Henrietta Bernstein

Henrietta Bernstein obituary, Springfield, MA

Henrietta Bernstein

Henrietta Bernstein Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Feb. 16 to Feb. 18, 2017.
Henrietta “Teddy” Bernstein, of Springfield MA, died on February 14, 2017, she was born April 22, 1918 in Providence RI. and was the daughter of Julius and Molly Kritz. Teddy graduated high school in Providence, RI. where she married her childhood sweetheart, Paul Bernstein. While Paul served during World War II, Teddy kept the home fires burning and worked as a Secretary. In 1958, Teddy and her family moved to Springfield MA. where they purchased Blodgett’s Music Store. Blodgett’s, a Springfield institution since 1898, became Teddy’s lifelong passion even though she “didn’t know a sharp from a flat.” Her personal relationships with her customers were her pride and joy. She and Paul operated the music store for 24 years until Paul’s death in 1982. At that time, Teddy made the decision to carry on running the business, with the help of her daughter Evelyn. She did so for another 27 years, finally retiring at the young age of 91. When asked how she managed to stay in business so long when so many others around her had closed their doors, she said “be hungry, don’t give up, and be prepared to cry a lot in the early years.” Teddy’s relationship with the music community did not start and stop with the selling of sheet music or the repairing of musical instruments. When local music teachers found themselves out of a job in the wake of Proposition 2 1/2, Teddy offered the free use of the studios in the basement of her store, so they could continue private teaching. She was a major supporter of local music, particularly the Springfield Symphony, with whom she maintained a close connection for the remainder of her life. She was also a supporter of the American Guild of Organists and the Tuesday Morning Music Club. The musical project dearest to her heart was the Springfield Symphony Orchestra’s “Petting Zoo,” which she started. The petting zoo gives children in the community an opportunity to hold, play, or even bang a musical instrument for the very first time. Teddy donated all of the instruments and kept them in good repair. Teddy leaves behind her daughter Evelyn Holland Swiatlowski, of Wilbraham, MA., Son in law Richard M. Swiatlowski of Wilbraham, MA., granddaughter Jennifer Holland of Anchorage, AK; and grandson Eric Holland of Cape Coral FL. Also surviving are beloved great-grandaughters Justina and Adriana Holland of Fairfield, CT. Funeral services will be private.

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January 3, 2025

Eileen Kudisch Berman posted to the memorial.

November 24, 2022

FLOYD PATTERSON II posted to the memorial.

March 1, 2017

Matt Longhi posted to the memorial.

Eileen Kudisch Berman

January 3, 2025

I was 18 years old in 1970 when Mr and Mrs Bernstein hired me to work for them at Blodgett´s Music. You may not remember me Evelyn, but I remember you and Rick... your mom and dad were kind and loving to me and I learned so much from them. To this day, I still have memories of Teddy attending my bridal shower and your mom and dad at my wedding! And this morning, she visited me in my dreams. Thank you Teddy for your visit and for your love and guidance all those years ago when I needed it the most..

FLOYD PATTERSON II

November 24, 2022

Thank you Teddy for everything, including giving me a job in 1989.You looked out for me and I'll never forget it.

Matt Longhi

March 1, 2017

What a gem of an individual. So honored to have worked with her on starting the "Petting Zoo" back in the 90's - a fitting legacy for a wonderful woman.

Geri LAURIENTE

February 24, 2017

To Evelyn and family--Our very deepest sympathy! Your Hadley St. neighbors--The Lauriente family

Debi Salli

February 21, 2017

My deepest sympathy to the family.

Teddy was a beautiful person and friend and I was fortunate that on occasion she would give up her seat at a Pop concert at Symphony Hall because she knew I'd enjoy the performance. I loved Blodgetts and miss it to this day! Rest in sweet peace.

February 21, 2017

Dearest Evelyn, and Family,
You and the memory of Teddy are in our thoughts. Teddy was such an inspiration to us, in so many ways, as you well know. There will never be another Teddy and she will be in our hearts forever. With our deepest sympathy, David and Julie Bowerman
(Evelyn, we have lost your contact info...do you still have ours?)

Karen LaRocque

February 20, 2017

I worked with the Springfield Symphony Orchestra for many years, and was directly involved with Teddy and the Musical Petting Zoo. It was her baby and her passion. She was always willing to donate and repair our instruments. She was a very generous person with a huge heart. She will always be remembered at the SSO, and will be forever missed.

Stanley Light

February 19, 2017

Condolences to you Evelyn and family. Teddy and Paul were such wonderful people. I recall teaching lessons at the store on Worthington Street. And carpooling to Holyoke Orchestra with Paul and Sam Steinhaur, Ruth Cousins, and Edna Macaulay. Blodgett's was an institution in Springfield. There are so many wonderful memories! May Teddy's memory be for a blessing.

Atty Stanley Light

Peter and Abby Thomsen

February 19, 2017

Evelyn, Abby and I are so sorry for your loss. Teddy was so kind and generous to me and so helpful in my growth as music educator and to the growth of music in our region. Her energy, kindness and generosity were wonderful. Thanks Teddy!

Bobby Bourque

February 17, 2017

Teddy was a good neighbor for many years. In my younger days she would hire me to do odd jobs at her home, and she was always very friendly . I was sorry to hear of her passing. Condolences to Evelyn and the rest of her family.

Joan Fagone Drewnowski

February 17, 2017

Evelyn, so sorry to learn of your loss. Mr & Mrs Bernstein were so kind and generous to me and my children so many years ago. I have many happy and interesting memories of my 5 years at Blodgetts. My sympathy to you and your family. ❤

John G. Doyle

February 17, 2017

Evelyn and Family
Please accept my sincere condolences on the passing of your mother. She was a remarkable women who made an impression on my life with her kindness, intelligence, generosity and wonderful sense of humour. God speed Teddy!

Michael Cavanaugh

February 17, 2017

Evelyn,
So very sorry to hear about your Mom. She was a firecracker! Always so sweet and nice. I hope she is at peace.
God bless.

Mark Auerbach

February 17, 2017

When I came to Springfield to work at The Springfield Symphony and later StageWest, I got to know Teddy, because she was able to find me the obscure sheet music I needed. I moved to Mattoon Street, and often stopped by to chat. Teddy and Blodgett's were a key part of the cultural life of Springfield for many years, and I'm so glad to have gotten to know her. Condolences to her family.

Brenda Seibert

February 17, 2017

Evelyn and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Your mom was one of a kind. May you find comfort in wonderful memories and the love and support of family and friends.

Katherine & Lou Marinos

February 16, 2017

Teddy was one of the kindest, most generous and loving people we have ever known, and her friendship was immensely valued. Her support of the arts and artists was among her finest attributes. Teddy will be missed by all who knew her.

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