Jill Helen McINTYRE

Jill Helen McINTYRE obituary

Jill Helen McINTYRE

Jill McINTYRE Obituary

Published by Vancouver Sun and/or The Province on Sep. 29, 2011.
McINTYRE, Jill Helen August 6, 1952 - September 23, 2011 Jill slipped away peacefully on September 23. She leaves behind her devoted husband David Ashby, children Elizabeth and Donovan, sisters Jean Hicks (Don) and Betty Perra (Bob), brothers Colin and James (Cheryl) and beloved nieces and nephews Suzanne, Hal, Chloe, Kelsey, Sara, Rusty, Tania, Dustin, Alicia and Thomas. Jill grew up in a close-knit family in Dawson Creek, BC, and enjoyed a childhood of crisp cold winters and long summer days in the Peace River Country. She obtained a Bachelor of Commerce (1974) and an LL.B (1978) from the University of British Columbia. Jill married David in 1979, and they settled in Vancouver after several years on Vancouver Island. As a lawyer, Jill worked as a policy analyst, prosecutor, sole practitioner, and public policy consultant. Later she worked as a Residential Tenancy Arbitrator, served as a member of the B.C. Review Board, and was appointed as an Adjudicator with the Indian Residential Schools Secretariat. Her common sense, warm manner, and compassion made her a supremely capable adjudicator. Jill was a caring friend and a wonderful listener. She was the rock of stability for her family and a source of wisdom for her friends. She wrote cherished letters and emails, loved the warmth of the fireplace, and enjoyed conversations that meandered late into the evening. She laughed easily and often, and brightened the lives of those around her. Though she had a perceptive mind and a quick wit, she will be remembered for her dedication to her friends and her love for her family. The family thanks the physicians at VGH and nurses in palliative care, and the Callanish Society for their compassion and support. A memorial service will be held on Friday, October 7th at 2:00 pm, at the West Point Grey United Church, 8th and Tolmie, Vancouver, followed by a reception. Donations in lieu of flowers may be sent to the Callanish Society, 2277 W 10th, Vancouver, V6K 2J1 or to a charity of your choice.

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October 17, 2011

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October 3, 2011

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October 2, 2011

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Graham Porteous

October 17, 2011

What an infectious laugh - which I was lucky enough to have enjoyed for over 40 years. Deepest sympathies to Dave and family.

Ron Injates

October 3, 2011

I sit on the Board of Directors of a non-profit society that runs a summer camp on Gambier Island that caters to disadvantaged children and families. About 3 years ago, the camp had closed due to a shortage of money and a huge amount of infrastructure that needed to be repaired.

As our volunteer board struggled to both plan for the future and maintain a Society, we suddenly found ourselves under seige by a land developer intent on constructing a road thru the property to access his development.

The resulting dispute required some legal representation, and by God's good grace, we found Jill who agreed to represent the Society in the dispute resolution process.

I don't know where we would be without Jill's organization, skill and tact. At the end of the process, the Society's interests were well represented - to the advantage of any child now using the site. A true legacy to Jill's work. Jill always treated me well and was a pleasure to be around.

To Jill's family, I wish you strength during this time, and please take comfort in Jill's strong sense of justice and her loyal support to those not able to convey their grievances. It was a noble calling which she performed well and no doubt brought comfort to many at difficult times.

Ann Pollak

October 2, 2011

It was my great pleasure to work with Jill, although only briefly. Her compassion and understanding put others at ease in stressful circumstances. I have no doubt she left the world a better place than the way she found it.

theresa wiebe

October 2, 2011

I'm so sorry for your loss. Jill was one of the sweetest people I've ever met and I will always remember her laugh.

monty bissett

September 30, 2011

Jill was one of Dawson Creek's finest
R.I.P Jill

Jack Hillson

September 30, 2011

Please accept our deepest sympathies.

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