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Jim Stratford
December 29, 2017
Sir. I knew Heather and thought a lot of her. I met you once I am Jim from England. My life had been shattered today ( on my birthday) to hear the news that Heather has passed. I am so saddened by this news. My love goes out to your family and I wish we could turn back time.
Hindy Komin
May 4, 2017
Heather and I worked together in the late 90's at Club Med Port St. Lucie in Florida. Heather crashed at my home in NY for a visit once and we had stayed in touch for several years. Life happens and somehow many years have past since. I can't explain what propelled me the other day to look up Heather's name on Facebook but when I did I was confused by the words ' in memory'. After googling Heather's name and finding out about her death, I spent a night of no sleep trying to wrap my head around what happened. I pulled out old pictures of us hanging out at various NYC spots and felt bad that we had lost touch. Life is short. Often too busy. But to Heather's family, please know her memory lives on and I hope you find peace with happy memories and warm reflections.
November 9, 2016
She will be missed .
Mom and Dad
November 8, 2016
To our Dearest Heather,
To you, Heather, the best part of a birthday was the card with Dad's little note of love and encouragement. Now it is time for both of us to write a final little note of love and sadly, farewell.
Heather, you were our first born. We loved you unconditionally from the moment we found out you were on your way (and the same with your sister, Erin). Your loss is a numbing reality, to us, too hard to fully grasp.
From a skinny little kid, you grew up to be a beautiful young woman, and young you will now forever be. As a child, your skinned knees were magically healed with a Band-Aid and a gentle kiss, a cold with chicken soup, and later the blues with the Irish equivalent of chicken soup, a cup of tea.
You touched many lives, both young and old; brought smiles to saddened faces, sunshine to a cloudy day and laughter whenever you could. Helping someone in need was the norm for you. Seeing the best in everyone was your style. Your love of life, family and friends was intense. You were a blessing, a gentle soul, a most precious gift.
We remember the day you brought your first dog, Georgia, home. She turned up, a stray, at Georgia Morris School. They were calling the pound to pick her up, and you told them to hang up, she was yours. Then you felt sorry for her, all alone while you were at work. So, off to the pound with her to match her up with your second dog, Rufus. We have them now, and we will love them for you, and yes, Dad still feeds Rufus too much food.I can still hear you telling me, Rufus doesn't dig really; he is a canine back hoe! We now have Rufus craters all over the yard. Your sister, Erin, looked at one huge hole the other day and said, Rufus doesn't dig, Mom.
Somewhere along the way, a silent illness came along blindly. One we could not see, could not understand. An illness that no Band-Aid and gentle kiss, chicken soup or tea could heal. The Lord knows how much we tried, how many hours we prayed for healing and recovery for you. It wasn't to be, and the Lord came and picked you up and cradled you in his warm and loving arms and took you to Heaven, where, we know, the gates were wide open and welcoming. We hope that Heaven is all that you imagined, and more. You are now free of painand at peace.
So how do we remember you as your journey on Earth has ended? We remember the good times, the warm, loving, compassionate, accomplished, successful and beautiful daughter, sister, sister-in-law aunt and friend. It seems unfair to all of us that you are gone, but life has run its full circle for you, however brief it was.
Tears will prevail as we mourn our loss and recall the beautiful person you were, both inside and out. With time our clouds may return to sunshine and our tears to laughter. So, Heather, until we are reunited with you in Heaven and in love, know that we dearly miss you and that we have always loved you and always will. We know that Heaven is a little brighter with you there, but our world is a litter dimmer with you gone.
God Bless
In the words of Dr. Seuss
Remember me and smile, for its better to forget than remember me and cry
With love,
Mom and Dad
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The Camps
November 6, 2016
May your soul rest peacefully now!!!
Tricia Hosch-Hebdon
November 3, 2016
There are no words. Though time has moved on from adolescents, the wonders of social media kept us in touch. I loved getting to hear and see what was going on and sense the things that you weren't sharing.
