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Joseph Barkett Obituary
May 1, 1928 - November 15, 2018
Surrounded by his loving wife, Marie, and his children and grandchildren, Dr. Joseph Barkett passed away in the early morning of November 15, 2018 at the age of 90 years.
Dr. Joe will be missed immensely and is lovingly remembered by his wife Marie and his children, William Barkett and his wife, Lisa, Lisa Barkett O'Leary and her husband Martin, and Anthony Barkett and his wife, Rima. Dr. Barkett, "Jidou", will also be greatly missed and fondly remembered by his eight grandchildren, Joseph Barkett, Alexandra O'Leary, Jacqueline Barkett Chervak (James Chervak), Lauren O'Leary Warmerdam (Brett Warmerdam), Anthony Barkett, Katherine O'Leary, Marena O'Leary and Yasmin Barkett.
Dr. Joe was born in Serhel, Lebanon on May 1, 1928 to Sadia and Anthony Barkett. He arrived in Stockton at the age of 9. Unable to speak a word of English, he quickly assimilated into American life and culture, excelling academically and obtained his undergraduate degree from Santa Clara University and his medical degree from Creighton University School of Medicine in Omaha, Nebraska. Upon graduation he joined the Navy where he proudly served his country.
While in the Navy, Dr. Joe met his beloved wife of 61 years, Marie Joseph. Joe and Marie started their life together in Stockton, CA where they began their family and built his career in private general practice in Stockton.
A lifelong Democrat, Dr. Joe was active in local, state and federal politics since the late 1950's. A strong advocate for San Joaquin County and the City of Stockton, he was appointed at age 36 as Chairman of the World Trade Authority by CA Governor Pat Brown to promote California businesses internationally. Joe served on the Santa Clara Board of Regents and was a Founding Member and Trustee at the University of California, Merced. He was amazingly accomplished and lived a spectacular life.
Dr. Joe and Marie had a long, happy life together. Joe was a wonderful husband, beloved father and adored "Jidou" who enjoyed his family gatherings around the kitchen table sharing many stories of ethnic pride and the value of hard work and an education. He was particularly proud of his 8 grandchildren who share his commitment to education and community involvement. He loved traveling the world with his wife, family and friends. An avid reader, card player, a remarkable dancer and gifted story-teller, he captured the hearts of many. He was an extraordinarily caring, compassionate and giving person who was always available to lend his advice and help to anyone in need.
A Rosary Prayer Service for Dr. Barkett will be held at 5:00 p.m. on Monday, November 19, 2018 at the Cathedral of the Annunciation. The Funeral Mass in memory and honor of Dr. Barkett will be held on Tuesday, November 20th at 11:00 a.m., at the Cathedral of the Annunciation followed by a private interment service. Those who so desire may make memorial donations in memory of Dr. Joe Barkett to the St. Sharbel Maronite Catholic Mission located at 4981 E. Eight Mile Road, Stockton, CA 95212.
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November 11, 2019
I often reflect on Dr. Barkett. What an incredible
man!
Ed and Helene Abraham
November 25, 2018
Dear Cousin Marie and all the Barkett Family:
Helene joins me in sending our deepest sympathies and condolences to all of the family on Joe's passing. What a great man and a true gentlemen in every sense of the word. We remember vividly the cute story he told us a few years ago about growing up in Lebanon and how his mother would keep having to seal the cracks in the hardened dirt floors with water to keep the fire ants from coming up and stinging them all.
He came from such poor beginnings and along with you, Marie built a veritable dynasty.
He will be sorely missed by all.
A man of great quality has left us.
All our love to you and the family,
Cousins Ed and Helene Abraham
Robert Foreman
November 24, 2018
Dear Marie, Lisa, Bill, and Anthony, and Families,
There are so many wonderful memories over so many years going back to our childhood in the old neighborhood that I can recall - so many and I am so grateful for each one. Thank you, Joe.
And I sincerely thank Marie as well. She is so special; I will keep her in my prayers daily.
I love you all.
Bob Foreman
Bob and Emily
November 20, 2018
I am so sorry to hear of the Doctors passing, I recently had lunch with him. I will always hold close to my heart with much gratitude the good advise he gave to me and the thirty years plus he gave me the opportunity to do business with him. He will be missed. Sincerely, Tony Dominguez
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David Catanzarite
November 20, 2018
My Mother tells me a story of how Dr Barkett saved her life. I will be eternally grateful for that, a truly sweet and genuine man , I could not have asked for a greater Godfather, may God hold you always near.
Alan Nakanishi MD
November 19, 2018
Joe Barkett, MD, was a kind generous man, compassionate doctor, who contributed much to his community and government and a good friend. He will be greatly missed.
ROGER THOMAS
November 19, 2018
So sorry for this sudden loss. Prayers always,
Roger Thomas c/o Isabelle Thomas and Family
Rene and Silvia Lucero
November 19, 2018
Our sincere and deepest sympathy to your family
November 18, 2018
Dear Marie and family,
I'm devasted after learning that my oldest friend dating back to 1954 has passed away. I enjoyed every second of Joe's company at our lunches and during our time at the San Joaquin General Hospital. He was a great physician, friend and humanitarian and will be greatly missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing him. I shall miss his friendly smile and friendship forever. Sending our deepest condolences to the entire Barkett family at this difficult time. All our love,
Bill and Brigitte West
Danny Fred
November 18, 2018
Although only knowing Dr. Barkett for a little over 4 years, I always enjoyed our vlsits and talks about the politics and the world he had seen and been a part of in his life. He was a good man and surely will be missed by family and friends.
Michael Wulfman
November 18, 2018
I admired and appreciated Dr. Barkett very much. I wish I had dropped in to visit him more often as he always warmly invited me to do. Dr. Barkett was an incredibly illustrious gentleman: a true pillar to our community and the state of California as well. My sympathy to his family and to all whom he touched.
LInda Dysert
November 17, 2018
He will be greatly missed. I am very thankful that I had the opportunity to know Joe. He was such a blessing. His kind, loving smile will always be in my memory.
Fr. John Mossi, SJ
November 17, 2018
In prayerful solidarity at this time of commending Dr. Joseph Barkett into the eternal peace and love of God.
Pete Barkett
November 17, 2018
To all of you, our sorrow and best love on the loss of Doc. Pete and Jeanie Barkett
Dennis & MarJo Rivinius
November 17, 2018
Our sincere sympathy to all the family.
Lori Muller Gray
November 17, 2018
Special prayers this morning for Marie , Lisa and Bill. Another grand Stockton family has lost their Dad. Thank you Dr. Barkett for your generosity to this community. May God be with this wonderful family . You are so much in my thoughts. RIP Dr. Barkett.
Daniel Sarabia
November 17, 2018
R,I.P Dr barkett ,,god bless and take care of your family
November 17, 2018
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
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