Helena Mae Christensen

Helena Mae Christensen

Helena Christensen Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 26, 2024.
In the early morning of the summer solstice, Helena Mae Christensen (22) left our world after a tragic car accident.

Since her earliest childhood, Helena was known to entertain her family with wild dance routines or crazy skits, often resulting in making herself laugh as loud as the others. She loved a fast-paced game of Spoons on New Year's Eve along with banging pots and pans at midnight.

Traditions were important to Helena, from having her dad lift her to hang the star on top of the Christmas tree to sparklers, parades, and fireworks on the Fourth of July. Family vacations were never dull and were always full of laughter.

Helena was an animal whisperer. Even Peens, the family cat that likes nobody, would wait for her to come home and follow her for cuddles. All the family cats wanted to be with Helena in her bedroom, where she gave them all love-the kind of love she craved for herself.

There were up and down and all-around days for Helena, as well as for her family and those who loved her. Headstrong, and reluctant to prioritize her own needs ("others first" was her motto), Helena struggled throughout her life with cystic fibrosis and mental health challenges.

Throughout the years, it was normal to find a cast of characters, often down on their luck, that Helena would bring home. If she could have saved the world, she would have. Her friends claim she was the life of a party and the glue that held them all together. Music had a special place in her heart and was a large part of Helena's life.

Mornings were never Helena's favorite. She'd rather wrap herself in one of her many fuzzy blankets and hold out for the evening-a true lover of the moon, the stars, campfires, s'mores, and adventures.

Helena found freedom in driving, loved sunsets, was a fan of her mother's cooking, was crazy about her shoes which she carefully displayed on top of the boxes they came in, and had her way of saying things. Her term for the game Hide and Seek was "Be Aware!" which she'd yell mid-game, worried the family would scare each other.

Helena graduated from Whitnall High School in 2019. She was preceded in death by her beloved Gram, Mary Ann Schmidt, and her Auntie, Jill Schmidt.

Helena will be deeply missed by her loving parents, Brad and Jessica; brother Ethan (Natalie); grandparents Dean Christensen (Ann), Kerri McWithey (Carl), and Jane Schmidt (Dane Thompson); Uncle Matt Christensen (Missy); family friend Suzie Bober; and a large extended family of Christensens and Youngs.

In death, Helena is still helping others. She was a believer in second chances, and while the family is devastated Helena won't get one, they hope other people will benefit from her being a donor.

At this time there are no funeral arrangements. Instead of flowers, the family requests donations to the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation in Brookfield, Wisconsin.

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February 9, 2025

Jyvette Garcia posted to the memorial.

July 15, 2024

The Youngblood Family posted to the memorial.

June 29, 2024

Hadrian Gonzalez posted to the memorial.

Jyvette Garcia

February 9, 2025

Not a day goes by where I don´t think of your beautiful smile, and your beautiful heart. . You´ve impacted my life so greatly. I´m so forever grateful I got to experience your presence and your undeniable love my beautiful bestfriend I miss you terribly for the rest of my life. Thank you for everything

The Youngblood Family

July 15, 2024

We are so grateful for the memories Emilee was able to create not only with Helena but with your entire family. Take peace in knowing that Helena is at rest with her Heavenly Father. Her time with us was far too brief but the light she brought to those around her will never dim.

Hadrian Gonzalez

June 29, 2024

Dear Helena´s Family,

I was deeply saddened to hear about the tragic passing of Helena. My heart aches for your loss, and I wanted to reach out to share my condolences and some of my cherished memories with Helena.

Helena and I have been best friends since elementary school, and our bond grew stronger through the years we spent together in high school. I will always remember all the times we hung out.
One of my fondest memories is when we would go to Oscar´s on hwy100 and just hangout with other friends It´s moments like these that I will hold close to my heart forever. Helena had an incredible spirit, and her joy and laughter were contagious. She was not just a friend to me but a part of my family, and I feel grateful to have had the privilege of knowing such a wonderful person. During this difficult time, please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. If there is anything I can do to support you, please don´t hesitate to reach out. Helenas memory will live on in the hearts of all who knew and loved her.

