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BORN
1960
DIED
2015
Joan Dyer Obituary
Joni loved people. Everywhere she went she had a smile on her face and a friendly word to greet. Her love radiated every day. She had a joyous smile and her laugher was beautiful. Joni lit up a room simply by being there. She had God's love in her heart and spread His love upon everyone she met and knew. Joni had such a pure and kind heart. Her Love was always unconditional and so giving. She touched her loved ones lives with a very special and unique love.
Joni was an amazing wife to Bob. They fell in love when they met in high school and had been together ever since. She was a wonderful mother to Jason and Steven. Her compassionate love for Jason and Steven was infinite. Becoming a grandmother was an incredible blessing that Joni took with extreme pride. Tauni was the light of her life and Cody filled her heart with happiness.
Joni cherished her 3 dogs, who were a huge part of her everyday life. She loved spending summers at the family cabin in Walker, near Lynx Lake. Peaceful walks in the forest and boating at the lake were among her favorite activities at the cabin. Joni enjoyed listening to Christian music and prayed for her family daily. Spending time with her loved ones were the most valuable moments of her life. She adored holiday gatherings and intimate family dinners.
Joni is now at peace with the Lord. May her memory always be near. Her joy and happiness will be forever missed.
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Joni and Tauni
Bob Dyer
June 29, 2019
I miss you more than ever my dear sweet wife. Think about you everyday, what a beautiful, kind and loving person you were and I will love you forever.
LINDA LEGGE
July 5, 2016
Missing my dear sister Joan. Loved you so much. Prayers for your husband Bob & children Jason & Steven Dyer.
May 17, 2016
Joan,
I'm thinking of you today, still disbelieving that you have gone on but knowing that The Christ has received you as His own. I gotta tell you, in truth, that I miss you. I have tears right now, Joan - I can't help it. I guess I just wanted to say that you are still in my heart and will never be forgotten by me. Although things have changed for me, you will always be my sister and I will always love you as such.
Sent with Love,
Mike McComas
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Joni and Steven
Bob Dyer
May 15, 2016
Joni, Janie and Tauni at Steven's and Rachel's Wedding
Bob Dyer
May 15, 2016
May 8, 2016
My Dear Wife,
I went you your niche today, Mother's Day, prayed and cried.
Just remembering all of the joy we had raising our two sons, and what a wonderful and caring Mother you were to them.
I pray that you are at perfect peace, in the hands of the Lord.
I miss you more than ever, think about you all the time and Love you with all of my heart.
Your Husband and Soulmate
Bob
Your Son
November 7, 2015
Just wanted to let you know I'm going to the Philippines mom. We were so excited when we thought I was going before, and I think you were just as disappointed as I when we found out I wasn't going.
Well, after everything, I am selected. I'm so excited! It's going to be for 2 whole months. I'll get to spend Thanksgiving here, but I'll be spending my birthday over there. I'm nervous to leave dad and the dogs for so long, but I had to say yes.
I wish I could share this with you so bad, to celebrate with you, to tell you about my trip, to send you pictures, to joke around about the wife I'm bringing back.
I want you here more than anything. I always will. I love you mom.
Your Son
September 29, 2015
I can't believe it's been nearly three months without you. I can't help think how things could be different, if the shooting never occurred and you never felt the urge to get the new home. Would there have been so much pain, so much stress? I wish I spent more time listening to you, listening when you needed someone to hear you. I wish I got to you earlier that day instead of sleeping in. I'm not mad at you, I know how much you hurt. I'm sad that after all you had done for me, you couldn't ask me for help. You were my beacon of light through my darkest days, and I wish I could have been that for you. That someone could have. I wish I could forget, while I struggle to remember. I want to tell you about my day. I want to listen to one of your stories I had probably heard 2 or 3 times. I want to laugh at each other's jokes. I want to eat a blizzard with you, or be scared in the passenger seat while you drive. I want to see your kindness bring a smile to a strangers face. I want you. I miss you. I love you.
August 30, 2015
My dear sweet Joni,
It has been two months since you went to be with the Lord. I think about you constantly, pray everyday and still find myself heartbroken and in disbelief that you are gone.
I spend time with our granddaughter every weekend and we always talk about how much we love you and miss you. We saw some clouds today and Tauni said that you were standing on top of one of them looking at us.
