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She was born Sept. 14, 1988, in Mesa, Ariz., a daughter of John P. and Nancy B. (Gildersleeve) Harris of Freeburg.
Lauren was a junior at Selinsgrove Area High School, where she was active in soccer and honors choir and played the clarinet in the band.
She was employed by Arby's in the Susquehanna Valley Mall, Hummels Wharf, and by Wendt's Pork Palace, Selinsgrove.
Lauren was a member of Church of the Nazarene, West Sassafras Street, Selinsgrove, where she was active in the youth group, was a choir teacher for children, sang in the choir and helped with Sunday school activities. She also participated in mission trips to West Virginia with her church.
Lauren was an avid racing fan. Her favorite NASCAR driver was Jeff Gordon. She also was a fan of local racing, especially of Blaine Heimbach.
Surviving, in addition to her parents, are two brothers and one sister-in-law, Chris I. and Audra Crawford of Show Low, Ariz., and Jon Harris, at home; one sister and brother-in-law, Jennifer A. and Leo Times of Show Low; her maternal grandmother, Connie Gildersleeve of Clearwater, Fla.; her paternal grandmother, Janice Stoneroad of McClure; her boyfriend, Ian M. Adrian of Winfield; aunts; uncles; and cousins.
Visitors may call from 6 to 9 p.m. Thursday at the V.L. Seebold Funeral Home, 601 N. High St., Selinsgrove. The funeral will be conducted at 11 a.m. Friday at Church of the Nazarene, West Sassafras Street, Selinsgrove, by the Rev. Charles H. Melton, her pastor.
Burial will be in Fairview Cemetery, Freeburg.
Contributions in Lauren's memory may be made to any branch of Northumberland National Bank in care of the Lauren M. Harris Scholarship fund.
This obituary was originally published in The Daily Item.
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Kayla Keller and John Yoder
May 1, 2007
Wow it has been over a year since Lauren passed away and well i can anestly say that i still miss her so much. From her smile, her carring attitude and the way she could always keep me out of trouble. I wish that she was still her today (i bet we all do) and i just cant get my dad to understand how close we were and how much she ment to me and everyone for that matter. I tried telling him but nothing works all i can do is pray and hope for the best. Lauren i am sure you know how much people still miss you and how much we care. We miss Love you girl. LoveMercyHope
Sarah Weir
April 26, 2007
Lauren: I miss you so dearly. Even after a year of you being gone I still feel your presence. Whenever I sing, or smile I feel your hand upon my shoulder, and when I smile a slight "finally" in my ear. Your story and love of Christ have made such an influence in the lives of new Christians in our community that whenever I hear a joined chorus of praise to God, I hear your beautiful voice right there along with us. I miss you and love you soo much. Rest in Peace and love my friend.
Sue White
April 25, 2007
Of Lauren
I feel your spirit amidst the halls.
Soulful eyes, searching, seeing, knowing, present even when I forget.
You pass me in the hall and for a moment I hold your hand,
feel your warmth, see your smile, laugh with you.
I recount the sorrow I had last year, foolishly thinking you were gone
Understanding now you will never leave.
Amanda DeFacis
April 23, 2007
Can you believe that it has been a year already. I can't believe it. It still seems like it all happened yesterday. Not a day went by without her in my mind. I miss her so much but I know that she is never really gone because she lives in all of our hearts. I love and miss you Lauren very much.
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Robin Pursell
April 22, 2007
Tomorrow is a year since your passing. Lauren you are still missed and loved by all of your family, classmates and friends. Not a day goes by that your name is not mentioned by someone.
Kelsey Bordner
March 31, 2007
To the Harris family! I know that is going to be a year since Lauren went to be with God but I wanted to let you know that still to this day she is an inspiration to me and I visit her grave at least 1 everyother week! My boyfriend doesn't live far from her grave so I go out to visit her before I go to be with him!! You are all still in my prays!! Stay strong!!
Jennifer Sanders
March 27, 2007
Its been quite some time since Lauren's death but I just want all of her family and friends know that I still think of Lauren and all of you. You all are still in my thoughts and prayers. Lauren is the kind of person no one could ever forget and I will think of her always. God Bless and Take Care
Kayla Keller
December 14, 2006
Dear Harris family,
WOW it has been so long since lauren died i am still tring to get over it.... i miss her so much she was an amazing girl and God had many plans for her here and as well as in his kingdom.... i bet she is watching right now as i write now as i write this...there are many people who still over.....well i wish you all a very marry christmas and you will alll still be in my prayers
Britt Mull
August 30, 2006
Okay.. so Nancy,John, and Jonathon i like dont know where to start.. just because i cant believe its been four months..! And now that school has started i actually still look for the bright smiling face..! But it never appears..! But it makes me so glad to see your family hold tight together...! And everytime Nancy shows up to a game.. well it just makes my day knowing thats she'll always be there! And soccer.. well all i can say is the whole team is working hard and laurens spirit is pushing us all the way this year!! its been a hard four months but your family has comforted and helped everyone!! You guys are so strong and therefore you will always be in my heart!! Love You All! Always in my prayers!
Kelsey Bordner
August 29, 2006
Harris family! I know that it has been 4 months since the passing of Lauren and not a time goes by that I don't think about that sunday morning! I know that you don't understand it now and it is hard to grasp but God had this happen for a reason and we may never know that reason but we have to trust him! She was an amazing person and a joy to be around! She has touched everyone's life in one way or another and I know that she is looking down on us from heaven and she is smiling and rejoicing with our God! Hang in there and never stop praying! Your in my prays and thoughts everyday!
Lindsey, and Rose
August 23, 2006
Dear Harris Family,
It's been 4 months today that you lost your daughter/sister, and that I lost an amazing friend. It's still hard to grasp the fact that she's gone. I still don't want to accept it, but I know that it's true and someday I have to. When I visit her graveside I can't bear the thought that she's there, and not here on earth with us. I visit the tree as well, and I just wonder what was her last thoughts. Harris family we miss her so much and always will. She will forever be missed... and certaintly NEVER forgotten... We Love Lauren...
