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Kathleen "Katie" Tansy
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Kathleen Tansy Obituary
Kathleen (Katie) Tansy was born on February 16, 1984, and passed away on January 5, 2012. She is survived by her father, Michael Tansy (Andrea Chisolm), her mother, Susan Swanson (Dennis Burns), her brother, Sean Tansy, her grandmother, Marjorie McGuirl, aunts and uncles Martha & Jim Steinacker, Paul , David, Gregory, and Dawn Tansy, and cousins Ross & Jay Randolph, David & Crystal Tansy, and Richard Mukai. Katie was an artist who shared her creative spirit, intelligence, and incredible humor with her family and friends. She brought happiness to many and will be greatly missed by all. Katie will be interred at Tempe Buttes Cemetery following a private family service. In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made in her name to the Mental Health Association of Arizona, or Phoenix Rescue Mission.
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Dad
August 4, 2025
Katie,
Every day without you is another day of sadness and the wish that I could see you, to talk to you and give you a hug. We all miss you badly and savor the wonderful memories we share.
Love,
Dad
July 4, 2025
Katie,
On this July 4th celebration of the founding of our country, I warmly remember the days when we all climbed on the roof at Riviera to watch the fireworks at Tempe Town Lake. How I wish we could celebrate the 4th that way again. We all love you and will always love you.
Until we meet again, watch over us all.
Love,
Dad
June 4, 2025
Katie,
Every day without you is another day of sadness and longing to have you in my life. I hold closely to the fond memories of time spent with you and regret the conversations we didn't have that we will never be able to have. My heart is filled with love for you and sadness that you aren't here now.
I will always love you and miss you.
Dad
May 25, 2025
Katie,
On this Memorial Day, I hope everyone who reads this post takes a moment and remembers you and all the facets of you. I remember the many, many moments we shared, your humor, you intense passion for justice, and your ability to march to your own drum.
Katie, you are gone but never forgotten.
Love,
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Dad
May 4, 2025
Katie,
You were loved before you passed, are loved now, and will always be loved. With your departure, our world grew darker. We miss your artistry, your snarky sense of humor and your passion.
With undying love,
Dad
April 19, 2025
Katie,
Happy Easter.
May the road rise to meet you,
May the wind be always at your back,
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
May the rain fall softly on your fields,
Until we meet again may God hold you in the palm or his hand.
God bless you Katie and all of you who knew and loved you.
Dad
April 4, 2025
Katie,
I miss you more and more each day.
I cherish the the time we shared together.
You will never be fogotten.
Dad
March 4, 2025
Katie,
May well all remember you and never forget to share our memories of you with friends and family. I think of you daily and miss your wit and creativity. The world is darker without you and I long for the day that I might embrace you once again.
Love,
Stephanie H
February 16, 2025
Happy 41 Katie! Cannot believe it´s been 13 years, you´re still so close to my thoughts like it was just yesterday. What a joy it would be to have you here at times like these to hear your commentary and insights. Love you always. Forever in our hearts.
Dad
February 16, 2025
Katie,
Happy Birthday. Though many years have passed, I will never forget they joy you brought to so many people the day you were born...and all the other days of your unfortunately short life. All of us miss you more than words can express.
With unending love,
Dad
February 14, 2025
It's been many, many years since we shared Valentine's Day wishes but I'm never forget your cards, hugs and kisses...your tiny arms giving me Valentine wishes. I hold all these moments in my heart.
Happy Valentine's Day Katie,
Love
Dad
February 5, 2025
Katie,
You are never forgotten and always in our minds. We much you so very much. What I would do to see you, give you a hug and listen to you while you crochet. For now, we'll all just have to wait for the moment that is possible.
Love to you and all who knew you,
Dad
January 2, 2025
Katie,
Starting 2025 without you brings a touch of sadness. To be unable to see how your life might have been and what amazing moments we might have shared makes me pause. I hold close my memories of you. I will always cherish these memories. Love you,
Rhi
December 24, 2024
Hey Bestie,
I miss you. I went to the Bean a few weeks ago and was flooded with memories of our times together. I hope wherever you are is filled with the same joy you brought to others. I miss you everyday and hope I get to see you again, someday. I love you always, Tansy - Rhi
Dad
December 23, 2024
Katie,
The holidays just aren't quite the same. We have such fond memories of you as a baby, a young child, a teenager and a young adult. Every day you are thought of, spoken of and never forgotten.
