
Harriet Boxer
February 6, 2008
Dear Judy and Laura,
I cannot put into works how much Harvey's passing has hit me and my family. My deepest condolences to you and Laura. Harvey reminded me so much of Bob that I almost feel as if I lost Bob again.
love,
Harriet
Ken & Janis Schachter
February 6, 2008
We are stunned and saddened by Harvey's passing. Harvey was a remarkable presence at our synagogue, Temple Beth Israel. His good nature and wisdom were beacons for all congregants. He will be sorely missed.
Samantha Henderson
February 6, 2008
Dear Judy, Laura and family:
I was deeply saddened by the untimely passing of Dr Aiges. I had the pleasure of working with him these last two years and I will miss him a lot. He was such an extraordinary person with such a warm heart. I will always remember his sense of humor and his love of teaching the most. My life is better for having had the chance to know him and I hope all of the good memories you and your family have of your life with him can help to make this very difficult time a little easier to bear. My love and sympathy go out to each of you.
Joy Zucker-Tiemann
February 6, 2008
Dear Aunt Esther, Judy & Laura, Stephie & Kelly, Jeff & Cora & Matt, Ellen & Rebecca & Sara, Aunt Ida and the rest or our family,
It is so wonderful to read how Harvey touched the lives of so many in and through the medical profession and I thank you for allowing this guest book so we can learn from so many others about a beloved family member.
The only professional measure I ever needed was seeing my cousin as the expert on many morning national newscasts over the years. The respect his industry had for him was obvious, and his ease to communicate through the lens came as no great surprise.
But what I remember and recollect most today, would be the years of growing up & always seeing Harvey's smiling face at Jewish holidays & family gatherings! What I always found touching was Harvey's devotion as a husband, son & brother and his pride as a father.
As I look to the skies, I know there is one brighter star, and it joins those of Bob, Uncle Mutt, Jon, Ronnie, Aunt Min, Nanny, Leo, Uncle Seymour & so many more.
Hugs,
Louis Korman, M.D.
February 5, 2008
East Flatbush and Tilden High School are only vague memories for me but one of the most vivid was of playing ball with Harvey and Howie in the schoolyard at PS 233. Our paths began at Tilden and criss-crossed over the 40 years we have been in Medicine. I will remember Harvey with great admiration and respect for his dedication to the profession and the respect he was accorded by his colleagues.
My deepest condolences to his family and friends.
Everett Preyer
February 5, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. I only met you guys at Hannah's Batmitzvah, but I knew then that you were/are good people. You have lots of love and support that will help you through this. Stay Strong!
Josh Boxer
February 5, 2008
Dear Judy and Laura,
We cannot express in words how saddened we are by Harvey's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Harvey will truly be missed.
With love,
Josh and Jessica Boxer
Kathleen Dineen
February 5, 2008
Dear Steph and family,
We had only met your brother a few times, but could always see the connection that you and the Goolds had with him. We were certainly shocked by the news of his passing.
Our deepest sympathies go out to you and all of your family and you will all be in our prayers during this very difficult time.
With Love, the Dineen's-Kathy, John, Kelsea and Bridget
Lenard Futterman
February 5, 2008
Dear Judy,Laura,Steffie, Esther and Family,
Sorry for your loss. Harvey was very special to me. He babysat for me when I was a baby. He was always very caring and had a funny joke to tell. Amy loved Harveys company, they shared great stories together.
His great memories will keep Harvey
in our hearts forever.
Love Lenny,Amy,Jamie,Alyssa Futterman
Patricia Del Grosso
February 5, 2008
Dear Judy, Laura, Stef and Aunt Esther. Frank and I want to send our sympathy and love to all of you. I remember Harvey fondly - he was always kind and without judgement. Frank reminded me of the first time he met Harvey and they talked about the Mets. I am sad for the time that I have been away and not able to be with my "second" family. And I am so very sad for the lose of a wonderful gentlemen that I considered a friend. Love and prayers for your comfort. Pat Del Grosso and Frank
stephanie aiges
February 5, 2008
my beloved brother harvey
"my star i follow wherever it leads, and in my follow, oh what mountains, oh what skies. "
you gave me great mountains and skies.
i am your devoted sister
stephanie
Suzy Roccisano
February 5, 2008
Dear Judy and Laura,
We are deeply saddened by Harvey's untimely death. He was a great guy. I can still hear him at the end of every phone conversation I ever had with him "be well Bubbie".
Much love, Suzy, Joe and Hannah
Rosanne Singer
February 5, 2008
Dearest Steph,
Please accept my heartfelt condolences. What a shocking, sorrowful loss. My deepest love goes to you and your family. Love, Rosanne
Kevin Khodabakhsh
February 5, 2008
I remember Dr. Aiges as one of the kindest individuals I have ever met. He was there for me in some of the hardest times in my life. He will truly be missed. I wish only the best for his family.