Rose, Lindsey
Kayla , John, and the rest of the Keller/Yoder family
August 16, 2006
Dear Harris Family
I know it is hard losing someone you really and i know that no matter what i say can make it better. My dad always tells me almost every as i am still morning over Laurens death.. he says that the good lord puts us through triles to make us stronger even though we may think that he is pusishing us but he is tring to make us stronger and to come to gether as one. I know that has helped me but it still does not make the pain go away. I also know how if feel to clean out a loved ones room after there passing cause when my great grandfather died i helped clean out his room and that was so hard for me but yet it is nto the same because that was your daughter/sister and we all miss her very much. This 06-07 school year will not be the same. We miss your dauter very much. I will keep you in my prayers.
Kayla Keller
August 11, 2006
Dear Harris Family,
To this Day I miss your Daughter/sister she was such an amazing person. Not a day goes by that i dont think of her. We first met at the first Chours concert of the 2005-2006 school year. I was so happy to meat her. After that we just became good friends. We would talk to each other in the halls and talk to each other any time we could. It is still hard knwing that we are going into a new school year and she wont be there. I am really sorry for your lost and your family will always be in my prayers.
Jory Contreras
August 10, 2006
John, Nancy, Jonathan, Jennifer, Chris and all the new family members we have not had the pleasure of meeting yet~~~We are so saddened by your loss, there are no words. Nancy, I have read Laurens guest book, she obviously was an outstanding young lady loved by all who new her. I have beautiful memories of Sweet Lauren as we carreid our babies together and propped them up side by side for their first picture together, which I will hold ever dear to my heart. May God keep you all strong as each day passes, and the love of your beautiful family hold you together in those very tough days. Rest in Peace Angel~~~~~
Love, John, Jory, Jamie, Jackie, Zach Contreras
Jonathan Harris
July 31, 2006
Hey, god i dont even know where to start lauren. this is the first time ive gotten around to doing this. i should have done it alot earlyer. 3 months have gone and past us and i miss you so much. i know your in a better place now. but i dont want to let you go. i can still remember all of our fights all the hits and kicks that we did to each other. saterday night before you died i remember coming home for walmart and ian was there and you took the last peice of pizza i was pissed and yelled at you but 10 mintues later you and i were laughing together. i somtimes blame this on myself because i had to go and skateboard sunday morning and mom and dad and i had to leave early. we woke you up and then left.that was the last time i saw you and infact i didnt even say goodbye to you that morning. but i know not to blame my self because that not what you would want me to do, but sometimes i cant help but to do that. This week i got back from austrilia and everytime i called i wanted you to pick up and say hello how was i. jen chris leo audra lil leo jason and abby came this week also and it wasnt the same with out you here. well its time for me to head off to bed. i know you read this after i post it. i love you so much and i miss you more than anything in this world.
Love your brother,
Jonathan
MaryAnne Nichols
July 23, 2006
Dear Nancy and John,
It's hard to believe that it's been 3 months already since Lauren left us. But, she remains close in our hearts. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you--and Lauren. When I visit her gravesite, I am struck by the serenity surrounding it and by the white cross and flowers there. It is beautiful, just like Lauren.
You are in my thoughts and prayers--that the Lord and Lauren are watching over all of you, that she is singing so joyfully, and that she is smiling down on all of us. With love, MaryAnne
Kris Strouse
July 10, 2006
Hello Harris's and all who come here to give comfort and get comfort, Please come back often and share your feelings, to pay tribute to Lauren. She was such a sweet girl and would want us all to be sharing Jesus yet with others as she did. You could see it in her eyes. We are all not perfect, but with God's help we can become closer to what Jesus wants us to be. It doesn't matter what religion, color, creed, group or church you go to . Its just about HIM. "Jesus" period. He will fill that void you have, just ask Him. Say to Him: I love & believe in you, forgive me and I am willing to turn from my sins & live for you. I NEED your help to live my life each day for you. Thank you, Father.AMEN. He is ALL you need. Lauren, wants us all to meet her there, were she is smiling down at us, some day. The void all humans feel cannot be filled by anything this world has to offer, its Him. If you need someone or If I can help you please feel free to email me and we'll talk. God Bless All who read this and keep Lauren alive in your heart until we all meet again, on that beautiful shore. God loves you and so do I. I'm just someone who loves Jesus, Kris
Kelsey Bordner
July 6, 2006
Harris Family,
I know that it has been almost 3 months since the passing of your daughter/sister Lauren! I just wanted to let you know that there isn't a day that goes by that I don't pray for you guys and that God will give you the strength to make it over this mountain. I think that he has but it is going to still take time....Before this all happened I looked at life as if nothing would ever happen to me or anyone that I loved and sadly since this happen it gave me a whole new out look on life and I just wanted to thank you for having Lauren so she could teach me that!! She lived everyday to it's fullest and make the most of everything that she was given. She has taught me a very valuable lesson to this day. I go up to the crash site to put flowers there for her and I go up to the grave site to visit and talk with her and sometimes that is what helps me get through my day....just being able to talk to her even if she isn't here on earth with us! Thank you so much Harris family for having such a wonderful daughter! She will me missed but NEVER forgotten! Ian, your in my prays also everyday...don't turn from God! We love and miss you Lauren!! <33
Dusty Shrawder
July 2, 2006
to the Harris family and Ian,
i am really sorry for the loss of your daughter/girlfriend. i ment her when she first got a job at arby's and she was a great girl. i will never forget her and i know that she will always be in everyone's hearts. i know how it feels when a loved one is lost cuz i lost my 18 year old cousin last year in a car accident but i know that they will always remain in our hearts forever and look down on us each and everyday and know that we still care and love for them.
Britt Mull
June 25, 2006
Dear Harris Family,
With almost tow months passing its still hard to believe everything! And i just want to say that all of you were so strong through it.. i know the few times i stopped to see nancy she always had a smile on her face and it just reminded me so much of lauren and how she could never hold in a smile...! Im just so glad that you guys were ther and were supportive to everyone.. i then saw where Lauren Mary got her kindness and the ability to see something good in everyone...! I cant count how many fun memories i had at your house.. but i do remeber they were always fun an entertaining..! And as this hard time keeps passing i want you to know that your included in my prayers every night and forever in my heart! Stay Strong! Love Always!