Peace and love to you and to all who read this.
Dad
December 4, 2024
Katie,
Each day we think of you, miss you and celebrate the brief time we shared over the years. The holidays aren't quite the same without you but you will always be a part of them and of us.
Love,
Dad
November 29, 2024
Katie,
This Thanksgiving I give thanks to you and your memory. Since you have gone, Thanksgiving is a bit dimmer, but the light of your memory continues to shine brightly. You continue to be missed by friends and family alike. I give thanks to the many memories we share.
With love and thanks,
Dad
November 3, 2024
Katie,
Halloween passed and Thanksgiving is around the corner. I always miss your presence at the holidays and every other day. I appreciate the many memories we share, but they are a pale substitute for you actual presence.
You were and are loved.
Dad
October 6, 2024
Katie,
Many of my fondest memories are enjoying you and Sean on Halloween. I hope they enjoy treats in heaven and celebrate the joy of childhood innocence. Each day I think of you and pray for the time we may celebrate all things together, including Halloween.
Love
Dad
September 4, 2024
Katie,
As summer fades and the weather cools I can't help thinking about the wonderful summer memories we shared. I miss you and pray for the opportunity to see you and embrace you in the future.
May you be surrounded in love and may your soul be celebrating our corporal lives.
With uncompromising love,
Dad
August 4, 2024
Katie,
Every day we think of you and celebrate you, your humor, your caring, your artistry and so much more. We miss you more than words can express. Since you've departed the world is a colder place.
We love you and miss you.
Dad
July 2, 2024
Katie,
I remember so many wonderful times observing the Fourth of July together on the flat roof on Rivera Drive. Together with Sean we sat and watched the fireworks over Tempe Town Lake. We miss you so.
Love
Dad
May 25, 2024
This Memorial Day I'm flooded with memories of Katie. The joy of so many moments and the sadness of her absence. Hold close those whom you love and pause to celebrate the memories of those you've lost. Katie, I celebrate the love we shared and embrace my memories of you.
Dad
May 4, 2024
Katie,
Every day I think about you and mourn your passing. All your life you brought me joy through your humor, vitality, artistic acumen and and your passion for causes supporting underdogs everywhere. I miss you, we miss you and the world misses you. We need you and people like you more and more.
Love,
Kami
April 8, 2024
Today I found old photo negatives from a very silly evening in 2004. You are missed and tonight these negatives brought a memory that had been buried for a while.
Dad
April 4, 2024
Katie,
Easter has come and gone, rekindling very fond memories of you in a pink and white dress hunting for Easter eggs after church at St. Augustine's Parish. You were a joy to behold. So young and full of life.
We love you and miss you,
Dad
March 17, 2024
Happy St. Patrick's Day to all. Those of you who knew Katie knew how proud she was of her Irish heritage. Take a moment and reflect on how much Katie meant to you. Celebrate her and her legacy.
With love to all,
Dad
March 4, 2024
Katie,
Each month we miss you more. You are always in our thoughts and we celebrate you when we remember the great things you said and did.
We miss you so much.
Peace and love,
Rhi
February 16, 2024
Happy 40th, Bestie. I miss you so much. I love you forever and will celebrate you and our friendship always.
Dad
February 15, 2024
Forty years ago we were blessed by Katie's birth. I'll never forget the joy and celebration we shared. I hope everyone who knew Katie take a moment, meditate on the joy she brought you and celebrate her (unfortunately) short life.
Embrace the love she brought you and remember her fondly.
With great love for Katie,
Dad
February 13, 2024
No Valentine's Day is complete without embracing the memories of past Valentine Days and celebrating Katie's memory. I will always cherish Katie's sweet, innocent excitement for Valentine's Day. Rest well embraced in a place of unconditional, exceptional love.
Dad
February 4, 2024
May we all celebrate our memories of Katie during this, her birth month and Valentine's Day. Katie brought much love to others. Please recall her and appreciate how she touched our lives.
Chelsea
January 6, 2024
Katie,
I thought about you yesterday and looked at some of our photos. I miss you so much! You were truly one of my best friends and the Trifecta will never be complete again. I think about you every time I look at the art you made me. It´s displayed in my living room. I think about you every meeting when I knit. I still talk about you and I always will.
