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Jai Raj Rajan Obituary
Jai was a brilliant, disciplined, humble, funny, generous, and respectful individual. He had the same energy and devotion later in life to his grandchildren, affectionately known as "Baba" to all. He loved working with his hands and mind, fearlessly taking on any project, big or small. Working alongside his children and extended family, he built what would be his family home for the next 40 years. He was a cartoonist, storyteller, toastmaster, poet, and consummate problem/puzzle solver. Jai was constantly on the move and was an avid runner having logged over 36,000 miles in his lifetime. Jai was a friend and father figure to anyone who needed one, excelling in generosity.
Jai had a distinguished educational background, earning a PhD in mechanical engineering from Duke University after completing his studies at Roorkee University. He went on to have a proud career as a civil servant with the United States Nuclear Regulatory Commission, working as a mechanical engineer for 35 years. Additionally, he served as a graduate instructor at the University of Maryland, imparting his knowledge and expertise in engineering. He imparted a sense of patriotism and privilege from coming to the United States as a young immigrant student.
Jai is survived by his loving and devoted wife, Tara, and his children: Narian (Shama, Neal, Jay, Devin, Rhea, Diya), Mala Matheson (Dave, Kenny, Rachel, Ryan), Rishi (Wendy, Emily, Mason, Avery, McCall), and Monica Dickey (Cliff, Kiran, Shayla, Rey), his only sibling, Rani Bhatnagar, extended family and friends accumulated over a lifetime of love and mutual respect.
A private memorial service will be held at a later date to honor Jai life and legacy. In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to the Wounded Warrior Project at https://www.woundedwarriorproject.org/donate or St. Jude Children's Research Hospital at https://www.stjude.org/donate/donate-to-st-jude.html.
Jai Raj Narain Rajan will be deeply missed by all who knew him. May his soul rest in peace.
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Subhash Garg
July 21, 2023
My Heartfelt Condolences to the family and friends on demise of Senior UOR /IIT R Alumnus.
May Jai Raj Rajan get eternal peace.
Subhash Garg,
President,
IIT ROORKEE AA,
MUMBAI CHAPTER.
Camp : San Francisco.
Sri Krishna Kumar, Former Chief Engineer & Member Public Service Commissio
July 21, 2023
I write as one of the extended family. JRN Rajan was son of my cousin Mrs Raj Kumari, who was the only child of my Phoopha ji Mr Raj Narain ISE. Their palatial residence lovingly built by Raj Narain saheb was known as Raj Bhawan situated at the crossing of Clyde and Jopling Roads. I started my career in UP Irrigation Department (only one from family after Mr Raj Narain himself) from Lucknow staying initially at Raj Bhawan. JRN Rajan was 4 years my senior in Roorkee University.
I pray Almighty to grant eternal peace to the departed noble soul and courage to bereaved family to bear this irreparable loss.
Charan Singh
July 18, 2023
Our deepest condolences to the entire Rajan family, specially to Raj Rani Bhatnagar auntie, Narain Rajan ji, Sushil Shankar bhai, dear Veer Shankar, Sister Priti on sudden demise of respected Jai Raj Rajan sir.
Apart from a sincere and kind person and all the things mentioned in the eulogy, respected Jai Raj Rajan Sir was a great engineer educated at World famous University of Roorkee (Now IIT Roorkee, India).
I also pay sincere homage to the departed, pious soul on behalf of IIT Roorkee Alumni Association of North America, as its US East Coast Coordinator...
Om Shanti Shanti
Charan Singh
New Jersey, USA
Lauren
July 9, 2023
My deepest condolences to my dear friend Monica and her wonderful family. I have enjoyed hearing joyful and heartfelt stories of her dad. May his memories bring peace and comfort.
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Bina
July 9, 2023
Mamaji was more Indian than any of us. Every year he would come to India and ask me the welfare of my children. I am a widow now and still look after his sister in Lucknow. He was a truly great soul. Love to mamiji
Amit Kumar
July 8, 2023
I grew up as a small boy in Mamaji's old ancestral house in Lucknow where he came every winter from Oct1999 to 2004. In the morning I would serve him tea and heat up the water on firewood for his bath. After the house got sold, he continued to come every year till 2016 and I went with him to his other house in Nainital. After that whenever I took the phone, he would ask my welfare. May his soul rest in peace.
Sushil shankar
July 7, 2023
Since 2000 mama was a regular visitor to India. He was my jogging partner in lucknow Lohia park after which we would buy jalebis from nèelkanth in gomtinagar. While returning he would take black coffee at the fun republic mall drive thru. In the evenings he would party at royal cafe and other places. So full of life. I remember stealing some dry fruits from his baggage. Love you mama.
Manju Gupta
July 5, 2023
Rajan Saab was a gifted, highly educated, sophisticated gentleman. He was a low keyed intellectual, always polite and considerate. He was a scientist and also enjoyed the arts and cultural events. The Rajan couple were loved and respected by their family and friends.
Offering our heartfelt condolences to Tara and Rajan family .
Manju Gupta
Neera and Deepak Ohri
July 5, 2023
MAY THE DEAREST LORD´S BLESSINGS BE WITH DEAREST TARA JI, AS WELL AS WITH HER LOVED ONES.
MAY DEAREST LORD BLESS JAI RAJ JI´S SOUL.
He was truly a humanitarian, polite, peaceful and kind person.
Missed seeing him for few years, but we remember his gentleness!
Pami, Anu, Raj Pahwa
July 5, 2023
Our condolences to Tara aunty, Shama, Narian and the entire Rajan family. Uncle was a sincere and kind person and all the things mentioned in the eulogy. My (Raj) fondest memory is spending an evening with him sipping Johnny Walker Green along with Narian and the boys at his house. Uncle engaging us all with his philosophy on life and shairee made for an amazing evening. RIP.
Raj Rani Bhatnagar
July 5, 2023
The best brother in the world. You will live in my heart and will always remain there. Love you brother.
Rani
Veena Agrawal
July 5, 2023
Tara very sorry to hear the sad news , my condolences to you and the family
Shama rajan
July 5, 2023
Baba was like a father to me for the past 40 years. He has been an amazing grandfather to all of my children. He is one of the most gentle, humble, sophisticated person I´ve known. He will be missed tremendously.
Merideth & Nestor Caryk
July 4, 2023
When we were kids Jai told us "Life is not a dress rehearsal. Live life to the fullest". I will never forget this and I we will never forget Jai. A pillar, someone who was always consistent, gentle, kind and willing to listen. We will never forget you.
Ritu Sahai
July 4, 2023
My sincere condolences to Tara & entire family. Rajanji was an extremely soft spoken person & respected everyone - A man of great qualities. He will be missed . May he RIP.
RENE Aracena
July 4, 2023
I feel very blessed for his frienship,I miss my friend .
Gita Bhatia
July 4, 2023
Vijay and I highly respected Rajan ji as a true gentleman, soft spoken, sincere, highly intelligent. Our condolences go out for Tara and the whole family.
Seema
July 4, 2023
Dear Tara Mom,
I am so sorry to hear about Baba. Our family has shared such wonderful times with Baba and you all. We will cherish these memories forever. He was always so gentle, loving, and patient. May he rest in peace. Pray for your strength during this tough time, and sincere condolences to you, Bhai, Mala, Rishi, Monica and families.
Seema
Denise Lane
July 4, 2023
My sincerest condolences!
Denise
Alka
July 4, 2023
So sorry for your loss Shama. My heartfelt condolences to your family and prayers and strength to bear this huge loss.
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