Your little dog Nina has passed away and your twin Jane said it best, that Nina is with you, sharing ice cream just like the two of you did all the time.
I know you are in the hands of the Lord, in perfect peace and I will be with you again in Heaven.
My Love for you is never ending and I miss you more than words can describe.
Your Husband
Bob
Mike McComas
August 9, 2015
Joan, I sit here with tears streaming down, reading of the clear and wonderful memories you left behind. Whatever the stormy seas ahead, you left love in your wake, and we have all benefited from your journey. If at the end of my days I leave such a loving legacy as yours then my life, too, will have been worth living. I think of you often, Joan, and I love you.
Stefan and Rocio Peterson
August 3, 2015
Dearest Auntie Joni,
I think about you every day, and I pray for you in heaven. I know that by your pureness in heart that you are with our Father in heaven, and I look forward with great joy to see you again! I know that you are watching over each of us during this difficult time!
My last wonderful memory with you was that you came to my wedding for me and my wife Rocio. We were both absolutely thrilled and proud to have you there celebrate with us. More than anything, it was so important to me that you met my sweetheart and that you could get to know each other.
I remember so many wonderful things about you, and it warms my heart to think of those memories. I always felt so happy and excited to be in AZ with the Dyers because of your love for us. I loved all the details you did such as the pool and the cabin to make our trips magical. You even always made it a great vacation because of all of the ways you spoiled us and made us laugh. You could always make us laugh so much in literally countless ways. Have some slooooooppy joes, extraaa sloppy! And Luella bouncing around, chomping on gum! I knew I had a home in AZ with you.
Thank you so much for all that you were and all that you gave to me. Thank you for how wonderful of a twin you were to my mom. I will always cherish so much my memories of you, and I can't wait to give you a great big hug again!
Love you and miss you Auntie!
Stefan and Rocio
Katelyn Peterson
July 30, 2015
Auntie Joni,
You truly were amazing. Your character is one that I will never forget. You were always so genuinly kind, caring, silly, and comforting. Growing up I was always so excited to see you. I would look forward to it all year. I made so many incredible memories with you. One of my favorite memories I had with you was going to the cabin with you and Uncle Bob. I remember we would always make all sorts of fun crafts there; as well as go canoeing. I also loved all the beautiful things that you sewed for me, espescially the bedding for the doll bed that Uncle Bob made for me. I will treasure that forever. You and your wonderful family always made going to Arizona so much fun. I always felt so welcomed when coming to see you. I remember how you would always have big giant hugs, goodie bags, and your candy drawer filled as much as it could be filled the moment we got there. You made me feel so special. Your silly spirit was always keeping me laughing. When I was having a bad day, all I would need to do to cheer me up was think about all of your sillyness. I especially loved when you would act like Luella. Oh and I can never forget, if mommy says no, then ask auntie joni. I had so many wonderful memories from you when I was a child, but as I grew up I truly started to look up to you. I noticed how caring you were to everyone you knew, and how much you loved God. Your faith was so strong, I hope that mine can be as strong as yours one day. You were so beautiful inside and out. You truly were my second mom and I am so happy that I was able to be apart of your life. I would be a different person if I never had my Auntie Joni. Thank you for all the wonderful memories I had with you, I knew how much you loved me my whole life. I will always cherish the time I had with you. I will miss you so much and I can't wait to see you again. I love you so deeply! I could have never asked for a better Auntie.
With love,
Katelyn
Jane Peterson
July 30, 2015
To My Dearest and Precious Joni,
I Love You and Miss You so Very Much!!!
Your heart was so kind, so gentle, so caring, so giving, and you had such unconditional love for all!! Your heart was so pure, a true Christian!!!
As little girls, we we held hands tightly as we went to sleep telling each other that if anything happened to one of us, we would stay together to protect each other. Joni, you always protected me and watched out for me and stood up for me, even when it wasn't always easy to do!
As we grew, I knew with all my heart that together we were whole!
Your strengths seemed to be my weaknesses, as my strengths seemed to be your weaknesses! We gave each other strength and encouragement!! We clearly knew, very early in life, that we had each been given an amazing gift from God and that we could of never have been who we were, without each other! Together, we were an amazing team!!