Linda (Heisler) Silver Richard Silver
February 4, 2008
Dear Stephanie and Esther,
We were so sad to learn of Harvey's untimely death.
I have such good memories of him as a happy and spirited child at Berajansky's, as a kind-hearted camp counselor at Schneider's bungalow colony and as an overachieving, compassionate medical student as a classmate of my husband, Richard.
Although we lost contact over time and distance, we were happy (but not surprised) to learn of Harvey's many successes and achievements as recounted by his very proud big brother, Ronnie, while on his frequent visits to San Francisco.
The last time I spoke with Harvey was after Ronnie's passing. I called to send our condolences and tell him of the memorial gathering we had here for Ron. It was wonderful to hear Harvey's voice sounding just as I remembered him from 30 years ago.
We are all so sorry to hear of this tragic loss of such a good person. Please extend our condolences to his wife and daughter and to the Rubin family.
My mother Eve also wishes to send her deepest sympathy.
Sherry Jefferson
February 4, 2008
Dear Aunt Esther & Stephanie,
It was with shock and disbelief when I first heard from Denyce that Harvey was not well and then a mear week later that he had passed. My heart goes out to you both on your loss, and my hope is that each passing day brings you a small measure of comfort.
Sincerely,
Sherry
Patti Kreiner
February 4, 2008
I
am sorry about your loss, pain and grief. Dr. Aiges took the best care of my daughter
Alyssa for 13 years. They had their own language. Dr. Agies has touched so
many lives. He was so dedicated. He was the greatest gift to anyone that met
him.There are no words to explain how much he will be missed. He lives in
all those souls he has touched.
Our deepest sympathy to your family from our family...The Kreiner's
Raul Wapnir
February 4, 2008
Dear Judy:
I just learned with great sorrow the premature passing of Harvey. Elsa and I are deeply moved. After knowing you both for a lifetime and sharing so many years of collegiality it seems hardly possible his untimely loss. Our love to you and your daughter.
Sarah Boxer
February 4, 2008
Dear Judy & Laura,
I was so sad to hear of Harvey's passing. He truly was one of the nicest and most genuine men I have ever met. My heart goes out to both of you. If its any condolence, I know he is up there with my dad(so he is not alone) watching over all of us.
With much love,
Sarah Boxer
Suzy Roccisano
February 4, 2008
Dear Judy and Laura,
We are all so saddened by Harvey's death. He was a wonderful man. I can still here his voice at the end of every phone conversation I ever had with him "be well Bubbie." All our love to you both. Joe, Suzy and Hannah
Suzy Roccisano
February 4, 2008
Dear Judy and Laura,
We are so saddened by Harvey's untimely death. He was a great guy and I can still hear him saying at the end of all of our conversations "be well Bubbie".
---Love Joe, Suzy and Hannah
Carol Goldsammler
February 4, 2008
Dear Esther & Stephanie:
I was so upset to hear of Harvey's passing and couldn't just let it go by without contacting you. My heartfelt condolences to you and Harvey's family. Carol (Duboff) Goldsammler and family
Nigel Paneth
February 4, 2008
I had the great privilege of working with Harvey as a pediatric resident at Jacobi Hospital in the 1970's. He was a year ahead of me, and was a wonderful mentor and teacher. In good times he was full of laughter and in hard times he was the first to support others. He taught me a great deal about medicine, and even more about life. He was one of the most compassionate people I have ever known, and the world is truly diminished now that he is not with us. I'm sure I speak for all Jacobi residents of that time in feeling deep sadness at this tragic loss. My sincerest condolences to his family.
Peter Simons
February 4, 2008
Our heartfelt sympathies to Judy and Laura, Don and Hardye.
CARRIE BEEKMAN (YORICK)
February 4, 2008
TO THE AIGES AND RUBIN FAMILIES,
I KNEW HARVEY AT A VERY YOUNG AGE FROM SCHNEIDERS AND EVEN BACK THEN YOU KNEW THAT HARVEY WAS A VERY SPECIAL PERSON. KIND TO ALL, FUNNY, CARING, A PERSON WHO MADE AN INDELABLE IMPRESSION ON WHOEVER HE MET. THROUGH THE LATER YEARS I KNEW HARVEY AS THE DOCTOR AND FRIEND HE WAS. I KNOW, NOT ONLY WILL HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS MISS HIM, BUT ALL WHO'S LIVES HE TOUCHED WILL MISS HIM TOO. MY CONDOLENCES TO YOU ALL FOR THIS GREAT LOSS.
The Faculty of the Stony Brook Physician Assistant Program
February 4, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family of Dr. Aiges. He was an outstanding mentor for our Physician Assistant Students and an extraordinary pediatrician and individual.
Caroline Nubel
February 4, 2008
Judy, Laura, and Family: I am so sorry to hear of Harvey's passing. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you now and always.
Stephen Sofer
February 4, 2008
To the Aiges family,
My daughter was a patient of Dr. Aiges. He gave her courage and support at a very difficult time in her life and ours (her parents). He had the soul of a healer and the compassion of a parent. We will miss him tremendously.
