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Irene Moore Jolly
October 24, 2006
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2006
Debbie Lambert
October 24, 2006
My condolences to the Ganes Family at this time. I am saddened to hear about Mr. J.M. He was a very special person and he will be sadly missed. May God me with you in your time of loss.
Debrah Morris Hardee
October 23, 2006
My condolences to the Ganes Family at this time. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Debrah Morris Hardee and Lola H. Morris and family
Kelly and Edward Timmons
October 21, 2006
I just wanted the whole family to know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers. I will really miss Mr. J.M.
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Rita & Stoney Wrenn
October 21, 2006
We are so sorry to hear about Mr. J. M. He was always such a gentleman and a pleasure to talk to when he came in the bank. He always told how much he loves you, Helen.
Barbara and Boyd Lewis
October 21, 2006
Boyd and I were so sorry to hear of your loss. Our prayers are with you. Love, Barbara
Lynn Altman Hickman
October 21, 2006
Jody, Gusta, and family,
It has been many years since I have talked with any of you.
My thoughts and my prayers are with you during this time of loss. I know how hard it is to lose a family member. In this time of grief, I hope that you let the wondeful memories of your brother be uppermost in your minds to bring you comfort and laughter and peace.
Bettyann Turner
October 21, 2006
I'm so sorry to hear about J. M. I would like to be with you all but I am in Greensboro, N. C. My heart goes out to you. He will be missed. Love, Bettyann
Chuck and Sheryl Belding
October 21, 2006
Ganes Family,
We are saddened for your loss of Mr. J.M. His always present smile and kindness will surely be missed by us all. May God bless you with the strength, and grace you need so much now, and in the days to come. We hold you close in our hearts and prayers. Love in Christ,
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