James Bernard Neeland

James Bernard Neeland obituary, PUTNAM, CT

James Bernard Neeland

James Neeland Obituary

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James Bernard Neeland, of Putnam, loving husband, father, grandfather and great-grandfather, passed away quietly and peacefully on Tuesday, March 4th, surrounded by the multi-generational legacy of love he had created.

Born on January 19th, 1941, James set many goals for his life, complementing his love of family with career success as a well-regarded, highly-respected professional in the field of precision machining. James' aptitude for his chosen vocation led him to teach his trade to up-&-coming young machinists and even to provide valuable insights and expertise in the production of household products as varied as the Tupperware line. His decades-long career was a source of joy and pride for himself and his loved ones.

James' dedication to his country manifested in his Service in the United States Army, from 1958 to 1961. In later years, James gave back to his fellow Veterans in the State of Connecticut and beyond by volunteering with the AmVets organization, rising to the level of Vice-Commander for Connecticut. His dedication to the cause of our Veterans extended even beyond James' affiliation with the group, as he personally visited many ailing Veterans over the years, doing what he could to provide comfort. James was a remarkable person whose life will serve as an exemplar of success, on a variety of levels, for many.

James Bernard Neeland is survived by his cherished wife of 62 years, Marcella Joan Neeland, his children - Stephanie, Susan, Lorraine, James, Thomas and Elaine - and an ever-widening circle of grandchildren and great-grandchildren who will always remember their beloved "Poppy" as the caring, kind, generous man he was.

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July 20, 2025

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March 8, 2025

Susan James daughter posted to the memorial.

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Joseph and Patricia Neeland

July 20, 2025

Dear Aunt Marcy and Uncle Jimmy, Rest in Christ Jesus' Everlasting Arms of Love, Forgiveness, Mercy, Patience, Fortitude, Light, Peace, Grace and Truth Forevermore, Yes and Amen!!!
Joseph and Patricia Neeland

Joseph and Patricia Neeland

July 20, 2025

Susan James daughter

March 8, 2025

Kimberly Rizun

March 6, 2025

My deepest condolences to Lorraine and family. May you find peace in all the beautiful memories you shared.
Kim Rizun

Valerie

March 5, 2025

We love you so much Poppy. Your were the most amazing grandfather. May you rest in the sweetest peace. We will love you forever. Love always,Valerie, Michael, Ryder, Greyson, and Juliana

Susan Ashlaw

March 4, 2025

Dad, I love you so very much, and miss you dearly. Rest in peace sweet father. Your loving daughter, Susan.

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