John Gerard Bernetich

1964 - 2016

John Gerard Bernetich obituary, 1964-2016, Avon, CT

John Gerard Bernetich

1964 - 2016

BORN

1964

DIED

2016

John Bernetich Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jul. 6, 2016.
Angels came to bring our beloved John, Johnny B, John B., Just John home to heaven this day to be welcomed by his paternal grandparents, his Oma & Opa, his Uncle John, many cousins and friends. In the arms of his Heavenly Father, he will once again become a beautiful and perfect soul, sound in mind and body. Left behind with broken hearts are his mother Evelyn O'Hagan with whom he made his home, his brother James and his wife Shelly and their children Declan and Keara, his brother Jeffrey and his wife Hilary and their children Makenzie, Mikayla, Dylan, and Rylee, and his sister Jennifer Hanelius, her husband Jayson and their children Derrick, Savonnah, and Devin. In addition he leaves behind his Aunts Sheila, Frances, and Dorothea, as well as a large family of dear cousins and friends both here and in Ireland. He also leaves his father John of East Hampton. Despite his disability, John was an independent man of many accomplishments. He was a long time altar boy and usher at the Church of Saint Ann; he graduated with a diploma from Avon High School; he was gainfully employed for over 23 years at Stop and Shop; he learned to drive; participated in the Unified Sports programs at FAVARH for many years and also participated in the Torch Run and the annual Penguin Plunge for over ten years raising thousands of dollars. John loved to travel, and travel he did, seeing most of the United States and many European countries. He enjoyed numerous trips to Ireland to spend time with family there. John was a True Blue Dallas Cowboys fan and almost always was seen in some Dallas outfit. Family time was always something John loved as well as his birthday, April Fool's Day, Karaoke, the Wii, bowling, fishing, going to Florida & Ireland, the Savage Brothers Band, Monday night tea with cousin Judy, and fun times with dear friend Lynne. But most of all, John showed us the true meaning of unconditional love. He loved everyone...his family, both immediate and extended, and his friends. To know John was to love him. He brought so much joy to each of us that our lives will be forever changed. We would like to say a very big thank you to the Hospice Team (especially Izzy and Colleen), Candace, and Rob for their support and kindness and tender care. And lastly, the staff at his FAVARH program. John's family will receive friends at the Carmon Funeral Home & Family Center, 301 Country Club Road, Avon on Sunday, July 10, 2016 from 4:00 -7:00 PM. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held directly at St Patrick's Church, 7 Burlington Ave, Collinsville at 10 AM, Monday, July 11, 2016. Burial will be at St Ann's Cemetery, Avon. In lieu of flowers, please make a donation to the John G. Bernetich Scholarship at Avon Dollars for Scholars, PO Box 706, Avon, CT 06001.

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July 14, 2016

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July 13, 2016

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July 12, 2016

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July 14, 2016

Dear Family:

We we sorry to learn of your loss, but know that John is now in peace with the Lord. We will pray for him and all of the family, especially his mother, Evelyn, who took such loving care of him.

Our deepest sympathy,

Ann and Dave Matthes

Vicki Higgins

July 13, 2016

I am so sorry for your loss. John was an inspiration to so many!! You are in my thoughts and prayers.Vicki Higgins, AT&T

Sharon Peeling

July 12, 2016

Jim and Family,

I am saddened by your loss. John sounds like such a wonderful person that I never had the privilege of meeting. May the blessing of time heal your hearts and memories fill the void.

Moira, Shane & Maginn Family

July 11, 2016

To Evelyn and family.
We are thinking of you today & in the days ahead. Deepest sympathy to you all.
Love the Maginn Family
Warrenpoint, Co. Down, N. Ireland

Anne O'Hagan

July 11, 2016

To Evelyn and all the family. My condolences to you all on the passing of John. He was quite the character within the family and his humour will most certainly be missed by all. I am glad we were able to visit and spend time with you & John in May. I have memories that I will treasure. I will always remember his fun personality, joking, laughing, singing, all of which is an inspiration to us all. May you find comfort in your wonderful memories of him and with the support of your good family see you through the difficult days ahead.
Love Anne

Donna & Paul Lynch

July 11, 2016

To Evelyn, Jeff, Jim, Jenna & the entire Bernetich/O'Hagan family circle. My very deepest sympathy to you on the passing of our beloved John (Johnny as I always called him). My heart is heavy with sadness as the brightest light in this world has gone out with his passing. Yet I am comforted by the thought that Johnny is free, probably more free than he ever was in his earthly life. My many wonderful memories of him visiting us in Ireland and also from our own visits to you in The States have brought laughter and smiles as I remember him so very fondly. You are all in my thoughts and prayers on this very difficult day as you bring him to his final resting place. I am so very sure that he has been greeted by so many of his family, cousins & friends as he entered his eternal life in Heaven. God bless you all. Sending my love and prayers for your strength to get through the days that lie ahead.
Donna & Paul Lynch
Mayobridge, County Down, N. Ireland

Jean Thornhill

July 11, 2016

I'm so sorry for your loss. Jim you and your family are in my thoughts at this difficult time.