Kara Weaver
June 23, 2006
I can't say that I knew Lauren. I only have ever met her once and that was at my church, and she came with Daphne. She help us sing upfront that day. She was a great singer. She was a great person, she was loving and careing. All I really have to say is that I'm extreamly sorry. I kinda know what Ian is going through only because I lost my boyfriend (Jeff Biddinger) the week before. I know I still have hard times thinking about what happened. Lauren was a great friend to all. I'm really sorry! May God Bless you and hope you get through this okay. Just remember that shes always there when you need to talk to her! She's keeping you safe! I'll pray you will get through this.
Brittany Herr
May 25, 2006
To the Harris Family and Ian
Hey i am really sorry for the loss of your daughter/girlfriend but i know what your going through. Even though i was one her friends you guys are definatly going through this like 10 times worse. I would hate that feeling of knowing that you will never have another dinner with her! I am really upset that she had to lose her life! I miss her a lot. Two days ago i went and put flowers at the tree. I miss her a lot!
Sarah Weir
May 16, 2006
To the Harris Family and Ian:
Lauren was one of my greatest friends. I'll be the first to admit we used to not get along, but when she witnessed her God to me, we created a bond that will last past the grave. We had WAGH 3 together this year. The weekend we were in New York, we had a project to do, and we let it go, so when we got back, we worked on it so hard. During my break at Taco Bell i went over to Arby's and we worked on it a little, but we mostly just talked about the trip. The weekend of the accident, we had another project, and i had talked to her Saturday morning, and i remember the last thing i said was, God bless and see you on Monday. Lauren will forever be missed and loved. She had influenced my life in such a powerfull way that she will be in my thoughts until the day that i join her in heaven. I love you all and know the pain of losing a family member, but i know for a fact that losing a daughter and sister and girlfriend in a car accident is nothing like losing a dad of a heart attack. But if you need anything, anything at all, let me know. God bless, and i love you all.
Jess Ney
May 15, 2006
Harris Family and Ian,
I'll never forget when I moved to freeburg and met Lauren, probably one of the most amazing girls I have ever met.
I remember the spring before Lauren's freshman year and saying to Nancy, "Lauren is gonna play soccer right?" I was excited to find out she was going to play.
From that moment on Lauren and I spent a lot of time playing soccer and being in band together.
I also remember one morning riding to school with Nancy and Lauren and sitting in the intermediate school cafeteria having breakfast together laughing and talking about almost everything. Then when the time came we walked to school together.
I will never forget Lauren's amazing smile, the great times we had together, and waving to her when I would drive by or see her outside.
Lauren is greatly missed, but I am sure is in a better place now looking down on all of us.
Sue White
May 8, 2006
Laurens’ Eyes
Often joyful, sometimes tearful, always soulful,
Laurens’ eyes.
One glimpse into those eyes and you peered through a window into her heart,
Revealing enthusiasm, intensity, and sensitivity.
And without a word, one glance from the mirror of Laurens’ eyes,
Reflected acceptance, sincerity and understanding.
We will miss Laurens’ eyes,
But we will never forget them.
Jasmine Fausey
May 5, 2006
To the Harris Family and Ian,
Lauren was an awesome,beautiful, smart, and caring person. She and i played soccer together for just about 4 years and we also worked together in Arby's. Her and i had some fun times together. I remember the lastnight we worked together and it was soo much fun i remember her sayin that she wanted to get in shape and us girls that were workin that night wanted to all go together. We all would always rank guys from 1-10 it was just this little game we would play but they are memories that i'll never froget. We all say that we cant believe somthing happened like this to such a person like Lauren but Lauren is in a better place now and lookin over us all. I and most other people who knew Lauren knew that if somthing was ever wrong about your day Lauren would be the first person to notice and ask if something was wrong and if we just told her nothing she would always bug us until we told her and she would just look at us and give us a hug and make a funny face to cheer us up. Lauren was an amazing person that will never be forgotten and will always be in our memories. I miss and love you Lauren and some day will meet up with you again!
Jennifer Times
May 5, 2006
Mom, John, and Jonathan,
You are all in my prayers, and I think about you daily. Lauren was my little sister, but I now know that she was a sister and friend to many more people than I could ever imagine. I am comforted to know that Lauren was loved by so many in the community, in school, and at church -- and I would like to say THANK YOU to all for your support and help to my family.
Lauren touched many people with her smile and love...and I am forever grateful to have known her, known her as my sister.....I love you guys.
Jeremy Smallwood
May 5, 2006
Lauren,
It was my honor to serve you as a pastor. I wish we had one more chance to do another song. Someday we'll do all those songs again. I look forward to that. Thanks for everything that you were to us here, I miss you.
Dan Harris
May 5, 2006
After spending last week with John, Nancy and Jon I can only say to the local community, Thanks! for the support,it was touching to John, Nancy and to all the family.
As we all greive one statment made to me from John comes to mind
" Gosh How many friends did Lauren Have"?
As a brother and Laurens uncle I can only say Thanks to John and Nancy for guiding Lauren to the special person she was and for the memorys that we all will have of our special girl.
Love You Lauren
Uncle Dan
Jessica Biddinger
May 2, 2006
I didn't know Lauren... but i know how you must be feeling because I lost my brother Jeffrey only two an a half weeks ago it is a terrible thing to go through an i can't tell you that it's all going to be better someday but the pain does fade an the memories they last forever... I'm very sorry for you're loss an may god bless your family an keep you safe... Just remember that's she is in a better place an watching over you an making you safe...
Melinda Seay
April 30, 2006
The the Harris Family,
You are in my prayers every minute. Lauren was a beautiful person inside and out. As so many people have said, her legacy will live on for the years to come. I know she has already changed the lives of people who didn't know the Lord. Her greatest achievement was the Witness for Christ that she lived. Her funeral was so beautiful, it felt like a worship service. Thank you for the opportunity to see your beautiful area and home.
Lauren, thank you for being the person you were. I know that the Lord welcomed you with open arms and said those famous words "Welcome my good and faithful servant!!" May we follow your example in life. We love you and will always remember your sweet spirit. You are always in my heart.