Rhi
January 5, 2024
I miss you so much. I keep you in my heart and in my thoughts everyday. I love you. I wish you were still here.
Dad
January 5, 2024
Today marks the anniversary of Katie's passing from this world. Please note her passing with a moment of silent meditation and remembrance celebrating her and how she made a difference in our lives. We love her and miss her every day.
Dad
December 31, 2023
Katie,
As we ring in the new year, I pause and wonder how different our lives would have been with you in it today. Your departure leaves a hole in our world that no one can ever replace. Your wit, creativity, and honesty are missed. Recalling 2023 and not being able to include thoughts of what we did together this year and looking ahead to 2024 knowing you won't be a part of the memories highlight our loss.
You will always be a part of us and we continue to recall the many times we shared before you departed.
We miss you now and will always miss you.
Love,
Dad
December 23, 2023
Katie,
As we celebrate Christmas, I reflect on each Christmas holiday we celebrated when you were still with us. I miss you terribly and know those who knew you feel the same.
Merry Christmas to you and all who read this.
We love you Katie,
Dad
December 4, 2023
Katie,
As Christmas approaches and the lights around the neighborhood light up I am reminded of our wonderful Christmas seasons shared together and think of you. This was one time of year when your sparkle was even more intense.
I cherish those moments and my memory of them.
Love,
Dad
November 22, 2023
Katie,
Today as we celebrate Thanksgiving, we will share memories of you and the many Thanksgiving dinners we shared. One can't help to note your absence at the table and the wonderful energy you brought to every meal. We miss you, your humor, your wisdom...and wise cracks, and, all things Katie.
We love you and miss you,
Happy Thanksgiving. I'm am thankful that I knew you,
Love
Dad
October 31, 2023
Katie,
On this All Hallow's Eve, I am thankful for the time you lived and the gifts to gave to all of us. While I grieve your passing, I celebrate the memories you gave me and accept that you are out of pain. I cherish the many pieces of art you left us. I only wish we had more time together and that there aren't more memories.
Love,
Dad
October 4, 2023
This month, as we celebrate Samhain, the Celtic celebration of the departed, may we take a moment and remember those dear to us who have left us for another life. Remember Katie and the love she offered and remember her in body and spirit. May all of you celebrate her and all of your loved ones who have departed.
Dad
September 4, 2023
We remember, tell stories, and celebrate Katie's brief time here. I hope all of her friends and family do the same. May she never be forgotten. She was a true warrior for her causes and her artistry was phenomenal. Tell a friend or family member your fond memories. Never let her memories pass.
Dad
August 4, 2023
Katie,
Our love for you goes on and on. We miss you every day and appreciate the ways you touched our lives. Your sense of humor, your fierce conviction to the the under served and vulnerable people in the world. Your heart was true and we dearly miss you. I look forward to the day we can meet again and revisit the great spirit you showed and your love of people, particularly those who refused to conform.
The world misses you and those like you more than ever.
Love,
Dad
July 4, 2023
Katie,
No day passes without thinking of you and missing you. Though your time here was brief, you were and are loved. When I watch fireworks tonight I'll think of those nights we climbed on the roof on Riviera Drive to watch them together.
Happy Independence Day. Enjoy watching the fireworks from above. The view must be breathtaking.
Love,
Dad
June 4, 2023
Katie,
Every day we remember you. Thoughts of you remind us of your wonderful humor and beautiful artistry. You will never be forgotten. We love you deeply.
Dad
May 4, 2023
Katie,
We continue to love and miss you...and we always will. You will always remain in our hearts and our minds.
Dad
April 8, 2023
Katie,
Today marks another Easter with out you. I cherish the memories of celebrating Easter Mass and Easter egg decorating with you. Your interest in art was apparent from the start. We miss you on this day of prayer and rebirth. Happy Easter!
Dad
April 5, 2023
Katie,
I think of you and they joy we shared.
Patiently, I wait until we can meet again and share our love once again.
You are and will always be missed.
Love you.
Dad
March 5, 2023
Katie,
Each day we celebrate your life and miss your many memorable qualities...your brilliance, your humor, your art...and you.
