James Nelson Abernathy

1965 - 2017

James Nelson Abernathy obituary, 1965-2017, Morganton, NC

James Nelson Abernathy

1965 - 2017

BORN

1965

DIED

2017

James Abernathy Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 6, 2017.
James "Jimmy" Nelson Abernathy. 52, of Drexel, passed away November 2nd, 2017. Born on January 29th, 1965, he was the son of Nelson Moran Abernathy and Christine Elizabeth Dellinger Abernathy. He is preceded in death by his grandparents Sid Dellinger and Louise Powell Dellinger and Jim Abernathy and Marjorie Mull Abernathy. In addition to his parents, those left to cherish his memory are his daughter Ashley Abernathy and her fiancée Michael Christian Jr., his grandson, Papaws boy, Michael Christian, III, his yet to be born 2nd grandson, Maddox Gabriel, whom he already loved so much, his finacee Patty Harvey, his sister, Kim Clarke, his nephew Cody Clarke, and his uncles Henry, Phillip, Tim, Johnny, and David Abernathy and their families.


Jimmy graduated from Freedom High School and he also attended Western Piedmont Community College. He spent many years of his life as a manager at Hardees and Bojangles in Morganton and he also worked many years at the Department of Social Services in Burke County and later managed Wendy's in Marion. He was well known and loved by many.

He enjoyed nature and going to the mountains. Some of his favorite places were the South Mountains, Short off Mountain and the Linville Gorge.

A gathering of friends and family will be held at First Advent Christian Church in Morganton, NC Sunday, November 19th to celebrate his life and memory. The family will receive friends from 2:30-3:30 and the memorial service will follow.

In Lieu of flowers, donations may be made to a memorial fund for his daughters and grandsons, Ashley Abernathy, Michael and Maddox Christian. Checks may be mailed to Christine Abernathy at PO Box 236 Glen Alpine, NC 28628.

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February 7, 2021

Pam Penson posted to the memorial.

November 30, 2017

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November 29, 2017

Linda Buff posted to the memorial.

Pam Penson

February 7, 2021

JIMBO IT'S SNOWING I MISS MY FRIEND MY BUDDY MY PAL! I KNOW YOU'RE HEARING WHEN I'M TALKING TO YOU... THANK YOU FOR "ALL THE LITTLE NOTES YOU LEFT FOR ME TO FIND" YOU WILL LIVE FOREVER IN OUR HEARTS MEMORIES AND LOVE!!!
UNTIL WE SEE EACH OTHER AGAIN IN GOD'S GLORY... LOVE YA "ALWAYS"

November 30, 2017

May God's loving kindness and comfort help you and your family through this very sad time. Ps 29:11/Ps 71:21

Linda Buff

November 29, 2017

I didn't know Jimmy myself. I knew and worked with Christine and knew how much she loved him and all her family and how much she laughed telling all the family stories that included Jimmy. My sincerest condolences to all the family and friends.

Pamela Lukomski

November 19, 2017

Thoughts and Prayers are with Family during this time ... Enjoyed all the years we worked together!! ... Rest in Peace My Friend!! ♡♡

Gigi and family Phillips

November 18, 2017

Jim you will be very much I love u and never forget are little adventures we had but most of all everything you did for my family I'm sorry for your lost my prayers are with the family. Love Gigi Donnie Allan and Alishia from glean alpine nc

November 17, 2017

So sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.

Venus Mull , Morganton , N.C.

Brian Woody

November 17, 2017

Christine and Nelson, so sorry for your loss, praying for you, the family, and all Jimmy touched during his life.

Ricky and Robbin Swink

November 16, 2017

Ricky and I, are so sorry for the loss of a good man. We have already been missing a good friend of ours. It's hard to believe that we won't ever get to talk to or see him again. He has gone from us but, will never be forgotten.