Heather Carper
April 30, 2006
To my Neighbors, The Harris Family:
I remember when your family first moved across the street from mine. I was so intrigued to get to know the sweet girl who moved next to me. I remember fun summers filled with swimming and walking around our town, Freeburg. Your family has been more than generous to our family for about 7 years now. I appreciate getting to know you, and I especially appreciate getting to know Lauren. She is the sweetest, most innocent person I've ever come encounter with in my entire life. I remember fun times working at Arby's with her and also sitting by her in Honors Choir. I will forever miss hearing her voice next to mine. It makes me cry to know that I cant listen to her anymore, but I know that I will always remember the sound of her lovely voice. For the chorus concert this May we were going to sing a song by Carrie Underwood. Now unfortunately I will be singing by myself. I am going to dedicate "Jesus Take the Wheel" at the concert to her. I am singing to just for Lauren because I know it was her favorite. I would do anything to make her happy, and I know the love and support of her friends to the Harris family makes her smile in Heaven. We shared so much fun memories at work. I remember dancing with her in the back and me being clumsy accidentally hit her while I was dancing. We laughed for 20 mins. I will never forget that. I will also never forget the last night we worked together I told her I loved her and we had a fun time. We laughed together more than I have with anyone. I will always love and remember her. Everyone will. We will always be here for your family. Dont hesitate to walk across the street if you need ANYTHING. I love you all and cherish the times I spent with your daughter. I will pray for you always.
Ashley Graybill
April 29, 2006
Dear Harris Family and Ian,
I knew Lauren through Thad and the Waters family and I ran into her a number of times at the mall. I just wanted to say that I think that she was such a wonderful person with an infectious smile and a personality that just made people gravitate towards her. She always made me smile whenever I would run into her and I will truely miss those times. I am so sorry for your loss and my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
God Bless,
Ashley Graybill
Quinn Hoot
April 29, 2006
Harris Family and Ian,
Lauren was an amazing person. She could make anyones day with any of her many talents. Lauren was an awesome soccer player and will be missed greatly on the team but we will always be playing for her. We were all extremely heart broken when we found out about the loss of her and we still are and still will be. We will never forget Lauren and her great talents. You are in my Thoughts and Prayer.
God Bless
KATHY PYLE
April 28, 2006
Dearest HARRIS Friends, as I wright this message my thoughts take me setting in my salon at the nail table looking up as MISS. LA-REN walks in with this beautiful smile on here face saying hi KATHY MYRTLE LOUISE i love you as she sits down holding her hand up at me saying I DID REALLY GOOD THIS TIME ONLY 5 GLUED.OH god how i will miss her so . John & Nancy you can be very proud, you raised a wonderful, beautiful, inside & out god loving young lady.MAY GOD GIVE YOU STRENGTH,PEACE,& COMFORT at this time & always until we meet again in heaven I'VE COME TO LOVE THIS FAMILY SO MUCH. THANK-YOU ALL FOR COMING INTO MY LIFE
Gail & Ed Cover
April 28, 2006
Harris family & Ian.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Lauren will be deeply missed. She was a wonderful person, with so many talents. We got to know her through band & chorus. She may be gone in body. She is always with you. When you feel a gentle breeze on your face, she is giving you a kiss from heaven. when you see a butterfly, she is sending you a hello. a raindrop against your window, she is telling you she misses you. a flower blooming is sending you her love. plus she is always alive in your heart & memories. When you look around, she'll be everywhere with you. My prayers & thoughts are always with you. If you need to talk, or just to sit silently with someone. I'll be here for you. May God give you peace and comfort. she'll be sending down sunshine to warm you, that will be her hugging you.
MaryAnne Nichols
April 28, 2006
Dear Nancy and John,
What a beautiful service! It was my great honor and priviledge to be there today and rejoice in Lauren's life. You and your family remain in my thoughts and prayers.
Love, MaryAnne
Kelli Harro
April 28, 2006
Our deepest sympathy to all the Harris family and friends. Lauren was truly an outstanding, talented, young woman!! She will be missed by all and her memories will continue to live on in those that love her. May God bless all of you and Lauren! She has been a blessing to everyone whose lives she touched.
'Never Gone'- Backstreet Boys
The Harro Family, Selinsgrove PA
Hilary Dagle
April 28, 2006
Harris Family,
I know that no words can help in a time like this, but just know that your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Lauren was such a happy person, and smiling all the time and she will never be forgotten! God Bless
Jennifer Sanders
April 28, 2006
I know Lauren from sitting next to her in honors choir, and standing next to her in marching band. There honestly was never a dull moment with her. I remember she would always forget to bring her music in choir and we'd always have to share, and i'd jokingly be annoyed, and she'd laugh. I'm also never going to forget her laughing at Emilee and I when we sometimes goof around in choir. Her smile.. it lit up the room. Ive been in shock, i'm still in shock that she's gone. I still sit in choir and expect her to walk in with that beautiful smile of hers saying hello. I know though that even though she is not here physically, her spirit lives on. Lauren, you're always going to have a place in my heart. I'm missing you. You never know how much someone means to you until they're gone. There's always going to be that empty seat for you in the alto 2 section. To the family, you are in my thoughts and prayers. Lauren is so wonderful, you should be proud.
God Bless
Keane, Julie, Kirsten & Keera Scholl
April 28, 2006
John, Nancy & Family:
Lauren was a very special person who gladly shared her God given talents to help build God's Kingdom. Her willingness to help teach on Wednesday nights was greatly appreciated with my daughter and she will miss her very much.
I will never forget the last song she sang in church which was "Praise You in this Storm" by Casting Crowns. Also, my family will never forget her great personality and wonderful smile.
I'm certain she is having a great time in heaven and although she is sorely missed, we look forward to all being reunited on day!
Laura DeSantis
April 27, 2006
To Harris Family and Ian,
I am terribly sorry for your loss. Lauren was a great friend and the best soccer sister anyone could ever ask for. She had a beautiful smile and the greatest laugh ever. She'll always be in that special place in our hearts, and we'll never forget her.
We love you Lauren.
