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Age 32, of Upper St. Clair, passed away on Monday, October 14, 2019. Beloved mother of Lilu Jane Yakelis; loving daughter of Martin J. and Jane M. (Wyland) Pawlak; dear sister of Courtney (Jason) Newhouse and Marty Pawlak, Jr.; loving fiancé of Christopher; aunt of Marcus and Julian Newhouse; granddaughter of the late Walter J. and Elizabeth "Grandma Liz" Wyland and the late Martin and Dolores "Mimi" Pawlak; and her numerous aunts, uncles, cousins and friends. Jillian was a devoted and loving mother to Lilu, her parents and the "best sister ever" to Courtney and Marty. Her caring and generous spirit will be always felt and cherished. Friends welcome SUNDAY 2-4, 6-8 p.m. at FREYVOGEL-SLATER FUNERAL DIRECTORS (412-835-1860) 112 Fort Couch Rd, Bethel Park (Opposite Macy's South Hills Village). Mass of Christian Burial 10:00a.m. MONDAY in St. Thomas More Church (EVERYONE MEET THE FAMILY IN CHURCH). In lieu of flowers donations suggested to the Western PA School for Blind Children, 201 N. Bellefield Ave, Pgh, PA, 15213. www.slaterfuneral.com
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Niki Tichon
December 24, 2019
My heart breaks for her daughter, who will suffer the most. All positive thoughts and love to poor Lilu. If there is a God may she comfort this little girl now and always.
Elizabeth Preite
November 12, 2019
Jane and Marty, I was with Kathy tonight and she told me your horrific news. My heart is heavy and I cannot imagine your grief. I will pray for you all to find peace. Forever, Betty Preite Saunders
Tori Wyland (Cousin)
November 8, 2019
Thinking of you a lot today Jilly... I remember the day I came on the road trip with you to work. It was such a fun day ending with $100 worth of pizza and calzone. (I am pretty sure the two of us finished it too). calzone Love and miss you
Joseph Pappagallo
October 25, 2019
Our hearts will be broken forever..............We're so sorry.
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Sue Reed- sroka
October 22, 2019
I am sorry for all of you. May God wrap is arms around you and hold you tight. My heart breaks for all of you. Prayers ❣
Panebianco family
October 19, 2019
We are so very sorry to hear this sad news. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. We will always remember Jilly for her kind and bubbly personality. Our deepest sympathy. The Panebianco family
Jennifer James
October 19, 2019
To the family of Jilly, My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I'm am so very sorry for your loss and sadness. I didn't really know Jilly but, I know she was loved and cared for by her sister Courtney. I'm always here for you Courtney in anyway I can be. You and your family were all so warm, giving and welcoming to my daughter Haley. I thank you for that!! If there is anything I can ever do to help in anyway PLEASE don't hesitate to ask. Love you Courtney
Jen Smith
October 19, 2019
My sympathies to your family. I knew Jilly when she was a student at STM. I worked for Saint Anthony's and was very close with her 8th grade class.
Debra Romano
October 19, 2019
This is a message to ALL of my Wyland family. I am so truly sorry for this terrible loss of Jilly. Janie, there are no words. I still love you all and think of you often. You are in my prayers. Love, Debbie (Peg)
Barbie Lo Castro
October 18, 2019
Such a sweet light to be extinguished so soon, truly a devastating loss to all those who knew and loved her!
Tammie Parrino
October 18, 2019
Our (the committee,Melinda,Brenda,Rachelle and Tabithas ) thoughts and prayers are with the Pawlak family.
ROBYN SMIGEL
October 18, 2019
So sorry for your loss. I remember her bright smile from when she was a student at USCHS. With sympathy...
October 17, 2019
Marty & Jane,
Our prayers go out to you and your family. So sorry for your loss. You have our deepest sympathy.
Love Dave, Erin & Ryan
Kathy Merante
October 17, 2019
May your beautiful daughter be at eternal peace now and reunited with those she loved and went before her. You will be in my prayers so that you may some day find peace and comfort.
Mary Ann OMalley omalley1
October 17, 2019
You are all in my prayers. I am as sorry. All my love.
Gayle Russell
October 17, 2019
You are all in my thoughts and prayers ♥❣
Lisa Patterson
October 16, 2019
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
Jack and Caroline Barrett
October 16, 2019
Our deepest sympathies to Wylands and Pawlaks.
David & Patti Savage
October 16, 2019
Our thoughts & prayers are with you. So sorry for your loss.
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