With deepest sympathy,

Hadrian Gonzalez

Ethan Christensen

June 29, 2024

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Amoura McArthur

June 28, 2024

Me and helena were best friends from hales corner to Whitehall middle when I left school we still kept contact hung out and all years past I haven´t seen my best friend but recently we ran into each other a few times nd we were so shocked so happy man I wish I had more time to make up with you
-Amoura mcArthur

Kary Dietzler (Bowman)

June 28, 2024

I remember Helena fondly. I loved being her teacher in Elementary School. My heart is with her family as they navigate this difficult time.

Mary

June 28, 2024

She and my daughter Emilee at our house giggling watching movies playing with our cats and dogs Helena had a beautiful smile and was so polite . I will never forget when they took Emilee on a family trip during a time when our family was struggling it meant the world to us and family. I love this family my heart is broken for all.

Nancy Christensen

June 27, 2024

My favorite memory of Helena was when she little and going thru that stage of not wanting to be hugged or kissed. I told her that my granddaughter felt the same way but I could kiss her forehead...could I do the same thing to you, she smiled so sweetly and said yes. Love you, Helena. Great Grandma Christensen.

Elizabeth Eastman

June 27, 2024

Brad & Jessica, I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter, Helena. My heart breaks for your family. I will be keeping your family in my prayers.
Elizabeth Eastman

MaryPat Christensen

June 27, 2024

I will always cherish and remember a family event at Aunt Carrol´s house, Jess, Helena, myself and my daughter spent some time just the 4 of us talking. Jess had a look of pure motherly pride on her face as Helena would talk and share her personality with us, both of our girls seemed to prefer the peacefulness of a small group talking. It was a gift to see Helena and my daughter "T" chatting and letting their personalities shine through. I think of how similar the girls were and that beautiful smile on Jess´s face. Love to all of you, here for anything you may need. Love, Aunt Mary

Sarah Worsham

June 27, 2024

Helena meant a lot to our family. She was my daughter Jyvette´s best friend. Wherever Jyvette was Helena was right there. I´m going to miss my house full of laughter from both of them and her silliness. Her smile always lit up a room. I´m so sorry that this happened to you sweetheart and my condolences to her family. She will truly be missed and she will always be remembered. Love you lots Helena rest easy, sweetheart.

Amy Peplinski

June 27, 2024

I am so blessed to have had u in my life and that u loved my sara so much..You were her sister by choice..You both shared so many memories and had so much in common especially your love for animals..You both loved supporting your brothers and Danced at there concerts you both loved being there sweet beautiful sassy annoying supportive sisters You were like another daughter my sweet girl all the sleepovers you girls had ..All the fun...You girls were my goofballs and I loved it..You will be so missed but I know God has you now..Teach him how to dance up there so we can have a dance party when we are together again..You are so loved my sweet girl ..I know life has not been easy there has been struggles but I'm proud of you for being strong and always trying to push thru..Love you Helena to the moon and back...Thank u for being apart of our family ...You will never be forgotten ..Always in our hearts
Love u sooooo big

Madi Weisrock

June 26, 2024

You and I started becoming really close again and had deep convos , we had plans to do plenty of things during the summer w Bella , we hung out just 2 days prior before you left this earth and I did not expect that time to be the last time I see your
gorgeous smile You are very dearly missed and I wish we had more time together , you was so chill and you and I had so many things in common , I wish we didn´t fall off years ago over pettiness ... everything happens for a reason and I hope our souls meet again in another life time

Makayla

June 26, 2024

Helena I´ll miss the way you could light up even the darkest room with your presence. The contagious smile and laugh you have. The many times me, you, Jyvette & Brian would be in tears in the living room from laughter. All of our inside jokes... there was never a dull moment when you were around. You could make the saddest person laugh/smile. Your silly facial expressions. You were truly a blessing to sooo many people and you´re loved so dearly by many. We all miss and love you so much. I´m truly thankful to have had you in my life. You were there for my family through many ups & downs. For that we will forever be thankful and blessed to have met such a genuine and loving soul.

