James Davis McCluskey

James Davis McCluskey obituary, Jupiter, FL

James Davis McCluskey

James McCluskey Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Apr. 19 to Apr. 20, 2023.
James Davis McCluskey, MD, MPH, PhD, FACOEM, passed away on Wednesday, April 12, 2023 at 1:20 p.m., at the young age of 52.

Jim, as he was known to all, was born on August 30, 1970 in Burlington, VT. He was the only son of Susan Twible Lestock, and the only grandchild of Harlan and Alice Twible.

Jim graduated from the University of South Florida with several degrees, including a BS in Biology, an MD from the College of Medicine, an MPH from the College of Public Health, and a PhD in Toxicology from the College of Public Health. Jim was a fountain of knowledge and expertise. His fascination with learning began at an early age. While the rest of us were outside playing during the summers, he was indoors, reading the encyclopedias cover to cover. It was nearly impossible to find a topic or subject that Jim did not know about, and more importantly, know about in great detail. He enjoyed teaching others, including his patients. Whenever his wife showed an interest in learning something new, he encouraged her to learn everything she could about the topic or skill.

On August 28, 1995, as Jim began his 2nd year of medical school, he met the love of his life, Diana Johnson McCluskey. Both Jim and Diana knew instantly that they had met "the one". It was a bit like those fairytales you hear about, but don't believe are true. They were engaged after 3 months of meeting, and married in 6 months. They were married for 27 years and 34 days. They spent basically every moment together, from their careers at the University of South Florida, to working from home, after life at the University.

Jim was born with a congenitally malformed kidney, and when he was only 18, the kidney failed. Despite the horrors of dialysis, Jim continued going to classes and earning top marks. After nearly 2 years on dialysis, he was blessed with a match for a kidney transplant. That kidney lasted for 30 years. When he discovered he needed a new transplant, several dear friends stepped forward to go through the extensive testing. Only Diana ended up being a match. She was scheduled to give him her left kidney in February of 2022, however it was not meant to be. Diana told Jim from the moment they met, that she would be the one to give him his next kidney. However by February 2022, other complex medical problems prevented him from being able to go through with the transplant.

Jim had a thriving private medical practice where he saw patients with complicated exposures. For the past several years he was the Medical Director for Publix Supermarkets. He also served as an expert witness in extremely complicated exposure cases. Jim was loved by his patients, because no matter what they were experiencing, he could relate, due to his own medical problems.

Jim was an incredibly generous individual, both with his time and effort, as well as financially. 10 years ago, Jim and Diana started the Workers Compensation Institute Give Kids The World fundraising gala that takes place every August. Together they would emcee the event, finding creative ways to empty the pockets of attendees, all for the goal of raising as much money as possible for Give Kids The World. Jim always put his money where his mouth was, and would pledge to match dollars raised for the "princess dress auction", a highlight of the annual event.

Jim was also very supportive of cancer research. As a two-time cancer survivor, he was always on the lookout for new and innovative ways to treat and eradicate cancer. He contributed heavily to MD Anderson Cancer Center in Houston, Texas, as well as to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital.

In addition to his medical career, Jim was a great lover of art, antiques and travel. Jim and Diana traveled regularly to England, France and the Caribbean, spending weeks at a time in each country. They also enjoyed traveling to big cities around the United States. Art museums and historic homes/palaces were a favorite of Jim's in his travels. He could sit in front of one beautiful painting for over an hour, noting every tiny detail that any normal individual would miss. It was not unusual for him to see one room at a museum, during which time Diana would have seen the entire museum, and would be waiting at the end, reading a book.

Jim is preceded in death by his mother, Susan Twible Lestock and his grandparents, Harlan and Alice Twible. He is survived by his loving wife Diana Johnson McCluskey.

Services will be held at Tequesta's First Baptist Church, 423 Tequesta Drive, Jupiter, FL 33469, on Saturday, April 29th at 1 p.m. A reception will follow, at the McCluskey home.

In lieu of flowers, Diana requests that contributions be made to MD Anderson Cancer Center or St. Jude Children's Research Hospital.

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June 10, 2023

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Alex and Rob Wheeler

June 10, 2023

Jim, what a wonderful genuine guy, always so fun and friendly. We loved meeting up in London and Miami, you were always so kind, genuine and caring.

We will miss our time with you, you touched a lot of people's hearts and its not surprisingly. Pure, loving and selfless.