My children thought of you, their beloved Auntie Joni, as their second mother, and each felt so very blessed to have you!! They have wonderful memories of you! How special you always made them feel, how silly and funny you were with them, and most importantly that they always knew that you were there for them no matter what!!
When mommy said No, Auntie said Yes!
I remember you dipping their pacifiers in sugar when I wasn't looking!
I remember you saying, my twinnie, boy, oh boy, oh boy, oh boy, oh boy, oh boy, Janie we have 6 boys between us!!!
I remember us all laughing so hard as you imitated the cook from Good Burger making sloppy, sloppy joes as you made a huge mess in the kitchen with food flying everywhere!
I remember when you would put a palm tree pony tail at the very top of your head and bounce around as a girl named Luella asking all of the kids if they would please be your boyfriend!
I remember you chasing Matthew around with a soaking wet finger, trying to give him a wet willie!
I remember as you were going into the surgery room, you asked if you could please see your daughter. When Bob said Joni, you don't have a daughter, you got angry and said yes I do, Katelyn. We brought her in to give you a kiss, you smiled and were happy! Katelyn was about 5 years old.
I remember as I was leaving for a weekend get away you flew in to take care of all five of my children. Katelyn was only 14 months old and I had never left her overnight with anyone. As you lovingly held her in your arms, she had a huge smile on her face and waved bye bye to me without ever looking back!
I remember as I would be getting the car ready to head back to Colorado with the kids you would indiscreetly block my way. As I tripped and said are trying to break my leg, you said yes, because then you would have to stay!
I remember throughout my entire life that when I closed my eyes and thought about some of the happiest times in my life, they were always with you!!!
Joni, you were such a loving and devoted wife to Bob and such an amazing and loving mother to your children, Jason and Steven!! You were so very proud of your family!! You knew that Rachel was chosen from God for your family, and you loved her very much!! You were so proud of your precious and very sweet grandchildren, Cody and Tauni!
I can truly say that the unconditional love that you continued to give to your loved ones, even through your pain and hurt. was your greatest accomplishments in your life!! You touched so many hearts in such special ways!!!
Joni, your love has touched my heart in such amazing and special ways!!! Thank you, my precious twin sister, for all that you have given me and for all that you have taught me!! I truly admire you and I have so much respect for you!!!
You prayed everyday for your loved ones and asked for blessings for them!!! I always felt those blessings in my life, and guess what Joni, I know you are still praying for all of us here, because today I received a very clear blessing!!! It made me smile and warmed my heart as I looked up to the heavens and said Thank You, Joni!!
I have peace in knowing that God is taking excellent care of you and that you are in perfect peace!!!!
Joni, I Love You With All My Heart!!!
Sincerely,
Jane
Matthew Kiehl
July 29, 2015
Dear aunt joan, I love you and already miss you so much. I am thankful for all the great and loving memories we shared together. I remember them from when I was just a little kid to a grown adult. You were always there for me and i always thought of you like a mom. I will keep you in my prayers forever. I love you and miss you so much. I hope to see you again. There is never a moment that I dont stop thinking about you. I love you with all my heart.
Cynthia Legge
July 27, 2015
Aunt Joanie, I will miss the life you brought to our family. I love how you always made me and all of the other girls in the family feel so loved, beautiful, and special. I will forever hold those precious memories near and dear to my heart.
Erik Watt
July 27, 2015
I remember so many things about Joanie...but what I remember the best was the sound of her voice. It wasn't so much what she was saying, but the ring of her voice. The sound she made came straight from the heart, and that heart was overflowing with joy and love for her family and those whose lives she touched. It was said that she kept her smile and care and joyous spirit up in spite of the hardship only she could endure, and I take it because she was so utterly pleased with the life and family she was so very blessed in being a part of. Anyone who has met Joan would know watching someone such as her suffer is nearly the same as going through the pain oneself, and we are all fortunate now knowing she is free from earthly bonds. That heaven has once again welcomed her into the fold. She has not left us, for we all learn from eachother, and there are few greater teachers of spreading joy, then Joan Dyer.
Becky Littrell
July 27, 2015
No more pain...We will miss you, but will all be together one day.
lots of love Becky
Jammie Palmer
July 27, 2015
May your path provide you peace. All of my thoughts and prayers for your family.