Debbie causby

November 16, 2017

I sure you miss you big guy,loved working with you,See ya on tne other side my friend where life is prefect a d tneres no pain.love ya

Angelia wells

November 16, 2017

To my friend brother and comforter I will never forget are walks talks drives and just hanging out with you you showed me places no one else had shown me u helped me through the good the bad whatever I need Jim I will never forget u or are last talk we had the prayers we prayed the laugh we had is in my memory but one thing I do no you are no longer suffering and u are looking down over all of us yes you will be missed but never forgot you was a very special person and I think you for that love you big brother love goes out to the family.Love you Angelia"Gigi"Wells of Glean Alpine NcA

Allan Alishia Wells

November 16, 2017

Love you uncle Jim we will miss you prayers to the family Allan and Alishia

Tami Grady

November 15, 2017

Love and miss you my friend! We had some great times and I will cherish those memories forever. You re Home now, till we meet again.

Dwight Waters

November 14, 2017

Jimmy, thank you for including me in your adventures and for being there through many hard times. You will be missed. Rest in Peace old friend.

Judy Carrera

November 14, 2017

Jimmy was the best boss I have ever had he helped me out so much and taught me a lot. Heaven gained an Angel when you went thru Heavens door. To your family I am sorry they lost you and my God help them thru this time.Love you!!

Lynne Rutherford

November 14, 2017

Heaven has gained a great angel...gone but never forgotten..I'll miss you Jimmy but will hold on to all the great memories. Thoughts and prayers are with the family.

Julie Conner

November 14, 2017

Heaven gained another Angel and your family will always have you in their hearts. I know you're looking down on them with love and will always watch over your precious grandbabies.

Halie Johnson

November 14, 2017

Praying for you and your family. Ashley, I'm so sorry for everything you had to go through during this time. Praying for you always.

Stephen Patton

November 13, 2017

Will miss you always jim u was a good man

Jacqueline c. Kanipe

November 11, 2017

My sincere condolences to the family.

Patty Harvey

November 9, 2017

LOVE YOU ALWAYS

Patty Harvey

November 9, 2017

I Love You BABY and ALWAYS WILL miss you so much hugs n kisses my Big Bear Love you forever Patty Pooh

Art Mosley

November 8, 2017

I am saddened. You were 18 and Spartan put you to work in Morganton. That was 1983 and our relationship began. You and I worked as a team for Spartan until I retired. You were taught a lot in our company, but you also taught others a lot. You were a dedicated true co-worker. Prayers to your family and friends at this difficult time. I will always remember you.

Patty Harvey

November 8, 2017

With all our love from your fur babies they miss their daddy so much love from all of them

Patty Harvey

November 8, 2017

JIM ( MY TEDDY BEAR) I LOVE YOU BABY, I WILL LOVE YOU FOREVER AND ALWAYS, YOUR MY LOVE AND ALWAYS WILL BE YOU HAVE MEANT THE WORLD TO ME, I WILL NEVER FORGET YOU OUR BABIES MISS YOU SO MUCH, JUST KEEP YOUR SWEET SPIRT IN OUR HOME SO I CAN FEEL YOU BABY, I KNOW YOUR THERE, I MISS YOU SO MUCH, I HOPE YOUR SWEET HEAD IS RESTING IN PEACE, PLEASE SEND ME KISSES, BECAUSE IM SENDING YOU ONE TOO *** I LOVE YOU BABY FOREVER!!*** LOVE YOUR POOH

Chip Price

November 7, 2017

Jimmy you will be missed by everyone who knew you. We were friends for so long, it's difficult to imagine this world with out you! Heaven just gained a soul like no other. Rest in peace my friend. Find my dad and tell him I miss him. Ashley, Sissy, Paula, Chris, Nelson and Kim. I pray that peace will be with you all during this time. I love you all, because Jimmy loved you all.

Theresa Lawrence

November 7, 2017

My friend Jimmy! This has been a sad time. We have been friends for over 30 years. Good memories of the time we worked together! You were the best! And I have and will not forget you! You will be missed!!!

Ashley Abernathy

November 7, 2017

Daddy, I miss you so much. Everyday I think of something else I need to tell you, and then I stop myself because I can't. Watch over us until I join you in heaven. I love you.

November 7, 2017

May God's loving kindness comfort you and help you through this very sad time
Psalms 29:11

Bruce Elder

November 6, 2017

I was saddened to hear of Jimmy's passing, our prayers are with his family.

Shawnah Lunsford

November 6, 2017

The world was a better place when Jimmy was in it! I will miss him!

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