Lee F. Mellinger

Lee F. Mellinger obituary

Lee F. Mellinger

Lee Mellinger Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Feb. 16 to Feb. 20, 2019.
Lee F. Mellinger Lee F. Mellinger, a resident of Hilton Head Island, South Carolina, departed this life at 2:00 pm on the 13th day of February 2019 to begin to have the promise of Jesus Christ to save him and give him eternal life fulfilled. Born February 28, 1939, to Lawrence J. Mellinger (deceased) and Florence Mellinger (deceased) in Fort Wayne, Indiana. He attended Central Catholic High School and Indiana University in Bloomington, Indiana where he earned a bachelor's degree in History and Government and a J.D. (Law) Degree. While in IU Law School, he met and married Vivian L. Fisher(deceased) from Syracuse, Indiana. They had three joyous years together and had a child, Tamara Mendoza (Alex) of Laguna Beach, CA, who had two daughters, his grandchildren, Lauren and Vivian. His first employment was in the Legal Dept. of the Lincoln National Life Insurance in Fort Wayne, IN. While working there he met and married Virgilia S. Holzwarth (deceased) who is the mother of their children Nicole S. Miskowicz (Dan) of Cassopolis, MI and former LT Eric Mellinger USN, of Fort Wayne, IN. In 1968, he moved to Elkhart, IN and started working in the Public Defender's Office. He then started a general legal practice, arguing before the Indiana Supreme Court and solving legal problems of many clients. He also served asJudge of Elkhart City Court. He retired in 2005. In 1999, in Elkhart, IN, he met and married Anne S. Martin, former spouse of Richard Martin (deceased), mother of Heather A. Martin, Cleveland, OH and Terrin A. Martin, Las Vegas, NV. He and Annie moved to Hilton Head, SC in 2005 and lived the dream of retirement. Lee was a humble servant of the Lord, always ready to help anyone who was in need. Friends will be received Tuesday, February 19 from 5 to 7 pm at The Island Funeral Home and Crematory, 4 Cardinal Road, Hilton Head Island. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held Wednesday, February 20 at 11:30 am at St. Francis by the Sea Catholic Church. The family prefers donations to the Polycystic Kidney Disease Foundation, 1001 E. 101st Terrace, Ste 220, Kansas City, MO 64131 or pkdcure.org Condolences may be expressed at islandfuneralhome.com

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February 12, 2021

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February 18, 2019

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Mari Colcolough

February 12, 2021

Dear Annie, The last time we saw Lee a short time before he died, he stopped by our Indigo Run home and brought us one of your delicious cottage pies. He was so sweet and we will always remember that wonderful pie you made and his kindness in bringing it.

Jack Colcolough

February 9, 2021

I am so sad about the loss of Lee . He was at my very front door just days before his passing doing some of the great charitable work that he did. Lee and Annie were so friendly to me as I was bird watching near their home on Crystal Lake in Indigo Run and Lee was out walking his dog, Indigo. I will also remember Lee and miss him as an usher at St. Francis Catholic Church.

Christine Montgomery

February 18, 2019

So sorry for your loss. I am friends with his daughter,Nicole. Know you are all in my prayers as you go through this difficult time.

Jack Kenney

February 17, 2019

So sorry for your loss. I was fortunate to work as an associate for Lee for a year after I graduated law school in the early 90s. I was amazed and inspired by Lee's unwavering advocacy, compassion and dedication toward his clients and anyone in need. I admired Lee's passion for his family and friends and remember the twinkle in his eye after IU won a big game or when a new part arrived to add to his model train set. Will toast a large glass of milk in his honor. Lee was such a kind, patient and gentle spirit who will be missed by all.

He will be missed

Suzy and Joey DeAbate

February 16, 2019

Our hearts go out to you and your family, we will always have fond memories of Lee, such a wise soul with a young adventurous spirit. Love you both

February 16, 2019

Annie. So sorry!! I will keep both of you in my prayers!! When things slow down and you feel like it. I would love to hear from you. It has been way too long. Lee was a great guy and I know he will be welcomed in heaven! I guess we are at age where every day with our loved ones is special. Send me your number. OK. Love Rose Obrien

February 16, 2019

Dear Annie, We were so sorry to hear of your loss. I know you will miss Lee terribly. Love, Mari and Jack Colcolough

Jo Ellen Gushwa

February 16, 2019

So very sorry to hear of Lee's passing...he was my attorney for many, many years...he always had my back...the best attorney in Elkhart...my deepest sympathy and condolences to the family.

Jim n Katie Schenk

February 16, 2019

Annie sad news to hear so so sorry. Happy tho that we got to spend time last week-end. Special for us.

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