We will miss you terribly.

Diana, you are the most courageous person and a true love for Jim.

Our door is always open, as yours where to us.

Love Alex, Rob, Emilia and Sofia xxxx

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May 8, 2023

There are so many inspiring attributes that Jim possessed that shaped him to be the man that we loved. In honor of this grand man, I propose this short, and non-exhaustive list, that illuminates what I appreciated most about him.

Jim was caring. He took extra special care of those he loved. Jim was generous, in every way possible. He would spend his time with you. He would give his attention to you. He loved to spoil his close ones rotten. He was the most charitable man I had ever met.

Jim was impressively intelligent, the human form of an encyclopedia. From very specific details about past empires or dynasties, to extreme niche classical music pieces or operas; Jim was able to talk about everything. Jim was extremely well travelled. He was able to recall any moment from trips abroad and make recount the experience to make you think you were there, or give the best recommendations if you told him about a future trip. I was lucky enough to travel to and or with Jim on many occasions. I will cherish these memories for the rest of my life.

Jim was the life of the party. Anytime he would join a dinner or outing, he was naturally the center of attention. I absolutely adored any time I got to spend with him. He was hilarious ! It was impossible for him to bite his tongue and thus he said the silliest things. Jim was so interesting. His hobbies were only the finest of arts. Operas and museums were his favorites. He could spend hours at both.

Jim was an honest man. Except any and every time we would play cards. He was so honest though that he would even announce that he had every intention on cheating. Jim was someone that I would go to for advice on life. He was a mentor to me and so many others.

Jim was a warrior. Through all the medical hardships that he went, he always had the most admirable outlook. He tried his hardest to downplay any pain that he had, and if he was ever once scared, I never knew. He had an unparalleled determination and commitment. Nothing could break Jim's spirit, no matter how difficult things got.

Jim taught me so many things. He gave me so many opportunities. He never made me feel judged. He always made sure to make me feel included. Jim changed my life. Thank you so much, Jim, for everything.

Bill Gunter, Class of 88

May 7, 2023

I met Jim in elementary school. He was a very kind person, even when we were little. His entire obituary speaks volumes to the great and kind man he grew up to be. May God grant him rest and may God give grace to Jim´s loved ones. What a great tribute to a life lived well! Rip Jim.

Rachel Sanders

May 6, 2023

I met Jim 15 years ago when Diana and I were in law school together. I have never met a couple who loved each other more and so graciously exhibited their love through acts of kindness and generosity for the benefit of others. I enjoyed the story of how Jim asked Diana out one night then immediately asked her out for the next night and they have been inseparable ever since. I appreciate the intonation in Diana´s voice when she talks about her conversations with Jim, as there is a special sound reserved exclusively for him. I admire how they pursued challenges; while Diana was in law school, Jim renovated the house; while Jim held multiple positions, Diana wrote novels. It was exciting to hear about their adventurous pursuits which led to the UK move. While outwardly all may have appeared to be smooth sailing, sadly there was a dark undercurrent in which waves of uncertainty would arise at regular intervals in the form of checkups to gauge when the tsunami of kidney issues would hit. And now that it has hit and taken the dreaded toll, my heart breaks for you, Diana. I cannot imagine the depth of your despair having lost the love of your life, your soulmate and a huge part of your identity.
With lots of love and lifting you in prayer,
Rachel

Jimmy y Maritza

May 1, 2023

We were blessed to have spend so many great times with both of you. May your happy memories give you peace and comfort during this challenging time. With all our love.

Traci & Pat

April 29, 2023

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April 29, 2023

I love you my "brother", I´m going to miss your wisdom, talking me down off the ledge, and generally always having my back and my best interest in mind even when I didn´t/couldn´t! You will be severely missed-so crazy to think you´re not there for me to call you anymore... Fly Free!

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Naila

April 29, 2023

James lived bright and meaningful life, he accomplished so much and was able to make difference for so many. He will be remembered as extraordinary human being with kind giving heart. Dear Diana, may he rest in eternal peace, my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Caryl Slobasky

April 28, 2023

Jims passing reminds us all what Life Lived to the fullest truly represents. Challenges were just that for Jim, and Diana , a woman like no other,who walked every step through the journey they shared. The love story of Jim and Diana from the beginning to the end and beyond will remain a beacon of light for those of us who sometimes lose our way.
I pray now that Diana will find her way and in time she will. Jim is at peace and the life he lived in a shorter time was more than most.
We thank Jim, for making each of us better for having the great fortune to know him!!!