Rhiannon Main
February 16, 2023
Rhiannon Main
February 16, 2023
Rhiannon Main
February 16, 2023
Rhiannon Main
February 16, 2023
Happy birthday, Katie
I miss you everyday.
(I found these pix from your, I think 21st, bday when we threw you a surprise party at Jamaican Blue)
Love you always.
- Rhi
Dad
February 15, 2023
Thirty-nine years ago we celebrated Katie's arrival. We celebrated her birth and each year, throughout the year, her life. Unfortunately, this celebration was cut short by Katie's passing. Please continue to celebrate Katie and all the ways her love shaped you on this day, the 39th anniversary of her birth.
Love to all,
Dad
February 5, 2023
February 5, 2023,
Katie,
You beautiful, beautiful soul.
Each day that passes reminds me of the loving, tender, caring young lady who was taken from us so soon.
Rest in peace my dear.
We will never forget you and all the joy you brought to us.
Though time passes your memory does not.
Love,
Dad
January 3, 2023
January 5th marks the 11th anniversary of Katie's passing. She will always be loved and never forgotten. Those of you who knew her please celebrate her life in ways that bring you meaning and joy. Hold your loved ones close and pray for their ongoing happiness and health.
Dad
December 22, 2022
For all of us Christmas can be difficult. It leaves us with memories of loved ones we have lost. May we all appreciate the love we share and the memories of those we yearn to see.
Merry Christmas Katie and to all who read this. May peace be with you and in your heart.
Dad
December 4, 2022
Katie,
May our maker's perpetual light shine on you and on all those who mourn your passing. May you and all of us find peace and the end of suffering through eternal grace.
Peace be to you and all who read this.
Dad
November 23, 2022
Katie,
I'll never forget the special day Thanksgiving was to you. Your excitement with dinner and sharing time together was precious and unforgettable. True to you and your snarky advocacy...Remember the Indians! was your call.
Thank you for these memories and so many more!
Love you
Dad
November 5, 2022
Katie,
Though time passes and it's been over a decade since I heard your voice and saw your voice, I hear you clearly and have visions of your face every day.
I hope all your friends and family are able to do the same. We miss you and long for the day we may meet again.
Peace to you and to all who knew you.
Dad
October 5, 2022
Katie,
No day passes without you being in our hearts and minds. As we approach Halloween I recall the many times you dressed up and we shared trick or treating. As the fall and winter holidays approach more and more memories emerge allowing us to remember you and share about our time with you. Peace and love to you.
Dad
September 5, 2022
Katie,
Every day I think of you and recall all the special moments we shared, the music, the humor, the world view, the love.
I recall how proud you were of me and how proud I was of you. Your art work surrounds me and people often ask about it.
You are and always be loved,
Dad
August 4, 2022
Katie,
We continue to share our sorrow and try to accept the loss found in your departure. We seek peace in our hearts and minds, hoping that some day we will share time with you in the afterlife.
Peace be to all who read this.
Dad
July 5, 2022
Let us all take a moment and remember Katie. Remember her passion for life, her snarky humor, her advocacy for the underdog, and her incredible art.
Peace be to all who read this.
Dad
July 3, 2022
Let us all celebrate our Independence Day safely with those we love. Katie, Sean and I celebrated Independence Day by climbing on the roof of our Riviera Drive home and cheering the fireworks over Tempe Town Lake. Enjoy the embrace of this memorable American holiday, and, as Katie would say "Remember the Indians."
Peace, happiness and prosperity to all who read this.
Dawn Mukai
June 20, 2022
Katie My Lady, you came to me in my dreams last night. You were your sweet self and we shared family stories again. I love you , Sissy and you are not forgotten.
Dad
June 3, 2022
Days, weeks, months and years pass but Katie is always in my heart. Katie, we love you and miss you. May all of you pause and reflect on what Katie meant to you.
Peace be with you,
Dad
May 28, 2022
Traditionally, Memorial Day has been reserved for remembering military personnel who died in service to our country, however, we may (and perhaps should) pause and memorialize all of our loved ones, whether civilian or in military service.
Please join me in remembering Katie and all of your loved ones who have departed. Keep their spirit alive in love and the cherished memories you share. May God's peace be with you.
