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JOHN F. "JEFF" DOCKUM III
1957 - 2017
JOHN F. "JEFF" DOCKUM III
1957 - 2017
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October 18, 1957 - November 20, 2017, age 60, of Worthington, PA formerly of Mt. Lebanon (Pittsburgh) died November 20, 2017, having lost his two-year battle with cancer. He was born to John, Jr. and Mary Frances Dockum, who preceded him, in Evansville, IN and grew up in Mt. Lebanon. He is survived by his loving wife, Pamela, of 22 years; his father; and two sons, John IV (Jason) and Jeffrey; and one daughter, Kathleen; two sisters, McKayla Braden and Melissa Kelly; and many nieces and nephews. After graduating from Mt. Lebanon High School, Jeff received a BA Degree from Kent State University and an MA from the University of Pittsburgh Graduate School of Public and International Affairs. His professional career included teaching at the former Robert Morris College and as Vice President of Sales for a local firm that refurbished structures such as the Duquesne Incline Stations and Buildings in Pittsburgh and Cleveland. Jeff loved his farm home for many years in Worthington caring for its animals, ponds, fields and pastures that graced the beautiful hillsides and the opportunities it affords to hunt, fish, ride and ski with his family. He loved and in turn was revered by his many, many friends. His love of life will sorely be missed. Friends welcome Sunday 2-4, 6-8 p.m. WILLIAM SLATER II FUNERAL SERVICE (412-563-2800), 1650 Greentree Rd., Scott Twp. 15220. Funeral Service Monday 11 a.m. in St. Paul's Episcopal Church, 1066 Washington Rd., Pgh., PA 15228. Contributions in Jeff's memory may be made to Pam and Jeff's church or a charity of your choice.
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Madelyn Bookwalter
December 31, 2017
I just head last night of your husband's passing. You have my deepest sympathy and I really do understand. My husband passed away 23 years ago and it still hurts. My best to you and your children as I remember them from KHS. Love and prayers to you and your family
Susan Elster`
November 29, 2017
We shared a lot of good times in high school. I'm so sorry that Jeff is no longer with us. May you who loved him find comfort in his love of life.
Susan
Elizabeth Bottorff
November 27, 2017
Jeff will be missed by all who knew him. . What a courageous battle he fought and now eternal rest he will be granted with his beautiful mother, Mary Frances and his maternal grandmother, Kay Muir. Prayers go out to everyone left behind. May God be with you all now and in the days to come.
Sincerely,
Beth Bottorff
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Ralph Dougherty
November 26, 2017
My name is Ralph Dougherty. I was friends with Jeff all through high school and have nothing but fond memories of Jeff. One quick story..after we had all graduated from high school..a few friends put a quick trip together for Ocean City Maryland. Unusual trip in that we rented a four seat airplane but stuffed five people into the plane. A friend and myself both had licences to fly. The other pilot had become sick for the return flight and I asked Jeff to help me navigate the return flight. Jeff took the challenge knowing nothing of flight navigation. After a little bit of instruction, map in hand and showing him how to calculate speed and distance. Away we went..we made it home. That experience and motorcycle stories leave nothing but good memories. JEFF WAS ONE OF THE GOOD ONES. May he rest in peace with our LORD. MAY THE LORD CONSOLE YOU WIRH YOUR LOSS.GOD BLESS.
Maureen Sheldon
November 26, 2017
Pam, Kathleen, Jeffrey. There are zero words to express our sympathy. We have never seen more evidence of love, devotion, determination, locally, and obviously internationally for Jeff. He's a class act, and most importantly a rare and unique man. What a privilege to have Jeff in our family.
Jeff was the poster child for how to defy every imaginable & unthinkable odd clinically communicated to him.
Our love and support is with you always. Jeff is in eternal peace.
Blessings to the entire family.
Cousin Maureen, Mark, Kenzie, and Sidney Sheldon.
November 26, 2017
My deepest sympathies to you, Pam, and your family. from your old friend from Warner Cable, Susan Friday
Brian and Carol Schrecongost
November 26, 2017
Jeff had such a great passion for life. He will be missed by many
Annamarie Teolis
November 25, 2017
My heart is so heavy after hearing about your passing. I prayed for you everyday by name. I have known you since 7th grade and I met the love of my life Michael Brown at your home. I will always be grateful for that party ! You know will no longer have pain that you endured for way too many years. Now is your time to enjoy your friends who have departed before you. Tell Michael I love him and miss him more and more each day. God Bless you. You have given so many people so many beautiful memories of you and your kindness. You were an exceptional man and friend!
November 25, 2017
My sympathies go out to your family. May you find comfort in God's loving arms during this difficult time. (2 Thessalonians 2:16,17)
Megan Watkins
November 24, 2017
Jeff will be missed. I was so grateful that he stood by and had such a long friendship with my now deceased brother, Jon Watkins. Love to you all. Meg Watkins
Ina Finn
November 24, 2017
Part of the Grand Concourse era back in the early days. May Jeff Rest In Peace.
November 24, 2017
I've know Jeff for 48 years we had some great times together and I'm sure he's in a better place. you'll be missed by us all. RichardCunningham.
Carolyn Newcott
November 23, 2017
Jeff, you will be sorely missed!
Tera Sunder
November 23, 2017
I remember all the great times in Mount Washington we lived around the corner from each other Greg caper upstairs for me and Jeff in Patterson and John around the corner. We had great times crazy times. I know Jeff fought a terrific fight but now it is time for peace. He will always be remembered in my heart.
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Leslie Moss
November 22, 2017
So many wonderful memories come to mind from our misguided youth. Skiing in Pa. and trips to Rossclair, parties on Mt. Washington. I was so glad and amazed to get to see you on 11/5 . It was a good visit and conversation and I thankyou for wishing me well on the rest of my life. Jeff, I will remember and miss you . You had the most amazing strength , and will to live and waged such a battle against this cancer. I have known you for about 48 years, and never had a bad time with you. You lived and loved well. There is a lot of you still in the air and all around us, journey well my friend.
Leslie Moss
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