Jarrett Thomas Halualani Anderson

1996 - 2018

Jarrett Thomas Halualani Anderson obituary, 1996-2018, Portland, OR

Jarrett Thomas Halualani Anderson

1996 - 2018

BORN

1996

DIED

2018

Jarrett Anderson Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Jul. 16 to Jul. 22, 2018.
Jarrett Thomas Halualani Anderson
Feb. 11, 1996 - June 28, 2018
Jarrett was born Feb. 11, 1996, in Milwaukie. He attended St. John the Baptist school and Clackamas Middle College. Jarrett served as an altar boy at SJB for years. He worked at various businesses in the Milwaukie area and volunteered frequently at the Milwaukie Senior Center. Jarrett had been struggling with various issues over the years and tried hard to overcome them. His challenges in the last month were particularly intense. Jarrett took his own life June 28, 2018.
Jarrett was a real animal lover. The family's dog and cats would run to greet him when he walked into the room. Even when he moved out of the house, he'd return almost every day to take his beloved dog Kila out for a walk.
He loved his technology. It was rare to see him without a pair of headphones around his neck. Ask him about them and you'd get a detailed description of all the features, delivered with an infectious enthusiasm.
Jarrett was a computer whiz, whether building one or solving someone's digital problem. He was always willing to help and he usually had the right answer. Jarrett was a gamer with a passion for a well strategized battle.
He walked with a bounce in his step and almost always had a smile on his face. He had a firm handshake and had a way of making you feel welcome when he saw you. Few knew that he reached black belt status in Taekwondo.
Jarrett loved his family. When he'd hug his mother Barbie, all pretense of being a stoic young man would just melt away. He was very protective of his younger sister Jami and showed her an abundance of love and affection. Jarrett and his older sister Candice had a strong bond and shared the same quirky sense of humor. His Aunt Karen was also important to him. He would spend hours on the phone with her and enjoyed spending time at her home.
He was a person of determination. When he set his mind to something, he usually accomplished it.
Jarrett is survived by his mother, Barbie Lyons; sisters, Candice Kelly and Jami Anderson; numerous cousins, aunties and uncles both in Hawaii and in Oregon; and by his dog, Kila.
A celebration of Jarrett's life will be held at 6 p.m., Tuesday, July 24, 2018, at St. John the Baptist Catholic Church at 10956 S.E. 25th Avenue in Milwaukie. The family requests that colorful clothes be worn as a way to share the joy of a life that ended too soon. A reception in the church hall will immediately follow the service.
Please help those who struggle with mental illness and addiction issues by donating in Jarrett Anderson's name to the Union Gospel Mission in Portland. The checks may be mailed to Union Gospel Mission at 3 N.W. 3rd Ave., Portland 97209, Attn: Kevin Campbell with Jarrett's name in the memo section.
Please take the time to show kindness to others. Everyone is fighting a battle of some kind. Aloha.
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August 16, 2018

Someone posted to the memorial.

July 24, 2018

Linda Kelley posted to the memorial.

July 24, 2018

Cathy Stewart posted to the memorial.

August 16, 2018

Sorry for the loss of your loved one. May God give you comfort and help you through this.( 2 Th 2:16,17)

T.H

Linda Kelley

July 24, 2018

May the happy memories of Jarrett bring you peace and joy. Sending you strength and love during this difficult time.

Cathy Stewart

July 24, 2018

Barbie , Jamie and Family ,
You're in my thoughts and prayers.
I struggle to find words , there are none .
But know , I will be kinder , more loving and thoughtful. This is a reminder , this will change me .
May the Lord give you all strength & peace .

July 24, 2018

I met Jarrett when he was 3, he was such a
sweet, loving little boy, always with a huge
smile, cute giggles and those beautiful eyes.

Jarrett, may your new journey bring you the loving peace you deserve, you touched so
many during your brief stay on this earth.

My deepest condolences to your mom, sisters, aunts & uncles and friends, who loved you dearly.

Nancy McCoy Felton ~ Gresham.

Judy Herson

July 24, 2018

Peace and love to Jarrett.

Dana Day

July 23, 2018

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Georgia Dennis

July 23, 2018

Praying for his Mom and sister.
I was lucky to work with Jarrett. We both worked at Safeway together. I worked in floral, and he in produce. It seemed as though every time I worked with him the more I noticed his amazing kindness. I would be putting a bouquet together and witnessed him helping a lady get a new cart because hers was broken, or help a mother with babies calm her baby, and countless other kind things Jarrett did. It wasn't long and the boss noticed too, and Jarrett was awarded the Employee of the month.
Time passed...
A couple years later Jarrett walks into the Milwaukie Center where I work! When we saw each other we instantly hugged, and reminisced about our Safeway days. We had good times working together in the kitchen at the Center. He was so helpful taking on the dishes. Jarrett also helped us pack food too. He seem to really love being there. One time he made yummy banana bread and brought in to share with everyone working. Jarrett had a special relationship with so many people at the center. I am so thankful to be one of them. I will always remember my sweet friend, and in his memory try to be more like him and spread kindness. This world will not be the same without him
Sending prayers to his family and friends

Peach Tribute Garden

Brian Sien

Sent Flowers

Cyndi Curran

July 23, 2018

I didn't know Jarrett well, but he was my downstairs neighbor for a bit. He seemed so bright & personable. I am so sorry to hear that he is no longer in this world. Sending love to his family.

Brookley Mulkey

July 22, 2018

Hi, I was from his church he went to sometimes. His family needs prayer. My 8 year old sister was inpacted greatly by him. I dont think I can tell her. She had so much in common with him and she could tell he had wanted to take his life but she did not tell me. I did not know and I did not realy get to know him but my sister sure did.

