John Brown III

John Brown III obituary, Baltimore, MD

John Brown III

John Brown III Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 14, 2024.
John Brown died unexpectedly on November 9, 2024 of heart failure while visiting family in Savannah, GA. He is survived by his loving family�his wife, Keene Barroll; his three children, Katie, Sarah, and Tucker Brown; his stepchildren, Schuyler and Chandler Matthai; his daughter-in-law, Emily Parr Brown, his son-in-law, Seth Sharp; his step daughter-in-law, Betsy Budorick; his cousin, Georgeann Haas; his mother-in-law, Page Barroll; his former wife, Susan Brown; and his seven grandchildren, Sam and Mac Nielson, Oliver Sheldon, and Auggie, Evie, Susie, and Eliza Parr Brown�as well as countless friends whom he considered family.

John Brown is best known as the founder and owner of RJ Bentley's restaurant in College Park, Maryland, where his warm smile, firm handshake, big hugs, and booming voice greeted all those who walked through the doors for 46 years. John would be the first to tell you that a big part of his job was raising kids, and there are thousands of former Bentley's hostesses, waiters, bartenders, managers, busboys, cooks, bouncers, and assorted other staff members who have gone on to become successful in every profession imaginable, including athletes, doctors, teachers, attorneys, politicians, therapists, and small business owners. They might not have known it when they were first hired, but they quickly learned that they were working for a legend.

It is impossible to run a successful restaurant for over four decades without being an incredibly hard worker. John grew up on a farm in Whiteville, North Carolina, where he learned at an early age to pick tobacco. For pocket money, he sold boiled peanuts in town. He moved with his mother, Helen Joyce Eadon, to Chapel Hill for high school, where he swam and played basketball, and he worked as a dishwasher, a waiter, and a lifeguard. In 1965, he enlisted in the Army, and spent three years as a sergeant in London, where he oversaw shipments of materials for military personnel and bases in Europe. Taking full advantage of his London posting, he learned to play rugby and made lifelong friends. After his discharge, he hitchhiked all over Europe and North Africa, which sparked an enduring love of travel and adventure.

When John returned to the United States, he settled in the DC area, where he tended bar, managed restaurants, and worked towards his bachelor's degree in business, which he earned in 1973 from the University of Maryland, College Park. Before opening Bentley's in 1978, he worked as a management consultant for Booz, Allen & Hamilton. In March 1995, John was appointed a member of the Maryland Stadium Authority, and he served as its Chairman from 1999 - 2003.

John was actively involved in numerous organizations affiliated with the University of Maryland, including the Inner Circle of the Michael D. Dingman Center for Entrepreneurship, the Business School Alumni Chapter Board of Directors, the Alumni Association Board of Governors, Friends of Gary (FOG), Friends of Maryland Basketball (FOMB), and he was a past president of the Terrapin Club. In 1998, he was recognized by the Robert H. Smith School of Business as an outstanding alumnus.

He was chair of the Government Relations Committee of the Restaurant Association of the State of Maryland, board member of the University of Maryland Medical System, and board member of Special Olympics Maryland.

John was a beloved friend to an unimaginable number of people; he was inclusive, generous, thoughtful, loyal, and kind. Almost everyone who met him has a John Brown story, and the lucky ones have a collection. His quick wit, sense of humor, warmth, kindness, and ability to turn everything into a party made him a legendary figure everywhere he went. He was universally regarded as a great boss, a great partner, and a great friend.

He had fun no matter what he was doing, and he went out of his way to always do the right thing. He loved his family beyond measure, and he took every opportunity to show and tell them. It's impossible to appropriately capture what an amazing person he was, the number of lives he touched, or the depth of the collective sadness at his loss. There will never be another John Brown.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to two organizations that were important to John: The University of Maryland and Special Olympics Maryland. Along with his family, the University of Maryland will establish two new endowed accounts in his honor. One endowment will support Maryland Athletics and one will support need-based scholarships for first-generation students. Memorial gifts made in his name will be split evenly between the two endowments. Gifts can be made online at go.umd.edu/johnbrown or checks can be mailed to University of Maryland, Gift Acceptance, PO Box 49013, Baltimore, MD 21297.