Dad
May 4, 2022
Thank all of you who share this memorial site. Please pause and give thanks for the memories of Katie that you hold fast. Take a moment to appreciate the love you share with people in your life. Never take them for grated. Celebrate them, and, please, celebrate your memories of Katie.
Dad
April 4, 2022
Katie,
Every day that passes I think about you and wish that I could sit for a moment and share with you how proud I am of you and how much I miss you. The sampling of artwork you left behind enriches us and reminds us of the great gift you left behind. I am fortunate to be able to share it with others through virtual meetings and appreciate the many comments people make about the beautiful legacy you provided us.
Thank you and thank everyone who keeps your memory alive.
Peace and love to you and all of you.
Dad
March 17, 2022
Katie enjoyed St. Patrick's Day more than most holidays. She embraced and enjoyed her Irish roots. Today everyone is Irish, so, if you lift a glass of ale, lift one for Katie. Pause and offer yourself and humanity a prayer. Say a brief prayer for Katie, too, surely she is listening.
Peace and love to all,
Dad
March 5, 2022
May everyone who reads this remember to take a moment and say a prayer for Katie. Please remember Katie and celebrate her life. Share a memory of her with a friend or family member. Keep her legacy alive.
Katie was a passionate, bright light.
All of us have someone close that needs love and support...we need love and support ourselves.
Perhaps Katie can remind us to treat our loved ones with kindness and love.
Thank you Katie.
Thank you for taking a moment to remember Katie.
Dad
February 17, 2022
Thirty-eight years ago today Katie was born into a world filled with light and joy, with remembrances of searching for pecans and shells on the canal by the Children's Center or talking to baby finger.
In time Katie was exposed to darker forces and impulses; forces to which she succumbed in exhaustion.
In her final words Katie asked that we fight tirelessly against these overwhelming forces and help others do the same.
May all of us embrace celebrate life, including Katie's life. Remember her in her innocence and wonderment, unblemished by the impact of the harsh forces she fought against.
May we find peace in the world in remembrance of Katie.
Dad
February 5, 2022
Katie,
We miss your wonderful smile, your creative impulse, your love of family and friends and so many other things. I hope your family and friends pause a moment and celebrate the moments they shared with you. Each day we all reflect on the many moments we shared, keeping your memory alive. You touched us when you were alive and your spirit touches us every day now.
Peace be with you,
Chelsea Mesa
January 5, 2022
Katie,
I think about you even more today than most days. I have your photos in my apartment along with the wonderful art you made for me and with me. I miss you so much. Your laugh and your sense of humor. I can not believe it has been 10 years! Sometimes it feels like just a couple years ago and sometimes it feels like a lifetime ago. I still carry around my knitting and crochet bag at meetings. Even though I live in Long Beach now (which you would have loved) there isn´t a person in the rooms that knows me and doesn´t know you. You will always be 1/3 of the trifecta. I love you so much! P.S. I have to wear glasses full time now, you were right. Lol.
JMG
January 4, 2022
Katie,
It seems impossible that you left us 10 years ago. I will never forget that day or the moment I found out and the subsequent hours, days, weeks and months. It still seems surreal. I remain heartbroken for your parents, family and friends who have to move through life without you. I am confident that you are experiencing eternal peace and that your Earthly struggles have vanished. Please send peace, comfort and love to those who continue to mourn your loss and grieve for you. Hold them tight until you are all reunited.
JMG
Dad
January 4, 2022
January 5 marks the 10-year anniversary of Katie's passing. The world has been a colder place without her. May those of you who remember her take a moment to celebrate her life and to share one story about her with a loved one. Remember her humor, her passion, her sass, her artistry or any of her endless positive qualities. She was a social justice warrior and is missed by many. She touched many lives for the better. I miss her dearly. She is in my heart and mind always.
Love to her and to all of you.
Dad
December 24, 2021
Katie (and all),
On this Christmas Eve may God grant you peace, compassion and love. May those of you who mourn find comfort and strength in the face of irreparable loss. May we all reach out with love to those who prefer death to the strain of life, and to their families and friends who grieve their loss.
Dad
December 5, 2021
Katie,
Today marks another month without you. We miss your wit, beauty, and character. I hope everyone who knew you takes a moment and reflects on what you meant to them and shares a special "Katie story" with a friend or family member. My greatest hope is that, through this, we keep your legacy alive. We miss you so much. Recently, a new program about the Beatles was released. As I watched it with Sean, we agreed that watching it without you was just not the same. So many things have changed since your departure. We miss you sorely and hope to keep your legacy alive.
