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JOSEPH MICHAEL SIVA
January 30, 1963 – June 16, 2019
Joseph Michael Siva has passed on to the spirit world. Born January 30th, 1963 and passed June 16th, 2019. Youngest of 6 children of JoAnn and Harold Siva of Fallbrook. He lived his first half of his life in Fallbrook, DOMINATING in anything he did. He played tennis, baseball, and basketball was his main sport. He was known to cross half court and launch the deep 3, although that was before there was a 3-point line and may be the only man that you ever knew that could throw a horseshoe overhand for a ringer or two. He is loved by many. Growing up in Fallbrook, he touched many lives in the most positive way he could. December 13th, 1987 was the day his journey began with the love of his life, Jeanine Siva. From concerts to ball games to just being together, they were inseparable. July 5th, 1990, Joe and Jeanine’s first son, Jakee Joseph Siva, was born. 4 years later on November 11th, 1994, their second son, James Michael Siva, was born. Joe also raised a stepson, Kevin Mitchell Ostgaard, born February 7th, 1986. Working at Fallbrook’s Major Market for 15 years, Joe earned the position of Produce Manager. Being a tribal member of the Rincon Band of Luiseno Indians, Joe moved his family to the Rincon Indian Reservation in 1994. 3 years later on August 2, 1997, Joe married Jeanine in Bonsall.
He spent the next half of his life raising his family with love, pride, and true integrity. When he wasn’t working, Joe dedicated his time to coaching and watching his boys play baseball and basketball. He was there for anybody who needed help, whether it was kind words or a place to stay. Joe was a rocker, through and through, who loved his music. At age 25, he started playing guitar. After 21 years of teaching himself and playing, he made a CD with his band Tribal Edge. The Joe Siva Band consisted of his beloved wife Jeanine on vocals, Joe and his brother, Harold Siva Jr., both shredding guitar, his friend/brother Mike Shaw on drums, and friend Jason Wolfe on bass. Joe took pride in being a hardworking and loving husband, father, grandfather, son, brother, uncle, cousin, nephew, godfather and friend. After he stopped working at Major Market, he worked hard for his tribe for the rest of his days. On April 29th, 2018, Joe Siva was blessed with his first grandchild, Iris Haze Siva. He is survived by his Wife Jeanine; Sons Jakee, James, Kevin; Grandchildren Iris, Evan; Mother Jo Ann; Brothers Harold Jr., Gerald, Greg; Sisters Annemarie, Natalia; Nephews Travis, Tyler, Andrew, Josh, Cole; Nieces Natasha, Danell, Breanna, Melanie, Hanna; Godchildren Andrew, London Jazz; Great-Nieces; Great-Nephews; and his MUSIC.
There are no words to describe this sudden and unexpected loss of such a dignified, proud, loving, beautiful Indian man whose depth and love for life and family knew no bounds. Services are to be held on Friday June 28th at 10AM at St. Bartholomew Church on the Rincon Indian Reservation, Valley Center, CA on Mazzetti Lane. Burial to follow at the Rincon Cemetery. Joe’s spirit will live on forever.
“Let it flow, right from your heart, straight from your soul, let it go!” – Joe Siva.
Peggy Gage
June 24, 2019
I am so very sorry just heard. Your all in my Prayers and thoughts.
Stephanie Brynjolfson
June 23, 2019
My cousin... Hearing of Joe's passing brings home just how fragile and unpredictable this life is... Although I didn't have the honor of knowing Joe as well as I would have like to, seeing the two of you together, it was clear that you two are simply magic. The love you share lives on... Joe is there, in the whisper of the wind in your hair, the colorful sunset and the warm rain falling gently on your skin...
Love you so much my beautiful.cousin...
Steph
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Kenneth Simon
June 22, 2019
It's just Sad to hear of your departure. I enjoyed the many conversations we had, and watching your boys play ball. A true inspiration to his community.
Val Boyle
June 22, 2019
Sending prayers for strength and peace through this difficult time.
Kim Jernegan
June 21, 2019
Love to you all! What a loss for us all. I loved him like a brother.
Jidi Lewis
June 21, 2019
Jeanine words cannot express how my heart breaks for you. So very sorry for your loss. ❤
Balinda Dickson
June 21, 2019
Sorry for your loss. I went to school with Joe.
Eddie LaVigueur
June 21, 2019
My heart goes out to all of Joe's family and many friends. I met Joe while working at Major Market, but had many great memories with Joe away from work. While going thru a tough relationship, Joe was always there for me with mature, sage advice, a huge heart and that wry grin of a smile! At his beautiful wedding, when a giant hawk soared overhead, Joe made sure to point out to me the significance of this approval of his marriage to Janine from the spirit world. My friend, you are amazing, enjoy your wings. You earned them. All my love, your friend, Eddie LaVigueur. Rock ON!!!
Johnny and Melissa Gallardo
June 21, 2019
God Bless you all during this time in your journey we have many great memories with Joe and Jeanine he will truely be missed.
Tina Blea
June 20, 2019
Sorry for your loss, prayers for the family, what a loss for all of us, Joe had the biggest heart and will be missed!❤
Jakee Siva
June 20, 2019
I love you, Dad.
Thomas & Cherryl Witt
June 20, 2019
Tom played basketball at B & G club with Joey. Loved playing with & against him. He is a fallbrook legend & so honored to have know him & I worked with sweet joann at school district. Our prayers & love to the entire family. Thomas & Cherryl Witt. P.s. incredible written obituary, perfect.
Miriam Taylor-Bolding
June 20, 2019
Joe was a great guy with a big heart and big smile. He will be missed
Lori Woodrey
June 20, 2019
Lori Woodrey, I'm sorry for your loss My prayers are with you.
Kristina White
June 19, 2019
So sorry for your loss my prayers to your Family. He had such a kind gentle soul I have so many memories from High School with Joe.
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