The Pahlabod Family

April 28, 2023

When we moved into our home in London with our two children, we were overjoyed to meet Jim and Diana and to have them as our neighbours. We celebrated a few Thanksgivings together where we were treated to Diana´s world class cooking, Jim´s witty banter and their overwhelming hospitality and generosity.

We got to know Jim on those wonderful evenings but sadly travel restrictions during the pandemic meant we missed the opportunity to get to know him better. However, in those few privileged moments, Jim always impressed with his sharp mind, vast knowledge and worldly perspective. We will all miss him greatly.

Isabel

April 27, 2023

I wish I could´ve met Jim and Diana under different circumstances, in which I´d like to believe they would´ve adopted me as a friend along their incredible journey of life together. In a weird way, I´d like to believe that they did. Nevertheless, it was an absolute honor to have taken care of Jim these last few months - not only did the team get to witness his utmost patience, strength, and kindness, but even more selfishly so, I got to witness love in the purest of forms. I may not get to attest to Jim´s life or career - though reading these stories, I can only imagine the positive influence he´s had on anyone lucky enough to have met him - but I can absolutely say, I have never witnessed a love more strong or tangible than that between Jim and Diana.
Thank you Diana for sharing all of your beautiful stories together. His life is remembered through them.

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April 26, 2023

To have known Jim (My Brother) in the last 6 years of his life was an Honor and a Privilege. We had so many fun times together, we at times lived and travelled all together as two couples, and created forever memories. I strongly believe Jim has just moved on to his next life and we will all meet up one day in the not to distant future to continue our close friendship and adventures. I know for sure that Jim, Diana and my wife Allison all believe the same.
We miss you for now Jim, the best of men. xx

Danielle Philippart

April 26, 2023

I am awfully sorry for you Diana.
I will Always remember Jim as a smart and sweet gentleman.He was taken from us too soon.
I knew he enjoyed so much staying at Tocqueville
Big hugs and prayers.
Gode bless you Diana
Danielle Philippart

Barbara and David

April 26, 2023

Gram use to say " we are as children who we will be as adults"
Jim, you were full of light, love, joy and laughter. Such a happy little boy and young adult- grateful for the smallest things whether sharing a banana split or watching a favorite movie together.
I was like your second Mom, but better! You could share things with me you didn´t want to share with others or at least test them out- Lol!
When your world fell apart, so did ours. But with love, faith and the support of family and friends you persevered. We were so proud of you and so very grateful for the outcome!
Your love of learning came from your Grandpa and Uncle- such wonderful role models for you. You were a little sponge. Grandpa and a dear friend built you your own workshop which you said you would move if your Mom ever sold the house!
Gram and her " lumpy mashed potatoes and lots of laughs were your comfort spot.
Your Mom adored you- you were her world from day one.
No words appropriate for the loss of the light of your presence in our lives.
Sweet memories, so very glad we were part of them. Until we meet again . Barbara and David

Wes

April 25, 2023

Dr. McCluskey was an excellent physician and a genuinely kind person. He clearly cared about doing a great job. I am glad I was lucky enough to have worked with him.

Steve Mlynarek

April 24, 2023

Hi Diane
I am very sorry. Jim was a good man.

Luana C Anderson

April 24, 2023

Such a sad ending to a courageous young man whom I knew as a small boy, funny, engaging, eager to learn and anxious to please his elders. Along with family and friends we agonized each time a transplant possibility presented itself, praying for success. Arranging dialysis at our vacation location so Jimmy and his mother mother could enjoy a normal getaway... Camping trips and building projects shared with love and enthusiasm, all part of a support system long in place before and after the transplant day. I remember especially an aunt and uncle who cherished their only nephew, and did everything in their power to help raise him and advise him.
So sorry to have lost you so soon.

Lori Streets Muldoon

April 24, 2023

Jim served as an expert for my clients in asbestos cases. I knew that when I ran into him at a conference, he would remember me and be delighted to spend a few minutes in conversation. He was gracious, kind, intellectually curious, and professional. In addition to being an excellent expert witness on the technical side, he was warm and approachable. That's a rare combination. Further, he could comprehend hundreds of pages of documents and produce an excellent report in record time. He was gifted, yet humble, and a sweet man. He was taken from us too soon. I'm so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.