Love to you.
Rhiannon Main
November 25, 2021
Katie,
I´ve been driving around Tempe a lot lately, showing my daughter all the places I used to hang out and casually pointing out spots around the valley that held great significance to my young adult life, and all of them, literally all of them, include time spent with you.
I wish I could tell you how amazing you are again, and how great an influence you had on me and how much you helped me become the person I am today. Your strength and love and wisdom beyond your years taught me so much about being a good person to others and helped me learn to have self care in my life long before it became a marketing buzz word. You taught me about boundaries, compassion, true empathy and how to keep being a better person each day, even when it would be easier not to be. Your spirit lives on in everyone who had the privilege to meet you.
I´m proud to know you and grateful for our friendship. You are my chosen family and I love you and miss you, endlessly.
Dad
November 24, 2021
Katie,
This Thanksgiving marks the 9th year without you joining us at the table. It is heartbreaking, yet, the memory of celebrating this feast with you warms my heart. My memories of you at Thanksgiving dinner are one of many things I can celebrate and for which I give thanks. May those of you who read this take a moment, give thanks for Katie being a part of your life, celebrate your loved ones, and, as Katie always said, "Remember the Indians!"
Love and peace to all during this holiday that celebrates giving thanks for our blessings.
Dad
November 5, 2021
Each day that passes I think of you and how, had you still been here, what we might be doing. Gritting through our collective struggles, celebrating our lives and looking toward a future together. Sometimes, life doesn't go according to our plans. Yet, we have our shared memories and these must sustain us. May all of you who shared Katie with us for her brief stay celebrate her. Light a candle, say a prayer, mention her to someone, keep her memory alive.
Peace,
Dad
October 4, 2021
Katie,
As another month without you passes my heart continues to break, realizing you have parted and that we will never be able to share you art, your humor and your cutting commentary on humanity. I miss you, we miss you. Someday we will meet again and celebrate our shared history.
With love to all,
Dad
September 4, 2021
Katie,
Another month passes since your departure. May all of those who read this post (and those who didn't) pause a moment, embrace and celebrate the beautiful, spirited young woman you were. As long as I breathe, I celebrate you and hope others who knew you will do the same.
With love to all,
Dad
August 5, 2021
Katie,
It has been nearly ten years since your departure. Every day I think of you as I move through my life, wishing I could share with you the day to day events, some big, some small. I will never forget nor fail to appreciate the close bond we shared, the time we spent together, the struggles we shared, the rides to work and working together, and laughing at each other and at life.
I miss your voice and laugh, though both are firmly embedded in my memory.
Every day I pause to remember and celebrate what a remarkable person you were.
Dad
July 4, 2021
May everyone who reads this message pause a moment, celebrate their lives, the lives of those among you, and those who have passed. The past year has been remarkably difficult for so many people throughout the world, but we have each other and we have hope. Now, more than ever, we need to feel and express love and support to each other. When you pause to celebrate life, please say a brief prayer in remembrance of Katie.
Dad
June 20, 2021
Katie and all of you who read this post,
Today was a fulfilling Father's Day with Sean at Kartchner Caverns. The views are spectacular and throughout the day I thought about what joy my children brought and bring to me. Katie your presence was felt. If only we had the foresight to travel there with you. For those who read this, never take the time spent with your children for granted. Never put off enjoying and celebrating them. Time passes too quickly. Love them and make great memories with them. Peace be with all of you on this day that celebrates fathers but, more importantly, fathers and children, without whom we wouldn't have fathers.
Love to all and peace of mind and hearts to all who read this.
June 5, 2021
Katie,
I think of you every day and pray for those who mourn your passing. Your absence is felt daily and I hope you know how much you are missed. You are so very special to so many people. Hold them closely until you meet again.
JMG
Dad
June 4, 2021
Katie,
Another month without you passed today. Your friends and family love you and miss you, your wit, your passion, your humor, your deep loyalty to those you loved. May you and those who read this find peace and understanding.