You were always a magnificent ray of light in all of our worlds! I just wish you could have seen yourself as the rest of us saw you. From the time we were little at Castleview til we graduated from UC Riverside, you have been an inspiration! I was so proud of your teaching and all the crazy fun things you got to do. I had hoped that you would find all the you were searching for, but know that we will meet again. Thank you for all you are and will always be to so many of us. I wish I could be there to give you family a hug today, but they have been in all of our constant thoughts and prayers. I know that you are at peace and watching over everyone, I just wish you hadn't had to leave quite so soon. Love you! Tricia and Family (Beth, Dean, and Tim Hosch)
P.S. I have been trying to find a picture of the day you joined the church, we took it outside St. Catherine's with Sister Joni!!!
Elaine Wilson
November 3, 2016
Heather, I really can't believe I'm writing this in memory of you. I remember the talks we had in the B Pod with Leah, you, and I. Sometimes those talks were about serious things at work, in our lives, our family, etc, but the one thing our talks always had was some laughter! Yep, noone could ever be around you and not laugh because that's who you were. So sorry we didn't stay in touch more, but life takes us separate ways sometimes. The blessing is that I know we'll get to have those talks again one day when we all get to sit down in the Heaven pod. There'll be no rush to get anywhere because our final destination will be achieved. You beat me there and at such a young age. Only God knew. Be at peace now, my friend. Praying for your family and friends that God may give them all and myself peace, comfort, and strength during this difficult time.
Sahar Rais
November 2, 2016
Not sure what to say, Heather. You were the sweetest person I knew with the most extensive knowledge of MAC make up. I will always remember you and your amazing upbeat personality and our adventures. I wish I had kept in better touch with you since I moved away but you were always on my mind.
Love always!
P.S.Maggie misses you too.
Richard and Mary Lounsbury
October 31, 2016
Our hearts break for all of you. We're so very sorry for your family. May your memories bring you comfort now and in the future
Stephanie Simons
October 29, 2016
Tippi, Gary, and Erin (& family),
I'm so sorry of the loss of your dear Heather. My deepest condolences. God Bless.
Stephanie Simons
PERSIS SELVADURAI
October 29, 2016
We are praying for you Ms.Tippi and Mr.Gary!! She was a very energetic, enthusiastic young lady! What a precious loss for the family! God bless you and keep you all in good strength and courage as you go through this tragic moment. Please take care! God be with you,
Love,
Persis and Selvadurai Family
Erin Pope
October 26, 2016
Heather, the other night Catherine asked me to tell her stories of when you and I were kids. I laughed, because it was thundering and I remembered us talking about the angels in heaven bowling. I told her you are up there bowling now. I told her about playing dots. I told her how you used to read to me from the Ramona books. I will forever miss my big sister, but I find comfort knowing that you are at peace and no longer struggling. Until we see each other again, know that I will always love you. Rest peacefully now.
Mark Clark
October 26, 2016
From the moment I first met Heather, fifteen years ago, I was impressed with her vast intellect. She brought her knowledge, love of children, and exuberance to every project we worked on together.
Heather you will be missed.
Eric Olague
October 24, 2016
You are beautiful inside and out. I remember how you made me laugh and how smart you were , how nice you were. You are always in my thoughts and prayers and heart. And now, I pray for those closest to you, take care in Heaven. I will never forget you.
Ilan Heimanson
October 24, 2016
Heather,
From the time I first met you at UCSB, you have worn your heart on your sleeve. You have always looked for the best in people. You filled the room with boundless optimism and positivity. You freed yourself to feel and care deeply, understanding that it left you open to the hurt. Heather, I have not kept in touch as I should have, for that I am sorry. May your soul be forever bound in the bonds of eternal life.
John Wilson
October 23, 2016
Heather Shane My Love!
I cannot comprehend life without you. I love you so dearly and miss you so much. You made my life such a bright and shining place. You challenged me to be my best and to always move forward. I cannot imagine not being able to hold you again while Georgia try's to squeeze between us and Rufus lays his big self on our legs. Not being able to watch Disney movies and Penny Dreadfull with you. All I want is one more kiss. But I know your in Gods hands now and he is protecting you. I know we will be together again in heaven one day but until then I will do what I know you would want. Heather Shane you are my Angel now and please know that I will always love you and will never ever forget you. Rest baby and be joyous in the presence of our Lord!