Donna Haiduven

April 24, 2023

I worked with Jim and Diana at the USF Center for Biological Defense. Jim and I co-taught 4-hour, 8-hour and 2-day bio readiness programs for several years. I will always remember how knowledgeable Jim was and how he so enjoyed sharing that knowledge with others. The participants in these programs loved his style. The other thing that stood out was how Jim and Diana adored each other. Diana, we are so very sorry for the loss of your beloved husband. We hope the years you had and love you shared together bring you strength during this unbelievably difficult time.

Donna Haiduven & Michael Gronquist

Roger "JA" Stelk

April 22, 2023

I met Jim (my brother´s college friend) about thirty years ago prior to either of us meeting our wives. I have read about how smart, studious, generous, cultured and compassionate he was. But I must say, while Jim was all these things, what I remember most is how fun and funny he was. We spent most of our times together just having a blast. In fact, his last text to me was basically about he needed to get past these health struggles so we could have some more fun.
My memories of him always leave me smiling.
Condolences to Diana and all who knew him.
RIP, my friend.

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Ron and Linda

April 22, 2023

We are the in-laws and Jim always had special names for us. We loved it. It was his way of letting us know he loved us. We loved Jim with our whole hearts. What a son-in-law! Thank you Jim for so many precious memories. Picnics in Jupiter, picnics at Moses Cone, picnics at Honeymoon Beach, Palm Beach and so many other places. Our trip to England was a wonderful adventure thanks to you. When we played hearts it frustrated you because of my game strategy or lack there of. You never knew what to expect next from your mother-in-law. That was so much fun - still makes me laugh. We admired your intellect and enjoyed listening to your take on things. We appreciated your work ethic - always above board. You cared so much for others no matter the situation. You and Diana were an amazing team! We were blessed to have you as a part of our family.

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April 21, 2023

Love you and miss you, Jim. Loads of happy, fun memories with you and Dee in DC, NY, NC, CO, and home in FL. Jim was a thoughtful, smart, caring, generous person. So many years of memories, I think what stands out is that I always felt cared for and happy when we were together. I´ll miss my brother-in-law and all the things that made him Jim. One of a kind.

Tammy Boyd

April 21, 2023

I will always remember Jim and his passion for Give Kids The World Village gala. He and his beautiful wife, Diana always emceed this annual fundraising event. He was a showman, articulate, humorous, and dignified. I´ve missed their presence at this annual event. He was an inspiration to many who knew him. God bless the McCluskey family.

Danny Hefner

April 20, 2023

Jim was a one in a million type of person. He truly made the world a better place by just being himself and he enjoyed seeing happiness in the people around him. Words can´t express how great of a man that Jim was, but having the privilege to get to know him made me a better person and I know he´s watching over us encouraging all of us to put our best foot forward as he always did.

Karen Olson

April 20, 2023

Jim's energy, diligence, and intelligence made him stand out as exceptional, even amongst other physicians. At Summit, when we had a complex exposure, the first question was, can we get Dr. McCluskey on this? He was an inspiring teacher at USF. I am so sorry for your loss, Diana.

Susan King

April 20, 2023

Jim was a remarkable gentleman
He helped save my life when I ate poisoned mushrooms, as busy as he was in his life and with his work ,he did all he could to help
Although my husband James and I did not share too many years with Diana and Jim, they both will always remain in our hearts
We wish we had more memories together
Rest in peace Jim after so many surgeries and bravery
Suzie and James Day

Kathy and David Edmonds

April 19, 2023

Diana,
Uncle David and I always enjoy the times you and Jim stayed with us in Starke, Fl., and North Carolina. Playing games or just sitting around talking. Going to the Outlet stores in N.C. the shooting range in Starke.
We enjoyed getting cards and pictures from the different places you and he traveled too. We will miss him.

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Eric

April 19, 2023

I will deeply miss Jim. We met when we were 17 and since he was 1 day older than me, I've always looked up to him (plus he was actually an expert in quite a bit or everything if you asked him). My sympathies go out to Diana and really all who knew him. He will leave a great big hole in this world. I wish we were able to spend more time together as adults; however, will be grateful for the extended time we did have as roommates and classmates. My friend you will be forever missed.

Allison

April 19, 2023

In loving memory of our darling brother. We will love you and miss you always.

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