Gramma Marcia

June 26, 2024

So sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for you and yours with the loss of a child . I didn't know Helena but Sara P. is my granddaughter and I know she is broken hearted too. All my condolences to you and yours.

Amanda Keesey

June 26, 2024

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Lacy Rynders

June 26, 2024

Jazmin -who went to HC Elementary with Helena shared so many wonderful memories of the happy times of being Young. Jazz would walk two houses down to Helenas to walk to school together. Loved 4th of July in HC. One special time Jazz & Helena has matching summer shorts outfits. Our families hearts are broken with this impossible to comprehend loss. Prayers go out to all her family. The Rynders

Abrianna

June 26, 2024

I wasn´t very close to Helena. We were in the same grade all of whitnall. Never really had classes with her. But my best friend was very close to her. She was always a funny person in the halls or at school events. She was always dancing or laughing. I wish I was close to her in school but I always kept to myself or was part of other groups. I´m sending all my condolences for the family and close friends of hers as it´s a hard time for everyone.

Jyvette Garcia

June 26, 2024

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Jyvette Garcia

June 26, 2024

I´ll miss sitting in my living room every night pigging out on Oreos and other snacks watching documentaries, I´ll miss surprising each other when we sensed one of us were sad, I´ll miss your beautiful voice, your pretty big blue eyes, and a smile that´ll make the whole room stop and look! I´ll miss laying in your bed and mine just talking about life and our future and what we wanted to do in life, I´ll miss making up random words and yelling them at eachother I´ll miss the daily FaceTimes as soon as we woke up to see what we were going to do for the day I´ll miss laughing so hard we would have tears, I´ll miss our nature walks.. I could go on and on about everything I´ll miss about you.


You have taught me so much since we became friends, you taught me how to stand up for myself, you taught me to always reach for the stars, you taught me how beautiful life is you taught me love, patience; I am forever greatful for you Helena.

Philomena Willems

June 26, 2024

I never knew Helena, her brother, or the parents, but I do know her grandma, Jane Schmidt. I can surely see how their love of creatures, kindness to others, hearty laughter...will live through Jane, and keep them connected. As a parent and grandparent, I can't imagine the magnitude of your loss. My heart aches for all of you. May comfort blanket you through your enduring bond to Helena.

Ethan Christensen

June 26, 2024

I will always swear that I remember writing your name in chalk on the sidewalk with Auntie before you were born. We wrote "Emma" thinking that was going to be your name. In tiny flashbulb memories, I remember running down the hallway of the hospital with my hand brushing the wall. When we got to the room I just barely remember mom sitting there with you on her lap, and I got to meet you for the first time. I love you Helena Mae, I am so grateful for the 22 years I got to spend as your brother. Thank you for all of the memories, for SpongeBob time in the big blue chair together while we ate ravioli and fudge brownie ice cream. The memories go on, and on and I can't wait to tell you about everything I did while you were gone. See you soon, I love you

Marc Marchillo

June 26, 2024

I never met what sounds like a remarkable young woman. I heard of her always from my dearest best friend MaryPat, who loved Helena dearly. My regrets go to the entire family for such a senseless and painful loss.

Marc Marchillo

Rebecca Young

June 26, 2024

I wasn´t surprised to see S´mores listed as one of her favorite things. I was reminded of the excellent s´mores she made for us at a cousins party

Dean and Anne Christensen

June 26, 2024

Taking her and Ethan Christmas shopping and letting her pick out anything she wanted. Grandpa and Anne.

Alex Roman

June 26, 2024

You were a genuine and kind soul, the reality we live in, at this very moment will forever be remembered in your name truly. Me and My girlfriend had just gotten close to you as friends. You were robbed out of your livelihood at the demise of others actions. Your spirit is with us wherever we will go no we will live out your name forever. Never to be forgotten a fallen sweet angel Helena - Alex

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For Helena and her Family
A poem saved from when Grandpa Jim died.

Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there. I do not sleep.

I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.

When you awaken in the morning´s hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.

Do not stand at my grave and weep.
I am not there, I do not sleep.

Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there. I did not die.

Clare Harner in 1934

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