Karen Good
October 23, 2016
To our dear friend Heather. Thank you for all the great memories you left us with. You were an amazing teacher and I enjoyed working, shopping, running and just hanging out with you. Those were very simple times when after a long day of teaching we would walk downtown Redlands with friends and have coffee. Thank you for the MAC make up lessons afterschool. Tea in the afternoon and playing Barbies with Haley. We love you Heather.
Love, The Goods
Matt, Karen, Haley and Liam
Gehan Abdelgwad
October 23, 2016
Heather,
I met you 6 years, October 15th, a day that will stay with me forever. I was a new teacher to the school and was absolutely terrified for this new beginning. It was a staff meeting and I had to introduce myself to a room full of uninterested teacher's. I was standing in the back because all the seats were "taken" (it was like a scene out of the movie mean girls) but then you walked in, smiling from ear to ear... you looked right at me, said hi, and left the room right away. When you came back seconds later, you were carrying a chair... you sat it right next to you, patted it with your hand and said "sit with me, chickidee". You never knew, but I was having the worst day ever (2 meltdowns and a panic attack to be exact). Your kind words and beautiful energy was exactly what I needed and all you were doing was being yourself. From that moment on, it was crazy, fun, interesting (lol) and always exciting History... I love you so much, Heather and I know you're up there partying with the angels, Club Med style... just go easy on them. Rest easy, my luv bug
With Dad
Mom
October 23, 2016
Family
Mom
October 23, 2016
Dad
October 22, 2016
Your mother and I are emotionally unable to grasp losing you. You were our first born and such a delight. That we will not see you again leaves a void in our hearts. Your sister, niece and mother left flowers and a lit candle on the Washington Park sign where you were found. I hope others will do the same to honor you. Never again will I be able to read you 'Twas the Night Before Christmas' as I have for 43 years. Perhaps a trip to your gravesite on Christmas Eve will have to be a new tradition. I will never forget you and will always love you. Georgia and Rufus miss you, too.
Mildred Rodriguez
October 22, 2016
I had the privilege to be your Instructional Assistant for many years at Hughbanks. I learned so much from you. I enjoyed working with such a fun, funny and loveable maestra. You will be missed dearly. May you rest in peace beautiful.
Rita McCray
October 22, 2016
Rest In Peace Heather, no more struggles. You are safe now.
Sara Hopkins
October 21, 2016
May you Rest In Peace.
Stella Pound
October 21, 2016
I am so sorry to hear of your passing. Be thou at peace.
Andrea
October 21, 2016
I shall miss you, Heather. Sammy and Tessa are waiting for you over the Rainbow Bridge, with their friends Mushu and Foxy.
Jana Luna
October 21, 2016
I will never forget how you helped and befriended me my first few years of teaching. Rest In Peace beautiful girl.
Laurel
October 21, 2016
For Heather:
Rest well in Our Lord's loving arms. I will keep your memory alive in my heart. That is a promise.
You will be missed by so many people, which is evidence of how many you touched with your vivacious, generous, and loving spirit. We will miss your kindness, your joie de vivre, and your intelligence. I still can't believe you are gone! Heather, you didn't deserve to die this soon. As is often said, "Only the good die young," which certainly rings true in your case. Prayers going out for your eternal rest, and the loved ones you leave behind, including your beloved Rufus and Georgia.
Twas the Night Before Christmas
Tippi Luthy
October 21, 2016
Tippi Luthy
October 21, 2016
Mom
October 21, 2016
To my beautiful daughter, Heather,
Oh how I miss you. I am trying to make sense out of why you had to leave so soon. Why you had an illness we could not cure.Why you had to suffer so. I have been saying the rosary for you since the day you entered rehab, and I will continue praying my rosary for you until we are once again joined in Heaven. I know in my heart that you were carried to Heaven in the warm and loving arms of our Lord, and that he took you right to my Mother so you could meet her. She was also taken from us all too soon. I know that Aunt Babe and Pop Pop are there with you. Heaven is a little brighter, and my world is just so much darker. Please forgive me if I let you down. I love you so. You are in my heart and I will talk to you daily. Your Dad will compose one final card for you for your eulogy, as I know how you loved his notes on your Birthday cards. I will even try to read it for you.
