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JESSICA GRAF Obituary
Age 25, of Wilkins Twp., passed away at the Cedars of Monroeville with her loving family by her side Monday, April 18, 2011. Jessica was born December 1, 1985 to Patti and James Graf. She graduated from Woodland Hills High School in 2004 and in 2008, was diagnosed with a brain tumor that she fought courageously for three years. Jessica was always grateful for the loving thoughts and prayers that were sent her way. Jessica had an amazing sense of humor that will be remembered by all who knew her. She always had a loving smile, and a kind word or funny story to tell. Jessica had a love of travel that she shared with her parents. Jessica is also survived by her grandfather, Donald McGraw; grandmother, Elizabeth Graf; brother, Donald (Barbara) Lake; aunts, Suzie (Jay) Tata and Jill (Roy) Smith; uncle, Roy Graf; and cousins, Timothy, Suzanna, Jennifer, Scott, and Courtnee. A memorial visitation will be Wednesday 6-8 p.m. with a service to follow at the JOBE FUNERAL HOME & CREMATION SERVICES, INC. corner of Shaw & Triboro Avenues, Turtle Creek (412-823-1950). Memorial contributions may be made to a charity of one's choice.
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April 29, 2011
Patti-I don't know if you remember me but we worked together at CVS many years ago. I still keep in touch with Janet Gerkin and she told me about your lose. I am soo very sorry. I remember your love for your daughter like it was yesterday. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Shari Squeglia
LInda & Gil Falvo
April 27, 2011
Patti, Jim & Family,
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. I am proud to have known Jess. She was always smiling and so pleasant to talk to. You and your family have our deepest sympathy. You are always in our thoughts and prayers.
Uncle Dennis & Aunt Jenine McGraw
April 21, 2011
Patti, Jim and Donny,
We want you to know we are feeling your pain and that our thoughts and prayers are with you all. With Love
Judy Switalski
April 21, 2011
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Graf, I am so sorry for the loss of your precious daughter, Jessica. I know the pain of child loss, and want you to know, you and your family will be in my prayers always!
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tina peters
April 20, 2011
rip jessica u truly r an angel
Marsha Seaman
April 20, 2011
Dear Patti,Jim and Family
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
terri wilson clarek
April 20, 2011
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998
S C
April 20, 2011
Dearest Patti & family,
I just learned of your daughters passing and I am truly saddened by this. Please know that you are in my prayers and may Jessica rest in peace. Warmest Regards,
Sandy from Apple
Christie McGraw-Maxwell
April 20, 2011
Dear Patti and Jim, My dad told me yesterday about Jess. We have been getting updates from Suz and Aunt Judy the last few months. We love you all very much and our prayers and hugs are embracing you all. Jess and Aunt Sara both put up a huge fight.. Now they are together and out of pain... Travelling Heaven together.... Seeing everything they ever wanted to see.... Love and Hugs from your family in California....
Sheri Gallic
April 20, 2011
Patti & Jim,
They say rain is tears from heaven. As it poured today I looked up and knew Jess was looking down on us. No matter what was happening, that child could make you laugh, she had a heart bigger than all the heavens. We will miss her dearly. Close your eyes, place your hand on your heart, and listen to that giggle,,,she will be with you forever.
Danielle Ragan
April 19, 2011
Patti, Jim and Family,
My deepest sympathy to you and family. Jess was amazing as she was so brave. She truly is my hero and now an angel up in the heaven above. Take comfort in knowing that she will be in your heart forever and you will be with her again. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Elizabeth Bordoni
April 19, 2011
Dear Patti and Jim (and family),
Jess is a one-of-a-kind young woman who will remain in the loving memories of those that had the privilege of knowing her. I am so happy to have grown up on the same block foralmosts two decades with her. We certainly shared some fun times. I deeply regret that I will not be able to attend her memorial visitation and service. Words are insufficient to express the sympathy that I feel for you all, and I pray that God will lift your spirits as you go through this difficult time.
I will always marvel at Jess's tenacity, patience, and perseverance as she fought the tumor even through all the difficult symptoms she faced daily. Watching you all pull together and fight together was a true testament to the love of an incredible family. May God bless and keep you as you look forward to seeing Jess again someday in heaven.
Love and Prayers,
Libby
Psalm 46:1
God is our refuge and strength. a very present help in trouble.
Donald Lake
April 19, 2011
For: Jessica
I imagine you are in heaven riding your dolphin through the clouds. Your strength, compassion, and kind heart made us all so very proud of you. Words cannot express how much I already miss your smile and your laugh. It's always going to be me and you kiddo and I will never leave your side. I taught you how to drive, held you when you cried, and beat up a bully or two along the way. As we were growing up you looked up to me in every way. Now I will look up to you. At least until we see each other again someday.
Love Always,
Your Big Brother
Marianne Landman
April 19, 2011
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Vicki Galzerano
April 19, 2011
Dear Patti & Family,
So sorry for your loss. Jess was an angel on earth and will be a bigger one up in heaven looking over us all.
Love
Vicki & Deb
ruth ray
April 19, 2011
Patti, Jim ,Mack and family I'm sorry to hear of Jessica's pasting, may you take comfort in knowing that god holds his angel's near. You are in my prayers.Child hood friend of Patti's Ruth Ray "Seaman"
Maryanne Linkes
April 19, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss. As a mother, my heart goes out to you. Please know your family will be in my daily prayers.
April 19, 2011
Dear Patti & Jim,
Although I never knew Jessica, I have heard & read many wonderful things about her. You were truly blessed to have her in your lives even if it was for a short while. I pray that you might take comfort in knowing you'll all be reunited one day & that she has passed on to a new life.
Loving thoughts & prayers,
Cindy D. CVS Caremark
April 19, 2011
Dearest Patti,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. Jessica fought a long hard battle with dignity and grace I know you will always love and miss her she will always be by your side.
My prayers are with you and your family
Linda Greene
Rich & Sherlyn Ireland
April 19, 2011
Dear Pattie & Jim,
We extend our deepest sympathy to all of you. We will be praying that you find comfort in the wonderful memories of Jessica.
Richard Kacin
April 19, 2011
Patti and Jim: My warmest most heartfelt sympathies on the loss of your Daughter. I have memories of her talking to my dogs when she was not more than 10 or 11. She was always nice to me. There is no way I can comprehend your grief but I can only pray that she is now gone to a place where there is no pain or suffering.
April 19, 2011
Dear Patti & Jim,
I am so proud to be your friend and Jessi's adopted Grandma. My love & prayers are always wuth you. Jess will always be right here in my heart.
Trudy & Grandma Trude
Charlotte Connolly
April 19, 2011
I wish that I had had the opportunity to meet Jessica. Warm thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
Vicki, Russell & Austin Schantz
April 19, 2011
Patti, Jim. Mac & Family,
We light this candle in memory of your dear, sweet little girl. We are proud to have had Jessie in our lives. May your memories bring you comfort. You are in our thoughts and prayers. May Jessi rest well. God bless her and your family. We love you all!
Rose Baldauf
April 19, 2011
Patti and Jim,
We are so sorry to hear about Jessica. We will fondly remember her warm smile and kind nature.Please know you are in our thoughts.
Tom & Rose Baldauf
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