Irma Handel

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Irma Handel

Irma Handel Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Aug. 17 to Aug. 18, 2022.
Irma Handel died on August 4th, 2022 after 87 wonderful years. She passed away peacefully at home with her loving family beside her. Born in Queens, New York, the youngest daughter of Anne & Aaron Ruby, Irma graduated from Forest Hills HS where she met Mort, beginning a romance that would last for over 70 years. After earning a degree from Queens College, Irma and Mort were married and Irma began a career in teaching, but soon choose to devote her life to raising a family. Dedicated to her three children and her husband, Irma was the backbone and the compass that encouraged and enabled them to all succeed, instilling in them a sense of morality and fairness that still guides them, as well as set the course for her four grandchildren. Irma spent years supporting her family and pursuing her hobbies and other interests in Huntington, New York and West Hartford, Connecticut. She inherited a love of photography from her father Aaron, who had a darkroom in their Kew Gardens Hills basement. Irma was always with her camera, capturing images on trips around the world and around town. Mort and Irma travelled extensively, with pictures of everything that caught her eye - from Alaska to China to her local supermarket - residing in her albums and in the homes of those she loved. Irma and her husband, Mort, were a family who gave back to their community, supporting with their time and financial resources the Jewish Federations in Hartford, CT and Palm Beach County Florida, and with support to the Jewish Children's Service Organization, Jewish Community Health, Jewish Family Services and JARC. Irma's commitment to education bore full fruit when she and her husband became sponsors of the Say Yes To Education program in Hartford, CT. The Handel's and two other families guaranteed the college education of the entire fifth grade class of 76 black and Latino children at the Annie Fisher Elementary School. The program lasted more than 13 years with nearly all of the children graduating with college degrees. During this same period Irma was a board member of the Hartford Art School at the University of Hartford. Her love of photography, music, and art led to contributions that endowed a photo studio and an annual scholarship for students in the graphic arts program, and with her husband Mort, they provided a gift enabling the University of Hartford to establish the Mort and Irma Handel Performing Arts Center as part of the Hartt School. Irma is survived by her husband and three children; Mark, his husband, Bill, Gary, his wife Alla, Karen Baker and her husband Mike. She will be missed by her four grandchildren - Emily & Drew Baker, and Kira & Alice Handel, as well as several nieces and nephews. Her sisters, Norma Sorrel and Selma Lichten predeceased her. Irma lived a full life, filled by the love of her husband, children, and grandchildren. She will be missed by many. Contributions can be made to Alzheimers Foundation of America located at 322 8th Avenue, New York City, NY 10001

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March 3, 2023

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August 23, 2022

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August 22, 2022

Barbara and Marc Stahl posted to the memorial.

Dianne Rechel

March 3, 2023

Irma and my mom Shirley used to swim together at the JCC. After my mom stopped driving, I would pick her up there and we would all go to lunch at the deli in Bishop's Corner. Irma was such a classy lady and a joy to be around, As a Hartt alum, I thank the Handels for all they did for education.

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Barbara and Marc Stahl

August 22, 2022

So sorry to hear about Irma. She added joy to our lives. May the many happy times you spent together help to heal your grief.
With Sympathy, Barbara and Marc

Stephen Michael Gryc

August 18, 2022

Dear Mort,
It was with great sadness that I read Irma's obituary in the Hartford Courant this morning. Your wonderful wife is beloved by all of us at the Hartt School. She has left a great legacy, and we are forever grateful to her. You have my sincerest condolences.

Patricia Kazakoff

August 17, 2022

Dear Mort,
I was saddened to hear of Irma´s passing; the last time Irma and I got together for lunch at Panera, she spoke so fondly of her partnership with you! She was full of joy, kind thoughts, and fun! Spending time with Irma was always entertaining and real....she loved life! And you! And her family!
She will be missed.
Pat Kazakoff

Shari Jones

August 17, 2022

Dear Morton and family,
I just learned of the passing of Irma I'm so sorry for your loss Irma was a wonderful women and was a dear client back in the day was a big part of my life at that time.She will be dearly missed.

Ron Segalla

August 17, 2022

Mort and family. With Sincere Sympathy.

Bob & Candy Killian

August 17, 2022

Candy and I were saddened to learn of Irma's death. While it has been several years since we saw them, like so many if her friends her wonderful photographic art on our walls remind us daily of this wonderful couple. I worked with them both during my quarter century on the board of regents at the Univ of Hartford, admired their generosity to Hartt and the Art school and enjoyed their company at many a dinner, play or other event. Our prayers are with the family. Truly, her memory is a great blessing.

Donn Weinholtz

August 16, 2022

I had the good fortune of working closely with Irma and Mort during their early years sponsoring the Say Yes to Education Program. I was so impressed by their consistent good will and enthusiastic support for the students from Annie Fisher School. From attending many awards ceremonies to chaperoning a trip to Harlem's Apollo Theater, the Handels were always there, walking the walk as well as talking the talk. I wish you the peace and comfort of many, many warm memories Mort and other members of the Handel family. P.S. A candid profile photo that Irma took of me, heartily laughing, at graduation has been on our refrigerator, for years. I've told my family that I'd like it to be my obituary picture

Robert Davis

August 16, 2022

I have spent many years enjoying the Handel Performing Arts Center as a Hartt School faculty member. I enjoyed visiting with Irma in the years after HPAC was completed. Our students and programs will forever be indebted to the Handel family. Blessings and peace to all.

HUMPHREY TONKIN

August 13, 2022

I was deeply saddened to learn of Irma's passing. She and Mort devoted so much of their time, skills and treasure to the University of Hartford and the university gained greatly from their commitment. My sincere condolences to Mort and the entire family.

Nancy Botcheller

August 12, 2022

Rest In Peace lovely Irma most sincere condolences Mort and family

Rosy Kapur

August 8, 2022

Irma you were such a generous and loving soul. I am honored that I had the privilege to work with you in your support of the Hartt school. You were always supportive and caring. RIP my friend. Our love, prayers and deepest condolences to the family!

Stephen Pier

August 8, 2022

Irma! You were always a warm and enthusiastic supporter of all we did at Hartt Dance and the building of the Handel Performing Arts Center has provided generations of aspiring artists a beautiful and welcoming home in which to learn their craft. We remember you and thank you every day as we enter to engage in our practice. We will miss your generous presence in our artistic lives.

Martin Ozer

August 8, 2022

My deepest condolences to Mort and his family
I used to live in Woodfield

Marshall & Sandy Rulnick

August 7, 2022

Dear Mort, Mark, Gary, Karen and family, Words, alone, cannot capture the life of Irma and the people she affected. I can think of so many other things which also defined her: classical concerts at the Bushnell, beautiful cards, including her photography on the cover to help us celebrate birthdays, her cheerfulness, her desire to help others, her philanthropy, along with Mort, etc. Irma was a dear friend to us, as neighbors in West Hartford and by long distance when she and Mort moved to Florida. We send our condolences to the entire Handel family and our love and admiration to Mort. May your memories of Irma sustain and guide you through your period of mourning and beyond.

Catha and Martin Abrahams

August 6, 2022

We were so sorry to hear of Irma's passing. We remember her fondly, and want to offer our sympathy to Mort, and to the family.

Walter Harrison

August 6, 2022

Irma was a wonderful woman with a great love of her family and community. She, Mort, Dianne, and I were friends for the entire 19 years I was president of the University of Hartford. Irma and I shared a birthday, and for many years the four of us had dinner together on our joint birthdays, which was always great fun. I will remember her as a woman filled with love and joy, with incredible eye for photography and art.

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