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James Lowe Obituary
March 22, 1962 - September 21, 2020
Raleigh
James Robert Lowe
March 22, 1962 – September 21, 2020
James Robert Lowe, 58, of Raleigh passed away peacefully at his home on Monday, September 21, 2020. Born and raised in Wilson, he was the middle child of Pearla Ann and Vincent Lowe, Jr. James attended Fike High School in Wilson, North Carolina State University in Raleigh and Atlantic Christian College in Wilson. On November 27, 1993, James married his true love, Sydney Lassiter.
Known by all as Puddin', he was a loving and devoted husband, father, son and brother. He was a friend to all who knew him. Puddin' was in banking and financial services for twenty-three years but his true passions were sports, all things Wolfpack, the KA house, the Breakfast Club, the annual ACC Tournament gathering in Morehead City, and frequent trips to the beach and Harbour Island, Bahamas with friends and family.
Witty, humble and endearing, James did not need the spotlight. In fact, nothing quite put that irresistible twinkle in his crystal blue eyes like enjoying the glow of his three girls and wife, Sydney in the center of it.
Puddin' was immensely loved, will be greatly missed and thought of often with only the most wonderful memories.
James is survived by his wife, Sydney Lassiter Lowe; daughters, Grayson Lowe, Charlotte Lowe and Lucy Lowe, all of Raleigh; mother, Pearla Ann Lowe of Raleigh; brothers Lester Lowe and John Lowe and spouse, Cameron Lowe of Raleigh, along with 12 adoring nieces and nephews.
He was preceded in death by his father, Vincent Lowe, Jr.
A private family service will be held at 2pm on Friday, September 25 at Hayes Barton United Methodist Church in Raleigh. A livestream of the service can be watched at the following link: https://hbumc2.visitmysite.net/webstream/live.php. A celebration of his life will also be held at a later date.
The family wishes to extend their thanks and gratitude to the nurses and caregivers at The Cypress of Raleigh Home Care and Amedisys Hospice.
Flowers are welcome or please consider memorials in James' memory to UNC Lineberger Cancer Center, 101 Manning Drive, Chapel Hill, North Carolina 27514
Condolences directed to Joyner's Funeral Home and Crematory at www.joyners.net.
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Bettine Bikle Boyd
October 14, 2020
I was so heartbroken to hear that Puddin has left our world. Although I haven't seen him for years, he was a great friend and neighbor for many years growing up and in college. He was kind, witty, fun and always a joy to be around. My deepest sympathies, love and prayers to Sydney and his girls, Pearla Ann, Lester and John and Cameron. He will be sorely missed.e
Barbara Harris
October 6, 2020
I remember your beautiful wedding in Statesville, N. C. It was a fun time for everyone. So much love to your families.
Jeff Spray
October 2, 2020
My sympathies are directed to all the Lowe family and friends. I met Puddin through his Wilson, NC childhood friends - Wilkerson and Blackburn families - and enjoyed a few NC State football games tailgating with him/them. Puddin was a gentleman and always entertaining in every setting I encountered him. He will be missed by many.
Jeff Spray
Charlotte, NC
Anne M Odden
October 1, 2020
I just read about James passing and want to send my condolences to the Lowe family - particularly Pearla Ann with whom I shared many years of fun memories in the Roundtable Study Club in Wilson. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you! Love, Anne
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Hank Massey
September 25, 2020
So sad - miss him a lot already - take care family - we love you
Robert Flippin
September 23, 2020
My sincerest sympathy to all the Lowe family....Sydney, Grayson. Charlotte, Lucy, Lester, John, and Pearla Ann. James was dearly loved by all who knew him.
My love to all of you, Cherish your memories!
Robert
Kelton Durham
September 22, 2020
I am really sorry to hear the news of Puddin's death. Although it's been awhile since our days at Lou U (Louisburg College), the memories have certainly not faded. What an awesome guy! One of the nicest guys one could ever meet. Fun, quick-witted, laid back, but smart as a whip. I also enjoyed giving him a hard time when my hometown team, the UNC Tar Heels won the National Championship in 1982. He loved his Wolfpack and returned the favor the next year. I know he will be missed by his family and friends, but the memories will never fade. My love and prayers go out to his family and all of his friends. Much love, Kelton Durham
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