Love to you and to all,
Dad
May 30, 2021
To all who read Katie's site, may all of you sit back, take a deep breath and celebrate what appears to be the end of the pandemic restrictions. May we all celebrate life, embrace those we love and who love us, and heal from a very difficult 2020 and 2021. May you find peace and love. Remember Katie who the bright, talented and sensitive woman she was. Please keep each other in your prayers and remember to celebrate Katie and others whom we have lost.
Dad
May 4, 2021
Katie,
I was blessed to know you and to have you in my life, though your time was cut short. Each day I recall our times spent together and all the small (and big) things we did together. I am truly lucky to have known you and the very special connection we shared. I will never forget your smile, laugh and antics. You made Grandma Peggy proud, which specially warms my heart.
I celebrate the unique relationship we shared and will never take that for granted.
I hope all the mothers and fathers who may read this are able to have such a loving and remarkable relationship with their child.
My heart and love goes out to all of you who knew you. Pause a moment and reflect on the joy she brought you. I do.
Dad
April 3, 2021
May those of you who take time to pause and think of Katie celebrate the rebirth Easter and Spring holds for all of us. Collectively, we are coming out of the greatest pandemic of our lives. This has isolated us very much.
Katie was isolated in her darkest moment.
Had she reached out to any of us might still be here.
If ever you are in a dark moment, remember, with life there is renewal and love is only a phone call, text, or email away. Don't ever hesitate to reach out to loved ones. Don't ever think you are a burden when you need love and support, we all do.
We are all in this corporal existence together and we can only get through it through collective action, love, caring and respect.
May peace be with you during this time of rebirth and renewal.
Dad
March 17, 2021
Katie (and all of you who read this),
May you have Irish blessings in your heart this St. Patrick's day.
Your St. Patrick snow globes are dusted and continue to play Irish tunes impeccably.
May we never forget the St. Patrick Day dinners we shared, with or without cabbage.
Love, peace and Irish celebration to Katie and to all.
Dad
March 5, 2021
Katie,
You continue and will always continue to be in our hearts and minds. We love you and miss you every day.
May those of you who read this pause and say thanks for knowing Katie and celebrate her life in your own personal way.
Peace and love to all of you.
Dad
February 16, 2021
Living in a material world...George Harrison...song of the day.
Dad
February 15, 2021
Katie,
Thirty seven years ago you were brought into this life. Nine years ago you left us. While you are gone, your memory and presence continues with us every day. May those of you who knew and loved you, your family and friends, please celebrate your birthday. You would probably ask everyone to do something snarky. I ask everyone for a simple remembrance and a celebration of your brief, yet colorful, life.
Love,
Michael Tansy
February 5, 2021
Katie,
No day passes during which we continue to mourn your passing. Knowing you are with us in spirit we experience your presence in our every minute and long for the time when we may meet again and share our remembrances. Please know and appreciate how much you are loved and missed. Thank you for touching each of us the way you did.
Love,
Dad
Rhiannon (Rhi) Main
January 6, 2021
Katie,
I miss you every day. I wish you were still here and we could spend our times knitting and crafting. You would have been the best “auntie” to my tiny human and she would have absolutely adored you. I tell her about all the amazing memories we made and how grateful I am to have known you. I remember so clearly the first time we met and I said to myself immediately, “I’m going to be friends with that girl!” and from then on you were my person. Your absence hurts my heart, everyday. I love you through black holes and back, Tansy.
January 5, 2021
Katie,
It is impossible to believe that today marks nine years since you joined the choir of angels. What started out as a not-so-ordinary day (my first trip to Mexico) ended in absolute horror and tragedy. I will never forget that day. The shock and disbelief have softened but the grief remains. My prayer is that little by little the grief will be replaced by fond memories of you, acceptance and peace.
I pray that those who are left to mourn your loss feel your presence daily. Show them love and strength until you meet again.
JMG
Michael Tansy
January 3, 2021
Katie,
Tuesday marks the nine year anniversary or the day you were taken from us. My heart aches when I think of that day. If only there was some way to turn back time and attempt to reverse what happened. I know that you were filled with love and pain and that your pain exceeded all else. So many families suffer the same fate and for them I pray. My God make all of us whole again and, some day, celebrate in a celestial reunion. Until that day, may those of us left behind celebrate in our memories of those we have lost. Peace be with you and all of you.
Dad
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