A celebration of his life will be held at R.J. Bentley's on December 3rd at 6pm.

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Hoss and Mo Brown

December 5, 2024

I met John on December 27th just when Bentleys had opened. I also met Rick and Bkll knight that evening. My first words to the group were "what happened to ONriens?
I got a tour of the place. I also promised them that I would be calling a group of friends to come to Bentleys. 13 made it for dinner
That was the begining of many special moments with John. From making gumbo for the Brewsky Bowl to tailgates and Friday happy hours.
Our license plate is still on the wall. Thank you John for the great times.
Hoss and Mo Brown

Tracy and Russell

December 3, 2024

We met John and Keene on a cruise in February 2023. A warm friendship was instant. They became wonderful friends and we are so glad we had the chance to spend time with them I New Jersey last year and in London this past summer. To know them is to love them. John was a very special man who will be so missed by all whose lives he touched.

Terry Schum

December 2, 2024

I am so saddened to learn of John´s passing. I knew John for over 38 years as a colleague and friend in College Park. He was on a committee that recommended hiring me for a job with the City of College Park. I worked closely with John and other business owners to help revitalize Downtown College Park. He was the guiding force behind establishing and running the DCPMA which is still operating today. He was a fantastic liaison between the businesses and the City. When I retired almost 2 years ago, John generously hosted my retirement party at RJ Bentley´s. I will miss him.
Condolences to his family.

Carroll

November 19, 2024

All the touching tributes- mirror my own extraordinary experiences with Keene and John. Two beautiful hearts! To know them - is to love them!

Maureen Dolan Rosen

November 18, 2024

I worked at RJ Bentleys starting in 1979, in the kitchen, while finishing college. John was a great boss and looked after his employees like a dad. I ended up managing the Parts and Accessories Bakery for several years, too, and really loved the way John and Ric managed the business and the staff. It was a fun workplace and I have nothing but great memories about my experience there. A wonderful place made truly memorable by John Brown.

Rob Gipe

November 15, 2024

I knew John since 1983. Being an Alumnus of Md. and an avid supporter of their sports programs, John and I spent lots of time together at Bentley's. John had a unique generous spirit which he shared with everyone. His big personality touched all who knew him with happiness. He was an intelligent "Man's man" who could
give great advice, and treated everybody with respect and grace. I have been living in Florida for 7 years but right now I miss him badly. God Bless you John. My life has been enriched by knowing you. Rob Gipe .

Russell

November 15, 2024

John was a great leader and pillar to the community. I thank him for the opportunities I had with RJ Bentley´s.

Heather Evans

November 15, 2024

I had the absolute pleasure and privilege of working at Bentley´s from 1990-1995 while I was a student at UMD. My fondest memory of John was his amazing bear hugs and his incredible laugh. He was a gentle giant whom we all adored. Every memory I have of my time at Bentley´s- John was there. I remember banging on the brass pipes above the bar while singing "knock three times on the ceiling if you love me", Motown music for Happy Hour, bartending catering events for special friends, stuffing slips of paper into the tires, tricking new staff into wrapping tires for bug night, celebrating weddings with life long friends from Bentley´s, cheering for Gary and the UMD basketball team, and having an overwhelming sense of family and community that John cultivated so graciously. He was and is forever a legend and I´m just so sorry I haven´t made my way back to see him and hear his big voice one more time. I will gladly raise a toast at Bentley´s for him. God speed JBIII. You will be missed.

Matt Neitzey

November 15, 2024

John was a force of nature, and you couldn´t meet him or be near him and not get swept into his orbit. The biggest heart, smile, laugh - and voice - of anyone you knew. Generous with his time not only to UMD but many local organizations, and he made them all better. And he knew how to have a good time while doing it.

Thank you, John - and my family´s deepest condolences to yours. May his spirit live long and continue to inspire all of us.

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December 5, 2024

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