Joseph A. Monaco

Joseph A. Monaco obituary, Monroe, CT

Joseph A. Monaco

Joseph A. Monaco Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 21, 2024.
Joseph Anthony Monaco Sr., age 84, of Monroe, passed away peacefully on August 20th surrounded by his loving family. Born in Bridgeport, Connecticut, to Lawrence Monaco and Rose Russo Monaco, Joe led a life filled with love, dedication, and cherished memories.

Joe was a devoted husband to his wife of 63 years, Mary Ann. Their partnership was a testament to enduring love and mutual respect. Together, they created a beautiful family legacy. He is survived by his wife, sister Antoinette "Honey" & husband Anthony "Tony" (Tartaglia), five children: Loretta & husband Robert (Peel), Joseph Jr. & wife Rose, Lawrence & wife Barbara, Lynn & husband Ed (Philbin) and Debra (Olson) & wife Maureen (Melleky); 12 grandchildren: Angela & husband Dave (McCarten), Joseph III, Ashley & husband Bryan (Colella), Bianca & fiancé Mike (Capozzi), Bryan, Austin & wife Alex, Lorenzo, David & fiancé Julia, Daniel, Alivia, Mikayla, and Isabella; and 3 great grandchildren: David Jr., Madison and Grace. All of whom he adored and who will deeply miss him.

Outside of immediate family Joe and his wife Mary had many "adopted children". They had an open-door policy for anyone needing their help and support. They loved and adored everyone who walked into their home.

Joe attended Fairfield Prep and furthered his education at Fairfield University, laying the foundation for a life of hard work and commitment. After graduation, he spent many years at Avco Lycoming, where his professionalism and dedication were highly valued. In the 70's, Joe started Mon-Tar Builders with his brother-in-law Tony (Tartaglia), building many homes and businesses in the town of Monroe. In the 80's he began Monaco Excavation, eventually co-owing and working beside his two sons for over 40 years.

Beyond his professional achievements, Joe had a vibrant and full life. He was a passionate fan of the New York Yankees and the New York Giants, finding joy in following their games and sharing that enthusiasm with half the family, while engaging in a spirited rivalry with the other half. Joe also cherished time spent at his and Mary's Florida house, where they enjoyed hosting family and friends--creating lasting memories with them and a scotch by his side.

Throughout his life, Joe's warmth, wisdom, and generosity touched the hearts of many. He was known for his strong character, unwavering support for his family, and his kind spirit. His legacy will live on through family and all who loved him.

Joe had strong faith and was a member of St. Jude’s Parish in Monroe, helping to build the church in 1987. He made long lasting connections, including his friendships with Monsignor Sabia, Father Bob, Father Skip, and the late Father Futi. In lieu of flowers, the family is asking for donations to the Blessed Sacrament Food Pantry on Union Ave in Bridgeport (blessedsacramentbpt.org)

A Funeral Mass will be held at St. Jude’s Parish in Monroe, CT on Tuesday, August 27 at 10am. Burial will be held immediately after at Gate of Heaven Cemetary in Trumbull, CT. If you cannot attend Mass, please join the family for a celebration of life at Fairfield Theater Company, 70 Sanford St. Fairfield, CT from 12pm-6pm.

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August 27, 2024

Gene Epifano posted to the memorial.

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Gene Epifano

August 27, 2024

Joe was a great friend through high school and college. I'm so glad we reconnected and I got to visit with him on my last few trips to Connecticut. He will be missed. Sending condolences to Mary and the entire family.

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Edward J. Gniadek

August 26, 2024

I am sorry to learn that Joe has passed away. While attending both Fairfield Prep and University with Joe, I always considered him a good friend. I often think about the pinochle games in his Caddy during our lunch break. May he rest in peace.

Ed Gniadek

Elizabeth Potts

August 26, 2024

So sorry to hear of Joe´s passing. Although I never met him personally, I had the pleasure of having him as a customer and always enjoyed our conversations. He was a pleasure to deal with. We look forward to our continued work with Joe Jr. Sending you all our best at this sad time.
Elizabeth & Dave Potts
Geomatrix Systems

Fr John Crean

August 26, 2024

We were both in the Class of 1957 at Prep but I don't remember knowing Joe personally, but that was a long time ago. Maybe we did know one another.
In any case, I will offer Mass for him somewhere in Italy. I leave tomorrow for a month there.
If there are holy cards of remembrance, I would very much like to have one. My address: Fr John Crean, 49475 Marne Ct., La Quinta, CA 92253.
Blessings to all. Be comforted by the Holy Spirit!

Peter Matera

August 25, 2024

Mary,Loretta,Joey,Lynne,Larry,Debbie
Joe´s passing leaves a deep hole in all who knew him, no one more than me
We have been together for seventy nine years My best friend Always there for everyone Loved by all who had the honor to know him we shared so much
God, we miss him
Rest in peace my FRIEND

Peter & Barbara Matera

Candy and Rich Perusi

August 24, 2024

Dear Maryanne and family,
Rich and I are so sorry for your loss of a dear husband and father. We will always remember Joe very fondly as someone who was always ready to help and lend a hand. He was a warm friend to all.
Candy and Rich Perusi

Mickey & Fran Riganese

August 22, 2024

Joe´s´ 4th of July events were always spectacular His smiling face to greet all was a welcomed site. A wonderful family man loving &caring to all who knew him. Mickey ,Peter@ JOE 3friends from childhood that spent hours of fun reminiscing about little pranks in their childhood that kept Joe laughing. Always remembered ,sadly
Missed

Joseph Morano

August 22, 2024

So sorry to hear of your loss. We will tell Millie, he was a great man who was deeply loved.
Love Joe and Linda Morano

Trevor Lytle

August 21, 2024

Dear Joe & Family, you all created my childhood home, my cherished neighborhood, exciting memories of the Fourth of July fireworks, you were there at my first communion and rocked out to the many celebrations with my parents during my childhood. I always loved your spirit and your hulk costume at Halloween. I remember you as a creator and a celebrator of life. You helped raise children who were kind and generous. Children who watched over us when our parents needed a date night. My parents Skip & Pat always held you and your family dear to their heart. You created a neighborhood full of beautiful memories and cherished times.

Will all my heart I thank you for sharing your time, spirit and smile with my family.

Sincerely Trevor Lytle

Paula Gomez

August 21, 2024

Dear Mary Ann & family, I am so sorry for each one of you. My heart is crushed. Joe was such an enormous part of my life and was always like a second father to me. I can remember the first time I said no to him and he chased me through the 16 acres of land behind the house and caught me finally at the apple tree. I was never so scared in my life. I also remember how he was amazed at how hard I cried at my own wedding. As much as I feared him as a child. I always had a great respect for him. I will love and hold all the memories dearly always. I will miss our dinners out and happy hours. I will miss him beyond words and am happy he didn't suffer. Rest Peacefully Cuz, give my husband a hug and kiss for me and take care of each other until I see you again! xoxo

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