Crystale Waltz
April 27, 2006
Harris Family, Thank you for your comforting words in my son Jeffrey Biddingers' guest book. As I grieve for my son I also grieve for your family in the loss of Lauren. As it is a very difficult time right now I am comforted by the knowledge that they are both in a wonderful place and we will be with them again someday.
Dan
April 27, 2006
To the Harris Family,
Lauren's life here on earth was way to short, but her legacy still lives on. The lives that she touched are way to numerous to mention, the world is a much better place because of her, and will continue to get better. Her precious smile has brightened many dark days as have the many hugs she so freely gave. My prayer for you is comfort and peace in the days ahead, and that God shows himself daily to you in remarkable ways.
To Ian,
God had brought Lauren into your life for many many reasons. I know things are not the way that any of us would have planned them, but we need to trust Him for His plan is far better than anything we could ever dream up. Ian we are all part of one big family, God's children, and we can all look forward to seeing Lauren again. Lauren's life touched you for a reason. My prayer for you is that God shows Himself to you and finds a place in your heart like He did in Lauren's heart, that He can comfort you and ease your pain, and give you Lauren's joy. We love you as do John and Nancy.
To all the teenagers,
My prayer for you is that you will find comfort and peace that only God can give. Lauren's life touched you in many ways, her smile brightened many days, her songs lifted our spirits, and her words encouraged us. She had God in her heart and it showed. I pray that those who know God will share to others during this time, and those who do not know God will find Him. I pray for all of you. I hope you can find the joy that Lauren knew.
To all the parents,
Life can be cut short as we are all reminded with the passing of Lauren. Lauren's life was full of smiles, hugs, and joy. My prayer for all of us is that we all give our kids a REAL hug, tell them how much WE Love them, EVERY DAY, and that we continue to reach out to them. Lauren was like my second daughter, and I will miss the smiles, hugs, laughter, canoe trips, race nights,.... I can't tell her how much she meant to me, but I can still hug my kids, tell them how much they mean to me and how much I love them.
AND SO CAN YOU.
Lauren M. Harris...... thankyou!
A Friend Of John
April 27, 2006
To The Harris Family:
if only we could hear Lauren sing one more time.she was a great soccer player.she will be missed bye many and forever in our hearts.
Tina,Art, & Miranda ,Jill, Josh, & Kaden Comfort, Walter
April 27, 2006
Dear Harris Family,
Our hearts go out to you. We know what pain you are going through right now. We lost our son two years ago in July, he was 24 years old. I hope everybodies prays will help you all. We didn't know Lauren, but we just live over the hill from you and was very sad to here about your loss. She is in a great place and even now that you can't see her, she will be there with you all in spirit. You will always miss her like we do our son, but you need to remember the good things about Lauren. God be with you all.
The Comfort Family from over the hill.
Cindy Lengel
April 27, 2006
Lauren, What a wonderful part of our family you were. You were Alyssa'a best friend but became like a daughter to us. Over the years we've watched the two of you grow into beautiful young woman of God. We will miss your smile, seeing you on the soccer field and hearing you sing to us and all the late nights when you stayed over. I will miss seeing you pop in through our front door and hearing you calling me mom #2. Nancy,John and Jonathan, lean on God and the friends and family that now surround you. The Lengel family will always be here for you and will never forget the impact Lauren had on our lives. The world was a better place because of her.My heart aches to see her again but knowing she's with Jesus eases some of the pain. LORD..... help all of us down here. Although we know you have an angel up there with you now, we miss the angel we had down here. Give us the peace we need to keep going on when we feel this loss so deeply. Love and prayers.
Renee Schweikart
April 27, 2006
I am so sorry for your loss.
Take comfort in knowing that God has something very special planned for Lauren.
God Bless You All during this difficult time.
Katie Stuck
April 26, 2006
Haris Family,
I never did get the chance to know Lauren all that well, but her smile always managed to brighten up the room. Even though she may not be singing for us anymore, she is singing somewhere much greater. God Bless you all,
Genny Stuck
April 26, 2006
Harris Family and Ian,
Lauren was and still is a beautiful person inside and out. She will be greatly missed by us all. Just know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all. God Bless!
Bekah Mease
April 26, 2006
My Dear Friend Lauren and Her Family,
Oh man! Where do I even begin? Lauren, you truely meant the world to me and without you in it, the world seems sad and cold. I don't know what to do without you! You were my comfort, my comic relief, my hope, and of course my hereo! You fully examplified what a person should be... kind, loving, forgiving, empathetic... the list goes on and on. I feel as if there is a hole in my heart that should be filled with more than just your memory, and yet that's all there is. There are so many happy memories that I know can get me through until I can see you again. It's just so hard going on without you! When I feel as if I can't go on, I know you're there pushing me not to give up. I can still feel you lifting my chin until I look up into your eyes and see your beautiful smile as you say "Cheer up, Cupcake! It'll be okay!" That's what gets me through! Your memory and your love that is still here even though you can't be! When I cry, all I have to do is talk to you and I feel you there next to me. Like you're right there trying so hard to comfort and tell me you're okay. I know you are, Love, I just miss you!
I LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH THAT YOU CAN'T EVEN IMAGINE! Please don't forget us... we'll NEVER forget you, Love!
Your friend ALWAYS, <3
Bekah (aka Cupcake and Love)
Alex Nichols
April 26, 2006
Dear Lauren,
From one Jeff Gordon fan to another...No race track on earth can compare to where you are singing now. I am so glad I knew you. I'll miss you. Love, Alex
April 26, 2006
I never personally knew Lauren but I do know she was an amazing soccer player. I remember playing high school soccer against her. she will be greatly missed by al that knew her!
To the Harris Family: my heart goes out to you. We are all praying for you!
Tessa Long
April 26, 2006
Lauren was an amazing person and it is a great tradgedy that the rest of the world did not get to hear her amazing voice. I will not forget the first time I heard her sing. We all miss you LAuren
Felicia Smith
April 26, 2006
Where to begin. Lauren and I have many memories, with Relay for life, hanging out when i went to the Pork Palace and she had no one else to eat with, we ate together and talked, chours and band memories and i will never forget the Micheal W. Smith concert with her. Wow even though we were 2 years apart, Lauren touched my life in so many different ways, and now that she is passed, i will keep all of these memories in my heart, and i will be there for the family though everything. John, Nancy and Johnathan are great people and are wonderful friends. You are all in my prayers and Lauren will be missed forever and ever. Take care all of you.