Pj

July 22, 2018

I know none of you but my heart urged me to let you know I will make a conscious effort to show specific kindnesses in Jarrett's honor over this next year. I cannot fathom the pain of your loss and I admire your urging people to recognize all of us have battles and need kindness.
Pj

The Guasco's

July 22, 2018

Prayers have been sent from the Guasco family.

Karen Colberg

July 22, 2018

I just read Jarrett's tribute. It broke my heart. I am so sorry.

He sounds like a wonderful, warm and loving young man. This is a tragic loss not only to those who loved him, but to the world.

I have an adult son who struggles with mental illness and is often suicidal. So I have some understanding of what you've been through.

I am broke at the moment, but I will save the info. I will make a contribution to Union Gospel Mission in Jarrett's name.

Bless your hearts. Try not to feel guilty. Take good care of each other.

Tracey Taylor

July 21, 2018

Barbie and Jami, family and friends - our thoughts and prayers are with you. Your loss is unimaginable and we hope you find some peace in your faith and from loving friends. I only met Jarrett once, when he was a young boy learning advanced swimming - I remember the pride in your voice when you spoke of him and introduced us. I know your son is in a better place and looking down sending you comfort. We will be at the service, and I can't wait to hug you.

Kae Pemberton

July 19, 2018

Jarrett came to my church a few times and everyone absolutely loved him! I was able to help him move from Heatherbrae to his new apartment when he moved and we got to know each other pretty well. I am so very sad to hear about this! I wish there had been a way I could have helped to prevent this. I don't know if I'll be able to make it to his service but please know that I, along with several others from Milwaukie Christian church will keep your entire family in our prayers. Be at peace, Jarrett.

teresa

July 19, 2018

May God's healing grace fill each of you, angels uplift you, and the memory of Jarrett's gentle, impish smile help to ease the emptiness in your heart and lives. He remains with you from the other side of the veil and am sure he'll be among the first running to greet you at Heaven's Gate.
Much love and prayers!

L. M.

July 19, 2018

My heart is heavy for you. I can only imagine how much pain your family and friends are going through. Losing a loved one at any time is so hard , but more so when so young. Knowing there is a future for those we have lost can be very reassuring. May the hope and promise at John 11: 24 & 25 bring you peace & strength during this difficult time. My heartfelt condolences and prayers of comfort to all the family.

July 18, 2018

Auwe my sister Barbie..It is with a sad heart that I read about the loss of your keiki. I know you and your husband's loss is most devastating. May Jarrett be surrounded with Ke Akua's love in his heavenly kingdom and may Jarrett's love forever live in your heart and the hearts of all his ohana and friends. God be with all of you in this time of saddness and give you all strength. Aloha Lyle.

Judy Herson

July 18, 2018

Barbie and Jami,
My heart aches for your family. I will always remember Jarrett and his adorable smile. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Tami Halvorson

July 18, 2018

This is so tragic. I remember Jarrett when he was just a little boy as he lived right next door to me. I always saw him with his headphones walking his dog and even when I moved away for many years, when I returned and moved back into my old house, I recognized Jarrett as a grown man working in the produce department at Safeway. I didn't really know Jarrett personally, so it's nice to learn these things about him. It's so very sad that someone who had ambitions and talents fought so hard emotionally. This is such a shock and I will miss seeing him walk past my yard with music in his ears and his dog in tow. My heart brakes for Barbie and Jamie and anyone else who's life he's touched. Rest in peace Jarrett.

Sheryl Haxton Warren

July 18, 2018

Barbie, I am so so sorry for your loss. My heart aches for you. Please know that you are loved and prayed for during this difficult time.Aloha,Sheryl

John and Monica Downey

July 18, 2018

Barbie and Jami our hearts are broken for you. Jarrett was a wonderful, caring young man. He will be missed.

Tina Charron

July 18, 2018

I'm so sorry to hear about your son. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Robin & Mike Regan

July 18, 2018

Barbie, we are so deeply sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts
Sincerely, The Regan Family

Sonja Stumpf

July 18, 2018

May you all find peace....

Sending love and hugs to you,the girls, friends and family.

The Stumpf's

The Root Family

July 18, 2018

He is no longer in pain, no longer battling his demons. Jarrett was a part of our family. He is missed and will be in our hearts and minds forever. Love to Barbie and Jami and all of Jarrett's family.

July 18, 2018

Our deepest sympathy to Barbie, Jamie and the family for your loss. Our love and prayers are with you.
Jill and Mark Lewis

Patty Callahan

July 18, 2018

Barbie,I am so sorry for your loss and the grief you must be feeling right now. I hope that the memoires of the years you had with Jarrett sustain you through this difficult time.

Sincerely,
Patty Sarason Callahan

July 18, 2018

Please accept my deepest sympathy. Losing a loved one in death is never easy. One day many will have the opportunity to live again. May the hope of everlasting life found at John 17:3 sustain and comfort you during this difficult time.
VW

Monica Cory

July 17, 2018

Thinking of you and Jamie and your loss. So very sorry.

Lisa Op Hall

July 17, 2018

Prayers and condolences Barbie. He was a nice young man. ❤

Beverly O'Sullivan

July 17, 2018

To Barbie and all the Lyons family I extend aloha from the O'Sullivan Ohana. May memories of our good times together give you comfort. Look out, St. Pete,(as Uncle Libert would say) there's going to be a luau with ono kaukau and lots of singing. We cherish our lives together as we send Jarrett's spirit to be with his angels in Heaven. Mom/Aunty Bev.

Anna Bowman

July 16, 2018

Flying now with the angels. May we remember to be kind to those around us always.

Aloha pumehana...

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