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March 26, 2013
Learned of John's passing when we were away. So wish I could have been there for the service. John was one of the finest people I have ever had the privilege of knowing - brilliant, humble, honest and caring. My sincerest condolences. Jim Botelho
Carol McGarty
March 13, 2013
I just heard about John's passing this morning. How sad. I worked in the Public Law Department of Palmer & Dodge in the mid-80s and John was one of the reasons I look back on those years and smile. He was a kind and gentle man and touched many hearts. My condolences to his family.
March 12, 2013
We are so sorry to lose John. He helped add music to our community and was there when he was needed. Our deepest sympathy. Betty Slade and David Cole
March 10, 2013
A special person has been lost. John may have passed from this earth, but the memory of him will be forever in the saddened hearts and minds of those lives he touched. From second grade at South School in Somerset, and through Somerset High School, I was among the fortunate who had the privilege of calling him my friend, and seeing John's greatness evolve. He was the shining star in EVERY class and activity. He continuously raised the bar of excellence, and we all tried to emulate him. Of course, John graduated first in our class of 1963. As a class valedictorian, John's philosophical foresight and brilliance was evident even at the age of 17. In his graduation address he said, "We have the ability to create happiness, to enjoy family and friends and a close relationship with God. We can live happy lives; we can't control it's length, but we can control it's quality." John lived his words. My sincere condolences to John's family.
Andrea DiGiammo Musone--Tiverton, RI
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March 9, 2013
I am so sorry that you have lost such a wonderful man. I imagine that my father, Casimir de Rham, must have known John at P&D, and that he would join in sending sincere condolences for your loss.
Sincerely,
Lizzie de Rham
March 9, 2013
Dear Barbara,
How very sad to read this, and also so illuminating to learn more about your kind, generous, competent husband. My sympathy to you and your family as you mourn the loss of John. He loved being a grandfather and father...his family was always first.
He was also very giving of his time and municipal experience to Westport, especially as a member of the ill-fated Central Village Improvements Committee. Thank you for sharing him with us! We were so lucky to have him on our team. Deep breathes...
warmly, Elaine Ostroff
Jean Finney Pinault
March 8, 2013
My sincere condolences to John's family. I am also a SHS 1963 graduate, I was saddened to read of a classmate's passing.
Bill & Linda Glaser
March 8, 2013
A shock to us both. Difficult to express our sense of loss of such a wonderful man. Tennis and Westport will never be the same without him.
Stu Graham
March 8, 2013
Though we were law school classmates, I didn't know John until I arrived at Palmer & Dodge in 1972, after two years of government service. We became good friends and colleagues in the Public Law Department. John generously and patiently mentored me in municipal finance law. How had he learned so much in two years? Well, he was far smarter than I was; he was also a much better tennis player. Barbara and the girls have my deepest sympathy.
John Arruda
March 8, 2013
My sincere condolences to all of you. John and I were friends in his early years in Somerset and throughout high school. My mom and john's mom were friends and worked together for a number of years. Both women gave birth on the same day to sons who they named John. Last saw him twenty-five years ago. May he rest in peace. ---
March 7, 2013
Dear Barbara, Katie and Lauren,
We are so saddened to hear of John's passing. I always enjoyed seeing him walk to the train or home, no matter what the weather. He had great enthusiasm for life. Please accept out condolences.
Susan Furste and Fred Carpenter
George Antone
March 7, 2013
My sincere condolences to his family. I was a classmate, friend, and fellow athlete during our years at Somerset High School. John was a sincere personable individual, who was a definite role model for all to follow. He treated everyone with respect and dignity. I am saddened by the news of his passing. He was taken away much too soon.
George Antone
Wichita, Kansas
Class of 1963 Somerset High School
March 7, 2013
Dear Barbara and family,
Our heartfelt prayers and deepest sympathy go out to you all. John's was a life ably and nobly lived so you can take great comfort in all that.
Margot Cottrell & family
March 7, 2013
I was so sad to hear of John's passing. In my last conversation with John he did tell me, however, he had a wonderful life, great wife and daughters, family, work and recreation and fun. It makes me feel good he could express this. I have many fond memories of John in high school days at Somerset High School. Heartfelt thoughts and prayers to his family.
Carol Kroker(New York City)
Dr. Reggie DeCotret
March 7, 2013
GOD has His ways of blessing us. John is with Him and we, someday, will too. Until then - God bless the years we spent together at SHS. Today is a celebration of Life. I know he had a good one and I also know the next one will much better. Amazing how 1963 seems only like yesterday. Knowing that there is a better tomorrow makes today an easier day to complete.
March 7, 2013
Please accept our Deepest Condolences in the passing of John.
He was taken way to early.
Sincerely,
Tom & MaryLou McDonald
Marcia Gorgone
March 7, 2013
Chris joins me in sending our deepest sympathy to you and the girls, Prayerfully Marcia Gorgone
Sally Whitman
March 7, 2013
Barbara. My heart aches for you and your girls. He was taken too soon. I know how very painful this is. Please call any time if you want to talk. My love and prayers are with you all at this extremely difficult time. Much love and many hugs. Sally
Deirdre Menoyo
March 7, 2013
Such a sad loss of such a good good man who loved life.
March 7, 2013
It was a pleasure to work for John at Palmer & Dodge for many years. I have many good memories. My thoughts and prayers go out to you Barbara and the rest of the family.
Stan Keller
March 7, 2013
John was a treasured colleague and outstanding partner. I am happy I was able to see him and spend some time catching up a few months ago at our firm reunion. It reminded me what a wonderful person he was. My sympathies to Barbara nad the rest of John's family.
Jeff Jones
March 7, 2013
John was a wonderful colleague and friend for many years. His death came way too soon.
Jeff Faria
March 6, 2013
With deepest sorrow
This is one of my favorite pictures of my borther-in-law, John with his youngest daughter, Lauren.
Marilyn Zilinski
March 6, 2013
Elaine Brouillard
March 6, 2013
Barbara,
I was so sorry to hear about John from Jackie H. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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