LINDA LEGGE
July 27, 2015
I loved my sister Joan aka Joni with all my heart. She always made us laugh. She had a big heart and loved all the kids. You will be missed greatly. My thoughts and prayers will be with Bob, Jason & Steven as well with the rest of my family that all loved her.
Barbara Gallegos
July 27, 2015
My dear Joan it is so hard for me to express my feelings I loved your voice smile laugh and your tender moments it's heartbreaking to realize you're not with in my reach you were so amazing and beautiful in so many ways sincere giving and loving to the one so dear to you I wish I could give you one more last hug and hold you so so tight. The days ahead are hard for us who are left behind holidays birthdays and family events will not be the same without you we will all feel something is missing rest in peace my dear sister no more pain no more sorrow rest in our Lord's loving arms and one day soon I will be with you again I love you so much Joan
Kristin Ingram
July 27, 2015
Joan's smile, laugh, and outgoing nature will be most remembered by me. I also remember how much she loved and would talk about her sons and just last year was then talking about her grandchildren the same precious way. My thoughts and prayers will continue for the Dyer family.
Den Legge
July 27, 2015
Joan meant so much for me. I love you!
Darlene Roberts
July 16, 2015
Joan we will miss you thanks for always loving my son Jonathan and being such a wonderful person to everyone our love & prayers for Bob Jason & Steven God Bless you all
Stephen Legge
July 14, 2015
We are so sorry to hear this news. Our love, prayers and condolences, go out to everyone, in the family.
Stephen and Bobbi
Michael Martina
July 7, 2015
Our prayers and smypathies are with the Dyer family. Joan was always so cheerful and nice. Our prayers are with you all.
The Martinas, Mike, Evelyn, Maedine and Ron.
RIP Joan
freedom nitschke
July 5, 2015
Joan,
You were always so kind to me and welcomed me into the family. 6 incredible years of knowing you and your family was a true blessing. You always had kind words for me and I will cherish them forever. May you RIP with all the angels and watch over us.
Karleen Bryan
July 5, 2015
Rest in peace.My thoughts are with you and your family.
Rhonda Tank
July 4, 2015
J...joyful
O...outgoing
A...adorable
N...nurturing
You will be missed by all.
Love,
Your cousin Rhonda Tank and Dave too
Susan Schmidt
July 4, 2015
Joan & Family,
You all are in our hearts and prayers!
Love you,
Susan, John & Family
Kris Roth
July 4, 2015
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.
Michael McComas
July 3, 2015
Joan, I cannot express the deep sadness and immeasurable sorrow I have felt since I heard of your passing. You are a sister to me and were always so good and supportive to me, and your warm smile will never be forgotten. I felt your love and your concern for me, always genuine and true. I love you dearly and will miss you so very much until my last day. You are a wonderful person whom The Lord knows by name and I am a better person because you knew mine. God Bless You, Joan. Forever.
Steven Dyer
July 2, 2015
Mom, words cannot describe how amazing you were to everyone. Your love for me was felt each and every day of my life. I have so many special memories that we've had together. Mom, you're truly a blessing to me and my family. Not only were you the greatest mother a son could ever ask for. You were such an incredible loving, caring, sweet grandmother to our little princess, Tauni, and Cody. Tauni loved you so much and always talked about how awesome you were, and how much she loved you. Tauni always was so excited to spend time with you and I know you and dad made her feel so special. I thank you so much for everything you have done and the amazing life and memories that you have given us. I'm so thankful you were able to attend my wedding and meet my loving wife. Mom, I miss you and I will always have you so close to my heart. Thank you for the wonderful life you gave me i cannot thank God enough that I have such a loving mother. I love you, mom! Love Steven,Rachel,Tauni,Cody
Dan Dove
July 2, 2015
Joni,
Your with the lord now, our heartfelt condolences go out to Bob and the whole family.
Your kind heart and gentle nature will certainly be missed. . . now and forever.
Bob Dyer
July 2, 2015
My Dearest Joni I love you with all of my heart and miss you tremendously. Rest in peace my soul-mate, we will be together again in the kingdom of Heaven.
Your loving Husband
Bob
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