God Bless all of You!!!!!!!
Trent Reynolds
April 26, 2006
I just want to say Lauren you are in my heart! Harris Family I am so sorry for your loss!
Jordan Tressler
April 26, 2006
Lauren, can't believe your gone! We didnt know each other that well but when we did talk i got to know you quite well! You were an amazing person! I truely will miss you alot! <3 always! Jordan!
Ryan Ettinger
April 26, 2006
Lauren,
As a freshman, you were the first real friend I made in the high school. As we became better friends, you listened to all my complaints and I listened to yours. Lauren, I will miss you always and forever. Rest in peace.
Tiffany Barge
April 26, 2006
Lauren,
You were such an amazing person. You always had a smile on your face. You always knew how to light up my day.I will NEVER forget playing ayso soccer with you!!! I miss you alot! My prayers are with the Harris family
Jenny Knight
April 26, 2006
Lauren and family
Hello. I had the wonderful pleasure of working with lauren at arbys. Everytime i worked with her i had so much fun. We always fooled around. Harris family you did a wonderful job with lauren. She was a great person. Her body may be gone but her spirit will live on in our hearts forever more! God bless you in your greatest time of need
I love and miss you love!!
Jenny Knight
April 26, 2006
Harris Family, I didn't know Lauren real well I just knew for her. What I remember of her from a few years ago is that she was a very sweet girl. Its a horrible thing to go thru. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Danielle Ciotti
April 26, 2006
Lauren
You were such an amazing, talented person and will never be forgotten. Your memories will live on forever and I'll always remember all of our conversations about soccer and everything else. You never gave up and that's something the team is going to truely miss next year. You were such a strong, warm hearted person who was always there for everybody. We all miss you Lauren. Always in our thoughts and prayers.
Andrea Rice
April 25, 2006
Lauren and FAmily i really didn't you personally but my roomate and best friend Danielle Witmer went to your church and has told me sooo much about you you will be greatly missed throughout this entire community at least you are in a better place...my prayers go out to the friends and family of lauren god bless!!
T. Abromtiis
April 25, 2006
To the Harris Family,
I didn't know Lauren personally, but I feel I have an indirect bond to the other students in my brother's class who is also a junior. I've seen these kids grow up from diaper wearing terrors to young ladies and gentlemen and it brings tears to my eyes to imagine what they have to deal with at that age. As as graduate of Selinsgrove high school, I feel so fortunate that my class didn't lose anyone, but I have the utmost respect for these kids and I thank God everyday for the health of my friends, my family and myself. Without my friends and my family, I wouldn't be who I am today.
I can't even fathom coping with high school drama and the death of a close friend or classmate.
My thoughts and prayers are extended to you and Lauren's friends and classmates.
Stay strong, she's watching over all of you.
Lisa Bigger
April 25, 2006
To the Harris Family & Ian,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. There are no words that can express the sorrow I feel for your family in this terrible time. It seems like only yesterday we were at the Intermediate School watching the kids at recess, book-fairs, field day(s) going to and coming back from 5th grade camp,Student of the month pictures and awards,choral/band concerts. As a parent, my heart goes out to your family. To the Class of 2007, always remember Lauren & Jeff and keep them in your thoughts and prayers. Cherish all the years you had together, and keep their memories alive in your hearts.
Lisa Bigger & family
Nahtanha Sauers
April 25, 2006
Lauren was such a great person, an inspiration to everyone she knew, and with just a flash of her beautiful smile she touched everyone's lives. No one can even describe her to the measure of perfection that she was. My deepest regards go out to her family, friends, and everyone she has touched or inspired. Lauren is greatly missed, will never be forgotten, and will remain in all of our hearts forever!
Niki Doak
April 25, 2006
To The Harris Family...Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of sorrow. Lauren will be missed greatly by everyone who came in contact with her. Love and Prayers are with you in this difficult time.
The Doak Family...Craig, Niki, Bri & Teigh
Ariana White
April 25, 2006
Lauren, I might not have known you as much as others, but you were a great person. I would talk to you in band a lot and talk to you in the halls. And you always made me laugh including many others. You were kind hearted and many people miss you dearly. We will always have you in our hearts. May you rest in peace.
Kristopher Sledge
April 25, 2006
Lauren,
You will always be in my heart and with others. You always had a special spot in my heart when I would see you in the hall and tell you how nice you looked that day. Even though I will not be able to say that to you every day,I will always be able to think about the wonderful times that we had in Florida together. When we were playing soccer in the Hotel Hall and getting in trouble by the band parents.
Rest In Piece, Lauren Mary Harris.
Hannah Simeonoff
April 25, 2006
Lauren, no words can describe her kindness and how much we will miss you. Although we talked mostly in math and in band she was one of the most wonderful people i knew. I send best wishes her family.
Aimee Witmer
April 25, 2006
I can't beilve Lauren is gone, She was loved by so many people.I will miss seeing her smiling face in the hallways everyday. She will Truely be missed. May god be with Her family At this Time.
Elizabeth Stugart
April 25, 2006
Lauren Mary Harris was truly an amazing person. She had a beautiful smile that touched everyone's hearts. She touched others hearts with kindness and generosity. I cannot remember a time when I saw her down, but if she was down and someone else was down and just feeling gloomy, she put her problems behind her to make them feel better by way of her beautiful, open heart. She will be missed by many and kept within our hearts forever.
Lauren Hoke
April 25, 2006
Lauren,
You were an absolutely amazing person. You always had a beautiful smile on your face and a positive attitude that make the worst situations better. We have many great memories from slacking off in power weights to complaining about child development. You were a great person and friend. You will be greatly missed. We just have to keep telling ourselves as tragic as this is God has a plan for everything.
Julie Shaffer
April 25, 2006
Harris family,
I am so very sorry for your loss. I remember having piano with Lauren and playing soccer with her. She always knew how to make my day better, and never did anyone see her without a smile on her face. I can't imagine what it must be like as parents, and brother to lose someone so close to you. But know that my heart goes out to you and Lauren will never be forgotten. And know that God had a reason for this, it may be hard to see, but there is a reason.