Fr. Tom Sas

July 10, 2016

I was saddened to read of John's death. I remember John serving Mass and later being an usher. He was a good man with a heart of gold and was a loving presence.

My prayers are with you, his family, and for him. However, I doubt that he needs our prayers to speed him to heaven.

Kelly Hellandbrand

July 9, 2016

I am so sorry for your loss. John was a wonderful man with a good heart.

Lisa McCarthy

July 9, 2016

I was saddened to hear of John's passing. I remember how much he loved his birthday parties, especially shaking hands with everyone who came. He was an inspiring example of someone who appreciated all the simple things in life and showed us how to make the most of every day with the talents and gifts we were all given. His smiling photo is how I will always remember him. RIP John and may God bless and keep the wonderful family through whom you will always be remembered.

Jonathan Smith

July 9, 2016

You will surely be missed John by all those you touched. I myself will always remember the times at BoyScouts. I can still see and hear your laugh, God speed!

Jean and Larry Crawford

July 9, 2016

So sorry for your loss. Your family are in our prayers! Love Jean and Larry Crawford

Candice Copeland-Benfield

July 9, 2016

My family and I are praying for everyone. So sorry for your loss, Candice Copeland-Benfield.

Douglas Pierce

July 8, 2016

Condolences to the family,loved ones and friends of John.

Kelley Taylor

July 8, 2016

Evelyn, Jenna, Jim, Jeff, and kids,
We are so very sorry for your loss. Johnny was such a joy to be around, filled with love and always smiling. I hope all of the wonderful memories help you through this difficult time, and knowing that he is in a better place.
Hugs, Kelley Taylor and John Osthoff

Whitney Sherbocker

July 7, 2016

Evelyn, Jimmy, Jeff and Jenna --

Our hearts break for your sadness and loss. Without doubt, Johnny was a sweet treasure who will be dearly missed by far too many people to begin to count. His love shone brightly and positively impacted countless numbers of us. We rejoice with you that Johnny is no longer suffering, and cling to the promise that he has been made whole in the arms of Jesus. Our abundant love to each of you now and in the days ahead.

Much Love,
--Whitney, Chris and Eric

john jasiewicz

July 7, 2016

I am at a loss of words for what to say to console you for your loss. Please accept my condolences and know that I am thinking of you

Marty

July 7, 2016

Our expectations in life only supersede the abilities we are given at birth. May John's family find comfort in knowing he left a legacy unmatched by his peers and those who never knew him. In the hopes your cherished memories bring you comfort during this time of sadness; and may family and friends rally in John's name to find solace in his honor.
Sincerely,
A Friend

July 7, 2016

Offering our deepest condolences to Jim and the entire Bernetich family. Hoping you'll find comfort together in happy memories of John's life.

Sincerely,
Your Aetna family

Steve Cox

July 7, 2016

I am saddened to learn of John's passing. John & I shared numerous greetings and small talk at Stop & Shop over the years when I would do my shopping. He was always warm and very enthusiastic to talk sports and the Special Olympics. My condolences to John's family, friends and co-workers on the loss of this wonderful young man.

Shirley (Waas)Hatfield

July 7, 2016

Dear Sweet John I know you are resting in peace with some of your loved ones. I used to have many laughs and nice conversations with you way back in the 60's and 70's working at Caldors where you shopped with your Mom. I have thought of you so often and realized you were a grown man now from a beautiful young boy. My prayers are with your family and loved ones here.

July 7, 2016

To Jeff and all the Bernetich Family, my wife Joan and I wish to express our sincere condolences on the passing of John. He was a true gift to our entire community.
Tom Gugliotti

Kathy Hestand

July 6, 2016

I am so sorry to hear about John. He was a special person who loved everyone he saw and was always happy. He was a true gift from God. I will always remember him at various family events, but my favorite memory will always be playing with him when we were both children. He was such a happy child, and that happiness stayed with him his whole life. I like to think that all this while we had an angel in our midst. Rest in peace, dear one.

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