My beautiful daughter
Tippi Luthy
October 21, 2016
Inge Dunn
October 21, 2016
Heather, you've been a gift & made the world a better place.
Catherine Pope
October 21, 2016
Aunt Honey, You are with God. I love you! I miss you
Rachel Rebel
October 21, 2016
Thank you for being a great friend for so many years and for being by my side on one of the best days of my life. I have so many memories with you in them and you will never be forgotten.
Michelle Dawson-Lamb
October 21, 2016
Heather, you were a beautiful ray of sunlight. You have brightened so many lives with your charisma, whit, and zest for life. You will be greatly missed but remembered fondly by so many. Rest in Paradise my beautiful friend. Until we meet again.
Connie Tedder
October 21, 2016
Heather, although our time at Dunn Elementary was short, I will never forget your laugh, smile, and craziness. You were a ray of sunshine to me and everyone around you. I will miss you. Until we meet again, keep everyone in heaven laughing.
Rufus and Georgia Luthy
October 21, 2016
To our human Mommy...We miss you terribly. We are glad that Gammietoes and Pop Pop took us in, and we are trying to add some fun to their lives now, just as we did for you. Thank you for rescuing us. Pop Pop still feeds Rufus too much food, and Gammietoes is always adding something to Georgia's food to get her to eat, just like you did. We will always love you.
Juliana Larson
October 21, 2016
Shane, I will always miss your laugh and our shared love of proper grammar. You have always been the friend who was always there no matter what. You always made time for your friends and anyone in need. I love you dearly!
Kenny Mills
October 21, 2016
Heather, I still can't believe you're not with us anymore. We used to workout together while solving all of the world's problems. I was always impressed at how well rounded and likable you were. Our friendship grew over the years and I always loved running into you at various sandwich shops so we could catch up on life. No matter how much time had passed between our visits we always seemed to pick up right where we left off. I will forever miss those impromptu times. May you rest in eternal peace, dear friend.
Wendy Pope
October 20, 2016
Heather, you will be missed terribly. The world is not as bright without you.
Oscar Shearer
October 20, 2016
Heather,
You came into my life like a hurricane. Intense, persistent and unyielding. But you were absolute sunshine every time you came through the door. A very abruptly short lived experience for sure. But one I'll never forget you.
Laura Bauby-Sheridan
October 20, 2016
You were sunshine and the world will never be the same without you in it. I will miss you my friend. Until we meet again.
Catherine Fee
October 20, 2016
Your light will be missed my dear, sweet friend. There never was a more loyal and true soul as yours. May you rest in His embrace. God bless you, always.
October 20, 2016
Sorry to hear of your passing Heather. I will always remember your outgoing personality and contagious smile!! Rest now for you are with your Heavenly Father!
Jennifer Hart (Riverside, CA)
Nathalie Hernandez
October 20, 2016
Heather
Thank you so much for being such an amazing teacher to me when I was young you taught me so much and showed nothing but love to everyone. I love you so much.
shannon young
October 20, 2016
I will remember "running" your first Half Marathon with you and the great visits to DisneyLand! Rest well Heather
Tiffany Meyer
October 20, 2016
I will forever miss you my beautiful cousin! I love you!
Stephanie Entwistle
October 20, 2016
I love you so much, Heather. I feel very blessed that you were my friend. You are such a loving and giving person. I'm grateful that we were roommates at UCSB. You baptized me into your world of KROQ & hair bands. :-) I'm so sorry that your illness overcame you and the world is a little less bright today without your bright shining light in it. You are dearly missed. Love you, Buff Chick. ;-)
Caroline Ochoa
October 20, 2016
Sweet Heather. I will always remember you as a stylish, giving, caring and spunky gal. I loved hearing about your travels and adventures. You were always willing to help and encourage me when I needed it. Miss you. Sending love and kisses to heaven.
Erin Pope
October 20, 2016
I love you! I miss you! I tried so hard to find you!
October 19, 2016
I will miss you my friend... our ski trips, teaching together, and many fun filled weekends... sorry that life got in the way and I didn't make time.. Love you, Leather...
Love, Weezer.....
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