You are all in my prayers.
Gloria Benfer
April 25, 2006
Harris Family
I just want to let you know your in our thoughts and prayers! Andrew will always remember the limo ride. May God comfort you!
The Benfer's
Jessica Reichenbach
April 25, 2006
Dear Harris Family,
I am so sorry for the loss of Lauren. I dont even know where to start. Lauren was a great and wonderful person.no matter what kind of mood she was in she always put others and everthing else befor her. I dont think there was ever a day I didnt ever see her with that wonderful smile of hers on her pritty face. There were alot of great memoriers with her at band.
I didnt know her that well but she will be missed greatly. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Harris family. I know that Lauren is in a better place now. Its hard so hard to say, but we have to say it...good bye Lauren, we will all miss you. There are alot of people at school who miss you dearly.
Danielle Witmer
April 25, 2006
Lauren, You were a great person, always making people laugh, I wont ever forget the times we shared at church events and when we went shopping together, with Lyss and Shelby....You have such a wonderful singing voice and now you are singing in heaven..We will never forget you. We will miss you deeply....
To the family: She is in a better place now and she is still here, listening and watching us all...My prayers are with you guys...
Emily Broschart
April 25, 2006
Dear Nancy and John,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Lauren was a magnificent person. She was bright, bubbly, and so full of life. She was always smiling and laughing. It has been a long time since I've spoken to Lauren, since before I moved after 8th grade, but I would give anything to tell her how much I loved her, and how great a friend she was. I know that she is in heaven watching over you and your family. Please don't forget that you will see her again, and that she is at peace. Lauren was greatly loved by all. I will keep your family and Ian in my prayers as well as my heart. God Bless you.
Rose, Jenny, and Lindsey
April 25, 2006
Nancy John, and Jon Harris,
We are so sorry for the loss of your daughter/sister. She lit up everyone's world She knew how to brighten up someone's day if they were down. She always had a smile on her face. You certainly brought her up right. She didn't have a mean bone in her body. We all have great memories of her which will stick with us forever. She was an amazing person, so full of life. We had so much fun together. We loved as if she was our own sister. When we went to Impact, we had the greatest time. She will never be forgotten and she will always be remembered and loved. May God be with you, and the rest of your family.
With Love and Comfort,
Rose Jenny, and Lindsey
***LAUREN WE LOVE YOU, AND MISS YOU TONS.
Ashley Parks
April 25, 2006
Harr, i dont even know where to start... We've been pretty good friends since 8th grade. You were always cheery and a easy person to talk to, thats what i loved about you. You made Flordia the best trip ever!! Lunch has been different without you, it's kinda quiet. I'm ganna miss you a lot. When i first heard about the accident i was speechless and all i could do was cry. You were loved by many people and had a huge impact at school. Nancy, John, Jonathan, and Ian may God Bless you and give you the strength to make it through this hard time.
I Love You Harr!
You will never be forgotten.
-Ashley Parks
Brittany Mull
April 25, 2006
Lauren was an amazing person who knew how to put a smile on everyones face. She will be truely missed but never ever forgotten. For every person she met she has touched there life, and with that said i send my deepest thoughts and prayers to Nancy, Joh, and Jonathon. Lauren became like a sister to me and helped me a lot. And at this time I would like to help you through this tough time. My prayers are with you and thanks for raising such an amazing girl!!
Love, Britt
Colby Hetherington
April 25, 2006
Harris Family,
I truly cannot begin to describe how amazing of a person Lauren was to all of us. Such a warming smile, an open heart, and a beautiful personality. I was one of the lucky ones who was able to get to know her and work with her, and i will be forever grateful. They say children become who they are because of the way they were raised and you did an astonishing job. You are in my thoughts and prayers and may the Lord be with you in this difficult time.
We will never forget you Lauren and you will always be in our hearts.
Another Selinsgrove Parent
April 25, 2006
To the parents and family - I didn't know Lauren, but by reading these entries, I can tell she was a young woman who shined love in so many ways. No parent wishes to experience the incredible pain and grief you are feeling. Just know, however, that all local parents of teenagers are sharing in your grief and whether we knew her, or you,or not, we are all mourning for her loss.
Pastor Stretch
April 25, 2006
Dear Harris Family,
I am SO SORRY for your unbelievable loss. I'm the leader of the Philadelphia District NYI and remember Lauren fondly from Teen Camp and Festival of Life. Our District will miss her dearly. There are MANY Nazarenes across Philadelphia, New Jersey, and the Susquehanna Valley that are praying for you. May you find Psalm 34:18 to be true for you, that "God is near to the broken hearted."
Jenny Baney
April 25, 2006
Harris Family,
I am truly sorry for your loss. Lauren was such a bright person to be around. I'm going to miss seeing her at Arby's every weekend, smiling, like always. may God be with all of you during this hard time.
Lauren will never be forgotten.
Jenny Knight
April 25, 2006
Lauren and Harris Family,
I loved lauren like a sister. She could always make me laugh!!! We would sing to each other on the way to and from the football games during marching season in band. I had the wonderful pleasure of working with Lauren since September.. we were always being told to stop fooling around and to get back to work.. she loved to stand in the back of Arbys' and sing Jesus take the wheel by Carrie Underwood. We would sometimes stand in the back of Arby's and dance!! The last time we did that she was singing and said something about an eye and accidentally poked me in the eye. we laughed for so long after that that day. If we were doing that we were standing in the front line when it was slow and rate all the guys passing by hottness level! i loved lauren she was always there when i needed her. Mr. and Mrs. Harris you should be so proud to have had her as a daughter. may god be with you
Beth Mull
April 25, 2006
Lauren you were an amazing person. Band and Algebra was always a great time with you. I can't believe that you're gone. It's sad to lose you so soon. You were always smiling, and always having a great time. Your jokes, your smile, your laugh, and everything about you made everyday as awesome as it could get. It's so hard to sit in class, and look at your empty seat, knowing that you will never again be there. You were always there to talk to if I needed someone, and band was always a blast. You're an amazing person who will be in our hearts forever. We'll never forget you, and the memories we've made with you will always be close to our hearts.