Stephen, Rita, & Allison Sofer
Erica Brown
February 4, 2008
I find it hard to choose the right words to describe how Harvey touched my life, and the lives of all of his residents over the years. He had a special ability to sense the core of a person in a very short time, and used that ability to put together a true family at North Shore. I find myself thinking of him often and quoting him to another generation of residents now. I can only hope to be a fraction of the teacher that he was.
Vita Boyar
February 4, 2008
I was privileged to get to know Dr.Aiges during my residency and then fellowship. He was a wonderful man, great teacher and always a friend. Such a huge loss. He will always be remembered.
Savita Pahwa
February 4, 2008
Dear Judy
Raj and I are deeply saddened with this news, and pray to the almighty that your inner strength will help you in this difficult time. We have the fondest memories of Harvey who touched a lot of lives along the way.
Monica Kharbanda (NSUH resident 2001-04)
February 4, 2008
Words cannot express the greatness of Dr. Aiges. He was a great teacher, a wonderful and a kind person. His doors were always open for you, to listen to your problems. I still cannot forget what he said when I graduated,.."make ne famous and proud"..he was truly a great mentor. He would be greatly missed.
Judy please accept our deepest condolences.
Monica and family
David Collymore
February 4, 2008
Harvey is truly one of the greatest individuals that I have ever encountered and I consider myself lucky to have known him. My condolences go out to his family. Thank you for sharing him with us during his great life. My prayers are with you.
Allyson Ingram
February 3, 2008
Dear Judy, Laura, Aunt Esther and Stephanie,
It was with regret, sadness, and shock that we heard of Harvey's death.
I am sure you are hearing this from everyone but, I just want to let you know I am and always will be here if you need anything. I just wish I was able to spend more time with all of you or at least have holiday dinners like at Aunt Esther's house. Then take our walks after dinner around the block to stop and smell the lilacs. If only life can still be that simple again. Please send my love and sympathy to Jeff, Ellen, and Aunt Ida as well. I love and miss you all. Harvey was defiantly one of a kind and will be greatly missed by all that knew him.
You all are in our thoughts and prayers,
Allyson(Benesowitz), Jerimy, Devin and Austin Ingram
Linda (Grossman) Frank
February 3, 2008
Judy--
I was shocked and saddened to hear of Harvey's death. Please know that, as a friend from so many years back, I am thinking of you and Laura and I hope and pray that wonderful memories of him will ultimately help you find comfort.
Marcy Philips
February 3, 2008
Dear Stef,
Our thoughts are with you and the rest of your family during this most difficult time. Please take care.
Love, Marcy and Becca
Robin Linett
February 3, 2008
Dr. Aiges was one of the kindest people I have ever met. He took care of me & my son with great compassion & concern. He never let the stature of his positions get the best of him. As I used to visit him often, I learned of his love for the Mets. We always were able to laugh about that. Dr. Aiges you will be greatly missed. Thank you for all that you have done.
Robin & Shane Linett
Alfred Abraham
February 3, 2008
To All Who Have Been Affected By Harvey,
As a former resident under Harvey while at North Shore, I cannot express enough of the sadness in writing this. There are too few people that really take the time to actually "get involved" in the lives of others and believe in what they do with as much conviction as Harvey did. This was and is Harvey's attitude with everything he did - and always with great humor.
He made such an impression on everyone he came into contact with. I often heard of how great regard others had from Harvey from residents and physicians from other medical programs - who only briefly met Harvey either by interview or by lecture, or by a clinical rotation. This is a kind-hearted gentleman that will surely be missed greatly by all including myself.
I am writing this from overseas where I had been told by another former resident of his passing, and had I been in New York I would have been present to pay my respects. I hope that those in pain by this news can share the happiness of Harvey's interactions with them instead of the sadness of his passing. To that end, I would like to share a "classic" Harvey moment (please forgive me if this is off-color, I know he would have enjoyed this) :
During rounds one morning, the on-call resident was describing the symptoms and signs of a patient admitted overnight. However, this particular on-call resident was "mimicking" the pain and the physical exam (unknown to him) while giving the presentation. With each round of information, came a new round of questions to further elicit the primary diagnosis. Harvey (sitting next to me) - would ask, "was the patient;s lymph glands swollen?" This was followed by the resident palpating his own lymph glands, before answering "yes" and the measurements of the enlarged glands. Soon after, another question from Harvey: "was there any abdominal pain?" The answer would come soon after the on-call resident palpated his own abdomen while talking, and answered "No." Fearing the continuation of the physical exam which had until then been proceeding from Head-to-Toe. Harvey turned to myself and another and said "We better stop him before he gets to the genitourinary exam !" This statement was followed by an outburst of laughter from Harvey admiring his own guiltless sense of humor.
"alf" (Peds resident, NSUH '03)
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