JOHN P. COX

JOHN P. COX obituary

JOHN P. COX

JOHN COX Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 14, 2012.
COX--John P. John P. Cox, 65, died on September 12 from complications following a stroke. Until recently he was Vice-President and Chief Information Officer for the Hospital for Special Surgery. His gregariousness, warmth, generosity, and fun-loving sense of humor will be deeply missed by his family, friends, and colleagues who adored him greatly. His contributions to the Hospital for Special Surgery, built upon his being at the forefront of the transition to computer technology in hospitals, have greatly benefitted that institution and will be felt for years to come. The greatest day in John's productive and impactful life occurred in January 1969 when, as an adventurous student at Columbia he met a buoyant, vivacious student from Skidmore College, Diane Dow. In less than a year they were married and Diane has been his life-long mooring, beginning with moving to Charleston, South Carolina where John was a Lieutenant J.G. in the United States Navy, an experience which greatly added to his knowledge and skill with all things nautical that had been developed over his childhood years in the waters of the St. Lawrence River. John is survived by his beloved wife and soul-mate Diane, his devoted children, Sarah and Tyler, his son-in-law, Tom Francis, his cherished eight-month old granddaughter, Eliot Jane, and his fond brothers Holly and David. And his spirit will remain in the hearts of everyone who has been fortunate enough to know him. A funeral service will be held at the First Presbyterian Church in the City of New York located at 12 West 12th Street, where John was an elder, on Sunday, September 16th at 4pm. Contributions in his memory to the Information Technology Department for the Hospital for Special Surgery (535 East 70th Street, New York City) would be fitting.

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February 19, 2021

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Tom Linacre

February 19, 2021

I grew up across the street from John and the Cox family. He was such a kind, gentle and humorous soul. I'll miss you and the memories we created together. R.I.P. Johnny !

Tom Linacre

February 19, 2021

I grew up across the street from John and the Cox family. He was such a kind, gentle and humorous soul. I'll miss you and the memories we built together. R.I.P. Johnny !

Elizabeth Strevey

September 8, 2019

Recently i came across my resignation letter to another hospital when I was hired by John. It reminded me so much about his encouraging management manner and his humor even in the face of ugly situations. He was a gentleman and a manager who knew how develop his subordinates talents. What a wonderful and such a rare quality. So sorry he cannot still provide such encouragement to a new generation of new health care colleagues and so incredibly sorry for his familys loss.

Terry Briggs

October 12, 2012

I am very sad to see this. I remember John as a person of warmth, generosity, charm, wit, and intelligence with a gift for friendship. My heart goes to Diane and his entire family.

Janice Mervis

September 28, 2012

Dear Diane & Family, I was so shocked and saddened to hear of John's passing. I remember meeting him years ago at Fed and thinking what a charming and sweet man. Diane, you are in my thoughts and prayers. I am so deeply sorry for your terrible loss.

Ellen Kessler

September 17, 2012

So very sorry to hear about John. We worked together many years ago at Beth Israel, but since I am Stuyvesant Town neighbor I did see John quite often - I will miss our little chats on 20th Street. John was a dear man and a gentleman.

Marion Hare

September 17, 2012

John was such a good man and friend. He will be missed by the entire HSS family. My sincerest condolences to your entire family.

September 16, 2012

Diane adn Family- Although we lost touch after many years, in my own career, I have always looked to the example John set as a supervisor: He always wanted those he supervised to grow, learn and challenge. He was never afraid of their growth; just endlessly supportive and kind. He would take time to explain and offer suggestions but he let those he supervised offer suggestions too,and he listened well and thoughtfully. Fondly and Very Sadly, Elizabeth Sommers Strevey- John's Administrative Assistant at Roosevelt.

Gwendolyn Jenkins

September 15, 2012

Diane
I am so sorry for the loss of your husband. What a beautiful love story. May God bless you and your family during this time and know our prayers are with you.

Knight Barton

September 15, 2012

Memories of John; maybe not Princeton,but definitely at Columbia School of General Studies where we both were for a while. Glad to hear John had much success and love in his later years.

Martha Rios

September 14, 2012

Sincerest condolences and prayers to John's family. He was a true gentlemen and will be missed.

Sally B Jackson

September 14, 2012

It was clear to me in sixth grade that John Cox was a person both of great character and enormous charm. How fortunate I was a decade later to be in his circle of friends at Columbia when he and Diane met. I have never witnessed two people fall more madly in love.It was a joy just to be in the same room.There's a line in Virginia Woolf's "To The Lighthouse", about a very connected couple, something like, "The stars stuck to them, and the birds sang through them." That's how they were. Forever. The last time I saw John was at our 50th Buckley reunion, and I told him all this, that they were the most in love couple I'd ever seen. He smiled and nodded and said, "And we still are." Diane, I ache for the shocking, unbearable loss that you and your family are enduring. Just as we shared in your young love, we now share in your sorrow.

Joan Hovhanesian

September 14, 2012

John was a great guy and a true gentleman. My sincere condolences to all.

Knight Barton

September 14, 2012

John was a great guy. I have wonderful memories that go back to Buckley, the Thousand Islands, Princeton and sailing with John. My sincere condolences to his family.

Francine Smilen

September 14, 2012

I worked with John at TRH in the early 80s. A delightful, insightful man. So sorry for your loss.

Ellen Burford

September 14, 2012

John was a true gentleman and will be greatly missed by all who had the pleasure and privilege to work with him. My sincerest condolences to his loving family and friends.

September 14, 2012

I am so sorry for your loss . May God give you strength, courage, and love during these difficult times. Psalms 55:22

Phil Myones

September 14, 2012

A man of great character, integrity and warmth, one of finest men I have ever had the honor to know. Sincerest condolances and sympathies to the Cox family, he will never be forgotten.

Ron Gliates

September 14, 2012

John, you were my friend and partner in silliness and crime for 15 years. I will miss you. Ron

John... the zany side! I miss you... Ron Gliates

Ron Gliates

September 14, 2012

Mary Murray-Weir

September 14, 2012

Sincerest condolences to John's family. He was a truly good person and always saw the best in people others. He is missed.

Rick Stevens

September 14, 2012

The world is a little less brighter without the bright smile of John in it. He was a good friend and colleague and will be missed.

Christopher Chao

September 14, 2012

John for me was a Leader, Mentor, Father Figure, and Friend. I will truely miss him.

Christine Caligtan

September 14, 2012

Sincerest condolences to John's family and extended HSS family. Sending lots of love and peace to everyone.

Deb Jackson

September 14, 2012

I am so sorry to hear of your loss as such a fine man. I came to know John recently and only briefly as a consultant from one of the software companies he recently brought to be installed at HSS. He seemed happy and always trying to be of assistance to his staff. I am sure he will be deeply missed in many lives.

jane dickerman

September 14, 2012

i am so sorry to hear of your tremendous loss. i wish you personal peace as soon as possible

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