May you rest in peace, and may you always be looking down upon us guiding us on the darkest days.
You'll never be forgotten!!
We love you so much!!
LMH <33
Amanda DeFacis
April 25, 2006
When I heard what happened, I couldn’t believe it. Life can be so unfair at times. Why did this have to happen to such a beautiful young girl who had her whole life ahead of her? We may never know the answer to this question, but it was in God’s plan. He had bigger and better things for her to do and to accomplish. Lauren was a great person and will be missed dearly. There was never a time when I didn’t see a smile on her face. She was always happy and full of life. Every life she came into, she touched in some way or another. She really was an amazing young woman. I give my greatest sympathy to the Harris family and to Ian as well. You are in my prays. God Bless. I will miss you Lauren.
“The day which we fear as our last is but the birthday of eternity.”
renee karmonick
April 25, 2006
We never know why someone is taken from us especially someone so young and so sweet as our Lauren.Your favorite song that you would play over and over at work was Carrie Underwood's "Jesus take the Wheel" and I feel on Sunday he did just that.You were on your way to church to sing and I think God wanted an angel to sing for him and I think that's what you are up there doing.To the Harris family and Ian may God Bless you and give you the strength to make it through this difficult time.Love, your goobergob
Lauren Carstetter
April 25, 2006
I've known Lauren and her family since they first moved to Freeburg, PA. When i heard the news about an hour after the accident i didnt want to belive it. I thought the person was just lying. I was crying uncrobaly because i loved Lauren so much. I had to get out of the house and as i was walking i saw a cop car coming from the direction where the harris's live and i knew it had to be true. I still didnt want to belive it. It seemed like a horrible nightmare. But as each day goes by i relize it is reality. Lauren was like a sister to me. I looked up to her because she was such a beautiful and talented person. She always had a smile on her face no matter what. I just want to walk down to your house and be able to see you standing there with this big warming smile on your face. Well its never gonna happen. Lauren you will always have a place in my heart. I will never forget about you. You are in a better place now looking down on us trying to help us move along. Its going to be very hard to be able to say your name, read things about you, or even look at your picture without crying. You were such a wonderful person who didnt deserve to die at this age. Lauren Mary Harris i will never forget you. Deepest sypmathy to you and your family.
Kyle Bailey
April 25, 2006
I dont know how to start to describe Lauren. I didnt no her that well. I actually didnt really no her at all but evry time i would see her it didnt matter where it was at she was always smiling and cheerful. She was never mad or angry at anybody for any reason. It is horrible that something like this could happen to someone as perfect as she was. Looking back i wish that i could have got to no her a little better then i did because she seemed like someone that would be an awsome friend. We will miss you very much. We all wish that nothing like this would have ever happened to someone like you. Nothing could take away the pain from your loss. Hopefully now you are at a better place. Love and sympathy to the family of Lauren M. Harris. You will forever be in our hearts.
Shakey's
April 25, 2006
We are so sorry for your loss.You will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Joni Robison
April 25, 2006
Nancy and John,
You are living every parent's worst nightmare...and trusting Jesus through it, which is the ONLY way anyone could cope with such a devastating loss. I'm so thankful to God for Lauren's life; she was a blessing to so many of us. I'm sure you are thankful for all the memories of her - and especially for the NYC trip and the amazing concert at Carnegie Hall. Now she's singing in an even more awesome place! You will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.
CJ Ford
April 25, 2006
Lauren
You were a great person and you will be missed by many. Im glad that I got to talk to you and be freinds with you. There are a lot of people missing you and we all know that you are in a better place now. We will all get to see you again. I hope for great recovery to the parents and you had a great daughter. I'm glad that I got to meet her.
CJ
Lisa Bingaman
April 25, 2006
Nanc,John,& Jonathan,
First I want to express my sympathy to you and your family as well as Ian. Lauren was a beautiful individual and certainly had a positive impact on the lives of those that she encountered. Please take comfort in knowing that she is with the Father in heaven and that you will be reunited with her again eternally through Gods promise of everlasting life through Jesus Christ as promised to all of us in John 3:16. My last memory of Lauren is Friday night when she stopped in at work and made us all laugh and left with a smile. Know that you are in my prayers and I am here for anything that you need.
God Bless
Lisa Bingaman
Nicole Newman
April 25, 2006
Lauren,
No words can describe how greatly you will be missed. I will never forget the good times we had together, both at Aunt Neats when we were younger & when we hung out with Lyss, Danielle, & Joe. You were such an upbeat, loving person and I know you are in a better place now. I remember you calling me your cousin, even though we weren't technically related. That's what I loved about you. You loved everybody, even that homeless guy in Philly. My prayers are with you & your family.
Justin Strawser
April 25, 2006
You were the best. I miss feeling a sense of relief when I knew you would be working for me that night or weekend. I miss your goofiness, your "bubble", everything about you. Arbys and my life shall never quite be the same. I promise, the best shall never be forgotten.
Alyshe Hollenbach
April 25, 2006
Dear Lauren's Family and Friends,
I am truely sorry for the loss of Lauren. She was a kool person. Its a shame that she had to leave us so early. But everyone now knows that she will be in good hands of the angels above. We all miss her. I hope we all make it through without Lauren. I know we can but it will be extremely hard to do. Lauren is missed by a bunch of people. We miss her. I wish the best of Lauren's family and friends.
I miss you Lauren
From: Alyshe Hollenbach
April 25, 2006
I STILL THINK OF YOU ALL--AUNT PENNY {ARTY & MELISSA MOM}--
Rayna Knight
April 24, 2006
My name is rayna and i worked with lauren quite a bit at arbys. she was an amazing girl. no matter how bad my day was going she was one of the few who could cheer me up. I dread going to work now knowing that she won't be walking through the door. I will always remember her talent in singing...her and I loved to sing carrie underwood together. She was an amazing person. You were wonderful parents and I am praying for you.Lauren was one of those people who when she walked in the room it would light up with her happiness and sweetness...She forever has a place in my heart and I know she is up in heaven with the angels singing and watching over us.
May god be with you in this difficult time in your life.
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