Howard Ray Dark

Howard Ray Dark obituary, Chandler, TX

Howard Ray Dark

Howard Dark Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 30, 2025.
It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of a beloved husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather, brother, cousin, and friend, Howard Ray Dark. Ray left this world peacefully on June 24, 2025, at the age of 78, surrounded by his loved ones.

Born on April 23, 1947, in Tyler, TX, Ray lived a life full of integrity, hard work, and deep devotion to his family, community, and country. He was known for his strength, sharp wit, and boundless generosity-always putting others before himself.

Ray served his country from 1966 to 1969 as part of the 101st and 82nd Airborne Divisions, with a deployment to Vietnam. His service earned him numerous honors, including the Purple Heart, the Combat Infantry Badge, Airborne Jump Wings, the Recon Flash, the Republic of Vietnam Campaign Medal with Device, and the Army Commendation Medal with two Oak Leaf Clusters.

After his military service, Ray dedicated 30 years to Kelley Springfield and spent countless hours volunteering for various causes. He was a proud member of the Sharon Shrine, where he served in the Clown Unit and the Oriental Band Unit, helping raise funds for sick and injured children.

Ray's love for his family and community never wavered. He found joy in coaching Little League Baseball for his sons and he attended events, and gatherings for his grandchildren and great-grandchildren including spending countless dollars for school fundraisers. His passion for NASCAR also led him to attend races at Talladega for 30 years, an annual tradition he cherished.

Above all, Ray was a man of love and loyalty. His unwavering support shaped the lives of his family and friends, and his legacy will live on in the stories we share, the lessons he taught, and the love he gave so freely.

Ray is survived by his wife of nearly 47 years, Delores Dark; children Suzanne Fisher, James Barton, Amy Chandler (Jeff), Tara Haney (Dave), and Josh Dark (Candi); grandchildren Eric Dark (Kristina), Jacob Fisher (Olivia), Adam Fisher (Victoria), Dustin Spence, Dylan Spence (Chloe), Ryan Haney, Rhett Haney, Hailey Wingfield, Justin Wingfield (Raven), Austin Wingfield (Laney), and Taylor Dark; great-grandchildren Phenix Fisher, Alexander Fisher, Lilly Dark, and Jax Wingfield; brothers Bobby Dark (wife and children) and Joe Dark (wife and children); and numerous cousins and extended family members, all of whom will forever carry his memory in their hearts.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Willie Wade Dark and Lois Christine Roycroft Dark.

Though Ray is no longer with us, his spirit lives on in the lives he touched, and he will be forever remembered by those who knew and loved him.

Memorial Service will be July 12, 2025 at 2:00pm at Sharon Shrine in Tyler, TX.

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Keith Hilliard

July 12, 2025

Ray is so missed by all his family and friends, he is up there probably playing a round of golf with Woody and Earnhardt, racing golf carts from one hole to the next, provide golf is allowed up there. Love and comfort to the family of Ray Dark.

Thad Miller

July 12, 2025

I met Ray at a Talladega race over 30 years ago. It led to a friendship that has transcended time. Ray was not only my Masonic Brother, but is considered an integral part of our family. Ray loved unconditionally, was generous beyond measure, and fiercely loyal to his family, friends, and Country! The world was better with Ray in it! I shall grieve his passing until the day the Lord comes for me. So mote it be!

Wayne Thigpen

July 12, 2025

I played in a golf tournament with Ray. He was so much fun. Wayne Thigpen.

James and Debbi Youngman

July 12, 2025

God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Annette Anderson

July 11, 2025

Ray was one of the kindest men I ever met. His love for people , especially children was always shone. He raised a wonderful son, who is my son in law, Josh Dark and was a great father in law to my daughter.
We share 4 of the same Grandchildren : Hailey , Justin , Austin and his precious princess, Taylor. Ray was an awesome grandfather and he loved all of the grandkids even if they were not blood related but, by marriage.
I will miss his sweet self trying to buy my grandsons pickles at every football game. Plus, truly Ray will be missed for the kind man he was.
Annette Anderson

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