John S Barman

1949 - 2022

John S Barman obituary, 1949-2022, New York, NY

John S Barman

1949 - 2022

BORN

1949

DIED

2022

John Barman Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Dec. 12 to Dec. 13, 2022.
John S. Barman. We celebrate the life and grieve over the loss of John S. Barman of New York City. He died at home on November 17, 2022, after a two-year, valiant battle with pancreatic cancer. Born in Manhattan, he grew up on Central Park West, attended Columbia Grammar & Preparatory School, and graduated from The Wharton School at the University of Pennsylvania. He started his career at Est?e Lauder Company, and in 1989, launched his own interior design firm, John Barman, Inc. Over a 40-year career, he achieved success by working with a broad range of private clients on projects that were featured in every major design periodical. John was recognized as a leading designer by many design publications, including Architectural Digest's Top 100 Designers. Both a classicist and a modernist, he was renowned for injecting interiors with contemporary glamour and bold colors. With homes in New York City, Sagaponack, N.Y., and Miami Beach, Fla., he loved to experience travel and meet new people around the world. John is survived by his husband Kelly Stuart Graham, his sister Rosemary Orbach, her husband Steven Orbach, and niece Rachel Orbach. Donations can be made in John's memory to: Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center at giving.mskcc.org/give-to-MSK

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November 29, 2024

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May 26, 2024

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David Purdie

November 29, 2024

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God Bless Him

Susan Tannen

November 14, 2024

I knew John from Columbia Grammar School...really nice guy...just learned of his passing. May he rest in peace.

Cathy

May 26, 2024

Sorry to hear about John. I learned a lot from him.

Diana Casareale

December 18, 2023

May memories of John bring peace, a smile and serenity to his loved one's ~

Thomas Nigh

December 25, 2022

Christmas Day 2022 I woke up thinking of John and of Kelly. It's been decades since we had contact but I always thought of John as an inspired, true artist and a very good person. This morning I found their website, filled with a such a beautiful record of their work. I then found this notice, and want to offer a salute to John Barman, and my sympathy to Kelly and the rest of John's family.

Diana Casareale

December 14, 2022

For years, I admired and was drawn to John's exuberant, colorful design work, since I enjoy color as well. His scale and color sensibilities was unique and I got a thrill when he showcased his work in trade mags and on Open House. He will be missed and I send my sincere condolences to his spouse and family.

Daniel Szor

December 13, 2022

I knew John for over 30 years; in addition to the interior design work he so expertly carried out for me and my family, I counted him as a friend and a constant source of inspiration. I always marvelled at his amazing sense of design and fantastic aesthetic, but even more than that I loved his humour and his wisdom. Time spent with him was always memorable and cherished. My deep condolences to Kelly and his whole family, I will really miss John.

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