Latisha Angela Tapetillo

1985 - 2023

Latisha Angela Tapetillo obituary, 1985-2023, Merced, CA

Latisha Angela Tapetillo

1985 - 2023

BORN

1985

DIED

2023

Latisha Tapetillo Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Mar. 3, 2023.
Latisha Angela Tapetillo
October 16, 1985 - February 16, 2023
Merced, California - Latisha Tapetillo was born and died in Merced. Latisha's life was deeply broken after her only daughter, Larayna, passed away. Larayna was diagnosed with Gliomatosis Cerebri one month before turning 19. Latisha stayed by Larayna's side through it all. They were always very close. They did everything together and considered each other best friends. They often took trips together and would spend hours talking. Latisha loved being a mother. Anyone who came across them could sense their unbreakable bond of mother/daughter.
Latisha made it her life goal that her daughter felt loved and cared for everyday. Latisha had Larayna at 15 years old and by 17 they were out in this world on their own. Latisha worked hard to give her daughter a good life and enrolled herself in college at 18. She earned her Bachelor's Degree in Sociology from CSU Stanislaus. She facilitated teen parent support groups and taught life skills classes with emphasis on parenting. She found much joy in helping new moms. Larayna would often volunteer with her mother at work. They had a full life with Latisha's career, Larayna taking college courses before graduating high school and friends to go out with. They were happy until the fatal words of incurable brain cancer were heard. Larayna had barely turned 20 before dying in her mother's arms. Cancer cut this little family of two in half. Latisha needed her daughter with her. She will follow her grandmother, Rosa Sabala and her daughter, Larayna Tapetillo in death.
Please keep Larayna and Latisha in your prayers and take comfort that they are together again in Heaven. Latisha asks if anyone would like to make donations to please send it to a brain cancer research facility or ayjfund.org in Larayna Tapetillo's name. She thanks all the people who stepped into their lives during her daughter's fight to live. Arrangements entrusted to Whitton Family Funeral Service.

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July 26, 2025

Nadine posted to the memorial.

March 11, 2023

Joy posted to the memorial.

March 4, 2023

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Nadine

July 26, 2025

I met Latisha while we were both attending Merced College & we shared a friendship for many years. She was the most devoted mother & I have much respect for her. Her grief was unimaginable. Im gonna miss her. But I know she is in a better place & comforted by the love of Jesus & her daughter.

Joy

March 11, 2023

What a life of love and courage! Latisha, I am happy you´re celebrating with your daughter again. I will pray for comfort for those grieving your loss. ~Joy

Anonymous

March 4, 2023

I just happened to read Latisha's obit. because she was young and also my daughter's age. I too was/am a single parent who raised my daughter on my own. I went back to school and got my degree too. I'm very close with my daughter also so I felt Latisha's pain just reading about her daughter's cancer and death and how close they were. I'm sorry for the loss of moma and her mija. I can't even imagine what Latisha went thru and now what her family and friends are going through. God bless you all.

Moe Mashgoul (a bereved parent)

March 4, 2023

Rest In Eternal Peace with your beloved daughter, Latisha!
No more heartaches and emptiness

Kathy Arabia/AYJ Fund

March 3, 2023

Latisha left us with a story of love and a mission to change the lives of other children diagnosed with cancer. Larayna and Latisha shared their love and their lives fully. She was a loving, supporting and generous soul. She did everything she could for Larayna, and was lost without her. Latisha did all she could to honor her and donated to the AYJ Fund to support the research of Larayna's cancer, so one day others would have effective treatments and we would not have to face the loss of these beautiful lives. <3 Together Forever.

Elvia

March 2, 2023

Rest in peace together, hand in hand, connected again.

Christina Valenti-Felix

March 1, 2023

She is finally with her precious daughter...... No more pain and heartache..... I send my dearest condolences to their family...... RIP baby girl & RIP Latisha...... You are finally free & finally together again forever........

Amy Chegus

March 1, 2023

Latisha was a true friend, she was my best friend. We met through our daughters diagnosis´ of Gliomatosis cerebri, and we just clicked. I felt like I had known her my entire life. When our kids had cancer, Latisha and I became reliant on one another for support as our daughters battled cancer. She was one of the few that understood.
Larayna passed away exactly one month after my daughter Kailyn. Latisha and I went through the deepest pain a human could ever have to experience. I got to know Larayna through Latisha, she loved Larayna fiercely. I got to know and understand the beautiful life they shared together.
I admired my friend, a lot. She built a life, all on her own, for Larayna at such a young age. Through Larayna´s cancer, Latisha cared for her passionately, it tore her into pieces that she couldn´t take her cancer away from her. Latisha and Larayna shared a deep and close mother daughter bond. she never left her side
I miss her so much. You know how people search for a true friend they can share anything with, well Latisha was that true and loyal friend, even through her pain and sadness because I understood her and she understood me. I´ll miss our hours on the phone just talking about life, about our daughters especially and how much we loved them. Im grateful to have had her as a friend, I also feel at ease for her that her and her beautiful daughter are in one another´s arms again. I love you my friend from Cali Amy

Family

March 1, 2023

I Love you Latisha

Denise Bond

March 1, 2023

Latisha will always be the childhood friend that I am blessed to have share great memories with. Latisha and her daughter both have been family to me and children. We will always have them in our hearts. May my dearest friend have peace now. She was loved by many and I am forever imprinted and I will always remember how strong she was I love you Tisha from the bottom to the top it's time you spread your wings and fly.

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